Kodi mukukumbukira zolinga za Chaka Chatsopano, kapena zinthu zomwe munkaganiza kuti mudzachita "kuyambira lero, ndisiya kuchita izi"? Mwina munkaganiza kuti muchepetsa thupi, kusiya kudya shuga , kapena kuphunzira china chatsopano. Kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zonsezi, timafunika 'mphamvu yofuna'. Timatcha mphamvu yofuna mu Chingerezi. Nthawi zambiri, timaganiza kuti tingathe kugonjetsa zinthu pokhapokha ngati tili ndi mphamvu yofuna. Koma kodi zina mwa zinthu zomwe timaganiza za mphamvu yofuna izi zili choncho? Lero, tikambirana mfundo zofunika zomwe zingakudabwitseni.
Choyamba, kodi mphamvu ya chifuniro ndi chiyani?
Mwachidule, mphamvu ya chifuniro ndi luso lathu la maganizo lolimbana ndi mayesero, zilakolako, ndi zizolowezi zoipa zomwe zimatilepheretsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu za nthawi yayitali.
Koma kwa nthawi yayitali, chinthu ichi chotchedwa Willpower chakhala chikudziwika ngati khalidwe labwino. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, pali lingaliro m'gulu la anthu kuti munthu wopanda mphamvu ndi 'woipa' komanso 'wofooka'. Koma lingaliro limenelo ndi lolakwika kwambiri ndipo silithandiza konse.
Monga momwe akatswiri amanenera, mphamvu ya chifuniro si chinthu chabwino kapena choipa, chabwino kapena choipa. Kunena zoona, ndi luso lothandiza muubongo mwathu. Kukhala nalo kapena ayi sikungaganizidwe kuti ndi labwino kapena loipa.
1. Monga momwe mulili ndi mphamvu yanu ya chifuniro, momwe mumaganizira za izo ndikofunikira kwambiri!
Pali malingaliro awiri akuluakulu pophunzira za mphamvu ya chifuniro.
- Chiphunzitso Chochepa: Chiphunzitsochi chimanena kuti mphamvu zanu zamaganizo zimakhala zochepa, monga batire ya pafoni yanu. Mukagwira ntchito mwakhama tsiku lonse, kupanga zisankho, ndikuwongolera maganizo anu, kumapeto kwa tsiku, 'batire'yo imachepa. Ndiye simudzakhala ndi mphamvu zothanirana ndi mayesero omwe amabwera kwa inu. Tangoganizirani, mutagwira ntchito mwakhama tsiku lonse ndikudya zakudya zochepa, mukaona keke usiku, mukumva ngati mukufuna kudya.
- Chiphunzitso Chopanda Malire: Chiphunzitsochi chimati mphamvu ya chifuniro ili ngati minofu yomwe mumamanga ku gym. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mukamaigwiritsa ntchito kwambiri, imakhala yamphamvu kwambiri. Pamene mukukana mayesero ang'onoang'ono tsiku lonse, mphamvu ya chifuniro imakula.
Koma chodabwitsa kwambiri n’chakuti kafukufuku waposachedwapa akusonyeza kuti ndi chiyani mwa ziwirizi chomwe mukukhulupirira kuti chimakhudza zotsatira zanu kuposa mphamvu yanu yeniyeni.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mphamvu yanu ya chifuniro ndi yochepa, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu mutatha tsiku lovuta. Mutha kusiya mosavuta. Koma ngati mukukhulupirira kuti kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvuyi kudzakuthandizani kukhala olimba, mudzatha kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu mosavuta ngakhale mutatha tsiku lovuta. Izi zikutanthauza kuti chikhulupiriro chomwe muli nacho m'mutu mwanu ndi champhamvu kuposa mphamvu ya maganizo anu.
2. Momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito Willpower zimakhudzanso zotsatira zake
Mmene mumaganizira za mphamvu ya chifuniro ndi yofunika mofanana ndi momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito. Izi zitha kuchitika m'njira ziwiri zazikulu.
- Mphamvu Yochita Khama: Apa ndi pamene mumayesetsa kuletsa zilakolako zoipa mwa kukakamiza . Monga pamene mukufuna kudya keke, mumadzikakamiza kunena kuti, "Ayi, ayi, sindidya, sindiyang'ana ngakhale pang'ono." Izi zimafuna mphamvu zambiri zamaganizo.
- Mphamvu Yopanda Kulephera: Izi ndi zosiyana. Apa, mumadzilimbikitsa kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu. M'malo modzikakamiza kuchita china chake, mumadzikumbutsa zifukwa zomwe simuyenera kuchita. Mwachitsanzo, mumadzipatsa mphotho zazing'ono, mumayembekezera mayesero omwe angakhalepo, ndipo mumasintha mapulani anu moyenera.
Chabwino kwambiri n'chakuti, cholinga chanu chikagwirizana kwambiri ndi mfundo zanu pamoyo, zimakhala zosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu imeneyi yopanda mphamvu. N'zovuta kwambiri kusankha chinthu chomwe simukukhulupirira kwenikweni ndipo sichili chofunika kwa inu.
3. Kufunitsitsa kokha sikukwanira kuthetsa chizolowezi cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo!
Iyi ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri yomwe tonsefe tiyenera kumvetsetsa. Mwina mwamvapo kuti kuledzera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi kusadziletsa, kuti mutha kulamulira ndi maganizo anu. Zimenezo n’zolakwika kwambiri komanso zoopsa.
Kuledzera ndi matenda a ubongo omwe amakhudza ubongo kwa nthawi yayitali . Mu kuledzera, ma neurotransmitters ndi kapangidwe ka ubongo wanu zimasinthidwa mwakuthupi. Chithandizo choyenera chamankhwala ndi kukonzanso ndikofunikira kuti mubwezeretsedwe. Kaya maganizo anu ali olimba bwanji, simungathe kuthana ndi kuledzera nokha.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti ngakhale anthu ambiri omwe akuyesera kuchira ku chizolowezi choledzera amadzitcha kuti ndi "amphamvu," palibe mgwirizano pakati pa mphamvu imeneyo ndi kuchira kosalekeza. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mutha kukhalabe ndi matenda a chizolowezi ngakhale mutakhala ndi mphamvu yayikulu.
M'malo mwake, njira monga kusintha kwathunthu malo anu, anzanu, ndi zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku ndizofunikira kwambiri kuposa kudzipereka kuti mugonjetse chizolowezi. Ngati inu kapena munthu amene mumamudziwa akulimbana ndi vutoli, ndikofunikira kufunafuna upangiri mwachangu kuchokera kwa dokotala kapena mlangizi woyenerera.
4. Momwe mumaganizira za mphamvu yodzidalira zimakhudza thanzi lanu mwachindunji
Inde, izi ndi zoona. Maganizo anu okhudza mphamvu yochita zinthu mopanda tsankho amakhudza mwachindunji thanzi lanu la thupi ndi la maganizo.
- Matenda a Shuga : Mu kafukufuku wa odwala matenda a shuga, omwe ankaona kuti mphamvu zawo zodziletsa zinali zochepa ankaona kuti sangathe kulamulira thanzi lawo. Izi zinapangitsa kuti mavuto ambiri a matenda a shuga komanso thanzi lawo la maganizo likhale loipa.
- Moyo wa ophunzira: Mu kafukufuku wina, ophunzira aku yunivesite omwe ankakhulupirira kuti ali ndi mphamvu zochepa zodziletsa anapezeka kuti amadya zakudya zosapatsa thanzi kwambiri, amachedwa kuchita zinthu, komanso amakhoza bwino mayeso akakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri.
Ndiye, kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani m'malo mowonjezera mphamvu zanu?
Poganizira zonsezi, malinga ndi malingaliro aposachedwa, m'malo moganiza kuti, 'Ndingawonjezere bwanji mphamvu zanga zamaganizo?', zimakhala zothandiza kwambiri kugwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana kuti mudzilimbikitse kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu. M'malo molamulira maganizo anu mwamphamvu, ndikofunikira kupanga malo omwe angathandize kutero mosavuta.
Nazi njira zina zothandiza.
| Njira | Mwachidule... |
|---|---|
| Pezani 'chifukwa' chanu | N’chifukwa chiyani mukuyesetsa kukwaniritsa cholinga ichi? Mvetsetsani momwe chikugwirizanirana ndi moyo wanu ndi mfundo zanu. Zimenezo zidzakhala chilimbikitso chachikulu kwa inu. |
| Dziwani mayesero msanga. | Ndi zopinga ziti zomwe zingakugwereni? (Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kusiya kudya mabisiketi ndi tiyi madzulo, siyani kubweretsa mabisiketi kunyumba.) Konzekerani pasadakhale. |
| Sinthani chilengedwe | Pewani zinthu, malo, ndi anthu omwe amakulimbikitsani kuchita zinthu zoipa. Pangani malo omwe angakuthandizireni. |
| Dzipatseni mphatso zazing'ono (Dzipatseni Mphoto) | Mukakwaniritsa zolinga zanu zazing'ono, chitani chinthu chaching'ono chomwe chimakusangalatsani. Izi zidzakulimbikitsani kuti mupitirize kuchita zimenezo. |
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Kufunitsitsa sikutanthauza ngati muli "wabwino" kapena "woipa." Ndi luso la maganizo chabe.
- Kaya mukukhulupirira kuti mphamvu zanu ndi zochepa kapena zopanda malire zimakhudza kwambiri kupambana kwanu. Ndikothandiza kwambiri kuziganizira ngati zopanda malire, chinthu chomwe chimakula mukamagwiritsa ntchito.
- M'malo moletsa mwamphamvu mayesero, ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito njira zomwe zimakulimbikitsani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu.
- Kuledzera ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi matenda a muubongo. Kufunitsitsa kokha si mankhwala. Kumafuna thandizo la dokotala ndi akatswiri.
- Ngati mukuvutika kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu, mukukumana ndi nkhawa zambiri, kapena muli ndi vuto la chizolowezi chogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, musazengereze kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu kapena mlangizi wodziwa bwino ntchito yanu.











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