Khawucinge ukuba ugqirha wakho ukuxelele ukuba unomhlaza. Xa uve loo mazwi, kumele ukuba waziva ngathi lonke ihlabathi likuwele. Yayiyimvakalelo engakholelekiyo. Kodwa zingaphi ezinye iimvakalelo ezifika engqondweni ngaxeshanye? Kodwa, emva kwexesha elithile, ufumanisa ukuba ukuxilongwa bekungalunganga, ukuba bekungengomhlaza, okanye ubuncinane kungelulo uhlobo lomhlaza ugqirha awayecinga ngalo ekuqaleni. Enyanisweni, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba ngamava anzima, adidekayo, kwaye othusayo kunokuva ukuba yayingumhlaza ekuqaleni. Namhlanje sithetha ngemeko efana nale.
Kutheni ezi mpazamo zisenzeka ngokwenene?
Ukuchonga umhlaza ngokuchanekileyo ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Esinye isizathu soku kukuba ezinye iintlobo zomhlaza kunzima ukuzifumanisa kunezinye.
Kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zoku.
- Iimhlaza ezingaqhelekanga: Eminye imhlaza ayiqhelekanga kakhulu (`iimhlaza ezingaqhelekanga`). Yiyo loo nto ingafumani ngqwalasela ingako. Kukwakho nophando oluncinci olwenziwayo lokuyixilonga nokuyinyanga. Yiyo loo nto kukho ithuba elikhulu lokwenza impazamo.
- Ubunzima bokubona iiseli: Ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba kumhlaza ongaqhelekanga, kunokuba nzima ukwahlula ngokuchanekileyo phakathi kweeseli zomhlaza kunye neeseli eziphilileyo. Oku kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu kwingcali yezifo ehlola isampuli yezicubu ezithathwe kuwe phantsi kwe-microscope aze abhale ingxelo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni ubone umhlaza apho kungekho mhlaza, kwaye ungabikho apho ukhoyo.
- Ezinye iimeko zonyango: Njengomnye umzekelo, kukho ezinye izifo ezinokubonakala njengomhlaza wemiphunga kwi-X-ray.
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, ukuxilongwa okungafanelekanga kunokuba yingxaki ngokweemvakalelo nangokwezimali. Okubaluleke kakhulu, kunokulibazisa unyango olufanelekileyo olufaneleyo.
Ubungenza ntoni ukuba into enje inokwenzeka kuwe?
Nokuba ugqirha wakho ukuxelela ngenye indlela okanye akunjalo, ukuba unamathandabuzo amancinci malunga nokuxilongwa, eyona nto ibalulekileyo nebalulekileyo onokuyenza kukufumana uluvo lwesibini. Eli lilungelo lakho.
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzikhumbule apha. Masiziqonde kakuhle.
| Oko kufuneka ukwazi malunga nokufumana uluvo lwesibini | |
|---|---|
| Ixesha lokufumana uluvo lwesibini | |
| Ukuba ugqirha wakho akaqinisekanga ngohlobo lomhlaza okanye ukuba usasazeke kangakanani. | Ngaba uvakalelwa kukuba ugqirha akaqondi ngokupheleleyo ubunzulu besifo sakho? |
| Ukuba unohlobo olungaqhelekanga lomhlaza. | Ukuba ugqirha okunyangayo akangongcali kuhlobo lwakho lomhlaza. |
| Ukuba ucinga ukuba kusenokubakho ezinye iindlela zonyango zoku. | |
| Izinto ekufuneka zikhunjulwe ngeli xesha lenkqubo | |
| Vula kwaye uthembeke kubo bonke oogqirha abakunyangayo, nokuba ngubani onokwenza isigqibo esibi. Buza nayiphi na imibuzo onayo. | Gcina zonke iirekhodi: Gcina iikopi zazo zonke iirekhodi zakho zonyango, ingakumbi iingxelo zezifo kunye neengxelo zokungeniswa esibhedlele. |
| Unxibelelwano phakathi koogqirha: Ukuba oogqirha bakho banezimvo ezahlukeneyo, bacele ukuba bathethe omnye nomnye ngemeko yakho. | Funa uluvo lwesibini: Ukuba kuyimfuneko, ungoyiki ukufuna uluvo lwesibini, ingakumbi ukuba uxilongo lwahlukile. Zama ukufumana oluchanekileyo. |
Ndingafumana uncedo lokuhlala ndomelele engqondweni?
Ewe, ewe. Kuqhelekile ukuziva wothukile, uloyiko, udidekile, kwaye unomsindo xa ufumanisa ukuba uxilongo lwakho lokuqala belungachanekanga. Imibuzo efana nokuthi "Ndimthemba bani ngoku?" kunye nokuthi "Kutheni oku kwenzeke kum?" inokuvela engqondweni. Olu luxinzelelo olukhulu.
Musa ukubandezeleka wedwa ngexesha elinje.
- Thetha nabantu obathandayo: usapho lwakho, iqabane lakho, abahlobo bakho abasenyongweni.Ukuthetha ngale nto kuya kuba namandla amakhulu kuwe. Ukwabelana ngomthwalo osengqondweni yakho kuya kukuzisela isiqabu esikhulu.
- Funa uncedo lweengcali: Kukho abacebisi abaqeqeshiweyo abanokukunceda ngeli xesha linzima. Ungabuza ugqirha wakho ngabo.
- Amaqela eNkxaso: Ezinye izibhedlele ezinkulu eSri Lanka, ingakumbi iiyunithi zonyango lomhlaza, zinamaqela enkxaso yezigulane zomhlaza kunye neentsapho zazo. Ukuba ungajoyina elinye, uya kuba nethuba lokuthetha nabantu abaye baba namava afana nawe. Kuya kukwenza uzive ngathi awuwedwa.
Kunokuba nzima ukwazi ukuba umbono wakho wokuqala wawungalunganga. Kodwa zininzi iindlela zokukunceda ufumane uxilongo olufanelekileyo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuhlala uqinile kwaye uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuxilongwa ngendlela engafanelekanga komhlaza yinto ebangela uxinzelelo nedidayo. Kodwa inokwenzeka. Ungakhathazeki.
- Inyathelo elibalulekileyo onokulithatha ngexesha elinje kukufumana uluvo lwesibini. Ukuba unamathandabuzo amancinci, musa ukucinga kabini ngokukwenza oko.
- Gcina iikopi zazo zonke iirekhodi zakho zonyango, ingakumbi iingxelo zezifo, ngendlela ehlelekileyo nekhuselekileyo.
- Thetha ngokukhululekileyo noogqirha bakho. Ungoyiki ukubuza imibuzo. Kufuneka uyiqonde kakuhle imeko yakho.
- Impilo yakho yengqondo ibaluleke kakhulu. Musa ukuthwala imithwalo yakho wedwa. Thetha nabantu obathembayo. Funa uncedo lweengcali ukuba kuyimfuneko.
💬 Comments (0)
Akukho zimvo zithunyelweyo okwangoku. Faka uluvo lwakho apha okokuqala.
Faka uluvo lwakho