Kuyamangalisa ukubona umntwana wakho omncinci ekhaba kwaye eshukuma ngaphakathi esiswini sakho. Ngaloo mzuzu, mhlawumbi ubeka isandla sakho esiswini sakho uze uthi, "Mntanam," kancinci. Emva koko mhlawumbi uzibuza, "Ngaba umntwana wam uyayiva ngokwenene into endiyithethayo? Ngaba uyayiva uthando lwam?" Ewe, oomama abaninzi banale mibuzo. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba iimvakalelo zakho ziyinyani. Namhlanje, masithethe ngolu lwalamano lumangalisayo.
Ngaba umntwana osesiswini angasiva ngokwenene?
Ngamafutshane, ewe! Umntwana wakho unokuziva. Oku akusiyo intsomi nje, kungqinwe ngokwesayensi. Ngokutsho kweengcali eziphande oku, umntwana osesiswini unokukwazi ukubona, ukuva, ukuva, ukukhumbula, ukungcamla, kwanokucinga. Khawuthelekelele indlela okumangalisa ngayo oko!
Iimvakalelo zosana zibuthathaka kangangokuba zinokuluva uthando lwakho, uthando lwakho, ilizwi lakho, njl. Ngoko ke xa ucinga ngomntwana wakho kwaye uthetha naye ngothando, umntwana uziva zonke ezo zinto.
Olu manyano, okanye oko sikubiza ngokuba kukunamathelana, sisifundo sokuqala umntwana asifundayo ngehlabathi. Le yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yophuhliso lobuntu bomntwana. Xa kusungulwa umanyano oluphilileyo phakathi komama nomntwana , okanye utata nomntwana, umntwana uyaqonda ukuba "eli hlabathi yindawo ekhuselekileyo kum." Kulapho ukuthembana komntwana kuqala khona, nto leyo ayidingayo ebomini.
Ngaba ootata nabo banokuba negalelo koku?
Ewe ngokwenene! Ngokwesiqhelo, oomama baqala ukuziva olu lwalamano ngokukhawuleza, kuba umntwana ungaphakathi kubo. Kodwa kulula kakhulu kootata ukunxibelelana nalo. Kwabanye ootata, olu luvo luthatha ixesha ukuba lufike, kwaye oko kuqhelekile.
Ezona zinto zibalaseleyo onokuzenza ngale nto zezi:
- Ukuya kugqirha kunye nomama.
- Ukujonga imifanekiso ye-ultrasound scan ngomdla.
- Ukubeka isandla sakho esiswini sikamama wakho kwaye ukonwabele iintshukumo zomntwana.
Utata othile, xa intombi yakhe yayisesiswini, wayeyiqamba ingoma encinci aze ayiculele yonke imihla, kufutshane nesisu sakhe. Into emangalisayo kukuba, nasemva kokuba intombi yakhe izelwe, nanini na xa ikhala, xa icula le ngoma, yayiyeka ukukhala ize izole. Kuba umntwana uyalikhumbula elo lizwi, loo ngoma, awayeyiva esesiswini.
Ezinye iindlela ezilula zokunxibelelana nomntwana wakho
Kukho izinto ezilula kakhulu nezintle onokuzenza wena nomyeni wakho ukuqinisa olu lwalamano.
| Indlela | Ungayenza njani loo nto? |
|---|---|
| Ukuthetha nosana | Yithi "Molo mntwana wam" kwangoko nje ukuba uvuke kusasa. Yithi "Molo mntwana wam" ngaphambi kokuba ulale ebusuku. Xelela umntwana wakho ngento oyenzileyo emini. Emva kokuzalwa, umntwana uyakhawuleza ukuliqonda ilizwi likanina. |
| Ukuphulula isisu kunye nokusiphulula | Beka izandla zakho esiswini uze usihlikihle kancinci. Xa umntwana ekhaba, ungadlala umdlalo omncinci ngokucofa kancinci kwindawo leyo. Umntwana uya kusabela kuloo mqolo. Oku kufundisa umntwana ngokuchukumisa abantu. |
| Mamela umculo | Iintsana ziqala ukuva malunga neeveki ezili-18. Uphando lubonisa ukuba iintsana ziyawuthanda umculo weklasikhi ofana noMozart noVivaldi, iingoma zesikolo sabantwana abancinci, okanye umculo osondele kwisantya sentliziyo yonina (malunga ne-60 beats ngomzuzu). Nangona kunjalo, iintsana azaneliswa kakhulu ngumculo werock onomsindo. |
| Ukuhlala uzolile | Xa usoyika okanye uxhalabile, isantya sentliziyo yomntwana wakho sinokuphindaphindeka kabini ngenxa yotshintsho lwehomoni emzimbeni wakho. Ngokufanayo, xa uzolile kwaye wonwabile, nomntwana wakho uya kuzola. Kuqhelekile ukuba nomsindo okanye ube lusizi ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa ukuhlala uxinezelekile kunokuchaphazela ubuntu bomntwana wakho. |
| Ukubhala idayari | Bhala amathemba akho kunye neemvakalelo zakho njengeeleta eziya kumntwana wakho. Bhala phantsi izinto owaziva ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Hayi indlela ekuya kuba mnandi ngayo ukuvumela umntwana wakho azifunde xa ekhula! |
Amandla amangalisayo okuskena nge-ultrasound
I-ultrasound scan yenye yezona ndlela zinamandla zokusondelana nomntwana wakho. Xa ubona umntwana kwiscreen, lowo ubunokumcingela engqondweni yakho, ngaphakathi esiswini sakho, awunakuyichaza loo mvakalelo ngamazwi. Xa ucinga , "Nankuya, ngulo mntwana wam," olo lwalamano luba namandla kakhulu.
Ngobuchwepheshe banamhlanje, akukho ziskeni ze-2D kuphela njengangaphambili, kodwa kukho neziskeni ze-3D kunye ne-4D (ezishukumayo ze-3D). Ngezi skeni zintsha, unokubona ngokucacileyo izidlele zomntwana, ukumunca ubhontsi , ukuvuleka komzimba, kunye neentshukumo ezijikayo. La mava andisa uthando kunye noxanduva lukamama notata kumntwana wabo.
Ungalibali nangempilo yengqondo
Kuko konke oku, kubalulekile ukucinga ngempilo yakho yengqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukudakumba ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunokwenza kube nzima ukusondelana nomntwana wakho. Kukwakho nemeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-postpartum depression, eyenzeka emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe.
Ukuba uziva udiniwe kwaye udiniwe yiyo yonke into, nceda uthethe nogqirha wakho ngayo. Musa ukuyifihla loo nto. Kuba kuphela xa uphilile apho unokwakha olu lwalamano luhle nomntwana wakho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ugqirha wakho uya kukunika unyango olufanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Usana olusesibelekweni sakho luziva uthando lwakho, ilizwi lakho, kunye nokuchukumisa kwakho kakhulu. Yinyani yesayensi.
- Olu lwalamano, olwakhiwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa, lufundisa umntwana ukuba ihlabathi yindawo ekhuselekileyo kwaye luyisiseko sokwakha ukuzithemba kwakhe.
- Njengotata, ungaba yinxalenye yolu lwalamano luhle kwasekuqaleni ngokuthetha nomntwana wakho, uchukumise isisu sakhe, uze uye kuhlolwa.
- Izinto ezilula ezifana nokuthetha nomntwana wakho, ukuphulula isisu sakhe, nokumamela umculo othomalalisayo zinokuluqinisa kakhulu olu lwalamano.
- Ukuba uziva ungakhululekanga ngokweemvakalelo okanye ulusizi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha nogqirha wakho ngaphandle kokuba neentloni ngaloo nto.
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