Ingaba umntwana wakho oneenyanga ezisi-8 ukuya kwezili-12 uzama ukuthetha? (Uphuhliso loNxibelelwano loMntwana) Masifumanise!

Umntwana wakho omncinci, ophakathi kweenyanga ezisi-8 ukuya kwezili-12 ubudala, ngoku uqala ukunxibelelana nehlabathi, akunjalo? Ngeli xesha, ubuchule bakhe bokuthetha, oko kukuthi, indlela yakhe yokunxibelelana nabanye, bukhula ngesantya esimangalisayo. Ngamanye amaxesha uzibuza, 'Ngaba uza kuyiqonda into endiyithethayo?' Namhlanje, siza kuthetha ngezakhono zolwimi zaba bantwana kunye nendlela onokubanceda ngayo.

"Nithetha" njani nathi, bantwana?

Xa befikelela kwiinyanga ezi-8, 9, 10, 11, okanye ezili-12 ubudala, umntwana wakho mhlawumbi uza kuqala ukubiza amagama obukade uwalindele, anje ngo-'mama' no-'dada'. Kodwa endaweni yokuwabiza ngokuvakalayo, aza kuqala ngezandi ezifana no-'mamamama' no-'daadada'. Kufana nokuba bafunda ukubiza amagama. Oku sikubiza ngokuba 'kukubhibhidla' . Bathanda ukubiza oonobumba abafana no-'babababa' no-'mamamama' ngokulandelelana. Xa uthi 'mama' okanye 'daada' baze bancume kwaye bonwabe, baza kuqonda kancinci ukuba 'ah... esi sisandi abasithanda kakhulu.' Kulapho ke kudibana khona elo gama naloo mntu. Khawuthelekelele, ukuba uthi 'daada' baze bajonge uyise, kuthetha ukuba baqalile ukunxulumanisa elo gama noyise.

Ayipheleli apho, banxibelelana nathi ngolwimi lomzimba nangaphambi kokuba amagama afike.

• Ndiyakuphakamisela isandla ndithi 'Tata', akunjalo?
• Ukuba into awuyithandi, ushukumisa intloko yakho ukusuka kwelinye icala ukuya kwelinye.
• Baphakamisa izandla zabo ukuze bambambe.
• Bayancuma kamnandi xa bonwabile, bayalila xa belusizi, bazenze ubuso xa benomsindo, baze bavule amehlo abo xa bemangalisiwe. Zonke ezi ziindlela abazama ukukuxelela into ethile.

Ngeli xesha, bayawaphulaphula amazwi owathethayo nezinto ozenzayo. Bazama konke okusemandleni abo ukukuxelisa . Ngoko ke, kufuneka ulumke kancinci ngento oyithethayo namagama owasebenzisayo, akunjalo? Kuba babamba yonke into!

Ungazi njani ukuba umntwana wakho uyayiqonda into oyithethayo?

Ngamanye amaxesha ungazibuza, 'Ngaba uyayiqonda ngokwenene into endiyithethayo?' Ewe, kule minyaka, bayaqonda ngaphezu kokuba becinga. Jonga ukuba ezi zinto ziyenzeka na:

• Xa ubuza, 'Uphi uTata?', ngaba umntwana ujonge kwicala apho uTata akhoyo?
• Xa uyikhomba uthi, "Iphi ibhola?" ingaba ikhasa iye kwicala elo?
• Ngaba uyakujonga xa usithi igama lakhe?
• Xa uthi 'Hayi!' uqine kancinci, ngaba uyayeka okomzuzwana okomzuzwana? Okanye uyakujonga?

Izinto ezinje zinokukunceda uqonde ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ukuqonda izinto ezilula ozithethayo. Ayisiyonto imnandi leyo?

Yintoni onokuyenza ukuphucula izakhono zokuthetha zomntwana wakho?

Ungenza okuninzi ukuphuhlisa izakhono zolwimi zomntwana wakho. Akunzima kangako. Kulula kakhulu. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukunxibelelana nomntwana wakho rhoqo .

Soloko uthetha, ucula iingoma, ufunda iincwadi!

Thetha nomntwana wakho rhoqo.Mxelele ngezinto ozenzayo, ozithethayo, nozibonayo. Izinto ezilula ezifana nokuthi 'Umama uza kupheka ngoku', 'Khangela, kukho intaka entle ngaphandle'. Phinda kwakhona izandi azenzayo ezifana nokuthi 'mna' kunye nokuthi 'tata'. Sebenzisa amagama alula.

• Buza, 'Iphi indebe?' uze umcele ukuba ayibonise.
• Khomba ibhola uze ubuze, "Yintoni le?" Linda umzuzwana ngaphambi kokuba aphendule. Emva kwexesha elithile, uza kuqala ukuthetha into efana nethi "Bo..." okanye ayikhombe.

Ukucula iingoma kuhle kakhulu. Bathanda isingqisho namagama eengoma. Cula iingoma ngelixa uqhwaba izandla kwaye ushukumisa izandla zakho. Kugcina ingqalelo yabo kwaye kwenza ukufunda ulwimi kube mnandi.

Lebhelisha Yonke Into

Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Mfundise ukuba yonke into ayibonayo nayisebenzisayo inegama layo. Kufana nokubhala iilebhile .

• Xa umtyisa ubisi kusasa, yithi 'lubisi olu', kwaye xa esiya kulala ebusuku, khomba iteddy yakhe uthi 'luyiteddy olu'.
• Xela yonke into engaphakathi endlwini - isitulo, itafile, izinto zokudlala, ukutya.

Yenza oku kube ngamava omzimba wonke .

• Bamba uzwane emlenzeni womntwana uze uthi, "Lo nguzwane."
• Khomba indlebe yakho uze uthi, 'Le yindlebe kamama' (okanye 'indlebe katata').

Xa uthetha naye , mjonge ebusweni . Emva koko uya kukwazi ukubona ubuso bakho kunye nokunyakaza kwemilebe yakho. Oku kunceda kakhulu ekufundeni amagama.

Masiziqhelise amagama ngemidlalo!

Yenza amagama okufunda abe ngumdlalo. Xela iingoma zabantwana abancinci , imibongo emifutshane, njl. Amagama aphindaphindwayo kunye nesingqisho kwezi zinto anokuqondwa lula ngabo.

• Yongeza izimbo zomzimba. Xa uthi 'Twinkle Twinkle Little Star', yenza imo yenkwenkwezi ngezandla zakho.
• Cula ingoma ngesantya esahlukileyo kunye namanqanaba esandi ukuze ugcine ingqalelo yabo.

Iintsana ziyaluthanda olu hlobo lolwimi oludlalayo .

Masifunde iincwadi ezinemifanekiso emikhulu

Jonga iincwadi zemifanekiso ezinkulu nezinemibala kunye nomntwana wakho. Mkhuthaze ukuba atyhile amaphepha ngokwakhe.

• Xa ubuza imibuzo, mvumele 'afunde' aze 'aphendule'. Khawuthelekelele ukuba ukhomba ikati encwadini uze ubuze 'Ngubani lo?' aze athi 'Pooh...', yinto enkulu leyo.
• Thetha ngezinto ezikwimifanekiso. Thetha izinto ezinje, 'Jonga iindlebe ezinkulu zale nja', 'Le ntyatyambo ibomvu'.

Amaxesha apho kufuneka ucinge kancinci (Ufanele uye nini kugqirha?)

Ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo. Abanye abantwana baqala ukuthetha kwangethuba, abanye baqale ukuthetha kamva. Yindlela eqhelekileyo leyo. Nangona kunjalo, usenokuba nexhala elikhulu malunga nokukwazi komntwana wakho ukuthetha okanye ukuba uyava na.Ukuba kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho okanye ugqirha wabantwana.

Ngokwesiqhelo, xa beneminyaka eli-12 ubudala (unyaka omnye), uninzi lweentsana luya kube lusenza oku kulandelayo:

• Bayaqonda xa usithi 'hayi' (basenokuyeka okomzuzwana okomzuzwana, okanye bakujonge).
• Benza izandi ezahlukeneyo ezifana no-'mammammamma' kunye no-'babababa'.
• Ukuwangawangisa ukuze athi 'Tata'.
• Babiza umama wabo ngokuthi 'Mama' noyise ngokuthi 'Tata' (okanye naliphi na igama elikhethekileyo abalisebenzisayo).

Kubalulekile: Oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana ngamnye kufuneka enze zonke ezi zinto xa eneenyanga ezili-12. Kunokubakho utshintsho oluncinci. Kodwa ukuba ubona umahluko omkhulu okanye ukulibaziseka, kungcono ukubonana nogqirha. Banokumhlola umntwana wakho baze bakuxelele ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle na.

Ngoko ke, nazi ezinye izinto abazali abafanele bazikhumbule! (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Ngoko ke, sithethe kakhulu ngeli xesha limnandi xa intetho yomntwana wakho ikhula phakathi kweenyanga ezisi-8 nezili-12, akunjalo? Ukushwankathela:

• Ingqalelo yakho yeyona nto ibalulekileyo: Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphuhlisa izakhono zolwimi zomntwana wakho kukuthetha naye rhoqo, udlale naye, kwaye umculele iingoma.
• Isandi ngasinye, isenzo ngasinye sibalisa ibali: Izandi ezincinci ezenziwa ngumntwana wakho, indlela ashukumisa ngayo amalungu akhe, indlela azibonakalisa ngayo ebusweni bakhe – zonke ezi ziinzame zakhe 'zokuthetha' nawe. Ziphendule.
• Soloko ubiza izinto ngamagama: Soloko ubiza izinto abazibonayo nabazenzayo. Ngale ndlela, amagama aya kuhlala entloko yabo.
• Yenza ukufunda kube ngumkhwa: Ukujonga iincwadi ezinemifanekiso enemibala kunye akuyi kumnceda afunde amagama kuphela, kodwa kuya kuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwenu.
• Xa ungaqinisekanga, ungoyiki ukubuza: Nangona wonke umntwana wahlukile, ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nophuhliso lwentetho okanye ukuva komntwana wakho, ukufuna ingcebiso kugqirha kunokukunceda unciphise uloyiko lwakho.

Khumbula, awuwedwa kolu hambo. Yiba nomonde kwaye ubathande aba bathetha kancinci. Banokuninzi abanokukuxelela kona!

Intetho yosana, iinyanga ezisi-8-12 zomntwana, uphuhliso lolwimi, iingcebiso zobuzali, intetho yosana, unxibelelwano, uphuhliso lomntwana