Isikhokelo sikaTata okhulelweyo sokukhulelwa

Undwendwe olutsha noluncinci luza kuza ebomini bakho kungekudala. Ewe, uza kuba ngutata! Kunye nolo vuyo, kubuya imibuzo emininzi engqondweni, efana nokuthi "Ndenze ntoni ngoku?", "Zithini iimbopheleleko zam?", akunjalo? Ngamanye amaxesha ungaziva usoyika kancinci. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Awuwedwa kolu hambo. Ootata abaninzi banezi mvakalelo. Ngoko ke, masithethe ngendlela yokuba yindoda notata abaxhasayo nabaqondayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa komfazi wakho.

Uxanduva lwakho njengotata

Xa sithetha ngokukhulelwa, ingqalelo yomntu wonke igxile kumama oza kuzala. Wonke umntu uthetha ngotshintsho emzimbeni wakhe, utshintsho lweehomoni, kunye nesimo sakhe sengqondo. Kwaye akukho nto imbi ngaloo nto, kuba nguye othwele umthwalo wale nkqubo yonke. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, njengotata oza kuzala, ungaziva ngathi "Andinamsebenzi nakubani na." Yiloo nto eyenzekayo kubantu abaninzi.

Eyona sisombululo silungileyo koku kukuzibandakanya ngokukhawuleza . Xa ungena kolu hambo kwasekuqaleni, kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu kumfazi wakho kwaye uya kuyeka ukuziva ushiywe ngaphandle. Khumbula, lo ngumdlalo weqela. Indima yakho ibaluleke kakhulu.

Ingaba sikulungele utshintsho ekhaya?

Ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kungekuphela nje umzimba womfazi wakho kodwa nekhaya lakho liqala ukutshintsha kakhulu. Kusenokuba nzima kuye ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya enaniyenza kunye, kodwa ngoku akanakuyenza yedwa. Khawuthelekelele, umfazi wakho, owayehlala ecoca indlu kwaye ecoca igadi, ngoku unengxaki yokugoba ukuze athathe into ethile.

Kwakhona, uza kuqala ukongeza izinto ezininzi ezintsha ekhayeni lakho. Izinto ongazange uzicinge, ezifana nebhedi yomntwana, itafile yokutshintsha, i-nursing rocker, i-bassinet, i-swing, i-stroller, kunye nesihlalo semoto, ziya kongezwa ekhayeni lakho. Ukuba ulungiselela igumbi elahlukileyo lomntwana wakho, ukuhombisa nalo ngumsebenzi omkhulu. Lungela iingxoxo ezinde malunga nezinto ezinje ngokukhetha umbala wodonga kunye nokufanisa amakhethini. Ekubeni oomama abakhulelweyo bengayithandi ivumba lepeyinti, loo msebenzi uza kuba ngowakho ngokupheleleyo. Kusenokufuneka utshintshe umbala kathathu okanye kane. Ngelo xesha, kwenze ngaphandle kokucaphuka, kwaye ukwenze ngoncumo. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu kuye.

Kuza kubakho utshintsho kwigumbi lokulala. Uza kuba nobusuku obuninzi bokungalali ngenxa yokungakhululeki komzimba wakhe. Kuya kufuneka aye kwigumbi lokuhlambela rhoqo. Ngelo xesha, okufuneka ukwenze kukuba nomonde kwaye umvumele ukuba enze njalo. Yenza indawo ebhedini yomqamelo omkhulu asebenzisa wona. Usenokukhetha ukulala esitulweni esingaphantsi kwebhedi. Kwakhona, ukuba utshaya ngaphakathi endlwini, kufuneka uyeke namhlanje . Umsi otshaya umntu wesibini uyingozi kakhulu kumntwana.

Joyina nathi kuhambo oluya ekliniki.

Ngaphambili, bekungaqhelekanga ukuba ootata batyelele ugqirha okanye baye kwigumbi lokubeleka. Kodwa amaxesha ahlukile ngoku. Kwanoogqirha bayayixabisa into yokuba ootata baye ekliniki (iintlanganiso zokhathalelo lwangaphambi kokubeleka). Ngokwesiqhelo, ukuba akukho ngxaki, kukho malunga ne-15 iintlanganiso zekliniki ngeli xesha. Iintsuku zekliniki zihlala zibe kanye ngenyanga ukuya kwiiveki zokuqala ezingama-28, emva koko zibe kathathu ukuya kwezine ukuya kwiiveki ezingama-36, kwaye zibe kanye ngeveki kwinyanga yokugqibela.

Ukuba unako, yiya nomfazi wakho ekliniki yonke imihla, okanye iintsuku ezininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oko kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu kuye. Uya kuqonda ngcono okwenzekayo. Musa ukulibazisa ngakumbi eli xesha limbini lekliniki.

Kwikliniki, izinto ezinje ngokuthatha iisampulu zomchamo negazi, ukujonga ubunzima bakho, ukulinganisa umjikelo wesinqe sakho, kunye nokujonga uxinzelelo lwegazi lakho zihlala zenziwa. Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba umfazi wakho uqala ukukhala emva kwekliniki kuba exhalabile ngokutyeba kwakhe. Luxanduva lwakho ukumqinisekisa ngokuthi, "Hayi, sithandwa, awutyebanga. Kungenxa yomntwana." Kwakhona, ungaziva ungakhululekanga malunga novavanyo lwangaphakathi lwe-pelvic oza kulwenza. Nangona luvavanyo lwezonyango oluqhelekileyo, kuqhelekile ukuba indoda izive ingaqhelekanga xa ibona umfazi wayo esenza loo nto.

Usuku Olukhulu - Ukuzalwa Komntwana (Isiphelo Esibalaseleyo)

Ngexesha elithile, umfazi wakho uza kuyila isicwangciso sakhe sokuzalwa. Oku kuthetha ukuba unesicwangciso sendlela afuna izinto zihambe ngayo xa umntwana ezelwe. Kungabandakanya izinto ezinje ngokuba ufuna umntwana azalelwe phi, ukuba ufuna ukuba nabani, ukuba uza kwenza ntoni ukulawula iintlungu, kunye nokuba uza kuba yintoni indima yakho. Ukuya kwiklasi yokubeleka kunye kunokukunceda ufunde indlela yokumxhasa ngeli xesha.

Xa kufika usuku olukhulu, yonke into ingahamba ngokwesicwangciso, okanye ingatshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Uninzi lwexesha, lulolwesibini. Umama oqalayo ukuzala unokulindela ukuba abeleke malunga neeyure ezili-12-24. Kuya kufuneka ahlale ekhaya iiyure ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba angeniswe esibhedlele. Ngeli xesha, yiba naye kangangoko unako kwaye umncede ahlale ezolile. Xa kufika ixesha, ungoyiki kwaye uye esibhedlele uzolile.

Njengoko intlungu isanda kancinci kancinci, kuba nzima kakhulu ukuyinyamezela. Nokuba usebenzisa amayeza okudambisa iintlungu , kuba buhlungu kakhulu. Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa, kunokubonakala ngathi akukho nto yenzekayo kuwe. Kodwa mnike ingqalelo yakho epheleleyo.

Xa intlungu inganyamezeleki, angakukhalimela aze akuxelele ukuba uphume. Kodwa ungaphumi ngelo xesha. Hlala naye ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni.

Ukuzalwa komntwana wakho sisiganeko esikhulu esitshintsha ubomi bakho. Kodwa nokuba umthanda kwaye umxhasa kangakanani na, awungomlinganiswa ophambili kule drama. Igama lakho libhalwe ngoonobumba abancinci, ezantsi. Kwanomama ukwindima yokuxhasa. Kuba, inkwenkwezi yokwenyani yale bali ngumntwana wakho.