Uma ungumama okhulelwe , kungenzeka ukuthi uke wazizwa ingane yakho ihamba ngaphakathi esibelethweni sakho lapho umyeni wakho ebeka ikhanda lakhe esiswini sakho futhi ekhuluma nengane yakho, noma uma uhlabelela ingane yakho ingoma. Ngezinye izikhathi, uma uthinta kancane uhlangothi olulodwa lwesisu sakho, kuba sengathi ingane yakho isabela ngendlela efanayo, akunjalo? Lezi akuzona nje izinto ezingahleliwe. Lokhu ukuxhumana kokuqala phakathi kwakho nengane yakho.
Kukhona umhlaba omuhle ngaphakathi esibelethweni!
Sasivame ukucabanga ukuthi isibeletho sikamama siyindawo ethule, engenamsindo noma ukukhanya. Kodwa ngenxa yobuchwepheshe besimanje, ikakhulukazi ukuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound, ososayensi bathole ukuthi indawo engaphakathi kwesibeletho ifana nendawo yokudlala enhle egcwele konke umntwana akudingayo ukuze akhule kahle.
Kalula nje, ingane yakho isabela ezwini lakho nakweminye imisindo ekamelweni kusukela ngesikhathi uzalwa. Uma usuka endaweni ekhanyayo uya endaweni emnyama, ingane yakho isabela ekushintsheni kokukhanya. Uma ulala phansi futhi usukuma, ingane yakho iyagingqika esibelethweni. Okumangalisayo ukuthi ingane yakho ingaze inambithe ukudla okumnandi nokunongwe okudlayo. Konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kubalulekile ekuthuthukisweni okunempilo kobuchopho bengane yakho.
Ingabe ingane iyakwazi ukuzwa ngempela?
Yebo, impela. Ukuzwa kwengane, noma ikhono lokuzwa, kuthuthuka kahle ngekota yesithathu yokukhulelwa. Ngesikhathi sokuskena ('sonograms') okwenziwa ngaleso sikhathi, ingane ingabonakala iphendula ikhanda layo ngenxa yemisindo yangaphandle.
Kodwa izifundo zibonisa ukuthi izingane zingase zizwe imisindo zisenemasonto angama-20, futhi cishe emavikini angama-25, ziyashaqeka futhi zisabele emisindweni emikhulu engazelelwe. Ngezinye izikhathi imisindo emikhulu ingabangela ukushaya kwenhliziyo kwengane ukuthi kushintshe, kwandise ukunyakaza, futhi ngisho nokuchama.
Indawo engaphakathi kwesibeletho ayithuli. Ihlala igcwele imisindo efana nomsindo wegazi lakho eligeleza, umsindo wohlelo lwakho lokugaya ukudla, nomsindo wenhliziyo yakho eshayayo. Kulezi , ingane yakho izwa izwi lakho ngokucacile. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi izwi lakho liyavevezela emathanjeni akho nasezintweni eziphuma emanzini, kunokuba livezwe emoyeni.
Ngisho noma imisindo evela ngaphandle ingacacile, ingane isakwazi ukuyizwa ngokucacile ngendlela emangalisayo. Izingane zingayizwa imisindo ephansi, njengamazwi abesilisa nomculo , ikakhulukazi kahle.
Ezinye izifundo zibonise ukuthi umntwana ukhumbula indaba ezwakala kaningi ngesikhathi esesibelethweni noma ingoma eyinhloko yedrama yethelevishini eyayivame ukulalelwa, ngisho nangemva kokuzalwa, nokuthi umntwana uba nokuthula lapho ezwa leyo misindo.
Zinjani ezinye izinzwa zomntwana?
Ezinye izinzwa zomntwana nazo zikhula kahle esibelethweni. Ake sibheke lokho.
| Inzwa | Ingane izizwa kanjani? |
|---|---|
| Thinta | Kusukela ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa, izingane zizwa ukuthintwa ngokuthinta izindonga zesibeletho, intambo yesisu, kanye nezingxenye zomzimba wazo. Zithanda kakhulu ukuthinta ubuso bazo. Ezinyangeni ezingaba ngu-8, zizofinyelela okuthile bese zivula imilomo yazo uma zisondezwa kukho. Lokhu kungukuqala "kwe-rooting reflex" edingekayo ukuze zincele ngemva kokuzalwa. |
| Ukunambitha Nokunuka | Kunzima ukuhlukanisa lezi zinzwa ezimbili. Kusukela enyangeni yesine yokukhulelwa, ingane yakho igwinya uketshezi lwe-amniotic, oluqukethe ukunambitheka kokudla okudlayo. Ngekota yesithathu, ingane yakho ingakwazi ukuhlukanisa hhayi kuphela ukunambitheka okumnandi, okubabayo, okumuncu, kodwa futhi nokunambitheka okubabayo njengegalikhi. Lokhu kujwayelana nokunambitheka esibelethweni kuzosiza ingane yakho ukuthi ijwayele ukunambitheka kobisi lwebele ngemva kokuzalwa. |
| Ibhalansi | Umuzwa wokulinganisela wengane yakho uyakhula njengoba intanta futhi ijikeleza esibelethweni, kanye nokunyakaza kwakho. Lokhu kunyakaza kuvuselela izakhiwo ezingaphakathi kwendlebe yakhe ezilawula ukulinganisela. Yingakho izingane eziningi zijika amakhanda azo ngaphambi kokuba zizalwe. Futhi, ngemva kokuzalwa, uma umshukumisa lapho ekhala, ukunyakaza kumkhumbuza ukunyakaza okukhululekile akuzwa esibelethweni, okumthulisa. |
| Ukubona | Ukubona kungumqondo wokugcina okufanele ukhule. Nakuba amehlo engane eqala ukukhula, awavuli amehlo ayo kuze kube yinyanga yesi-7. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke, ingane izovula futhi ivale amehlo ayo, igoqe amehlo ayo, futhi ibonakale sengathi iyawahlola. Uma ukukhanya okukhulu kukhanya kuwe ngokuzumayo, ingane ingakuzwa ngesibeletho. Khona-ke ingane cishe iyoba matasa kakhulu. |
Ingabe ufuna ukudala "i-Super Baby"?
Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zamadivayisi emakethe namuhla ezithi zithuthukisa ubuhlakani namakhono engane. Lezi zinhlobo zifaka phakathi izikhulumi ezincane ezinamathele esiswini, kanye namadivayisi enza ingane ilalele umculo (amadivayisi 'okukhuthaza i-fetal acoustic'). Abanye abantu bathi "umphumela we-Mozart', okungukuthi, ukulalela umculo weklasikhi, kuthuthukisa ubuhlakani bengane. Ngenxa yalokhu, abanye abazali bayalingeka ukuba bachithe imali eningi futhi bathenge izinto ezinjalo.
Kodwa asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka noma sokuchitha imali kulokhu. Ochwepheshe abaningi bokukhula kwengane bathi imvelo ngokwayo inikeza umntwana isikhuthazo asidingayo ngesikhathi esifanele nangendlela efanele.
Ukukhuthazwa kwemvelo ingane yakho ekutholayo ezintweni ezifana nalokho okwenzayo phakathi nosuku, izingxoxo zakho, nomculo owulalelayo kwanele ukumlungiselela ukufika kwakhe emhlabeni.
Eqinisweni, ukubeka izipikha noma ama-headphone esiswini sengane yakho nokuyenza ilalele umculo kungaphazamisa amaphethini ayo okulala emvelo. Izingane zichitha u-95% wesikhathi sazo zilele esibelethweni. Ngakho-ke, ukukhuthazwa okunjalo kokwenziwa kungaphazamisa nephethini yokukhula kwemvelo yobuchopho bazo.
Ngakho-ke kuyini ukubaluleka kokukhuluma nokucula izingoma kumntwana?
Inzuzo enkulu yakho ukuthi ilungele abazali kanye nengane. Uma ukhuluma nengane yakho, uyiculela izingoma, futhi uyihlikihla esiswini, wena nengane yakho nakha ubuhlobo obuqinile. Uqala ukuzwa ukuthi lesi sivakashi esisha esincane sizoba yingxenye enkulu yempilo yakho. Ingane nayo izwa uthando nokunakekelwa kukanina noyise kusukela esibelethweni. Yilokho okubaluleke kakhulu.
Uma uthanda umculo we-classical, ulalele. Uma ukulethela injabulo nenduduzo, umntwana uzozwa leyo njabulo nenduduzo ngama-hormone. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungaziphoqeleli ukwenza into ongayithandi, uthi "kuhle kumntwana."
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ingane esesiswini sakho ingakuzwa, ikuzwe ukuthinta kwakho, futhi inambithe ngisho nalokho okudlayo. Kuyisiqalo sesibopho esimangalisayo.
- Ukukhuthaza okudingekayo ukuze ubuchopho nemizwa yengane yakho kukhule kahle kuza ngokwemvelo empilweni yakho yansuku zonke.
- Khuluma nengane yakho, uhlabelele izingoma, bese uyihlikihla isisu. Lezi zinto ziqinisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho nengane yakho.
- Akukho sizathu sesayensi sokuthenga amadivayisi abizayo emakethe athi adala "i-Super Baby." Angaphazamisa ngisho nokukhula kwemvelo komntwana.
- Ukukhulelwa ngakunye kuhlukile. Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka mayelana nokunyakaza noma ukukhula kwengane yakho, sicelaKhuluma nodokotela wakho.
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