Ndiyayiqonda indlela oziva ngayo xa ugqirha wakho ekuxelela ukuba umama wakho, utata wakho, okanye umntu omthandayo unesifo i-Alzheimer's. Kungavakala ngathi kungaphaya kwamandla akho kwaye kuyadida, ngokungathi ihlabathi lakho lonke liwile ngequbuliso. Usenokuba uzibuza, "Ndenze ntoni ngoku?" "Kuqale phi konke oku?" Kuqhelekile kakhulu. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa. Eli nqaku limalunga nokukunceda kule ndlela kwaye likomeleze.
Isifo sika-Alzheimer sisifo esiqhubekekayo. Ekuqaleni, usenokuba nokulahlekelwa yinkumbulo nokudideka. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, unokufuna uncedo ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba nesicwangciso sokuthatha olu xanduva lutsha. Makhe sibone indlela yokwenza eso sicwangciso.
Inyathelo Lokuqala: Masakhe Iqela Elilungileyo
Olu luxanduva olukhulu. Musa ukuthwala lo mthwalo wedwa. Asinto onokuyenza. Ngoko ke, qokelela iqela elincinci lamalungu osapho, abahlobo abasondeleyo, kunye nabantu onokubathemba ukuba bakuncede.
Khawucinge nje, udadewenu angathetha nawe yonke imihla. Umnakwenu angakuzisela ukutya. Umhlobo wakho osenyongweni angakunika ikhefu kanye ngeveki aze achithe ixesha nomntu omthandayo. Cinga ngamandla, ubuthathaka, kunye neminye imisebenzi yomntu wonke uze wabelane ngomsebenzi. Xa wabelana ngomsebenzi ngale ndlela, uya kuziva ukhululekile kakhulu.
Inyathelo lesiBini: Masiqonde ubomi bemihla ngemihla
Jonga kakuhle imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla yomntu omthandayo. Qonda kakuhle into abanokuyenza bodwa kunye nento abafuna uncedo ngayo. Ungafumana uncedo koogqirha kunye neengcali zokulungisa imeko yempilo.
Jonga le theyibhile ingezantsi. Jonga ukuba zingakanani na kwezi zinto anokuzenza eyedwa.
| Imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla | Fumana ukuba ufuna uncedo na. |
|---|---|
| Ukupheka nokutya | Ngaba uyayiqwalasela into yokhuseleko xa usebenzisa igesi kunye nezitovu? Ngaba utya ngexesha? |
| Ukuhlamba, ukucoca umzimba, ukuya kwindlu yangasese | Ndingahlamba ndedwa? Ngaba kukho umngcipheko wokutyibilika nokuwa? |
| Ukunxiba | Ungakhetha kwaye unxibe iimpahla ezifanelekileyo? |
| Ukuhambahamba nokuhambahamba | Ngaba uyawa rhoqo? Ngaba udinga uncedo xa uhamba? |
| Intlawulo yebhili kunye nolawulo lwemali | Ngaba uyazilibala izinto ezifana nokubala imali nokuhlawula amatyala ngexesha? |
| Ukuthatha amayeza ngexesha | Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngaba amayeza akho uwathatha ngexesha elifanelekileyo? Okanye ngaba kufuneka ulungiselele ibhokisi yamayeza? |
| Umsebenzi Wasekhaya | Ngaba ungenza izinto ezifana nokucoca indlu kunye neyadi? |
Inyathelo Lesithathu: Faka Imbali Yezonyango Kwifayile
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ziziphi ezinye izifo umntu omthandayo anazo? Ngawaphi amayeza awasebenzisayo? Ngoobani oogqirha abamnyangayo? Ngawaphi ama-allergies anawo? Ngaba uyazazi zonke ii-operation zakhe zangaphambili, unyango, kunye neengxelo zovavanyo?
Ukuba awuyazi, qala ukuqokelela konke oku uze wenze ifayile enkulu namhlanje. Ngoku ekubeni yonke into ikwikhompyutha, yenza ifayile kwikhompyutha yakho enalo lonke olu lwazi.
Kwakhona, gcina ikopi yaloo fayile kwi- thumb drive (pen drive) nawe. Oku kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu ukuba kuya kufuneka uye kwi-Emergency Treatment Unit (ETU) xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo. Kwakhona, udinga imvume yesigulana ukuze ufumane ulwazi lwabo lwezonyango. Ke ngoko, ukuba kukho imeko kwixesha elizayo apho bengenakukwazi ukwenza izigqibo, thetha nogqirha wakho malunga nokudala uxwebhu olusemthethweni (`Health Care Proxy`) olukunika amandla okwenza izigqibo zonyango.
Inyathelo Lesine: Lungiselela imiba yezemali nezomthetho
Oku kungaba ngumbandela obalulekileyo, njengoko imali inokuba ngumthombo wengxabano kwiintsapho. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukucinga ngekamva kwaye uzilungiselele ezi zinto.
Ezemali
Njengoko inkumbulo yesigulana isiya isiba mandundu, kunokuba nzima ukufumana iinkcukacha ngezinto ezifana neeakhawunti zebhanki, utyalo-mali kunye nokonga. Ngoko ke, qokelela iinkcukacha malunga noku kulandelayo:
- Iinombolo zeakhawunti yebhanki
- Utyalo-mali kunye nezabelo (izabelo zotyalo-mali)
- Imigaqo-nkqubo ye-inshorensi
- Iiasethi zizonke
- Amatyala angekahlawulwa
- Iindleko eziqhubekayo
Ukuze wenze oku, umntu omthandayo angakunika igunya lakhe lokwenza izigqibo zemali. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-"Durable Power of Attorney". Ungaqhagamshelana negqwetha malunga noku.
Isicwangciso sezomthetho
- I-Will: Fumana ikopi yamva nje ye-will yabo. Ukuba ayikagqitywa, okanye ukuba kufuneka ihlaziywe, yenza njalo ngokukhawuleza. Kubalulekile ukwenza oku ngelixa isigulana sisakwazi ukwenza izigqibo.
- I -Living Will: Le ikwayixwebhu elisemthethweni. "I-Living Will" yixwebhu elibhaliweyo elichaza ukuba loluphi unyango olufanele lunikwe umntu xa egula kakhulu aze angakwazi ukuveza iminqweno yakhe. Ungaxoxa ngale nto nogqirha wakho kunye negqwetha ukuze nithathe izigqibo.
Inyathelo lesihlanu: Gcina amaxwebhu abaluleke kakhulu kwindawo enye ekhuselekileyo
Oku kufana nokukhangela ubutyebi. Kodwa onke la maxwebhu aya kuba abaluleke kakhulu kuwe kwixesha elizayo. Wafumane onke, uwafake kwifayile, kwaye uwagcine kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, njengesefu yebhanki (ibhokisi yedipozithi ekhuselekileyo).
| Uhlobo loxwebhu | Kutheni oku kubalulekile? |
|---|---|
| Isatifikethi sokuzalwa, iKhadi leSizwe leSazisi | Ngeenjongo zomthetho nokuqinisekisa ubuwena. |
| Isatifiketi somtshato | Kwizinto eziphathekayo kunye nemicimbi yezomthetho. |
| Izihloko zeemoto, amaxwebhu omhlaba | Ukuqinisekisa ubunini bepropathi. |
| Uluhlu lweeakhawunti zebhanki, iinombolo ze-ATM/zekhadi letyala | Ulawulo lwemali. |
| Iipolisi zeinshorensi (Impilo, i-inshorensi yobomi) | Ukufumana iindleko zonyango kunye nezinye izibonelelo. |
| Zonke iirekhodi zonyango | Ukucwangcisa unyango lwezonyango kwaye xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo. |
| Amaxwebhu asemthethweni anje ngelifa lokugqibela kunye nesivumelwano, iGunya loMmeli, njl. | Ukwenziwa kwezigqibo kwixesha elizayo kunye nolawulo lwepropathi. |
Ukuba uzama ukwenza konke oku ngaxeshanye, uya kuziva udiniwe. Ngoko ke, yenza le misebenzi nganye nganye, nganye nganye. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzinyamekela wena kunye nomntu omthandayo. Phumla ufumane umntu onokuthetha naye ngeemvakalelo zakho. Kuphela xa unamandla apho uya kukwazi ukunceda umntu omthandayo ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive ukhathazekile kwaye ulusizi xa ufumanisa ukuba umntu omthandayo unesifo i-Alzheimer's. Kodwa khumbula ukuba awuwedwa.
- Musa ukuthatha olu xanduva wedwa. Cela uncedo kusapho nakubahlobo abathembekileyo, kwaye sebenzani njengeqela.
- Yenza isicwangciso esicacileyo senkqubo yemihla ngemihla yesigulana, ulwazi lwezonyango, ezezimali, kunye nemicimbi yezomthetho.
- Qokelela onke amaxwebhu abalulekileyo uze ugcine ifayile yekhompyutha kunye nekopi yayo kwi-thumb drive ukuze igcinwe ngokukhuselekileyo. Oku kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo.
- Ngelixa unyamekela umntu omthandayo, nawe zikhathalele. Kubalulekile ukunyamekela impilo yakho yomzimba neyengqondo.
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