Kuvamile kakhulu ukuzizwa unesizungu esikhulu, usizi, kanye nomuzwa wecala ngemva kokuba umama wakho, ubaba, noma umuntu oseduze nawe, oye wamnakekela ngothando nangokuzinikela isikhathi eside kangaka, engeniswe ekhaya lokunakekelwa/lokunakekelwa kwasebekhulile. Imibuzo efana nokuthi "Angimnakekelanga kahle?" kanye nokuthi "Ngenze isinqumo esifanele?" kumele ukuthi ivele engqondweni yakho izikhathi eziningi. Ungacabangi ukuthi uwedwa onale mizwa. Lesi yisimo esivamile abantu abaningi ababhekana naso.
Ungasinciphisa kanjani isisindo osizwayo?
Ngezinye izikhathi, ukwenza isinqumo esinjengalesi kuyadingeka ukuze kuphephe futhi kuhlale kahle othandekayo wakho. Kodwa noma kunjalo, awukwazi ukuyeka ukuzizwa udabukile futhi unecala. Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ngalesi sikhathi ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho nomndeni wakho noma umngane omethembayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukujoyina iqembu lokusekelana nabanye abaye badlula kokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo noma ukuthola usizo kumeluleki kungakusiza uzizwe ungcono.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwabelana ngale mizwa nothile, ngaphandle kokuyigcina ingaphakathi. Khumbula ukuthi awuwedwa.
Wenzani uma othandekayo wakho ethukuthele?
Ngaphandle kokuthi isifo somuntu omthandayo sokuwohloka komqondo sesithuthuke kakhulu, bangase bangathandi indawo entsha. Ngezinye izikhathi bajwayelana kahle nendawo yabo entsha. Kodwa kaningi, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni kwalesi sifo, bangase bakusole, bakhale futhi bakukhalele njalo uma uvakashela, "Ngiyise ekhaya."
Ngesikhathi esinjengalesi, inhliziyo yakho ingase ibe buhlungu kakhulu. Kodwa zikhumbuze ukuthi kungani uthathe lesi sinqumo . Wenze lesi sinqumo ngoba ubungenakukwazi ukubanikeza ukunakekelwa okukhethekile abakudingayo ekhaya, akunjalo? Ngakho-ke, bekezela futhi ubanikeze uthando olukhulu nokunaka. Banike isikhathi sokujwayela indawo yabo entsha. Uthando lwakho lubaluleke kakhulu kubo ngalesi sikhathi.
Ingabe unokungabaza ngokunakekelwa kwansuku zonke?
Ukwesaba okukhulu kubantu abaningi ukuthi, "Ingabe abantu balapho bazomnakekela kahle umama/ubaba?" Lokhu kungaba nzima ukukwamukela, ngoba yize uzinikele kothandekayo wakho ekhaya, ilungu elilodwa labasebenzi ekhaya lasebekhulile kufanele linakekele abantu abaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Kudingeka siqonde iqiniso lapha. Ungathola umbono walo mehluko kuthebula elingezansi.
| UMnyango Wokunakekela | Ukunakekelwa okunikeze ekhaya | Ukunakekelwa okunikezwayo emakhaya asebekhulile |
|---|---|---|
| Ukunakwa komuntu siqu | Umuntu oyedwa uthole ukunakwa kwakho okungu-100%. | Isisebenzi esisodwa sinakekela izakhamuzi ezingu-8 noma ngaphezulu. |
| Ukuqeqeshwa | Unothando nolwazi. Ungase untule ukuqeqeshwa kobungcweti. | Nakuba abaningi benolwazi nokuqeqeshwa, abanye bangase babe nokuqeqeshwa okuncane. |
| Ukuxazulula izinkinga | Ungayixazulula inkinga ngokushesha nje lapho uyibona. | Inkinga kufanele ibikwe kubasebenzi noma kumphathi ofanele. |
Ungakha kanjani ubudlelwano obuhle nabasebenzi?
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokunqoba ukwesaba nokungabaza kwakho ukwakha ubudlelwano obuhle nabasebenzi .
- Khuluma ngokuthula: Uma kunenkinga, khuluma ngokuthula nangenhlonipho nesisebenzi okukhulunywa ngaso. Esikhathini esiningi, lokhu kuzoxazulula inkinga. Uma kungenjalo, khuluma noMqondisi noma uMqondisi Wabahlengikazi.
- Bahloniphe: Khumbula, nabo bangabantu abasebenza kanzima nabacindezelekile. Bathanda ukuphathwa ngenhlonipho futhi.
- Vakashela njalo: Vakashela othandekayo wakho noma nini lapho kungenzeka.
- Yabelana ngalokho okwaziyo: Tshela abasebenzi ngezinto umama/ubaba wakho azithandayo nangazithandi, kanye nezindlela zokubathulisa.
- Yazisa okuhle: Batshele ngezinto ezinhle abazenzayo. Futhi, uma unomuzwa wokuthi kukhona okudingeka kushintshwe, kusho ngobumnene ngaphandle kokulimaza imizwa yabo.
Usaba ukulahlekelwa yizinto eziyigugu noma ukuhlukunyezwa?
Ukuhlukunyezwa ngabanakekeli abangochwepheshe akuvamile kakhulu njengoba kwenzeka ekhaya. Kodwa akuyona into engenakwenzeka. Uma usola ukuthi othandekayo wakho uyahlukunyezwa ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo, kubikele umhlengikazi oyinhloko noma umphathi ngokushesha . Uma ubona ukuhlukunyezwa, kubikele inhloko yesikhungo kanye ne-Agency Yakho Yezinsizakalo Zokuvikela Abadala.
Kungcono ukugcina izinto eziyigugu, njengobucwebe, nawe, njengoba othandekayo wakho angase azikhohlwe ndawana thize, noma angase alahleke ngomunye umhlali. Futhi, gcina izinto zakho siqu ezifana namazinyo okufakelwa, izibuko zamehlo, kanye nezinsiza zokuzwa zibhalwe ngokucacile.
Awuvamile ukubona udokotela?
Odokotela abavamile ukuvakashela amakhaya asebekhulile njengalawa nsuku zonke, njengoba benza ezibhedlela. Lokhu kungase kube yinto entsha kuwe. Ukuvama kokuvakasha kuzoncika empilweni nasezidingweni zomuntu omthandayo.
Kwezinye izikhungo, odokotela abahlengikazi noma abasizi bodokotela baqashwa ukuhlinzeka ngezinsizakalo zezokwelapha esikhundleni sodokotela.
Kodwa-ke, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuxhumana nodokotela womuntu omthandayo kungaba ukumshayela ucingo. Uma unenkinga ngempilo yomuntu omthandayo, ungakhohlwa ukukhuluma nodokotela wakhe ngakho .
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Kuvamile ukuzizwa udangele, ukhathazekile, futhi unecala ngemva kokuba othandekayo wakho ebekwe ekhaya lasebekhulile. Unganqikazi ukukhuluma ngakho.
- Kuzothatha isikhathi ukuthi othandekayo wakho azivumelanise nendawo yakhe entsha. Qonda intukuthelo noma ukudabuka kwakhe, bese umnikeza uthando nokusekelwa.
- Yakha ubudlelwano obuhle nobunenhlonipho nabasebenzi bokunakekela. Kuzosiza kakhulu inhlalakahle yothandekayo wakho.
- Shiya izinto eziyigugu ekhaya bese ubhala ngokucacile izinto zakho siqu ezifana nomshini wokuxubha amazinyo nezibuko. Bika noma yikuphi ukuhlukumeza okusolwayo eziphathimandleni ngokushesha.
- Khumbula njalo ukuthi wenze lesi sinqumo ngenxa yokuphepha kwabo kanye nenhlalakahle yabo. Wenze konke okusemandleni akho.
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