Kuyoyikisa xa umntwana wakho ebetha intloko yakhe ngelixa edlala okanye esenza enye into, akunjalo? Nokuba yinto encinci nje, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukucinga, "Owu, kukho into eyenzekileyo kumntwana wam?" Uninzi lwexesha, ukukrweleka okanye ukukrweleka okuncinci akuyonto inkulu. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, xa ubetha intloko yakho, ingakumbi ukuba kukubetha okunzima, kunokubangela imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi-"concussion." Ke namhlanje, masithethe ngokuba yintoni "concussion", njani kwaye nini umntwana afanele aqale ukubuyela esikolweni ukuba oko kuyenzeka.
Yintoni le ngxaki yokuxhuzula ingqondo? Masiyiqonde ngokulula.
Ngamafutshane, ukuxhuzula yingozi okanye impembelelo yengqondo okwethutyana . Ngokuchanekileyo, xa into ibetha okanye ishukumisa intloko, ingqondo yethu iyashukuma ngaphakathi kwentloko. Cinga ngayo njengokushukumisa ibhotile yamanzi aze amanzi angaphakathi kuyo atshize ngapha nangapha. Yiloo nto eyenzekayo engqondweni yethu. Oku kungonakalisa iiseli zengqondo kwaye kuphazamise okwethutyana ukusebenza kwazo okuqhelekileyo.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukuxinwa yingqondo akusoloko kubangela ukuba umntu alahlekelwe zingqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho isiyezi esincinci, ukudideka okuncinci kangangemizuzu embalwa. Ngoko ke, musa ukucinga ukuba, "Andizange ndilahlekelwe zingqondo, ngoko ke kulungile."
Zithini iimpawu zesifo sokuxhuzula?
Ezi mpawu zingahluka kumntu nomntu. Kwabanye abantu, ziyaphela kwiintsuku ezimbalwa, ngelixa kwabanye, zinokuhlala iiveki ezininzi okanye inyanga.
- Intloko ebuhlungu : Olu lolona phawu luqhelekileyo.
- Ukuba nesiyezi kunye nokuziva ukhululekile.
- Isicaphucaphu okanye ukuhlanza.
- Amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, umbono ofipheleyo.
- Isandi esivakalayo ezindlebeni (Tinnitus).
- Ukudinwa lula, usoloko ulele.
- Ubunzima bokugxila, ukulahlekelwa yinkumbulo. (Umzekelo, xa uzama ukufunda into ethile, awuyiqondi, uyalibala into eyayithethwa kudala.)
- Uvakalelo ekukhanyeni nakwisandi. (Ukukhanya okuqaqambileyo, ingxolo enkulu kunzima ukuyinyamezela.)
- Ukungalali okanye ukulala kakhulu.
- Ukucaphuka, ukudakumba, nokungazoli.
Ezi mpawu ziqala kwangoko emva kokwenzakala entloko, okanye zinokuvela kwiiyure okanye kwiintsuku kamva. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukumjonga umntwana wakho iintsuku ezimbalwa.
Umntwana angabuyela nini esikolweni emva kokuba ehlaselwe yingxunya?
Lo ngumbuzo omkhulu abazali abaninzi abanawo. Kulungile, makhe sijonge impendulo yalo mbuzo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, emva kokuba umntwana ehlaselwe yingxolo, kufuneka aphumle kakuhle iintsuku ezimbini okanye ezintathu. Oku akuthethi nje ukuhlala ebhedini, kodwa kuthetha ukunika ingqondo ukuphumla. Oku kuthetha ukunciphisa ukubukela iTV, ukusebenzisa ifowuni, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo, nokwenza umsebenzi onzima kakhulu.
Emva koko, njengoko iimpawu zomntwana ziqala ukuncipha kancinci kancinci,Oogqirha badla ngokuvumela abantwana ukuba baye esikolweni ukuba bayakwazi ukuma malunga nemizuzu engama-30-45 (malunga nobude bexesha elinye lokufunda) ngaphandle kokungonwabi okukhulu. Nangona kunjalo, oku kufanele kwenziwe kuphela phantsi kwengcebiso kagqirha .
Kubalulekile: Nokuba umntwana wakho uqala isikolo, musa ukumvumela ukuba adlale, athathe inxaxheba kwiiklasi zemfundo yomzimba, okanye enze nayiphi na into enokubangela ukwenzakala entloko kwakhona de ugqirha wakho akunike imvume. Oku kungenxa yokuba xa sele ufumene isifo sokuqaqamba kwamalungu omzimba, umonakalo unokuba mkhulu ngakumbi ukuba uphinda ubethe intloko yakho.
Ingxaki yokuxinwa kwengqondo ichaphazela njani ukufunda?
Uninzi lwabantwana ababuyela esikolweni emva kokuba benesifo sokuxhuzula ingqondo banokuqhubeka nemisebenzi yabo yesiqhelo ngaphandle kweengxaki ezinkulu. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantwana banokuhlangabezana neengxaki ezifana nezi:
- Intloko ebuhlungu rhoqo: Ubunzima bokugxila kumsebenzi wesikolo.
- Umbono ofipheleyo: Kunzima ukufunda iincwadi nokubona izinto ebhodini.
- Ukudinwa ngalo lonke ixesha: Usenokuziva ulele kwaye ulahlekelwe kukugxila ngexesha leklasi.
- Ubunzima bokugxila nokukhumbula: Usenokulahlekelwa yingcinga yokuba utitshala uthini, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukukhumbula izifundo.
- Uvelwano ekukhanyeni: Usenokungakwazi ukunyamezela izibane ezikhanyayo eklasini okanye ukukhanya okuvela efestileni.
- Ukucaphuka kunye nosizi: Xa ungakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wakho ngendlela obuwenza ngayo ngaphambili, unokuziva ulusizi kwaye uphoxekile.
Khumbula ukuba ezi zinto zezokwexeshana. Ziya kuphela kancinci kancinci xa uphumle kwaye uxhaswa ngokwaneleyo.
Luhlobo luni lwenkxaso umntwana anokulufumana esikolweni?
Eli linqaku elibaluleke kakhulu. Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukubuyela esikolweni emva kokuba efumene isifo sokuqaqamba kwamalungu omzimba, angafumana inkxaso eninzi esikolweni.
Okokuqala, jonga ukuba isikolo sakho sinomgaqo-nkqubo wokunceda abantwana kwezi meko. Emva koko, wena, umntwana wakho, ugqirha, ootitshala, inqununu yesikolo, umongikazi wesikolo, kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko, ingcali yentetho okanye ingcali yezengqondo, sebenzisanani ukwenza isicwangciso esisebenzela umntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho ungumdlali wezemidlalo esikolweni, kufuneka ubandakanye nomqeqeshi.
Esi sicwangciso sinokubandakanya izinto ezifana nezi:
- Ukunciphisa ixesha elichithwa esikolweni kwiintsuku zokuqala ezimbalwa: endaweni yokuhlala imini yonke, buya ekhaya emva kweeyure ezimbalwa.
- Ukunika ixesha lokuphumla: Thatha ikhefu elifutshane emva kweklasi.
- Yeka okanye uhlehlise umsebenzi ofuna ingqalelo eninzi (njengamaphepha amancinci, iimviwo) kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa.
- Ukunciphisa inani leeklasi ngosuku.
- Ukunika ixesha elongezelelweyo lomsebenzi wesikolo, imisebenzi, imibuzo, kunye neemvavanyo.
- Ukubonelela ngeeklasi ezongezelelweyo (`Ukufundisa`) ukuba kuyimfuneko.
- Ukubonelela ngamanqaku eklasi kunye nezikhokelo zokufunda ezivela esikolweni.
- Ukunceda ekuhlawuleni izifundo eziphosiweyo ngexesha leeholide.
- Ukuba ungumntu obuthathaka xa ungaphandle, uvumelekile ukunxiba iiglasi zelanga.
Ukuba iimpawu zabanye abantwana ziyaqhubeka okanye ziyanda, banokufuna isicwangciso esisemthethweni ngakumbi. Umzekelo, kwamanye amazwe kukho izicwangciso zemfundo ekhethekileyo ezifana ne-`(isicwangciso se-504)` okanye i-`(IEP - Inkqubo yeMfundo yoMntu ngamnye)`. Kwakhona, iindlela ezifana ne-`(RTI - Impendulo yoNcedo)` zisetyenziselwa ukubona ukuba umntwana uyaphucuka njengoko kulindelekile. Nangona kungekho zicwangciso ezinegama elifanayo eSri Lanka, iindlela ezifanayo zingaphuhliswa ngokuthetha nesikolo ukuze kubonelelwe ngenkxaso ekhethekileyo umntwana ayidingayo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuqonda iimfuno zomntwana kwaye umncede ngokufanelekileyo.
Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba iimpawu zomntwana wakho zibuya okanye ziyanda esikolweni?
Khawuthelekelele ukuba umntwana wakho usesikolweni kwaye uphinda abe nentloko ebuhlungu okanye isiyezi. Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, umntwana makaxelele utitshala kunye nomongikazi wesikolo. Emva koko banokuthatha imizuzu embalwa ukuphumla baze bazame ukubuyela eklasini.
Kodwa ukuba iimpawu ziyaqhubeka, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukuncitshiswa iiyure zakhe zesikolo, umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo uncitshiswe, okanye unokufuna inkxaso engakumbi. Ukuba umntwana wakho akasasebenzi kakuhle emva kweeveki ezimbini esikolweni, qiniseka ukuba ubona ugqirha kwakhona.
Singabanceda njani abazali?
Xa umntwana ephola emva kokuxinwa yingqondo, udinga uthando lwakho, inkxaso kunye nenkuthazo. Abanye abantwana banokuziva belusizi kwaye bedanile ngeli xesha. Basenokuzibuza, "Kutheni oku kwenzeke kum?" okanye "Andinakwenza izinto njengoko bendisenza ngaphambili." Basenokuziva beneentloni ngokufumana unyango olukhethekileyo. Ukuthetha nomcebisi okanye ingcali yezengqondo kunokuba yindlela entle yokunceda.
Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphiliswa ngokukhawuleza kukulandela imiyalelo kagqirha malunga nomsebenzi wesikolo kunye neminye imisebenzi. Ungakhathazeki. Uninzi lwabantwana luya kubuyela esikolweni kwaye lwenze yonke into abayithandayo kwiiveki ezimbalwa okanye inyanga.
Khumbula: Wonke umntwana uyachacha ngesantya esahlukileyo. Ngoko ke musa ukuzithelekisa nabanye. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha alidingayo, kwaye umxhase.
Umyalezo obalulekileyo osuka kweli nqaku ngulo:
Kulungile, masiphinde sichaze amanqaku abalulekileyo koko sithethe ngako:
- Ukuxhuzula kwengqondo yimpembelelo yexeshana engqondweni. Musa ukuyithatha lula loo nto.
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuphumla. Okokuqala, kufuneka uphumle kakuhle uze emva koko ubuyele kancinci kwimisebenzi yesiqhelo.
- Qiniseka ukuba uyayilandela imiyalelo kagqirha wakho. Dlala ude ugqirha wakho akuxelele ukuba wenze njalo, kwaye ungenzi imisebenzi enokubangela ukwenzakala entloko.
- Sebenzisana nesikolo ukuze niyile isicwangciso sokufumana inkxaso efunekayo kumntwana wakho.
- Qonda iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho. Mnike uthando, inkxaso, kunye nenkuthazo.
- Uninzi lwabantwana luyaphila ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke ungakhathazeki, yiba nomonde nje.
Ndikunqwenelela umntwana wakho ukuba aphile ngokukhawuleza!
Ukubetheka kwengqondo , ukwenzakala engqondweni, ukuya esikolweni, impilo yabantwana, ukwenzakala entloko, ukuchacha, iingcebiso zokuba ngumzali
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