Uyakhumbula usuku udokotela akutshela ngalo ukuthi ingane yakho ine-autism? Cishe wazizwa sengathi umhlaba wonke uwile phezu kwakho. Ngokungazelelwe, impilo yakho, amaphupho akho, izinhlelo zakho, konke kwashintsha. Lokhu akusikho okwakho kuphela, kodwa kwawo wonke umama nobaba abadlule kulolu lwazi. Kodwa lokhu akusikho ukuphela kohambo, kodwa ukuqala kohambo olusha, oluyingqayizivele. Namuhla, ake sixoxe ngendlela yokugcina ubudlelwano bomndeni obunothando nobuqinile njengoba udlula kulolu hambo olusha.
I-Autism yinto ethinta wonke umndeni.
Odokotela bathi i-autism ayithinti ingane kuphela, kodwa nomndeni wonke . Njengoba nje itshe echibini ligeleza, ukwengezwa kwengane ene-autism emndenini kungaba nomthelela oqhubekayo kumama, ubaba, izingane zakubo, ogogo nomkhulu, kanye nezinye izihlobo. Nakuba yonke imindeni ihlukile, kunezinselele ezivamile wonke umuntu abhekene nazo. Ubukhulu balezi zinselele bungahluka kuye ngokuthi i-autism yengane ibucayi kangakanani. Kodwa izinkinga esibhekene nazo ziyafana kakhulu.
Inselele yokuqala: Ukushintsha okulindelwe ngabazali
Mangaki amaphupho esinawo ngengane yethu? Bazoya esikoleni bafunde kahle, baye ekhempasini, bathole umsebenzi omuhle, bashade futhi baphile ngenjabulo... Sinamaphupho ayinkulungwane anjengalawa engqondweni yethu. Kodwa uma sithola ukuthi ingane yethu ine-autism, lawa mathemba ashintsha kakhulu. Kufana nokuhlela uhambo oluhle oluya e-Italy bese wehla endizeni bese uzwa "Siyakwamukela eHolland."
Ungathukuthela ngokuzumayo, uzizwe udangele . Ungacabanga, "Bengifuna ukuya e-Italy! Kungani ungilethe lapha?" Kodwa uma udabuke nge-Italy, awusoze wakwazi ukuzwa ubuhle beHolland, ama-tulips, nama-windmills.
Futhi kunjalo nalolu hambo. Kungase kungabi yimpilo obuyicabanga. Kodwa le mpilo ihlukile, iyingqayizivele, futhi iyinhle . Ukuze sibone lobo buhle, sidinga ukwenza izinqumo zethu.
Inselele Yesibili: Ukwesaba Izelamani
Uma kunezinye izingane ngaphezu kwengane ene-autism, enye yezinto ezinkulu abazali abakwesabayo ukuthi, "Ingabe enye ingane izosala ngemuva? Ingabe izolahlekelwa ukunaka kwami?" Kuvamile ukuzizwa sengathi awunaso isikhathi sokunakekela ezinye izingane zakho, ngezinto ezifana nokwelashwa kanye nokuvakashela odokotela, lapho ugijimela ingane yakho ene-autism.
Kodwa ngokumangalisayo, ucwaningo luthole ukuthi izingane zakubo abane-autism zivame ukuzivumelanisa kangcono ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo.Bafunda ukuthwala umthwalo wemfanelo futhi babonise uzwela ngokushesha kunabanye.
Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele sibakhohlwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubanika ithuba lokuchitha isikhathi bebodwa nathi.
| Izinkinga ezingase zibhekane nezingane zakini | Lokho esingakwenza njengabazali |
|---|---|
| Ukucabanga ukuthi abanakho ukunakwa ngabazali. | Chitha usuku olulodwa ngesonto wedwa nalowo mntwana (isib., umama uchitha isikhathi nomntwana one-autism kuyilapho ubaba edlala nomunye umntwana). |
| Ukuzizwa unamahloni noma wesaba ukuziphatha komfowenu noma umfowenu lapho abangani bakho befika ekhaya noma esikoleni. | Vumela ingane yakho ikhulume ngokukhululekile ngemizwa yayo. Menze aqonde ukuthi kuyinto evamile ngawe ukuzizwa ngaleyo ndlela. |
| Ukuthukuthela ngokuthi abakwazi ukwenza izinto abazifunayo ngenxa yomfowabo one-autism. | Hlonipha imizwa yengane yakho. Chaza, "Awusho lokho ngoba ungumntwana omubi." Msize abhekane naleyo mizwa. |
Ngezinye izikhathi, lapho ingane ene-autism ingakwazi ukuzilawula, izingane zakubo zingakwazi. Leso sibopho siqine kangako.
Inselele yesithathu: Umthelela emshadweni
Lesi yisihloko esibucayi kakhulu. Uma ingane itholakala ine- autism , ibeka ingcindezi enkulu kunoma yimuphi umshado. Ngokuvamile, omama nobaba babhekana nalesi simo ngendlela ehlukile.
Ngokuvamile, noma omama bezwa usizi olungabekezeleleki, bathatha isinyathelo ngokushesha . Baqala ukufuna ukuthi yiziphi izindlela zokwelapha abangazenzela ingane, odokotela abazomthola, nakho konke abangakwenzela ingane. Kodwa obaba abaningi bagxila emsebenzini wabo . Abanye abafuni ukwamukela lesi simo, noma bazama ukusibalekela.
Uma laba ababili becabanga ngezindlela ezahlukene, kuvela imifantu yokuqala emshadweni. Umama ulahlekelwa umuntu angaxoxa naye ngezinhlungu zakhe. Isixazululo esingcono kakhulu salokhu ukuthola isikhathi senu nobabili , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi nimatasa kangakanani. Kungaba ukukhuluma imizuzu eyi-15 ngemva kokuba izingane zilele, noma ukuhlala ndawonye niphuza inkomishi yetiye. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthola isikhathi sokuba wedwa.
"Ngisho noma unemizuzu engu-15 yokugeza wedwa, kuyafaneleka. Thola isikhathi esifanele sokwenza into encane, njengokuthile owawukujabulela, njengokufunda incwadi, ukulalela ingoma."
Izinselele Zesine Nezesihlanu: Injabulo Yomndeni Nokuphila Komphakathi
Ingabe izinto esasizenza ngokunganaki, njengokuya eholidini, ukuya emcimbini womndeni, noma ukuya ephathini lomngane, seziyinselele enkulu manje? Izingane ezine-autism ngokuvamile azithandi ukushintsha imisebenzi yazo yansuku zonke. Ngakho-ke lezi zinto zingaba nzima kakhulu kuzo.
Kodwa ikhambi lalokhu akusikho ukuyeka lezo zinto, kodwa ukuzishintsha ukuze zivumelane nengane yethu .
- Uya ohambweni? Iya endaweni oyijwayele oya kuyo nsuku zonke. Ngaleyo ndlela, ingane yakho izojwayela. Uma uya endaweni entsha, bonisa ingane yakho izithombe zale ndawo kusengaphambili bese uchaza ukuthi kwenzekani lapho.
- Uya ephathini? Hamba kusenesikhathi ngaphambi kokuba bonke abanye bafike. Ngaleyo ndlela, ingane yakho ingajwayela indawo ezungezile ngaphambi kokuba kufike izixuku. Hamba ngezimoto ezimbili. Uma ingane yakho inenkinga yokuhlala lapho, enye yazo ingamthatha imyise ekhaya.
- Uyodla ngaphandle? Uma ushayela ucingo endaweni yokudlela bese ubhukha, cela itafula ekhoneni lapho ungeke uphazamise khona abanye.
Uma ingane yakho yenza ngendlela ehlukile phambi kwabanye abantu, ikubheka ngendlela exakile wena nengane yakho. Kunzima ukukuthwala. Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzofunda ukungakunaki. "Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzozizwa sengathi ukhula isikhumba esisha ngaphansi kwesikhumba sakho." Uma othile ekubheka ngendlela exakile, uzoba namandla okumomotheka uthi, "Akukho okufanele ukhathazeke ngakho, konke kuyalawulwa ."
Umndeni wethu akudingeki ube "njengomndeni ophelele" ephephandabeni. Umndeni wethu ungaba ohlukile ngendlela esifuna ube ngayo. Ngalaba bantwana, singathola injabulo ezindaweni ezingavamile empilweni.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- I-Autism akuyona inkinga obhekene nayo wedwa, ithinta wonke umndeni, uhambo wonke umuntu aluhambayo ndawonye.
- Kuvamile ukuzizwa udabuke ngekusasa olicabangayo. Kodwa uma lolo daba luphela, zama ukubona ubuhle kulolu hambo olusha noluyingqayizivele.
- Naka ngokukhethekile abanye abantwana bakho. Bavumele bakhulume. Banamandla kunalokho ocabanga.
- Vikelani umshado wenu. Lalelanani, niqondane, futhi nizinike isikhathi somunye nomunye.
- Ungayeki izikhathi zomndeni ezijabulisayo. Zishintshe ukuze zivumelane nomndeni wakho.
- Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi abanye bacabangani. Akukho okubi ngokuthi umndeni wakho ujabule ngendlela "ehlukile".
- Uma uzizwa sengathi konke lokhu kungaphezu kwamandla akho, sicela ukhulume nodokotela wakho noma umeluleki . Ukucela usizo kuwuphawu lwamandla.
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