Amagambo ntashobora gusobanura ibyishimo wumva iyo umushyitsi mushya aje mu buzima bwawe n'ubw'umugabo wawe, si byo se? Hamwe n'ibyo byishimo, hari n'inshingano nyinshi nto zizanwa nabyo. Muri zo, guhitamo izina ry'umwana ni ingingo ababyeyi benshi babona ko ihangayikishije gato kandi rimwe na rimwe igatera impaka nto. Ba sogokuru na ba nyogokuru bavuga izina rimwe, inshuti zikavuga irindi zina, ufite irindi mu mutwe... Amaherezo, ntushobora guhitamo icyo wahitamo. None rero uyu munsi, reka tuvuge ku guhitamo izina ry'uyu mwana.
Izina si ijambo gusa!
Akenshi dukunze gutekereza ku izina nk'ijambo ryiza risobanura umwana muto. Ariko tekereza kuri ibi. Izina uhisemo rizaba ku mwana wawe iteka ryose. Iyo uwo mwana agiye ku ishuri, akina n'inshuti ze, agatangira akazi, akagira umuryango we bwite ... iri zina rizaba ari ryo ndangamuntu ye muri ibi bice byose.
Nk’uko bivugwa na Laura Wattenberg, wanditse igitabo kivuga ku mazina y’abana, inama nziza ni iyi: “Tekereza ku izina wihaye.” Iyo utangira ubuzima bwawe uyu munsi, wakwifuza ko iri zina rikugaragaza? Niba igisubizo ari “yego,” uri mu nzira nziza. Niba igisubizo ari “oya,” ni cyo gihe cyo kongera gutekereza kuri iryo zina.
Mu magambo make, tekereza umwana wawe amaze kuba mukuru ufite izina wahisemo, ntabwo ari umwana wawe mwiza.
Ntugakurikirane ibigezweho.
Hari igihe tubona amazina adasanzwe kandi adasanzwe. Cyane cyane mu bihugu by'amahanga, abana b'abakinnyi n'abakinnyi b'amafilime bafite amazina nka Apple na Blue Ivy. Ubu mu gihugu cyacu hari icyerekezo cyo kubona amazina nk'ayo adasanzwe. Abantu benshi bagerageza gushaka izina abantu bose bakunda, ariko nta wundi muntu ukoresha.
Ariko izina rikunzwe umwaka umwe rishobora kuba ritagikoreshwa mu gihe gikurikiraho. Aya ni amwe mu mazina akunzwe muri iki gihe.
| Ubwoko bw'Icyerekezo | Ingero |
|---|---|
| Amazina y'imijyi | Austin, Brooklyn (nubwo muri Sri Lanka batakoresha amazina nka Kandy na Dambulla kugeza ubu, ni igitekerezo gisa) |
| Gukoresha amazina y'umuryango ku mazina ya mbere | Parker, Coleman (mu gihugu cyacu, amazina y'umuryango nka Perera na Silva ntakunze gukoreshwa ku mazina) |
| Gukoresha amazina ya kera kandi gakondo | Isaro, Rubi (muri Sri Lanka, amazina nka isaro na rubi) |
| Amazina ajyanye n'ibidukikije | Uruzi, Skye (nk'uruzi, ikirere) |
Uretse ibi, mu gihugu cyacu birazwi cyane kwita umwana izina ry'umwe mu bagize umuryango, uwo mu muryango, cyangwa umuntu twubaha. Ibi byose bigaragaza uburyo umuryango utuzengurutse ugira ingaruka ku buzima bwacu mu guhitamo izina.
Ibitekerezo byiza biza igihe utabyiteze.
Hari igihe, uko ibitabo n'imbuga za interineti byaba bingana kose, ntushobora kubona izina rikubereye. Ariko igitekerezo cyiza gishobora guturuka ahantu n'igihe utari witeze.
- Izina rikomoka ku mateka y'umuryango: Melanie na Brian bari bashaka izina ry'umuhungu wabo. Umunsi umwe, ubwo bajyaga kwa Brian kwa se, se wa Brian yavuze izina "Preston" mu gihe bavugaga kuri sekuru. Muri ako kanya, bombi bararebanaga baramwenyura. Bari babonye izina bashaka. Mu gihugu cyacu, ni ibisanzwe gutanga izina rikomoka kuri sekuru, nyirakuru, cyangwa umuryango .
- Izina ababyeyi bombi bakunda: Hari ababyeyi bahuza inyuguti z'amazina yabo yombi kugira ngo bakore izina ryiza. Ni izina ryiza cyane, kandi igihe cyose wumvise iryo zina, wibuka urukundo ruri hagati yabo.
- Izina rikomoka ku kwibuka bidasanzwe: Umubyeyi witwa Joan yise umuhungu we "Benny" kubera ko ari ryo zina rya resitora yakundaga kujyamo ubwo yari atwite. Ati: "Nahoraga ndya aho nkiri umwana, none ni naho umuhungu wanjye akunda cyane."
Kwicuza izina - 'Izina ry'umwana kwicuza'
Mu miryango imwe n'imwe, guhitamo izina bishobora gutera impaka zikomeye. Umugore ntakunda izina ry'umugabo, kandi umugabo ntakunda izina ry'umugore. Ibi ni ibisanzwe cyane. Kubera ko inyuma yo guhitamo izina, hari ibintu byinshi bifitanye isano rikomeye, nk'amarangamutima yacu, aho umuryango wacu ukomoka, ubwoko bwacu, n'idini ryacu.
Umubyeyi witwa MariyaUbwo yamubwiraga ko izina rye akunda cyane ari "Stella," umugabo we ntiyabyishimiye na gato. Yaravuze ati "Iyo umukobwa wanjye akoze ikintu kibi, numva meze nka Marlon Brando muri 'A Streetcar Named Desire.'" Amaherezo, bombi batanze urutonde rw'amazina bombi bemeranyijeho maze bahitamo abiri meza kurusha ayandi. Icy'ingenzi ni ukubaha amarangamutima yabo bombi no guhitamo izina bombi bashobora kwishimira.
Hari igihe ababyeyi bamaze igihe kinini bahitamo izina, bumva ko iryo zina ritajyanye n'umwana igihe umwana avutse. Ibi byitwa Izina ry'Umwana Kwicuza .
Umubyeyi witwa Kelsey yise umukobwa we "Presley," ariko kuva akivuka, yumvise ko iryo zina ritamukwiriye. Nyuma, bamuhaye izina rishya, "Summer," kandi barihindura mu buryo bwemewe n'amategeko.
Impuguke zivuga ko "Bishobora kuba byiza guhindura izina umwana akiri muto, mbere yuko amenyera izina, niba ababyeyi bombi bemeranya. Ariko niba umwana akuze gato kandi nta bwumvikane hagati yabo bombi, ni byiza kumenyera izina ririho. Akenshi, uko umwana agenda akura, izina riba igice cyaryo."
Uracyadashobora kubimenya? Dore izindi nama
Niba ugikomeje guhitamo izina, izi nama zizagufasha .
- Vugana n'abantu bake wizeye: Bwira inshuti zawe nke wizeye kandi usekeje ku mazina abiri cyangwa atatu wowe n'umugabo wawe mwibuka. Menya ibitekerezo byabo. Niba umuryango wawe n'inshuti zawe badakunda izina wahisemo, rishobora kuba ikimenyetso cy'umuburo .
- Yandike byoroshye: Hari ababyeyi bagerageza gukora izina rusange ryihariye baryandika mu buryo butandukanye. Urugero, izina "Mihiri" ryanditswe mu buryo butandukanye, nka "Mihiry". Wibuke ko tumara igihe kinini cy'ubuzima bwacu dusoma amazina, ntabwo tuyandika. Iyo imyandikire idasanzwe, umwana agomba kwandika no gusobanura izina rye ku ishuri cyangwa ku kazi. Ibi bishobora kubabera ikibazo.
- Vugana na muganga wawe: Niba ufite ikibazo cyo gukemura ikibazo cyo guhitamo izina cyangwa amakimbirane ari hagati yanyu mwembi, ushobora kuganira na muganga w’umuryango wawe ku bijyanye nabyo ukabona ubufasha, nko gushaka inama z’imitekerereze.
Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo
- Mu guhitamo izina ry'umwana wawe, ntutekereze gusa ku gihe yari akiri umwana, ahubwo unatekereze ku ngaruka iryo zina rizamugiraho mu gihe azaba akuze.
- Ntugakurikize gusa ibigezweho. Hari igihe izina ryoroshye kandi gakondo rishobora kugira agaciro kanini uko igihe kigenda gihita.
- Iki ni icyemezo hagati yawe n'umukunzi wawe. Muganireho hanyuma muhitemo izina mwembi mwishimiye.
- Hari igihe izina ryiza rishobora kukugeraho mu buryo butunguranye iyo ugorwa no kuritekerezaho. Ntugashyireho igitutu kinini.
- Komeza kwandika izina mu buryo bworoshye. Bizaba byorohereza umwana mu gihe kizaza.
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