Uke uzizwe sengathi ingane yakho encane yenza ngendlela ehlukile kancane kwabanye abantwana? Mhlawumbe ikhetha ukuba yodwa. Noma mhlawumbe ayibheki ubuso babanye abantu lapho ikhuluma. Kujwayelekile ngathi njengabazali ukuzizwa sesaba futhi sikhathazekile kancane uma sibona izinto ezinjengalezi. Yile ndlela kanye umlingisi odumile emhlabeni wonke uGary Cole azizwa ngayo lapho ezwa ngendodakazi yakhe. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, namuhla sizokhuluma nge-autism, isimo esibangela izinkinga ezingqondweni zabazali abaningi, kodwa singaphathwa uma sinolwazi olufanele.
Kuyini ngempela i-autism?
Kalula nje, i-autism ayisona isifo. Yisimo sokuthuthukiswa kwemizwa esihlobene nokukhula kobuchopho. Odokotela basibiza ngokuthi i-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Igama elithi "spectrum" lisho ukuthi lesi simo sithinta abantu ngezindlela ezihluke kakhulu. Sifana nothingo lwemibala. Ingane eyodwa inezici ezihlukile kunenye. Abanye abantu badinga usizo olukhulu ngemisebenzi yansuku zonke, kanti abanye bangaphila ngendlela evamile.
Lesi simo sibangela kakhulu izinselele ekuxhumaneni komphakathi kanye nezindlela zokuziphatha . Okusho ukuthi, izinguquko zingabonakala endleleni abantu abaxhumana ngayo nabanye, abakhuluma ngayo, abashintshana ngayo imibono, kanye nabaziphatha ngayo.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi i-autism ayibangelwa yiphutha labazali, yiphutha endleleni ingane ekhuliswe ngayo, noma yimuphi umuthi wokugomela. Lowo ngumbono ongalungile nhlobo.
Yiziphi izimpawu okufanele siziqaphele?
Nakuba lezi zimpawu zihluka kuye ngengane, kunezimpawu ezithile ezivamile ezingabonakala. Lezi zivame ukubonakala lapho ingane ineminyaka emibili noma emithathu ubudala. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi zimpawu zingabonakala ngisho nangaphambi kwesikhathi.
| Uhlobo oluyisici | Izibonelo zezinto ongazibona |
|---|---|
| Izinselele zobudlelwano bomphakathi kanye nokuxhumana |
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| Ukuziphatha Okuphindaphindayo kanye Nokuzimisela Okulinganiselwe | |
| Ezinye izici ezivamile |
Kuthiwani uma ingane yakho inalezi zimpawu?
Ungacabangi ukuthi ingane yakho ine-autism ngoba nje inesici esisodwa noma ezimbili zalezi zimpawu. Ingane ngayinye ikhula ngesivinini esihlukile. Kodwa-ke, uma unokungabaza okuqhubekayo, kungcono ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe kunokucabanga ukuthi, "Kulungile, ngizoba ngcono uma sengikhulile."
Izinto ongazenza njengomzali
Uma unokungabaza ngengane yakho, ungagxili kukho. Njengoba nje uGary Cole eshilo, "Thola izimpendulo ngokushesha okukhulu."
1. Funa iseluleko sezokwelapha: Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukubonana nodokotela wakho wezingane. Khuluma naye ngokukhululekile mayelana nokuziphatha kwengane yakho nanoma yiziphi izinkinga ongase ube nazo. Uma kudingeka, uzokudlulisela kuchwepheshe.Uzothunyelwa kudokotela wezifo zengqondo wezingane kanye nentsha. Uchwepheshe onjalo kuphela ongahlonza lesi simo ngokunembile.
2. Ukungenelela Kwasekusenesikhathi Kubalulekile: Uma lesi simo sisheshe sitholakale, kulapho ingane inganikezwa khona ukwesekwa okudingekayo futhi ithuthukise amakhono ayo. Ukunikeza ukwelashwa nokuqeqeshwa okudingekayo isencane, lapho ubuchopho bengane bukhula ngokushesha, kuzosiza kakhulu ekuyisizeni inqobe izinselele eziningi ezobhekana nazo esikhathini esizayo.
3. Qaphela ukwelashwa nokusekelwa: Nakuba kungekho ukwelashwa kwe-autism, kunezindlela eziningi zokwelapha ezingenza impilo yengane ibe lula futhi zithuthukise amakhono ayo.
- Ukwelapha Ngenkulumo: Kusiza ekukhulumeni nasekuvezeni imibono.
- Ukwelashwa Komsebenzi: Kukufundisa ukuthi ungenza kanjani imisebenzi yansuku zonke wedwa, njengokuxubha amazinyo akho, ukugqoka, nokubhala.
- Ukwelashwa Kokuziphatha: Kusiza ukulawula ukuziphatha okungafanele nokuthuthukisa amakhono okuxhumana nabantu.
- Imfundo Ekhethekile: Ukunikeza imfundo ehambisana nekhono lokufunda lengane.
Indodakazi kaGary Cole, uMary, nayo yaya esikoleni esivamile ngosizo lomsizi wemfundo ekhethekile. Yaqhubeka ngempumelelo nemfundo yayo esikhungweni semfundo ekhethekile esasimfanele. Kubonisa ukuthi lezi zingane nazo zingahamba ibanga elide uma zithola ukwesekwa okufanele .
Umyalezo omncane kubazali
Ukunakekela ingane ene-autism kungaba yinselele. Ungase uzizwe ukhathele, futhi ngezinye izikhathi udabukile. Lokho kuyinto evamile. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa . Kunezinkulungwane zabanye abazali abadlula kulolu hambo.
Gubha impumelelo encane yengane yakho. Gubha lapho ekubheka emehlweni okokuqala, lapho esho igama elisha, lapho efunda okuthile okusha. Ngokubekezela, uthando, kanye nesiqondiso esifanele, ungavula indlela yokuba ingane yakho iphile impilo ejabulisayo nenenjongo.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- I-Autism ayisona isifo, iyisimo esihlobene nokukhula kobuchopho. Sithinta umuntu ngamunye ngendlela ehlukile (i-Spectrum).
- Qaphela izimpawu ezinjengokungathandi komntwana wakho ukuxhumana nabantu, ukubambezeleka kwenkulumo, kanye nokuziphatha okuphindaphindiwe.
- Uma unokungabaza, ungacabangi ukuthi "sizobonana kamuva" bese ubona udokotela wezingane ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Ukuhlonza isimo ngokushesha nokunikeza ukwesekwa kokwelapha okudingekayo kubaluleke kakhulu ekusaseni lengane.
- Ngothando, ukunakekelwa, kanye nokusekelwa okufanele, izingane ezine-autism zingafinyelela amandla azo aphelele.











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