Cishe uke wezwa amagama athi 'Neurotypical' noma 'Neurodivergent' muva nje. Sizwa la magama ngaso sonke isikhathi manje, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana noma lapho sikhuluma nomngane. Mhlawumbe lawa amagama amasha kuwe. Kalula nje, abhekisela ekwehlukeni okuthile endleleni ubuchopho bethu obukhula futhi busebenza ngayo. Lena akuyona indaba enhle noma embi, efanele noma engalungile. Ngakho-ke namuhla, ake sixoxe ngokuthi iyini ngempela 'Neurotypical', nokuthi ihluke kanjani ku-'Neurodivergent'.
Kusho ukuthini ngempela ukuthi 'i-Neurotypical'?
Kalula nje, igama elithi 'Neurotypical' akulona igama lezokwelapha. Liyigama elakhiwe emphakathini. Lichaza indlela ubuchopho babantu abaningi emhlabeni obukhula futhi busebenza ngayo. Okusho ukuthi, uma ubuchopho bomuntu busebenza ngendlela elindelekile, njengeningi, khona-ke simbiza lowo muntu ngokuthi 'Neurotypical'.
Cabanga ngalokhu. Iningi labantu emhlabeni lisebenzisa isandla sokudla, akunjalo? Yilokho okuvame kakhulu okubonayo. Futhi, phakathi kuka-80% no-85% wabantu emhlabeni bahlukaniswa njengezifo ze-Neurotypical.
Ubuchopho bomuntu ojwayelekile wezinzwa buvame ukusebenza ngezinga elifanayo kumakhono ahlukahlukene. Isibonelo, ubuchopho bakhe bubonisa amazinga afanayo okusebenza ezindaweni ezifana nenkumbulo, amakhono ezibalo, kanye nolimi olukhulunyiwe noma olubhaliwe.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu yile. Akukho okuhle noma okubi, ukuphakama noma ukungaziphathi kahle ekubeni yi-Neurotypical noma i-Neurodivergent. Kumane kuyisici, njengombala wezinwele zakho noma umbala wesikhumba.
Kungani igama elithi 'okuvamile' lingafaneleki lapha?
Lapha sinombuzo omkhulu: "Uma kufana neningi, akusikho yini 'okujwayelekile'?" Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, ayikho into 'ejwayelekile' uma kukhulunywa ngobuchopho.
Cabanga ngendlela ubuchopho bethu obuyinkimbinkimbi ngayo. Ubuchopho bomuntu obujwayelekile bunama-neuron angaba yizigidigidi ezingu-86. Lawa ngamaseli axhumana omunye nomunye ngezibonakaliso zikagesi nezamakhemikhali. Uma ama-neuron amabili enza ukuxhumana, sikubiza ngokuthi i-synapse. Kunezigidigidi zala ma-synapse ebuchosheni bakho. Le nethiwekhi yama-synapse yiyo ekwenza ube nguwe.
Lokho kusho ukuthi abukho ubuchopho obufana nobomunye ngo-100%. Njengeminwe yethu. Ubuchopho bomuntu wonke buhlukile. Ngakho-ke, asikwazi ukuchaza ngempela ukuthi ubuchopho 'obujwayelekile' buyini. Kunalokho, sibheka amaphethini okusebenza kobuchopho. I-neurotypical igama nje elinikezwa iphethini evame kakhulu.
Umehluko phakathi kokuba yi-Neurotypical nokuba yi-Neurodivergent
Njengomuntu onesifo se-Neurotypical, akudingeki ubhekane nezinye zezinselele umuntu onesifo se-Neurodivergent abhekana nazo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi izinto eziningi emhlabeni, njengezikole, izindawo zokusebenza, kanye nemikhuba yomphakathi, zenzelwe ukuhambisana nobuchopho be-Neurotypical. Ukuze uqonde lo mehluko, bheka ishadi elingezansi.
| Ingxenye | Indlela ozizwa ngayo njengomuntu onesifo se-Neurotypical |
|---|---|
| Ukuzivumelanisa nomphakathi | Akudingeki uzenze sengathi ufana nabo bonke abanye emphakathini. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuzifihla ubuso." Uma uyilokho oyikho, akudingeki ukhathazeke ngabantu abakuxoshayo noma abakubuza imibuzo. |
| Isikole kanye nemfundo | Amakilasi esikole, ikharikhulamu, kanye nemisebenzi kuklanyelwe ukuhambisana nezingane ezinesifo sezinzwa. Ngakho-ke ngeke ukuthole kunzima kakhulu ukugxila entweni eyodwa, ukulandela imiyalelo, nokuqedela imisebenzi ngesikhathi. |
| Ukucubungula izinzwa | Awuzizwa ungakhululekile kangako ngolwazi oluthola ezinzwa zakho (amehlo, izindlebe, ikhala, ulimi, isikhumba). Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukubekezelela imisindo ephezulu, amaphunga ahlukene, kanye nabantu abakushayisana emakethe egcwele abantu. Awubi nomuzwa wokuphelelwa yithemba futhi ulahleke endaweni enjalo. |
| Ukuxhumana nabantu | Uma abantu bekhuluma bodwa, kunemithetho eminingi engashiwongo kanye nokulindela esikubekayo. Isibonelo, ukuthi kufanele sibheke umuntu isikhathi esingakanani emehlweni, ukuthi kufanele singene kuphi engxoxweni, njll. Abantu abanesifo sezinzwa bayaqonda lezi zinto cishe ngokuzenzakalelayo, okwenza ukuxhumana nabantu kube lula. |
Ingabe umuntu onesifo sezinzwa kamuva angaba yi-Neurodivergent?
Yebo, kungenzeka ngempela. Ngisho noma uzalwa une-Neurotypical, ungase ube ne-Neurodivergent ngesizathu esithile empilweni yakho. Lokhu sikubiza ngokuthi "i-Acquired Neurodivergence" .
Lokhu kusho ukuthi indlela ubuchopho bakho obusebenza ngayo ishintshile ngenxa yento eyenzekile kuyo ngesikhathi esithile empilweni yakho. Lokhu akudingeki kubhekwe njengento embi. Kungushintsho nje.
Kunezinto eziningana ezingabangela "ukuhlukana kwe-Neurodivergence okutholakale." Ezinye zalezi zingaba zesikhashana, kanti ezinye zingaba ezihlala njalo.
- Izifo zobuchopho ezenzeka ngokuguga: Izifo ezifana nesifo i-Alzheimer's zishintsha unomphela ukusebenza kobuchopho.
- Ukulimala kobuchopho okubuhlungu (ii-TBI): Cabanga ngomuntu othole ingozi enkulu wabe eseshaya ikhanda lakhe kanzima. Ngemva kwaleyo ngozi, angase abe nezinkinga zenkumbulo zesikhashana noma ezihlala njalo. Lokhu futhi kuwukuhlukana kwezinzwa okubangelwa ukulimala kobuchopho okubuhlungu (ii-TBI).
- Izimo zempilo yengqondo: Izimo zempilo yengqondo ezifana nokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka zingashintsha indlela ubuchopho obusebenza ngayo. Futhi, isifo sokucindezeleka ngemva kwenhlekelele (PTSD), isimo lapho ubuchopho buthola impendulo yokuzivikela ngemva kokubhekana nesenzakalo esinzima esibuhlungu, singesinye salezo zimo.
Ngaphezu kwalokhu, kube nemibiko yabantu abaqala ngokuzumayo ukukhombisa izimpawu zokuhlukana kwemizwa ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo. Kodwa-ke, izimo ezinjalo azivamile kakhulu.
Ingabe Abazali Abavamile Bezinzwa Bangaba Nezingane Ezihlukene Zezinzwa?
Yebo. Abazali abaphila impilo yengqondo bangaba nezingane eziphila impilo yengqondo ehlukile. Ngokufanayo, abazali abaphila impilo yengqondo ehlukile bangaba nezingane eziphila impilo yengqondo ehlukile.
Kukhona ingxenye yezakhi zofuzo kulokhu. Izimo ezifana nokuntuleka kokunaka/ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo (ADHD) kanye ne-autism zingase zisebenze emindenini. Kodwa-ke, ochwepheshe abakaqondi ngokugcwele ukuthi lezi zimo zikhula kanjani noma ukuthi kungani abanye abantu kuphela abazikhula. Izici eziningi, hhayi izakhi zofuzo kuphela, zingadlala indima. Ngakho-ke, akuqiniseki ukuthi izingane zizozuza lesi simo ngenxa nje yokuthi abazali bazo babenaso.
Okokugcina, into ebaluleke kakhulu okudingeka siyiqonde ukuthi i-Neurotypical kanye ne-Neurodivergent azivamile futhi azivamile, noma zinhle futhi azimbi. Zimane ziwumehluko. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungubani, kuyingxenye nje yalokho oyikho, akukuchazi ngokuphelele.
Uma ungumuntu onesifo se-Neurotypical, ubuchopho bakho bungase busebenze ngendlela ehlukile kune-Neurodivergent. Kodwa nobabili ninokuningi okufanayo. Nobabili ningabantu, futhi nobabili nifuna ukuphila impilo ejabulisayo nenempilo. Ngokwakha umphakathi osekela futhi oqondayo i-Neurodivergents, sonke siyazuza, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi singabantu abanesifo se-Neurotypical noma abanesifo se-Neurodivergent.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- 'I-neurotypical' isho ukuthi ubuchopho bakho bukhule futhi busebenza njengobuchopho babantu abaningi emhlabeni. Akusho ukuthi 'okuvamile' noma 'okungcono'.
- 'I-Neurodivergent' imane nje iyindlela ehlukile yokusebenza kobuchopho. Akukho okuhle noma okubi.
- Ngisho noma umuntu ezalwa ene-Neurotypical, angase abe ne-'Acquired Neurodivergence' ngenxa yengozi, ukugula, noma ukuhlukumezeka ngesikhathi sokuphila kwakhe.
- Ngokuqonda lo mehluko, ukuhloniphana, nokusebenza ndawonye, singakha umphakathi ongcono nowamukelayo kubo bonke.
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