Kule mihla, njengoko abazali abaninzi besebenza ixesha elizeleyo, ukufumana umntu wokunyamekela umntwana omncinci ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Ngoko ke, kwabaninzi, isisombululo esingcono kukuthumela umntwana wabo kwiziko lokugcina abantwana. Nangona kunjalo, umbuzo omkhulu oza engqondweni yethu ngulo, 'Ngaba umntwana wam uya kuhlala egula xa eya apho?' Olu luloyiko olufanelekileyo. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masithethe ngento ekufuneka siyiqwalasele xa sithumela umntwana kwiziko lokugcina abantwana ngenxa yempilo nokhuseleko lwakhe.
Ngaba ngokwenene kunokwenzeka ukuba ugule xa usiya kwindawo yokugcina abantwana?
Ngamafutshane, ewe. Xa umntwana omncinci eqala ukuya kwindawo yokugcina abantwana, ingakumbi ukuba ungaphantsi kweminyaka emibini ubudala, usenokuba namathuba amaninzi okufumana izifo zokuphefumla ezifana nomkhuhlane kunye nokukhwehlela. Oku kungenxa yokuba amajoni omzimba abantwana abancinci, okanye amandla okulwa nezifo, awakakhuli ngokupheleleyo. Ekubeni bekwindawo yokugcina abantwana abaninzi, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba basasaze esi sifo kwabanye.
Kodwa musani ukoyika emva kokuva oku. Oogqirha bathi ngenxa yezinye izifo ezenzeka ebuntwaneni, amasosha omzimba omntwana ayaqina kwaye anokukhuselwa kwizifo ezinzulu kwixesha elizayo. Kodwa uphando lusaqhubeka ngale nto. Ngoko ke, endaweni yokukhathazeka ngayo, eyona nto ingcono ekufuneka yenziwe kukuthatha amanyathelo afunekayo ukukhusela umntwana wethu kwizifo eziyingozi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngenxa yoku, kufuneka siqonde kakuhle imigaqo-nkqubo kunye neenkqubo zenkathalelo yasemini esithumela umntwana wethu kuyo.
Zeziphi iipolisi zempilo ekufuneka zibe khona kwindawo yokugcina abantwana emini?
Ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe indawo yokugcina abantwana emini yomntwana wakho, phanda ngononophelo imigaqo-nkqubo yakhe yezempilo. Ezi zezona zinto zibalulekileyo.
| Umgaqo-nkqubo | Oko kufuneka ukuqaphele |
|---|---|
| Ugonyo | Naliphi na icandelo lokunyamekela abantwana elilungileyo kufuneka licele iirekhodi zokugonya komntwana wakho. Unelungelo lokubuza ukuba abasebenzi kunye nabanye abantwana abasebenza apho banolwazi olupheleleyo ngazo zonke izitofu ezifunekayo. Ukuba icandelo lokunyamekela abantwana liqhutywa ekhayeni, kubalulekile ukubuza malunga nokugonya kwabanye abantu ekhayeni. |
| Ukugxothwa komntwana ogulayo | Bafanele babe nomgaqo-nkqubo ocacileyo nobhaliweyo malunga nokungamkeli abantwana abagulayo kwindawo yokugcina abantwana. Umntwana onesifo sorhudo (umkhuhlane wesisu), onengxaki yokuphefumla, okanye onomkhuhlane kufuneka agcinwe kude nabanye abantwana. Kungumbono olungileyo ukuba nendawo ecebisa ukuba umntwana onomkhuhlane agcinwe ekhaya. |
| Ukunyanzeliswa koMgaqo-nkqubo | Akwanelanga ukuba nomgaqo-nkqubo encwadini, kodwa nokujonga ukuba usetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo na. Ngamanye amaxesha, le mithetho ingasetyenziswa kancinci kwiindawo zokugcina abantwana emakhaya kunakwiziko elikhulu. Umzekelo, banokumkela umntwana ogula kancinci xa bemshiya kusasa. Ngoko ke, thetha nomphathi weendawo zokugcina abantwana ngale nto kwaye uqinisekise ukuba bayilandela kangakanani le mithetho. |
Ucoceko yeyona nto ibalulekileyo!
Ucoceko yeyona ndlela ilungileyo nelula yokukhusela umntwana kwizifo. Nika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwezi zinto xa usiya kwindawo yokugcina abantwana.
- Izixhobo zokuhlamba izandla: Okukhona kukho izitya zokuhlamba izandla ezininzi, kokukhona zingcono. Ingcinga elungileyo kukuba kubekho isinki enye kufutshane netafile ye-diaper, isinki eyahlukileyo yokuhlamba izandla zabantwana, kunye nesinki enye ekhitshini yokuhlamba izitya.
- Ukuhlamba izandla ngendlela efanelekileyo: Kungumbono olungileyo ukuba umntwana wakho ahlambe izandla zakhe kwangoko xa ephuma kwindawo yokugcina abantwana. Oku kuya kunciphisa kakhulu umngcipheko weentsholongwane ezivela ngaphandle ukuba zingene ngaphakathi. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba uhlamba izandla zakhe emva kokudlala, ngaphambi kokutya, nasemva kokusebenzisa indlu yangasese.
Khumbula, ucoceko oluhle lolunye lwezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekukhuliseni impilo yomntwana.
Qiniseka ukuba ucinge nangokhuseleko lomntwana.
Enye into ebalulekileyo, kunye nempilo, kukhuseleko lomntwana. Lumka nangezi zinto.
Ukuhlolwa kwemvelaphi
Qinisekisa ukuba uhlolo lwemvelaphi luyenziwa kubo bonke abasebenzi abasebenza kwindawo yokugcina abantwana, kwaye ukuba yindawo esekhaya, kuye wonke umntu osekhaya. Oku kubalulekile kukhuseleko lomntwana.
Inkqubo Yokuthabatha Ekhuselekileyo
Ukuba awukwazi ukuhamba nomntwana wakho ngosuku ongakwaziyo ukuhamba naye, buza ngamanyathelo okhuseleko akhoyo. Umzekelo, ukuba waziswa kwangaphambili, unikwe ikopi yesazisi saloo mntu, kwaye umntwana unikezelwa kuye kuphela, oku kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukulala Ngokukhuselekileyo Kweentsana
Ukuba uthumela usana kwindawo yokugcina abantwana, le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyazi. Soloko uqinisekisa ukuba iintsana zilaliswa ngomqolo . Oku kunokunciphisa kakhulu umngcipheko we-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). Ukulalisa usana ngesisu okanye ngecala kuyingozi kakhulu.
Okokugqibela, ngaphezu kwako konke, yithembe indlela oziva ngayo ngaphakathi. Ukuba uziva ungakhululekanga okanye ungaqinisekanga xa usiya kwindawo yokugcina abantwana, thetha nabo ngokukhululekileyo ngaloo nto. Kodwa ukuba awuziva ulungile, kungcono ukufumana enye indawo efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho. Kuba oko umama okanye utata akuvakalelwayo ngomntwana wabo kudla ngokuba kulungile.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ngaphambi kokuba uthumele umntwana kwindawo yokugcina abantwana, cela ulwazi olubhaliweyo malunga nemigaqo-nkqubo yabo yokugonya kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo yokungamkeli abantwana abagulayo.
- Jonga ngononophelo ucoceko lwale ndawo, ingakumbi iindawo zokuhlamba izandla.
- Qinisekisa ukuba abasebenzi bahlolwe imvelaphi yabo kwaye kukho indlela ekhuselekileyo yokumthatha umntwana.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uselusana, qiniseka ukuba uhlala elele ngomqolo . Oku kunciphisa umngcipheko we-SIDS.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye uxhalabile ngento ethile, ungayityesheli. Thetha nabagcini bakho okanye ucinge ngenye indlela.
- Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nempilo yomntwana wakho, thetha nogqirha wakho ngoko nangoko.
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