Niba urwaye kanseri y'ibere, ese ugomba kubibwira aho ukorera? Reka tubiganireho.

Iyo umuganga akubwira ko urwaye kanseri y'ibere, hari ibintu igihumbi bishobora kuza mu mutwe. Ibibazo bijyanye n'ubuvuzi, umuryango, amafaranga, ndetse n'akazi kawe, si byo se? Ikibazo gikomeye kiza mu mutwe muri ibi byose ni iki: "Ese mbwira ibiro byanjye? Ese mbwira umukoresha wanjye? Ese mbwira inshuti zanjye?" Iki ni icyemezo gikomeye cyane. Ni wowe wenyine ushobora gufata iki cyemezo, kandi kigomba kuba kimwe wumva ko kikubereye.

Urashaka kuvuga ibi cyangwa ntubivuge? Umwanzuro ni uwawe rwose.

Mu magambo make, aya ni amakuru yawe bwite y’ubuvuzi. Nta tegeko rivuga ko ugomba kuyabwira uwo ari we wese. Ariko, rimwe na rimwe bishobora kukugirira akamaro kubimenyesha aho ukorera.

Tekereza, ukeneye iminsi yo kuvurwa, wenda ukeneye ibikoresho nko gukorera mu rugo. Muri icyo gihe, niba ubwiye umuyobozi wawe cyangwa umukozi ushinzwe abakozi ibi, bizoroha cyane kubona ibyo bikoresho. Nanone, niba inshuti zawe magara ziri mu biro, kubibabwira bishobora kuguha imbaraga nyinshi zo mu mutwe no kuguhumuriza.

Ariko, niba ushaka kubigira ibanga, ni uburenganzira bwawe rwose. Hari abantu bibwira ko nibavuga ibi, abandi bazabareba babigiriye impuhwe, cyangwa bakibwira ko badafite ubushobozi mu kazi kabo. Niba ari uko bimeze rero, ni byiza kubigira ibanga.

Reka turebe ubunararibonye bw'abagore benshi bafashe iki cyemezo. Ibi bishobora kugufasha gufata icyemezo gikwiye ukurikije uko umeze.

Uburyo abagore batandukanye bahuye n'iki kibazo

1. "Nabwiye umukoresha wanjye n'inshuti zanjye za hafi gusa" - Inkuru ya Nilmini

Nilmini yari afite kanseri y'ibere yo mu cyiciro cya gatatu. Yari ateganijwe gutangira imiti ivura kanseri. Yari azi ko natangira kuvurwa, isura ye izahinduka, umusatsi we ukazagwa, kandi hari iminsi atazashobora kuza ku kazi. Nilmini rero yahisemo kubimenyesha aho akorera.

"Nabanje kubwira umuyobozi wanjye. Hanyuma, nyuma y'icyumweru kimwe, nohereje ubutumwa kuri imeri bamwe mu nshuti zanjye za hafi zo mu biro mbabwira amakuru arambuye." Yanahaye umuyobozi we uburenganzira bwo kubwira abandi bagize itsinda. Hanyuma ntiyagombaga kubwira abantu bose inkuru inshuro nyinshi.

Yishimiye cyane icyemezo yafashe. "Umuyobozi wanjye n'izindi nshuti zanjye bari abantu beza kandi banyumva. Numvise nishimiye kubabwira, kandi bamwe muri bo bambwiye ibyababayeho mu ndwara ya kanseri . Kumva izo nkuru byampaye imbaraga nyinshi."

Inshuti za Nilmini zo mu biro zarateranye ndetse zimutegurira amafunguro mu minsi yari arimo ahabwa imiti ya chimio. Ibyo byafashije cyane umuryango we. Ariko si buri wese ufite aho ashobora kubona ubufasha nk'ubu.

2. "Nta muntu n'umwe nabwiye mu biro" - Inkuru ya Deepa

Deepa ni umugore uyobora ikigo cye bwite gishinzwe itangazamakuru. Akimara kumenya ko arwaye kanseri y'ibere, yabigize ibanga.

Agira ati: "Sinifuzaga kubwira abo dukorana ibi. Sinifuzaga ko bangirira impuhwe, bagahangayika bitari ngombwa. Nanone, sinashakaga ko batekereza ko ntashobora gukora akazi kanjye neza."

Ntiyanabwiye abakiriya be ati: "Mu bucuruzi bwanjye, iyo ntashoboye gukora ikintu runaka, hari abandi bantu ibihumbi babishoboye. Sinashakaga ko abakiriya banjye bandeka."

Kubihisha ibanga nk'iri byamufashije ku giti cye.

Ibi yabibwiye inshuti ze za hafi gusa mu buzima bwe bwite. Kubera ko atabivugaga ku kazi, ntiyagombaga guhangana n'abantu bamureba nabi ndetse n'ibibazo bidasanzwe. Arebye nyuma y'imyaka myinshi, avuga ko icyemezo yafashe ari cyo cyari gikwiye kuri we.

3. "Navuze ku mugaragaro kuri byose" - Inkuru ya Sanduni

Sanduni amaze kumenya ibya kanseri y'ibere, yakoraga nk'umuyobozi ushinzwe iyamamazabikorwa mu kigo gito gishya. Kubera ko mu muryango we hari amateka ya kanseri y'ibere, yahoraga ahangayikishijwe no gupimwa. Yari yamaze kubimenyesha itsinda rye.

Rero, akimara gusanganwa iyi ndwara, yahise ajya kwa CEO we aramubwira ati: "Numvise meze nk'umuntu udasanzwe, ariko ntabwo numvise ndi wenyine nyuma yo kubivuga."

Umukoresha we yaramufashije . "Yari umuntu mwiza cyane. Ntiyari azi icyo nkeneye, ndetse yanazanye n'isakoshi y'ibiribwa iwanjye. Ibyo byari ibintu bikomeye kuri njye."

Yabwiye abandi bagize itsinda ati: "Twakoranye nk'ikipe nto. Rero nifuzaga gusangira nabo ibyari bimbayeho mu buzima bwanjye."

Nyuma yo kubagwa, amaze kumenya ko kanseri yakwirakwiriye, byabaye ngombwa ko ahabwa imiti ivura indwara ya kanseri. Yafashe ikiruhuko cy'ubumuga kuko yari yiteze ko ubuvuzi bumutwara umwaka umwe.

"Umukoresha wanjye yananyishyuriye ubwishingizi bw'ubuzima ubwo nari ntahari. Ubwo nagarukaga ku kazi, yankoreye akazi gashya kuko yari azi ko mfite ingorane zo gukora neza nk'uko nabikoraga mbere bitewe n'ibibazo byo mu mutwe n'umunaniro nagiraga nyuma yo kuvurwa."

Sanduni avuga ko kuvuga mu ruhame nk'uku byamufashije kwikuramo imihangayiko yo mu mutwe yo guhangayikishwa n'ibyo abantu bazatekereza.

Ni gute wafata icyemezo kikubereye?

Izi nkuru zigaragaza uburyo imimerere n'ibyemezo bya buri muntu bitandukanye. Kugira ngo tugufashe gufata icyemezo, reka turebe incamake y'ibyiza n'ibibi.

Hanyuma, inkuru ya Christina, umuvuzi w’indwara zo mu mutwe, ni ingenzi cyane. Kubera ko yari umucuruzi wikorera ku giti cye, nta bagenzi yari afite bo kubara. Ariko yabibwiye abarwayi be. Yabikoze kugira ngo yereke abandi ko ari ngombwa kwemera ko udashobora gukora byose wenyine no gufata umwanya wo kwita ku buzima bwawe.

Aragira ati: " Nta gihembo cyo kuba ukomeye ." Ibyo bivuze ko gusaba ubufasha igihe ukeneye atari intege nke. Niba utavuga ko ukeneye ubufasha, nta muntu ushobora kugufasha. Tekereza rero ku mimerere yawe, tekereza ku muco wawe wo ku kazi, hanyuma ufate icyemezo wumva gikwiye kuri wewe. Banza uganire na muganga wawe ku gahunda yawe yo kwivuza n'igihe icyo ari cyo cyose cy'ikiruhuko ukeneye.