Akukho nto ifana nevumba losana olusandul’ ukuzalwa, akunjalo? Kumama okanye utata omtsha , ukunyamekela lo mntwana luyolo olukhulu ebomini. Kwangaxeshanye, kuqhelekile ukuziva unexhala kwaye unoxanduva olukhulu ngezinto ezifana nokuhlamba umntwana nokumlalisa ngononophelo. Imibuzo efana nokuthi 'Ndingamphathela ntoni umntwana?', 'Ngaba ndenza into elungileyo?', 'Ngaba umntwana uza kuba sengxakini?' ifika engqondweni. Ungakhathazeki, masithethe ngazo zonke ezi zinto ngokulula nangokucacileyo. Awuwedwa, sonke sikulo hambo kunye.
Ingaba sikulungele ukuhlamba umntwana?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukuba ayilocebo lilungileyo ukuhlamba umntwana wakho ebhafini emva nje kokuzalwa. Kufuneka silinde ixesha elincinci ukuba intambo yomntwana iwe kwaye inxeba lome kwaye liphole. Ukuba ezinye iintsana ezingamaduna zolukile, kubalulekile ukulinda de inxeba liphole.
Ngeli xesha, awunakumgcina umntwana wakho ecocekile? Hayi. Ungamsula umntwana wakho kancinci ngelaphu elicocekileyo nelithambileyo elifakwe emanzini afudumeleyo. Oku kukwabizwa ngokuba 'yi-top and tail wash'. Oko kuthetha ukucoca ubuso, intamo, amakhwapha, i-groin, kunye nendawo ye-nappy.
Khumbula, iintsana akufuneki zihlanjwe yonke imihla. Kabini okanye kathathu ngeveki kulungile. Ukuhlamba rhoqo kunokomisa ulusu lomntwana oluthambileyo.
Kulungile, ngoku ekubeni intambo yosana iphilile kwaye ukulungele ukuhlamba umntwana wakho, akukho lula ukuhlamba umntwana otyibilikayo nonesepha. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba nezi zinto zilungele ukwenza ixesha lokuhlamba libe ngamava amnandi nakhuselekileyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho.
| Yintoni efunekayo | Inkcazo encinci kunye nokubaluleka |
|---|---|
| Ibhafu yomntwana | Oku kukhuselekile kunokuhlamba esityeni esikhulu okanye kumgangatho wegumbi lokuhlambela. Oku kunceda ukuthintela umntwana ukuba angatyibiliki. |
| Isepha yosana erhabaxa, engenavumba | Ulusu lweentsana luthambile kakhulu. Iisepha ezirhabaxa kunye neesepha ezinevumba elimnandi zinokubangela i-allergies eluswini lomntwana wakho. Ngoko ke soloko ukhetha uhlobo olungenavumba , oluthambileyo. |
| Ishampu yomntwana engenazikrazuli | Oku kubalulekile ukuze nokuba ingena elisweni ngengozi, ingabi yingozi kumntwana. |
| Iziqwenga ezi-4-6 zelaphu elithambileyo lekotoni (Amalaphu okuhlamba) | Sula ubuso nomzimba womntwana ngobunono. Kulula kumntwana kuba akarhabaxa njengetawuli. |
| Iitawuli ezinkulu ezi-2-3 | Emva kokuhlamba, msonge kakuhle umntwana wakho ukuze ahlale efudumele. Ithawula eline-hood lingcono nangakumbi. |
| Isithambisi esingavumbanga | Emva kokuhlamba, ungathambisa ikhrimu yosana okanye iloshini yokugcina ulusu lomntwana wakho lufumile. Oku akufanele kungcoliswe. |
| Ibhrashi yeenwele ezithambileyo | Sebenzisa ikama eneenwele ezithambileyo ezingayi kulimaza intloko yomntwana wakho ethambileyo. |
Ishawa iphelile, ngoku lixesha lokulala kamnandi!
Into elandelayo umntwana ohlanjwe kakuhle nococekileyo ayidingayo yindawo ekhululekileyo nekhuselekileyo yokulala. Igama elithi "ikhuselekile" libaluleke kakhulu apha. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka siziqwalasele xa sidala indawo yokulala komntwana.
Xa unosana olusandul’ ukuzalwa, bubulumko ukwenza ibhedi ngendlela ekuvumela ukuba uyicoce ngokukhawuleza ukuba imanzi okanye ingcolile ebusuku. Nantsi indlela yokwenza ibhedi yomntwana (ibhedi yosana/ibhedi yosana).
| Yintoni efunekayo | Indlela yokusebenzisa kunye nokubaluleka kwayo |
|---|---|
| Iimatrasi ezimbini ezingangeni manzi | Oku kusetyenziswa kwimatrasi ngokwayo. Nokuba umntwana uyachama okanye uyahlanza, imatrasi ayizukuba manzi. Imatrasi ingagcinwa icocekile ixesha elide. |
| Amashiti ebhedi afakelweyo ama-2-3 | Le ibekwe phezu kwephedi engangeni manzi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ingena kakuhle kumatrasi kwaye ayinamibimbi. |
| Izigcini zamaphepha ezingangeni manzi ezi-2-3 | Le yiphedi encinci oyibeka phezu kweshiti yebhedi, apho umzimba womntwana uwela khona. Khawuthelekelele ukuba umntwana wakho umanzisa ibhedi ebusuku, akufuneki utshintshe lonke ishiti yebhedi. Ungasusa nje le sheet saver incinci uze ufake entsha. Kulula kakhulu. |
Zeziphi izinto ezingalunganga ukugcina ebhedini yomntwana?
Le yeyona nxalenye ibalulekileyo kweli nqaku. Siyabathanda abantwana bethu kwaye sifuna ukufaka izinto ezininzi kwiibhedi zabo. Kodwa ezinye zezo zinto ziyingozi kakhulu kubo.
Izinto ekufuneka zibe sebhedini yomntwana kuphela lusana kunye nelaphu lokulala eliqinileyo. Musa ukubeka enye into ebhedini. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kukhuseleko lomntwana.
Zeziphi ezi zinto zingalunganga ukuzigcina?
- Imiqamelo : Imiqamelo ayilungelanga iintsana ezincinci. Ukuba ubuso bomntwana bugqunywe emqamelweni, kunokwenza kube nzima ukuphefumla.
- Iingubo zokulala neengubo zokulala: Iingubo ezinkulu nezinzima zinokusonga umzimba womntwana, zigqume ubuso bakhe kwaye zonyuse umngcipheko wokufuthaniseka.
- Izikhuselo zeebhampa: Nangona ezi zibukeka zintle, ubuso bomntwana bunokubanjwa zezi bhampa zize zifuthaniseleke. Ngoko ke, musa ukuzisebenzisa.
- Izilwanyana ezigcweleyo/Iithoyi: Iibhere ezithambileyo kunye nezinye izinto zokudlala, nokuba zintle kangakanani na, akufuneki zibekwe ebhedini ngelixa umntwana wakho elele. Ezi zinto zinokubangela ukufuthaniseka.
Ngoko ke wenza ntoni ukuba umntwana wakho ubanda?
Umbuzo omhle. Nokuba uxelelwe ukuba ungasebenzisi iingubo zokulala, kusafuneka ugcine umntwana wakho efudumele. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza oko kukunxiba umntwana wakho impahla efudumeleyo nefudumeleyo. Okanye, sebenzisa iswaddle ukumboza umntwana wakho kakuhle. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho azive ekhuselekile kwaye efudumele, kwaye akuyi kubangela naziphi na iingxaki ezifana nezengubo yokulala.
Ukuba unamathandabuzo ngento ethile, nokuba ikhuselekile na kumntwana wakho, kungcono ungayisebenzisi. Soloko uqhagamshelana nogqirha wakho okanye nombelethisi.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Musa ukuhlamba umntwana wakho ebhafini de intambo yesisu iwe kwaye inxeba liphole ngokupheleleyo.
- Ukuhlamba kabini okanye kathathu ngeveki kwanele. Sebenzisa kuphela iimveliso ezithambileyo nezingenavumba.
- Umntwana kuphela omele abekwe kwibhedi/kwibhedi efakwe kakuhle.
- Kuphephe ukubeka izinto ezifana nemiqamelo, iingubo zokulala, iibhampa, kunye nezinto zokudlala kwibhedi yomntwana wakho. Ezi zinto zinokunyusa umngcipheko wokufuthaniseka.
- Nxibisa umntwana ngempahla efudumeleyo okanye usebenzise iswazi ukuze umkhusele kwingqele.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo, ungaze ungathandabuzi ukuxoxa nogqirha wakho ngaloo nto.
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