Wakamboona here kuti mwana wako dzimwe nguva anoita zvakasiyana zvishoma nedzevamwe vana? Pamwe haadi kuita shamwari itsva, kana kuti pamwe ane dambudziko rekunzwisisa zviso zvevamwe vanhu. Kana kuti pamwe anotaura nezvechitoyi chimwe chete kana nyaya imwe chete (senge madinosaur, zvitima, mitambo yemakombiyuta) nekufarira kukuru uye nguva dzose. Semubereki, zvakajairika kuti unzwe kutya, kunetseka, uye kuvhiringidzika paunoona zvinhu izvi. "Sei mwana wangu ari iye ega akadaro?" Ungave uchishamisika. Saka, nhasi tichataura nezvechirwere chinonzi Asperger's Syndrome , chinogona kuratidza zviratidzo izvi, asi vanhu vazhinji havazvizivi.
Chii chaizvo chinonzi Asperger's?
Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, Asperger's Syndrome chirwere chinowira pasi peboka guru rezvirwere zve autism spectrum . Mukurapa, tinochidana kuti Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Kunyange zvazvo Asperger's yaimboonekwa sechirwere chakasiyana, kubvira muna 2013 yave ichiiswawo pasi peASD.
Inonzi "spectrum" nechikonzero. Funga nezvemuraraungu. Kune marudzi akasiyana-siyana emavara, asi haugone kuziva kuti rumwe ruvara runogumira papi uye rumwe runotangira papi, handiti? Ndizvo zvakafanana nezveASD. Havasi vese vane chirwere ichi vakafanana. Vamwe vanhu vane zviratidzo zvishoma, nepo vamwe vaine zvishoma.
Asi chinhu chakakosha nezveAsperger's ndechekuti imhando yeASD spectrum iri nyore. Vana ava havawanzo ratidza kunonoka mumutauro kana kugona kwavo kufunga. Kutaura zvazviri, dzimwe nguva njere dzavo dzinogona kunge dzakakwira kupfuura avhareji. Ndosaka vamwe vanhu vachiona mwana uyu semwana akajairika anoita zvinhu zvakasiyana zvishoma ( Neurotypical child).
Zvakakosha kuziva zviratidzo izvi, nekuti ipapo tinogona kupa mwana rutsigiro nekurapwa kwaanoda nekukurumidza.
Ndezvipi zviratidzo zveAsperger's?
Chirwere cheAsperger chinoratidzwa zvakasiyana mumunhu wega wega. Asi pane zvimwe zvinhu zvakafanana. Vana vane chirwere ichi vane hunyanzvi hwakasiyana mune zvimwe zvinhu, uye vanosanganawo nematambudziko mune zvimwe zvinhu. Ngatitarisei zvese zviri zviviri.
| Hunhu Hwakakosha uye Simba (Zvinhu Zvinogona Kuwanikwa) | Matambudziko Anogona Kuitika |
|---|---|
| Kugona kunoshamisa kutarisa pane chimwe chinhu uye kutsungirira. | Kunzwa zvakanyanya kuchiedza, ruzha rukuru, kuravira nekunhuhwirira kwakasiyana. |
| Kuva nehunyanzvi hwakanaka mukuziva mapatani akasiyana-siyana. | Kuomerwa nekunzwisisa uye kutevera kufamba kwehurukuro. |
| Kunyatsoteerera kunyange zvinhu zvidiki-diki zvenyaya. | Kuomerwa nekunzwisisa hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana husina kutaura hwakadai sekushandisa masaini uye kutaridzika kwechiso. |
| Kuva neruzivo rwakadzama uye ndangariro pamusoro penyaya yaunofarira. | Kutarisana mumaziso kushoma kana kuti kunonzwa kusagadzikana pakutaura. |
| Kazhinji kutaura chokwadi uye zvakananga . | Kunonoka kudiki kana kusashanda zvakanaka kwehunyanzvi hwekufambisa makumbo. |
| Kuda kushanda zvinoenderana nehurongwa hwakatarwa nemitemo . | Zvinowanzoita kuti munhu anzwe kusagadzikana uye kuora mwoyo. |
Zvido zvakakosha uye tsika
Vana ava vanogona kunge vaine kufarira kusingawanzoitiki pachidzidzo chimwe chete, senge nzvimbo, nhoroondo, kana mutambo wevhidhiyo. Vanotaura nezvazvo kwemaawa akawanda. Vanowanzo nzwawo kuchinja kwemaitiro.Havadi kuchinja maitiro avo zvachose. Vanoda kuenda kuchikoro nenzira imwe chete zuva nezuva, kudya chikafu chimwe chete, uye kushanda panguva imwe chete. Maitiro aya anonzwa seakachengeteka kwavari. Vanogona kugumbuka zvikuru kana zvikachinja.
Ndingawana sei kurapwa nerutsigiro rweizvi?
Kana uine kakufungira kuti mwana wako ane zviratidzo izvi, chinhu chakanakisa chekuita kusatya wotaura nachiremba nezvazvo.
Kuziva chirwere ichi nekukurumidza kwakakosha kune ramangwana remwana. Vana vanowana rutsigiro rwakakodzera vachiri vadiki vane mukana uri nani wekubudirira kuchikoro uye gare gare muhupenyu sevadzidzi vakazvimiririra.
Kana mukaona chiremba wemhuri yenyu (GP), iye achakutumirai kuna chiremba wepfungwa, akadai savanachiremba vevana, vepfungwa, kana vepfungwa dzekiriniki .
Nekuti mwana wese ane Asperger's akasiyana, hurongwa hwekurapa hunosiyana kubva kumwana kuenda kune mumwe. Kurapwa kwakagadzirirwa zvinodiwa nemwana. Izvi zvinogona kusanganisira imwe kana kupfuura yemishonga inotevera:
- Kudzidziswa kwehunyanzvi hwekugarisana nevamwe: Kudzidziswa kwekutaura nevamwe, kuita shamwari, uye kushanda pamwe chete.
- Kurapa Kwepfungwa Nemaitiro (CBT): Izvi zvinokubatsira kudzidza kudzora manzwiro akadai sekuzvidya mwoyo nekushungurudzika uye kugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma.
- Dzidzo yevabereki: Vabereki vanodzidziswa kuti vanganyatsonzwisisa sei uye vabatsire sei mwana wavo.
- Kurapa nekutaura: Kunobatsira kuvandudza zvinhu zvakaita sekutaurirana kwevanhu vaviri.
- Kurapa Kwebasa: Kunobatsira kudzora zvinhu zvakaita sekunge munhu anonyanya kunzwa kushushikana uye kuita kuti mabasa ezuva nezuva ave nyore.
- Mishonga: Mune zvimwe zviitiko, chiremba anogona kunyora mishonga yekudzivirira zvimwe zvirwere zvine chekuita nazvo, zvakaita sekuzvidya mwoyo kana kuora mwoyo.
Zano diki kuvabereki
Kuchengeta mwana akadai kunogona kuva kwakaoma dzimwe nguva. Zvinoda mwoyo murefu, rudo, kudzidziswa, uye kunzwisisa. Heano zvimwe zvinhu zvinogona kukubatsira:
- Usavanza mwana wako kubva kuvanhu kana kumudzivirira zvakanyanya. Rega atarisane nemamiriro ezvinhu evanhu. Vachaita zvikanganiso uye vachanzwa kusagadzikana, asi vachadzidza kubva mazviri.
- Koshesa kugona kwavo, zvavanofarira, zvinosetsa, uye simba ravo. Pemberera hunhu hunovasiyanisa nevamwe, hunovaita kuti vave vakakosha.
- Pane kungokurumidza kuranga kana paine dambudziko, edza kudzikamisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Edza kunzwisisa kuti sei mwana wacho akatsamwa.
- Ipa mhinduro dzakanaka pese pazvinogoneka. Kana akaita chimwe chinhu chakanaka kana kuti akaita nemazvo, muudze. Izvi zvichamupa simba guru rekuita zvinhu izvozvo zvakare.
- Shanda nemwana wako kuti muvandudze hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana. Mudzidzise zvinhu zvakaita sekutaura uye kunzwisisa zvinhu kuburikidza nemaoko (kutaurirana kusiri kwemazwi) nenzira iri nyore uye yerudo.
Rwendo urwu harusi rwaunofanira kufamba narwo uri wega. Kune vanhu vanogona kukubatsira nekukutsigira. Unogona kutaura nachiremba wako wowana ruzivo nezvemapoka ekutsigirana evabereki kana zvimwe zvinhu zviripo muSri Lanka. Kuziva ndicho chinhu chikuru chinosimbisa.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Asperger's Syndrome rudzi rudiki rwe autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Haisi kuremara kwepfungwa kana chirwere chepfungwa.
- Hunhu hukuru matambudziko muhukama hwevanhu uye kufarira kwakasimba uye kwakadzama pane chimwe chinhu.
- Kana uchifungidzira kuti mwana wako ane zviratidzo izvi, zvakakosha kutsvaga rubatsiro rwechiremba usingatyi. Kuonekwa nekukurumidza kunoita kuti mwana wako abudirire.
- Kurapa ibasa rechikwata rinosanganisa kudzidziswa kwehunyanzvi hwekushamwaridzana, kurapwa kwemaitiro ekuziva (CBT), uye rutsigiro rwevabereki.
- Koshesa kusiyana kwemwana wako uye hunyanzvi hwake. Mutsigire nemwoyo murefu, rudo, uye kunzwisisa.
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