Tiyeni tiphunzire za momwe mwana wanu wazaka 2-3 amalankhulirana ndi ana aang'ono.

Kulankhula ndi ana athu aang'ono, kucheza nawo, ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zosangalatsa kwambiri zomwe timapeza monga makolo, sichoncho? Mawu sangathe kufotokoza chisangalalo chomwe timamva tikamva mawu ang'onoang'ono amenewo, mawu atsopano, ndi nkhani zazing'ono zomwe amauza. Ana aang'ono amaphunzira kuchokera ku zokambirana zomwe timachita nawo tsiku lililonse, kuchokera ku zinthu zomwe amaona ndi kumva m'dziko lozungulira iwo. Chifukwa chake, lero tikambirana momwe kalankhulidwe ka mwana wanu wazaka ziwiri mpaka zitatu, ndiko kuti, luso la chilankhulo, limakulirakulira, komanso momwe tingathandizire pa izi.

Kodi mumalankhula bwanji ndi ana anu masiku ano?

Pakati pa zaka ziwiri ndi zitatu, luso la ana lolankhula, kutanthauza kuti, momwe amalankhulira ndi kumvetsetsa mawu, limakula modabwitsa. Zili ngati kukwera masitepe! Panthawiyi, mawu awo amakula, amayamba kupanga ziganizo, ndipo amatha kumvetsetsa zomwe ena akunena.

Muli bwanji muli ndi zaka ziwiri?

Mwana wanu akakwanitsa zaka ziwiri, amayamba kuchita zinthu ngati izi:

• Kulankhula mawu awiri pamodzi: Ana ambiri aang'ono amayamba kulankhula mawu osachepera awiri pamodzi. Taganizirani ziganizo zazing'ono monga "Amayi, mpunga," "Baby, thamanga," ndi "Ndikufuna madzi." Izi ndi mfundo zazikulu m'mawu awo.
• Pa miyezi 30 (zaka 2 ½):
• Amanena mawu 50 kapena kuposerapo: Pakadali pano, awonjezera mawu pafupifupi 50 mu mawu awo. Ana ena amadziwa mawu ambiri.
• Anthu amamvetsa theka la zomwe akunena: Anthu amamvetsa theka la zomwe akunena momveka bwino. Nthawi zina pamafunika kuganiza pang'ono kuti mumvetse zomwe akunena, ndipo zimenezo n'zachibadwa. Musadandaule nazo.
• Amagwiritsa ntchito mawu monga "Ine", "ine", ndi "ife": Amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mawu awa polankhula za iwo eni ndi zomwe akufuna.
• Kumvetsetsa ndikutsatira malangizo a magawo awiri: Ana ambiri aang'ono amatha kumvetsetsa ndikutsatira malangizo awiri osavuta omwe amapatsidwa motsatizana. Mwachitsanzo, ngati titi, "Tengani mpirawo ndipo mubweretse kwa abambo," adzatha kuchita. Chitsanzo china ndi ichi, "Valani masilipu anu ndipo mulowe m'chipinda chochezera."

Kodi chimachitika n'chiyani mukakwanitsa zaka zitatu?

Mwana wanu akakwanitsa zaka zitatu, kalankhulidwe kake kayenera kukhala kakukulirakulira. Nazi zinthu zina zofunika kuziganizira:

• Mawu olembedwa m'chinenero cha mwana wakhanda nthawi zambiri amaposa mawu 200. Tangoganizirani kuchuluka kwa mawu amenewo! Amakonda kuphunzira mawu atsopano ali ndi zaka izi.
• Amatha kupanga ziganizo za mawu awiri kapena atatu: "Mwana akumwa mkaka", "Abambo anapita kuntchito", "Ndikufuna kusewera" ndikulankhula.
• Akhoza kukambirana nanu: Akhoza kukambirana nanu pang'ono, akukambirana nanu kawiri konse. Mukafunsa kanthu, mumayankha, amanena kena kake, ndipo inu mumayankhanso.
• Ena nthawi zambiri amamvetsa: Nthawi zambiri, zomwe mwana wanu akunena zimafika pamlingo womwe ena (osati achibale okha, komanso alendo) angamvetse.

Kumbukirani, si makanda onse omwe ali ofanana. Ana ena amayamba kulankhula msanga pang'ono, ena mochedwa pang'ono. Izi ndi malangizo wamba chabe.

Kodi tingamuthandize bwanji mwana wathu kukulitsa luso lake lolankhula?

Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe tingachite kuti tiwongolere luso la ana athu lolankhula. Mwachidule, tikamalankhula nawo kwambiri komanso kusewera nawo, amaphunzira zinthu zatsopano zambiri. Zili ngati kuthirira ndi kuthirira mbewu ndi kuikulitsa.

Nazi zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe mungachite:

• Kambiranani zonse: Kambiranani ndi mwana wanu za zomwe adachita tsiku limenelo ndi zomwe ayenera kuchita mawa. Funsani zinthu monga, "Kodi mvula siikugwa lero? Tikuchita chiyani m'nyumba?" Kapena kambiranani zomwe zinachitika tsiku lisanafike nthawi yogona. "Tapita kunyumba kwa agogo lero, eti? Munawona chiyani kumeneko?" Nkhani zamtunduwu zimawathandiza kuphunzira mawu atsopano ndikufotokozera zinthu monga momwe zinthu zimachitikira.
• Sewerani masewera ongoyerekeza: Sewerani masewera oyerekeza monga dokotala, mphunzitsi, wogulitsa m'sitolo. Izi zidzawathandiza kukulitsa luso lawo loganiza, kuphunzira mawu atsopano, komanso luso lothetsa mavuto. Sewerani nawo ndipo adzaphunzira zambiri.
• Werengani mabuku pamodzi: Werengani mabuku omwe amakonda pamodzi. Sankhani mabuku okhala ndi zithunzi zokongola. Lozani zithunzi zomwe zili m'bukuli ndikufunsa mafunso monga, "Ichi n'chiyani?", "Mphaka akuchita chiyani?", "Ichi ndi mtundu wanji?" Alimbikitseni kuyankha ndi mawu. Kapena aloleni "awerengere" nkhaniyo kwa inu. Nkhani zomwe amapanga zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri! Kuwerenga mabuku sikungokulitsa luso lawo lolankhula mawu ndi kumvetsera, komanso malingaliro awo.
• Imbani nyimbo ndi kunena mawu mogwirizana ndi kugunda: Ana aang'ono amakonda kumvetsera nyimbo ndikumva zinthu zomwe zimanenedwa mogwirizana ndi kugunda. Imbani nyimbo zosavuta nawo. Adzakhala osangalala kwambiri ngati muyimba nyimbozo mukusuntha manja ndi miyendo yanu.
• Funsani mafunso, yankhani mafunso awo: Yankhani mafunso awo moleza mtima monga "Chifukwa chiyani?" ndi "Chiyani?" Afunseninso mafunso osavuta. Monga "Mwadya chiyani lero?" ndi "Kodi chidole chanu chomwe mumakonda kwambiri ndi chiti?"
• Samalani zomwe akunena: Mwana wanu akamayesa kukuuzani zinazake, muyang'aneni ndipo mvetserani mosamala zomwe akunena. Izi zidzamuwonetsa kuti mumamuyamikira ndipo adzakhala ndi chidwi chofuna kulankhula.
• Zolondola, koma mofatsa: Ngati mwana wanu wanena mawu molakwika, m'malo momukalipira ndi mawu akuti "Ayi, ayi, si zoona," muwonetseni kuti mukutanthauza mawuwo molondola. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mwana wanu wanena kuti "Abambo," mwetulirani ndi kunena kuti, "Inde, Abambo abwera."

Kodi ndiyenera kupita kwa dokotala liti?

Nthawi zambiri, kukula kwa mawu mwa ana aang'ono kumakhala kwachibadwa. Komabe, nthawi zina pamakhala kuchedwa pang'ono. Ngati muli ndi kukayikira kapena nkhawa zokhudzana ndi momwe mwana wanu amalankhulira kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mawu, ndi bwino kulankhula ndi dokotala za izi.

Nazi zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kuzidziwa, makamaka ngati mwana wanu sangathe kuziona akakwanitsa zaka zitatu:

• Ngati mwana wanu sakunena mawu osachepera 50 pofika miyezi 30 (zaka 2 ½).
• Ngakhale mutakwanitsa miyezi 30, ngati muloza chinthu m'buku ndikufunsa kuti, "Ichi n'chiyani?" ndipo simungathe kuchitchula (mwachitsanzo, ngati muloza mpira ndikufunsa kuti, "Bole" koma simungathe kuchinena)
• Ngakhale ali ndi zaka zitatu, ngati simungathe kufotokoza zomwe zikuchitika pachithunzi, mwachitsanzo, "kuthamanga", "kudya", kapena "kugona".
• Ngati safunsa mafunso monga "Ndani?", "Chiyani?", "Kuti?", "Chifukwa chiyani?" (Amafunitsitsa kufunsa mafunso ali ndi zaka izi)
• Ngati simungathe kunena dzina lanu loyamba mukafunsidwa.
• Ngakhale achibale awo samvetsa bwino zomwe akunena, ndipo nthawi zambiri mawu awo samveka bwino.
• Ngati mukuganiza kuti mwana wanu sakumva bwino (ngati sakuyang'ana m'mbuyo mukamalankhula, ngati sakuyankha bwino mawu)

Ngati muwona chinthu chonga ichi, chonde musachite mantha kapena kuchita mantha ndipo pitani kwa dokotala wa banja lanu kapena dokotala wa ana . Nthawi zina zingakhale zosavuta. Kapena, mungafunike thandizo pang'ono, mwina katswiri wolankhula . Mukazindikira zinthuzi mwachangu, mwana wanu azitha kupeza thandizo lomwe akufunikira ndikumuthandiza kukonza luso lake lolankhula. Nthawi zina, dokotala angakutumizireninso ku mayeso akumva kuti aone ngati mwana wanu akumva.

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kukumbukira (Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba)

Kotero, Amayi ndi Abambo, ino ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri pamene kalankhulidwe ka mwana wanu kakukula.

• Chidwi chanu, nkhani zanu, masewero anu ndi omwe amaphunzitsa kwambiri. Lankhulani nawo, sewerani nawo, werengani mabuku momwe mungathere.
• Mwana aliyense ndi wosiyana. Amakula pa liwiro lake. Musamuyerekezere ndi ana ena.
• Ngati mukukayika, funani thandizo. Kufunsa dokotala kudzakuthandizani kuchepetsa nkhawa zanu ndikupatsa mwana wanu thandizo lomwe akufunikira.

Mudzakhala ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri pamene mawu a mwana wanu adzadzaza nyumba yonse ndipo mtima wanu udzadzaza ndi chisangalalo ndi nkhani zawo zazing'ono!

Kulankhula kwa ana, ana aang'ono, chitukuko cha chilankhulo , malangizo olera ana , kuphunzira mawu, kuchedwa kulankhula,Uphungu wa dokotala , kulankhulana kwa ana aang'ono Chisinhala , chitukuko cha chilankhulo cha ana ku Sri Lanka