Ukuba ulwa nomhlaza
webele , ungaziva udiniwe kwaye udiniwe ngamanye amaxesha. Xa ungakwazi ukonwaba nosapho lwakho njengoko ubusenza ngaphambili ngenxa
yeziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zonyango, ungaziva ulusizi kwaye uzibuze, "Ngaba ndiza kutshabalalisa ulonwabo lwabo ngenxa yam?" Kodwa ungacingi ngolo hlobo. Okubalulekileyo kusapho lwakho, ingakumbi abantwana bakho, asikokuba uhamba nabo kwiihambo ezinkulu okanye wenze izinto ezinkulu. Kukuba ulapho ngenxa yabo. Namhlanje, masithethe ngeendlela ezilula nezintle zokuchitha ixesha nosapho lwakho ngendlela eyonwabisayo neyothando, kwanangala maxesha anzima.
Eyona nto iphambili kukugcina izinto zilula.
Le yeyona mfihlo ibalulekileyo. Akufuneki ucebe izinto ezinkulu. Oogqirha abanyanga izigulane ezinomhlaza, kunye nabo bajongene nesi sifo, bathetha into efanayo:
"Abantwana bakho bafuna nje ukuchitha ixesha nawe." Xa uphantsi
konyango lomhlaza olufana ne-'(
chemotherapy )', ukucwangcisa uhambo olukhulu kunye namatheko kunokuba yingxaki nangakumbi kuwe. Endaweni yoko, zininzi iindlela zokonwaba ekhaya, ukhululekile ekhayeni lakho, ngezinto ezincinci. Cinga ngayo, umntwana wakho ufuna ukudlala nawe, hayi de umse kwindawo engcono emhlabeni. Ubukho bakho bothando yeyona nto ixabisekileyo kubo.
Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi ezi zinto zilula nezinothando.
Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzenza nosapho lwakho ezilula ukuzenza kodwa eziya kukunika amava axabisekileyo.
| Umsebenzi | Iingenelo kunye nendlela yokwenza oko |
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| Ukuzoba kunye nomsebenzi wobuchule | Ngosuku apho ungadinwanga kakhulu, zoba uze ufake imibala nabantwana bakho. Ungakwenza oku ekhaya ngokuzisa ii-canvas ezimbalwa ezincinci kunye neepeyinti ezivela evenkileni. Oku kuzisa uxolo olukhulu engqondweni. Ungahlala esitulweni uze ujoyine abantwana bakho. Iinkumbulo ozidalayo ngezi zidalwa ziya kuhlala ngonaphakade. |
| Khetha amaxesha angabi maninzi kangako. | Xa unyangwa umhlaza, ingakumbi i-chemotherapy okanye unyango lwe-radiation, amasosha omzimba wakho anokubuthathaka. Oku kuthetha ukuba usengozini enkulu yokugula. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuphepha iindawo ezinabantu abaninzi. Ukuba kufuneka uhambe uhambo olufutshane, khetha ixesha elingaxinananga kangako, njengaphakathi evekini, kusasa okanye emva kwemini. Umzekelo, eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuya elunxwemeni okanye epakini. |
| Masipheke kunye. | I-chemotherapy ngamanye amaxesha inokutshintsha incasa yokutya kwaye ikwenze ulahlekelwe ngumdla wokutya. Ngoko ke kunokuba ngamava amahle ukulungiselela ukutya okutsha nokunempilo nabantwana bakho. Yabela imisebenzi emincinci efana nokuhlamba imifuno kunye nokwenza isaladi. Oku kuya kubanika imvakalelo yoxanduva kwaye kuqinise ubudlelwane benu. Ukuba ukupheka kunzima, ungafumana izithako ezifunekayo eziziswa ekhayeni lakho ngenkonzo yokubhalisa ibhokisi yokutya. |
| Masichithe ixesha elithile nendalo. | Imithi nendalo ziyazola kakhulu. Ukuba unako, hlala esitulweni emyezweni ufunde incwadi, okanye ubukele abantwana bakho bedlala. Okanye, yiya epakini okanye echibini elikufutshane uchithe ixesha elithile apho. Ukuya elunxwemeni ngokuhlwa nokubukela ilanga litshona nako kukwenza uphumle kakhulu. Oku akudingi mandla angako. |
| Masibukele i-cinema sisegcekeni. | Le yingcinga emnandi kakhulu. Ebusuku, beka umata ebaleni lakho uze ubukele imuvi kwilaptop yakho okanye kwiprojektha encinci. Akukho zihlwele, imigca yamatikiti, okanye ingxinano yezithuthi njengakwiiholo zecinema. Ungalungisa ukutya kwakho okuthandayo kunye neziselo ekhaya kwaye wonwabele la mava ngokukhululeka. |
Cinga nangokhuseleko lwakho.
Nokuba wenza ntoni na, ukunyamekela impilo yakho kufanele kube yeyona nto iphambili kuwe.
- Ukuba ugqirha wakho ukuxelele ukuba amasosha omzimba wakho aphantsi, musa ukuya kwiindawo ezinabantu abaninzi nangasiphi na isizathu.
- Ukuba uphuma, nxiba imaski yobuso kwaye uhlambe izandla zakho rhoqo.
- Ukuba uziva udiniwe, phumla. Musa ukunyanzela umzimba wakho.
- Ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga nokuba umsebenzi ocinga ukuwuthatha ufanelekile na kwimeko yakho yempilo, soloko uqhagamshelana nogqirha wakho.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo: ayikokugqibelela, bubukho bakho nabo.
Okokugqibela, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule yile. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo. Usenokungakwazi nokuvuka ebhedini ngezinye iintsuku. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Kuhle ukukwazi ukubamba umntwana kufutshane nawe, uthethe naye, kwaye umamele into ayithethayo.
Abantwana bafuna ukuba ube lapho ngenxa yabo ngaphezu kokuba befuna ukuba wenze izinto ezinkulu. Bafuna ukuba uve uthando lwabo. Lunamandla kakhulu kunokuba becinga. Ukuba bayazi ukuba uyabathanda, baza kuphila.
Eli dabi lokulwa nomhlaza linzima, kodwa awuwedwa. Usapho lwakho lolona mandla akho amakhulu. Izinto ezincinci zothando ezinje ngezi ziya kukunceda wakhe loo mandla nangakumbi.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Cwangcisa imisebenzi nosapho lwakho ngexesha lonyango lomhlaza ukuze kube lula kwaye kungabikho xinzelelo kangangoko kunokwenzeka . Into ebalulekileyo kukuba kunye.
- Ukuba inkqubo yakho yomzimba yokuzikhusela ibuthathaka (amajoni omzimba acinezelekile), ziphephe iindawo ezixineneyo ngokupheleleyo. Beka ukhuseleko lwakho kwindawo yokuqala.
- Ukubandakanya abantwana kwimisebenzi yasekhaya yemihla ngemihla, efana nokupheka, kuyabomeleza ulwalamano lwentsapho kwaye kubanika ulwazelelelo.
- Musa ukulindela ukugqibelela kuwe. Ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukuthatha ikhefu. Ubukho bakho sesona sipho sixabisekileyo kusapho lwakho.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ucwangcise nawuphi na umsebenzi, thetha nogqirha wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyafaneleka kwimeko yakho yempilo yangoku.
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