Ngati ndinu mayi woyembekezera, mwina mukudziwa bwino zinthu ngati zimenezi. Kaya ndi mumsewu, m'basi, kapena kunyumba kwa wachibale, munthu amene simukumudziwa akukhudza mimba yanu mwadzidzidzi n’kufunsa kuti, ‘Kodi mwanayo ali bwino?’ Kapena ku ofesi, aliyense amafunsa mafunso monga, ‘Muyenera kuti mukupita kuchimbudzi nthawi zonse tsopano, sichoncho?’ Mukamva zinthuzi, mumamva chisoni pang’ono, manyazi, komanso kukwiya, sichoncho? Izi zimakwiyitsa kwambiri ndipo zimakhudza chinsinsi chanu. Koma amayi ambiri oyembekezera amakumana ndi izi.
Kodi mukuda nkhawa ndi mafunso osafunikira?
Azimayi ambiri oyembekezera amaganiza kuti ngati wina afunsa funso, ayenera kuliyankha, ngakhale litakhala lachinsinsi bwanji. Koma si choncho. Simuli ndi udindo wogawana chilichonse chokhudza mimba yanu ndi aliyense. Muli ndi ufulu wonena chilichonse chomwe mukufuna, ngati mukufuna.
Ndiye mungatani ngati wina akufunsani funso losasangalatsa?
- Sinthani zokambirana: Ngati wina akufunsani kuti, "Kodi mwana akubadwa ndi opaleshoni ?", mutha kusintha zokambiranazo mwaulemu mwa kumwetulira ndi kunena kuti, "Tonsefe tikusangalala kwambiri kukhala ndi mwana. Ndiye chatsopano ndi chiyani mwa inu?" Izi zikuthandizani kupewa funsolo ndikubwezeretsanso zokambiranazo kwa munthu amene wafunsa funsolo.
- Yankhani ndi funso: Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri. Tangoganizirani wina akukufunsani kuti, "Kodi munabereka mwana mwachibadwa?" Mutha kungofunsa kuti, " Funso lachilendo limenelo, n’chifukwa chiyani mukufuna kudziwa? " Izi zidzawapangitsa kuzindikira kuti funso lawo silinali loyenera. Mwina sadzakufunsaninso mafunso anu aumwini.
Chofunika kwambiri ndi kukumbukira kuti simukuyenera kunena chilichonse chomwe simukufuna kunena, ngakhale mutamva bwanji. Ngakhale atakhala wachibale wanu, simuyenera kupereka tsatanetsatane ngati simukufuna kutero.
Nkhani zoopsa za chipinda chogwirira ntchito zomwe simungathe kusiya kumvetsera
Kwa anthu ena, mafunso osafunikira ndi omwe amakhumudwitsa kwambiri. Koma kwa ena, upangiri wosafunikira, makamaka nkhani zoopsa zokhudza kubereka , ndi womwe umakhumudwitsa kwambiri. Mukangodziwa kuti muli ndi pakati, aliyense amayamba kukuuzani nkhani yoopsa kwambiri yobereka yomwe adamvapo kapena kukumana nayo, sichoncho?
Pa nthawi ngati iyi, muyenera kukhala olimba mtima ndikuthetsa zokambiranazo mwaulemu.
Mungathe kunena kuti: ""Ndikudziwa kuti mukudziwa zambiri, ndipo ngati ndili ndi funso, ndikufunsani ndithu. Koma mimba iliyonse, kubereka kulikonse kumakhala kosiyana. Chifukwa chake ndikufuna kuona ndekha zomwe zidzandichitikire."
Kapena, munganene china chake mwachindunji: " Zikomo kwambiri, koma sindikufuna kumva nkhani zoopsa izi pakadali pano. " Ngakhale izi zingawoneke zovuta pang'ono, ndikofunikira kupanga zisankho zovuta ngati izi mukaganizira za thanzi lanu la maganizo .
Kodi aliyense angasiye bwanji kukhudza mimba yake?
Mosiyana ndi kukambirana ndi mafunso osafunikira, kukhudza thupi, makamaka m'mimba, kumakhala kovuta kwambiri komanso kuphwanya ufulu wachinsinsi. Ngakhale mutaganiza kuti ndibwino kuti mnzanu kapena wachibale achite izi, zimakhala zovuta kupirira ngati mlendo mumsewu akuchita izi.
Mumachita chiyani pa izi?
- Sungani mtunda wa thupi: Nthawi zina mimba yanu ikhoza kukhala pafupi ndi ena kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Ngakhale mutu wanu utakhala kutali, mimba yanu imakupatsirani malo ambiri. Choncho, yesetsani kusunga mtunda pang'ono mukakhala ndi ena.
- Sinthani kaimidwe kanu: Kaimidwe kanu, khalidwe lanu, maso anu... zonsezi zingatumize uthenga wakuti ' lemekezani zachinsinsi zanga '. Mukakhala ndi chidaliro komanso mphamvu pa thupi lanu, ena amamva uthengawo. Ndiye chilakolako chokhudza thupi lanu popanda chifukwa chimakhala chochepa kwambiri.
- Lankhulani momveka bwino: Ngati, ngakhale zili choncho, wina akuyesera kukhudza mimba yanu, munganene mofatsa koma molimba mtima kuti, " Chonde musachite zimenezo, zimandisowetsa mtendere. " Musamaope kunena izi.
| Nthawi yovuta | Mayankho omwe mungapereke |
|---|---|
| Kufunsa mafunso osafunikira paokha | "Chifukwa chiyani ukufuna kudziwa za zimenezo?" "Tikuyembekezera mwana mosangalala. Kodi tsatanetsatane wanu ndi wotani?" |
| Kufotokoza nkhani zoopsa zokhudza kubereka | "Zikomo kwambiri, koma sindikufuna kumva nkhani yamtunduwu." "Zomwe ndakumana nazo zonse zimakhala zosiyana, ndimakonda kukumana ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo." |
| Kukhudza mimba popanda kufunsa | "Pepani, chonde musachite zimenezo. Zimandivuta." |
Kodi mumachita bwanji ndi zinthu izi muofesi?
N'kovuta kuthana ndi zinthu ngati zimenezi ndi anthu omwe mumakumana nawo ku ofesi tsiku lililonse kuposa alendo. Chifukwa simungathe kuwavulaza, komanso muyenera kuteteza chinsinsi chawo.
Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite apa ndikusunga ukatswiri wanu . Mukachita bwino pantchito yanu komanso polankhula, ena adzakuonani ngati mnzanu waluso, osati mnzanu wapakati . Kenako nthabwala ndi zokambirana zosafunikira zidzachepa kwambiri.
Komanso, musaope kunena malire anu, ngakhale atakhala munthu amene mumakumana naye tsiku lililonse. Kunena mawu olunjika koma aulemu, monga " Chonde musanene/chita zimenezo, zimandivuta, " ndi njira yabwino yosungira ubale wanu ndikusunga mtendere wamumtima.
Ndi zonsezi, simuyenera kusiya mwayi wapadera womwe mumapeza panthawi ya mimba (mwachitsanzo, mwayi wopuma pang'ono, mwayi wogwira ntchito kunyumba). Muli ndi ufulu wolinganiza zonse ziwiri!
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Thupi lanu ndi lanu. Muli ndi ufulu wonse wosankha malire ake.
- Simukukakamizidwa kuyankha funso lililonse laumwini lomwe lafunsidwa. Pewani kukambirana kapena kunena mosapita m'mbali kuti simukuvomereza.
- Musaope kukana mwaulemu koma mwamphamvu nkhani zoopsa kapena uphungu wosafunikira.
- Tetezani malo anu achinsinsi pogwiritsa ntchito kaimidwe kanu komanso mtunda wanu.
- Kunena kuti “chonde musachite zimenezo” n’koyenera ndipo n’kofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino.
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