Ngaba wakha waziva umthwalo onzima entliziyweni yakho, ulusizi ngaphandle kwesizathu, kwaye uzive ungenathemba? Xa izinto ezifanayo ziqhubeka zijikeleza entlokweni yakho, kwaye uzive ungenakunceda, ungakwazi ukususa ezo ngcinga? Le yinto abantu abaninzi abayivayo. Enyanisweni, sonke sijongana noxinzelelo lwengqondo ngaxa lithile ebomini bethu. Ngoko ke namhlanje siza kuthetha ngendlela elula kakhulu, kodwa enamandla kakhulu yokukhulula ingqondo yakho ngamaxesha anje. Oko kukuthi, ukubhala phantsi oko kusengqondweni yakho kwidayari.
Ndinomhlobo ochithe uninzi lobomi bakhe elwa nokudakumba. Enye yezinto ezimncedileyo kakhulu ngamaxesha amnandi nanzima ebomini bakhe kukubhala phantsi ijenali yakhe. Njengoko esitsho, "Ngamanye amaxesha ndibhala phantsi zonke izinto ezingafunekiyo engqondweni yam. Zonke izinto ezingenamsebenzi nezingalunganga. Kodwa xa ndizibhala ephepheni, ziyacaca engqondweni yam kwaye ndiyabona ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni endikhathazayo ngokwenene."
Iingcali ezininzi zempilo yengqondo zicebisa ukuba ubhale iijenali kuba kunokukunceda ukuphucula indlela ovakalelwa ngayo kwaye ulawule iimpawu zoxinzelelo. Uphando luye lwangqina oku.
Kodwa khumbula oku. Ukubhala ijenali asikokuphela konyango lokudakumba. Ukudakumba yimeko enzima efuna unyango. Ukuba ucinga ukuba unokuba noxinzelelo, kubalulekile ukubona ugqirha wakho ukuze akunike ingcebiso. Ukubhala ijenali yindlela entle yokuzinceda ukongeza kunyango.
Ukubhala idayari kunokunceda njani ngoxinzelelo?
Kulungile, makhe sibone ukuba esi senzo silula sinokuba nefuthe elikhulu kangakanani ezingqondweni zethu. Oku kunokuqondwa phantsi kwamanqaku ambalwa abalulekileyo.
1. Ukuzazisa
Okwenzekayo xa ubhala idayari kukuba uqaphela ngakumbi ngawe. Zonke iingcinga neemvakalelo ezifihliweyo kwiindawo ezinzulu zengqondo yakho ziyavela. Abanye abantu bayamangaliswa koko bakubhalayo. Kuphela xa beqonda ukuba, "Owu, bendixhalabile kakhulu ngale nto" apho banokubona ngokwenene ukuba yintoni ingxaki.
Ungagcina le dayari njengento yakho. Okanye, uyibonise ingcali yezonyango okanye umcebisi okuncedayo ngonyango lwakho. Emva koko banokuchonga amanqaku abalulekileyo kwinto oyibhalileyo baze bakuncede uqhubeke phambili.
2. Ikunika ulawulo
Khawuthelekelele iingcinga ezisentlokweni yakho zifana nebhola yomsonto edityanisiweyo. Xa utsala enye, enye iyadityaniseka. Yonke into iyingxubakaxaka. Kodwa xa uqala ukubhala ezo ngcinga ephepheni, loo ngxubakaxaka iqala ukuqhekeka kancinci kancinci. Xa ubhala, uziva ngathi ulawula izinto.
Umhlobo wam, uChristina, endikhankanyile ngaphambili, uthi ukubhala kuye kwamnceda ukuba abeke izinto ngendlela eyiyo aze oyise iimvakalelo zakhe zokungabi naxabiso. "Kundibuyisela kwinyani," utshilo. Oku kukunika indima ebonakalayo kunyango lwakho. Kukunika uluvo lokuzixabisa ngokwenza uzive ngathi wenza into yokuzinceda.
3. Utshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo.
Idayari lithuba elihle lokuba uthethe wedwa kwaye uthethe izinto ezakhayo.
Abanye abacebisi ngempilo yengqondo baxelela abathengi babo ukuba basebenzise 'iijenali zombulelo' (ijenali apho ubhala khona izinto ozibulelayo) kunye 'neejenali zokuqinisekisa' (ijenali apho ubhala khona izinto ezikukhuthazayo). Ukubhala ngeenkumbulo ezimnandi kunamandla kakhulu. Kuba xa sijongene nokudakumba, iinkumbulo ezimbi nezimbi zihlala zifika engqondweni. Ngoko ke, ukubhala ngezinto ezilungileyo kufana nokuqeqesha kwakhona iingqondo zethu.
4. Inceda ekuchongeni iipateni
Ungasebenzisa idayari yakho njengengxelo yeempawu. Ngokubhala phantsi indlela oziva ngayo yonke imihla, unokuchonga into ebangela ukudakumba kwakho.
Umzekelo:
- Ungaqaphela ukuba uxinzelelo lwakho luyanda ngamaxesha athile emini (umz. rhoqo ngokuhlwa).
- Iimpawu zingabonakala zisiba mandundu kwiintsuku apho kukho uxinzelelo olukhulu.
- Usenokufumanisa ukuba awukhululekanga xa uthetha nabantu abathile okanye kubudlelwane obuthile.
Wakuba uzazi ezi 'zizinto ezibangela iingxaki', ungahlala kude nazo kangangoko unako. Kwakhona, xa ujonga amaphepha amadala edayari, ungabona ukuba imeko yakho iphucukile, iba mandundu, okanye ihlale injalo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Kungaba sisibane esibomvu esikwenza udinga uncedo olungakumbi, okanye kungaba sisiqinisekiso sokuba uphilile.
Kulungile, ngoko ke uqala njani oku?
Akufuneki nto ingako ukuze uqale incwadi yemihla ngemihla. Okufunekayo yincwadi kunye nepeni. Okanye ungabhala kwikhompyutha okanye kwifowuni yakho. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezinokukunceda.
| Ingcebiso | Ngamagama alula... |
|---|---|
| Bhala yonke into efika engqondweni. | Musa ukuzibamba, bhala nje nantoni na efika engqondweni. Musa ukukhathazeka ngeempazamo zolwimi okanye zopelo. Bhala ngokukhululekileyo, ucinga ukuba akukho mntu ukujongileyo. Okukhona ungacingi kangako ngento oyibhalayo, kokukhona uza kufumana inzuzo enkulu. |
| Bhala njengesiqhelo. | Zama ukwenza oku kube ngumkhwa. Kungcono ukubhala yonke imihla. Beka ecaleni malunga nemizuzu engama-20 ngosuku. Abantu abaninzi bakufumanisa kulula ukubhala ebhedini, ngaphambi kokuba balale. Oku kungenxa yokuba zimbalwa izinto eziphazamisayo kwaye unokucamngca ngaloo mini. |
| Zama izinto ezintsha. | Zibhalele iileta. Bhala ileta eya kumntu omthandayo ongasekho nawe. Bhala izinto ocinga ukuba ebenokuzithetha kuwe ukuba ebekunye nawe. Ezi ziza kukuthuthuzela kakhulu. |
| Musa ukubhala izinto ezimbi rhoqo. | Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uhlala ubhala ngezinto ezimbi nezibuhlungu, zama enye indlela. Kulungile ukubhala ngezinto ezibuhlungu, kodwa gcina oku kuncinci. Ungabhali ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20 ngexesha. Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokuba luncedo kakhulu ukushwabanisa iphepha olibhalileyo uze ulilahle emgqomeni. |
| Yenza oku kube lula. | Musa ukwenza oku kube ngumsebenzi onzima. Gcina ipeni kunye nencwadi yamanqaku kufutshane. Zigcine ecaleni kwebhedi yakho, ebhegini yakho, okanye emotweni yakho. Emva koko ungabhala phantsi nantoni na efika engqondweni. |
Okokugqibela, le yinto ethatha ixesha ukuyiqhela. Kodwa uza kufumanisa ukuba nokuba ubhala ntoni na, uza kuziva ukhululekile emva kokuyibhala phantsi. Leyo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukubhala iijenali yindlela entle yokuqonda iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo.
- Le yindlela yokunceda ukulawula iimpawu zoxinzelelo, kodwa ayilonyango lodwa loxinzelelo.
- Qala kancinci. Zama ukuzibekela ixesha loku yonke imihla.
- Zive ukhululekile ukubhala nantoni na efika engqondweni. Kwakhona, ungalibali ukubhala ngezinto ezintle ebomini bakho kunye namaxesha akwenze wonwabe.
- Okubaluleke kakhulu: Ukuba ucinga ukuba usenokuba uxinezelekile okanye uziva uxinezelekile, nceda uthethe nogqirha wakho ngaloo nto uze ufumane iingcebiso zonyango ezifunekayo. Ungaze ulibazise.
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