Ngaba usapho lwakho luza kwamkela ilungu elitsha? Okanye sele efikile umntwana omncinci? Kaloku, ukuthengela umntwana iimpahla ngamava amnandi kakhulu kwaye amahle, akunjalo? Xa ubona iingubo ezincinci, iibhulukhwe, kunye nezihlangu ezivenkileni, ufuna ukuzithenga zonke. Ipinki yomntwana oyintombazana, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka yomntwana oyinkwenkwe, iintyatyambo ezintle, kunye noyilo lweekhathuni, iintliziyo zethu ziyachukumiseka. Kodwa asinakugxila kubuhle bodwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka sicinge ngokhuseleko, intuthuzelo , kunye nokusebenza komntwana. Kwaye kufuneka sicinge nangexabiso, akunjalo? Ekubeni abantwana bekhula ngokukhawuleza, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuthenga iimpahla ezisetyenzisiweyo. Kodwa nantoni na oyithengayo, kubalulekile ukuba uzihlambe kakuhle, uzomise elangeni, kwaye uzi-ayine ngaphambi kokuba uzinxibise umntwana wakho.
Zeziphi iimpahla ezibalulekileyo kumntwana osandul’ ukuzalwa?
Xa ulindele umntwana, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukufuna ukuthenga yonke impahla evenkileni. Kodwa kwiintsuku zokuqala, udinga izinto ezimbalwa kuphela. Awufuni ukuchitha imali kwiimpahla ezingafunekiyo. Itheyibhile engezantsi luluhlu lweempahla ezibalulekileyo zomntwana.
| Uhlobo lwempahla | Ingakanani imali ekufuneka ithathwe (malunga) | Kutheni le nto zibalulekile? |
|---|---|---|
| Ii-Onesies | 3-4 | Ezi zilula kuba zinokunxitywa phezu kwe-napkin. Zithintela isisu ukuba singavezwa. |
| Iisuti zokulala/zokwelula | 3-6 | Ibaluleke kakhulu xa umntwana elele ebusuku kwaye ebanda. Igcina umntwana efudumele. |
| Iikawusi/Iibhutsi | Izibini ezi-3-4 | Inceda ukugcina iinyawo ezincinci zifudumele. |
| Iihempe zangaphantsi | 4-6 | Ifumaneka ngemikhono emifutshane nemide. Inganxitywa phantsi kwempahla yangaphandle. |
| Iminqwazi/Iikepusi | 1-2 | Kubalulekile ukugcina intloko yomntwana wakho ifudumele, ingakumbi xa ephuma phandle. |
| Iiglavu | Isibini 1 | Iintsana zihlala zikrwela ubuso bazo ngezinzipho zazo ezincinci. Ezi zinceda ekuthinteleni loo nto. |
| Iisweaters | 1-2 | Kubalulekile ukuba uya kwindawo ebanda okanye kwindawo enomoya opholileyo. |
Ukuba uzala amawele, ceba ukuthenga phantse kabini yonke into. Ngale ndlela, akuyi kufuneka uhlambe impahla ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukhuseleko kuqala! Cinga kabini ngezi zinto xa ukhetha impahla
Ukhuseleko losana lubaluleke ngaphezu kobuhle, ngoko ke qiniseka ukuba uyaziqwalasela ezi zinto xa ukhetha impahla.
Ziphephe izinto ezinokubambeka.
Iintsana zibeka yonke into ezinokuyifumana emlonyeni wazo. Yindalo yazo. Khawucinge ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba iqhosha elincinci, i-bead, okanye enye into encinci yokuhombisa iphuma kwimpahla? Ingangena ngqo emlonyeni womntwana. Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, kukho amathuba aphezulu okukrwitshwa. Ngoko ke, kuphephe ukuthenga impahla ngezi zinto kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Okanye, jonga kabini ukuba ukuhombisa kuthungelwe ngokukhuselekileyo .
Kwakhona, lumka ngeentambo ezinde kunye neempahla ezirhabaxa . Ezi zinto zinokugquma intamo yomntwana, iingalo, kunye nemilenze. Oko kuyingozi kakhulu.
Iimpahla zokulala ezingatshiyo emlilweni
Le yinto esingacingi ngayo rhoqo, kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu. Iileyibhile ezikwimpahla yokulala yosana ngamanye amaxesha zichaza ukuba kufuneka zinxitywe kakuhle na ukuze zikhuseleke emlilweni, okanye ukuba ilaphu ngokwalo alinamtshiso. La malaphu athintela umlilo anemiyalelo ethile yokuhlamba. Kufuneka ulandele loo miyalelo ngqo. Ngaphandle koko, iimpawu zokuthintela umlilo zinokunyamalala emva kokuhlamba izihlandlo ezininzi.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ukuthenga impahla yokulala esele isetyenzisiwe akuyonto ilungileyo, kuba asazi ukuba umntu owayeyisebenzisa ngaphambili wayeyihlambe kakuhle na.
Thenga iimpahla ngokusekwe kubunzima, hayi ubudala!
Impazamo eyenziwa ngoomama abaninzi kukuthenga iimpahla ngokusekwe kubudala bomntwana wabo. Bacinga ukuba, "Umntwana wam uneenyanga ezi-3 kuphela ubudala, ngoko ke masithenge ubungakanani beenyanga ezi-3-6." Kodwa eneneni, uphawu ngalunye lwenza iimpahla ngobukhulu obahlukileyo. Ubungakanani beenyanga ezi-3 lophawu olunye bunokulingana nobungakanani beenyanga ezi-6 lolunye.
Cinga nje, abanye abantwana bakhulu kancinci xa bezalwa. Abanakukwazi ukunxiba ubungakanani 'bosana' kangangeentsuku ezingaphezu kwezimbini. Abanye abantwana bancinci. Banokunxiba iimpahla zeenyanga ezi-3 de babe neenyanga ezi-4-5 ubudala. Ngoko ke ubudala buyinto nje. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokukhetha iimpahla bubunzima bomntwana . Uninzi lweempahla luneminyaka kunye nobunzima obudweliswe kwileyibhile. Kungcono ukujonga ubunzima uze wenze isigqibo.
Ungenza njani ukuba kube lula ukunxiba?
Ukunxibisa umntwana osokolayo nolilayo ngamanye amaxesha kunokuvakala ngathi kukulwa, akunjalo? Ukuze lo msebenzi ube lula kuni nobabini, cingani ngezi zinto xa nikhetha impahla.
- Khetha iimpahla ezikhululekileyo entanyeni okanye ezineziqwenga . Iintsana azithandi iimpahla ezigqunywe entloko. Ziyacaphuka xa ukuphefumla kwazo kuqina kancinci okanye zingakuboni. Ngoko khetha iimpahla ezilula ukuzinxiba entanyeni.
- Iimpahla ezineziphu okanye ii-snaps ngaphambili kulula kakhulu ukuzinxiba kunezo zine-snaps ngasemva.
- Iimpahla ezikhululekileyo kancinci zingasuswa lula ngesandla ngaphandle kokubambeka emikhonweni .
- Oku kubaluleke kakhulu: ukuba ukhetha ilokhwe enemicu phakathi kwemilenze, akufuneki uyikhulule yonke ilokhwe xa utshintsha i-napkin. Ungasusa nje inxalenye esezantsi, wenze umsebenzi, uze uyibuyisele. Kulula kangakanani oku xa ucinga ngokuba utshintsha kangaphi ii-napkin ngemini?
Kulula ukuhlamba kunye nokucinga kwangaphambili
Iimpahla zomntwana wakho kufuneka zitshintshwe izihlandlo ezininzi ngemini. Oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uhlambe impahla eninzi. Ngoko ke khetha iimpahla ezibhalwe " zihlanjwa ngomatshini." Oku kuya kukongela ixesha kunye nomgudu wokuhlamba izandla kunye nokuayina. Khetha iimpahla ezenziwe ngekotoni eyi-100% nanini na kunokwenzeka. Zithambile eluswini lomntwana wakho, zikhululekile, zihlala ixesha elide, kwaye kulula ukuzihlamba.
Okokugqibela, cinga kwangaphambili xa uthenga impahla. Abanye abantwana abaze balingane neesayizi "zosana olusandul' ukuzalwa". Abanye bakhula ngaphandle kweempahla zeenyanga ezi-3 ngaphambi kokuba babe nenyanga. Ngoko ke, thenga iimpahla ezimbalwa ezinobukhulu obufana neenyanga ezi-6 kunye nonyaka omnye ubudala kwangaphambili. Kodwa ungathengi iimpahla kwiinyanga kwangaphambili ucinga ukuba ziya kuhambelana nesiganeko esikhethekileyo njengoNyaka oMtsha okanye iKrisimesi. Asinakuqikelela ukuba ubungakanani buza kumfanela umntwana ngelo xesha.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Xa ukhetha impahla yomntwana wakho , beka phambili ukhuseleko kunobuhle. Ziphephe iimpahla ezinamaqhosha amancinci, iintsimbi, kunye nemitya emide enokubangela ukukrwitshwa.
- Khetha impahla ngokusekwe kubunzima bomntwana wakho, hayi kwiminyaka yakhe. Jonga ubunzima obukwileyibhile.
- Cinga ngokulula kokunxiba nokutshintsha amanabukeni . Iimpahla ezinee-snaps entanyeni naphakathi kwemilenze ziluncedo kakhulu.
- Soloko ukhetha iimpahla ezenziwe ngekotoni eyi-100% kwaye ezihlanjwa ngomatshini.
- Hlamba uze womise kakuhle nayiphi na impahla entsha okanye esetyenzisiweyo ngaphambi kokuba uyinxibise umntwana wakho.
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