Uma umama wakho, ubaba, noma umuntu omthandayo enesifo i-Alzheimer's, ngiyazi ukuthi kunzima futhi kuthinta imizwelo kangakanani ukubanakekela. Njengoba inkumbulo yabo iphela usuku nosuku, futhi bengakwazi ukuzenzela izinto bodwa, badinga ukunakekelwa amahora angama-24. Ngezikhathi ezinjengalezi, ungase ucabange ngekhaya lasebekhulile. Kuyisinqumo esinzima. Kodwa khumbula, ukwenza lokhu ngothando nangokuphepha kwabo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba nolwazi oluphelele nokwenza isinqumo esingcono kakhulu.
Hlobo luni lokunakekelwa olunikezwayo ekhaya lasebekhulile?
Kalula nje, izindawo ezinjengalezi zinikeza izinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko zokunakekelwa.
1. Ukunakekelwa Okuyisisekelo: Lokhu kusho ukusiza ngemisebenzi yansuku zonke. Isibonelo, ukusiza ngokugeza, ukugqoka, ukudla nokuhamba.
2. Ukunakekelwa Okunekhono: Lokhu kuthuthuke kakhulu. Kuhilela izinsizakalo zochwepheshe abanjengoBahlengikazi Ababhalisiwe kanye nodokotela bezokwelapha ngokomzimba. Baphatha izimo zezokwelapha, banikeze imithi edingekayo, futhi banikeze ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha.
Izinsizakalo ezilandelayo ngokuvamile zingalindelwa ekhaya lasebekhulile:
- Indawo yokuhlala kanye nokudla (igumbi kanye nokudla kathathu ngosuku)
- Ukusiza ukunikeza imithi ngesikhathi
- Usizo ngemisebenzi yomuntu siqu njengokugqoka, ukugeza, kanye nokugeza indlu yangasese
- Isevisi yokunakekelwa kwezimo eziphuthumayo yamahora angama-24
- Imisebenzi eyahlukahlukene yenhlalakahle yengqondo kanye nokuzijabulisa (Imisebenzi yezenhlalo kanye neyokuzilibazisa)
Ungayithola kanjani indawo engcono kakhulu?
Kungathatha isikhathi ukuthola indawo efanele othandekayo wakho. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ukubheka kusenesikhathi, kunokulinda kuze kube yilapho unesimo esiphuthumayo. Ngoba kungase kube nohlu lokulinda lokwamukelwa ezindaweni eziningi ezinhle. Ukuhlela kusengaphambili kungenza ushintsho lube lula kakhulu.
Okokuqala, wena nomndeni wakho kufanele nixoxe ngokuthi yiziphi izinsizakalo umuntu omthandayo azidingayo nokuthi uzidinga kangaki. Ngaphambi kokuthi ushayele izindawo, yenza uhlu lwezinto ezibalulekile kuwe. Shayela izindawo bese ubuza ukuthi zinamakamelo atholakalayo yini, yiziphi izidingo zokungena, yiliphi izinga lokunakekelwa abakunikezayo, kanye nezindlela zokukhokha abazinikezayo.
Khumbula, awuwedwa owenza lesi sinqumo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlanganisa wonke umuntu emndenini futhi nihambe ndawonye kulolu hambo.
Uma ukhetha ikhaya lasebekhulile, naka kakhulu lezi zici:
Ngaphambi kokuthi uyobona indawo, bheka lolu hlu bese uphendula imibuzo yakho. Ngaleyo ndlela, ngeke ukhohlwe lutho.
Hlola futhi abasebenzi.
- Ingabe abahlengikazi nabasizi balapho banolwazi lokunakekela asebekhulile, ikakhulukazi labo abanezimo ezifana ne-Alzheimer's?
- Ingabe bayakhuluma futhi baziphatha ngomusa nangesineke kubantu abahlala lapho? Ingabe babonakala bezimisele ukusebenza?
- Ingabe bakhona abasebenzi abanele ukusiza uma kwenzeka isimo esiphuthumayo?
- Ingabe bakhona abantu abaqeqeshwe ngokukhethekile ukusiza abantu abanezinkinga zokukhumbula nokudideka?
Banjani abahlali kanye nemvelo?
- Ingabe abanye abantu lapho babonakala bejabule futhi bekhululekile? Ingabe bahlanzekile futhi bagqoke kahle?
- Bathini abanye izivakashi kanye nezakhamuzi ngale ndawo? Uma kungenzeka, babuze.
- Ingabe amalungelo ezakhamuzi aboniswa ngokucacile?
Izakhiwo nezindawo zokusebenza
- Ingabe leyo ndawo ibukeka ijabule futhi ihlanzekile? Ingabe inephunga elinjalo?
- Ingabe amakamelo azwakala sengathi asekhaya? Noma njengesibhedlela?
- Ingabe umuntu osebenzisa isihlalo sabakhubazekile angahamba kalula? Ingabe iminyango nezindlela azincane?
- Ingabe amakamelo akhanya kahle?
- Ingabe ikhona indlela yokusabela eziphuthumayo ekamelweni ngalinye exwayisa abasebenzi uma kwenzeka isimo esiphuthumayo?
- Ingabe izindlu zangasese ziyimfihlo? Ingabe isihlalo sabakhubazekile singafakwa kuzo?
- Uvumelekile yini ukuletha izinto ezithile ekhaya lakho, njengesihlalo noma itafula?
Buza lezi zinto ngokucacile mayelana nezimali kanye nezinkokhelo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda la maqiniso ngokucacile. Ngakho ake siwabheke etafuleni.
| Umbuzo okufanele uwubuze | Kungani lokhu kubalulekile? |
|---|---|
| Ingabe imali ekhokhwayo kulula ukuyiqonda? | Ungathola ukuthi kukhona yini izimali ezifihliwe. |
| Yiziphi izinsizakalo ezifakiwe enkokhelweni eyisisekelo? Yiziphi ezinye izindleko okufanele ngizikhokhe? | Ungagwema izikweletu ezingalindelekile. |
| Kukuziphi izimo lapho inkontileka ingakhanselwa khona? | Thola ukuqonda okucacile kwemigomo yesivumelwano. |
| Iyini inqubomgomo yokubuyiselwa kwemali? | Ukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma kufanele uhambe ngesizathu esithile. |
Ezokwelapha kanye nokunakekelwa kwempilo
- Imithi igcinwa futhi inikezwe kanjani izakhamuzi? Ingabe ikhona inqubo ecacile yalokho?
- Uma umhlali ekwazi ukuphuza imithi yedwa, ingabe lokho kuvunyelwe?
- Kukangaki udokotela noma umhlengikazi eza ukuzohlola impilo yakho?
- Benzani uma kukhona isimo esiphuthumayo sezokwelapha? Ingabe bayakuyisa esibhedlela esiseduze? Ingabe kukhona uhlelo lwalokho? Iyini inqubo yokukuyisa eYunithini Yokwelapha Esiphuthumayo (ETU)?
Ukudla kanye nemisebenzi yomphakathi
- Uphakela ukudla kangaki ngosuku? Ingabe ukudla kuyamnandi futhi kuhlanzekile?
- Ingabe ninikeza ukudla okulungiselelwe ngqo labo abanezidingo ezikhethekile zokudla (isib. isifo sikashukela, umfutho wegazi ophakeme)?
- Ingabe ikhona indawo lapho wonke umuntu angadlela khona ndawonye, noma kufanele sidle emakamelweni?
- Ingabe zikhona izinhlelo zokuzijabulisa nokwenza okuthile ndawonye? Ingabe izakhamuzi zizimisele ukuhlanganyela?
Uma uvakashela indawo, umuzwa wakho wamathumbu ubaluleke kakhulu. Uma ungawutholi umuzwa omuhle ngaleyo ndawo, kunesizathu salokho.
Lesi sinqumo akulula ukusenza. Kodwa ngenxa yokuphepha nenhlalakahle yothandekayo wakho, ngezinye izikhathi kuyinto engcono kakhulu ongayenza. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isinqumo ngalokhu, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela womndeni wakho futhi ucele iseluleko sakhe. Lokho kuzokunika ukuzethemba okwengeziwe.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukubeka umuntu onesifo i-Alzheimer's ekhaya lasebekhulile akusikho ukumshiya. Kuyisinqumo esinzima, kodwa mhlawumbe esidingekayo, esenziwe ngothando lokuphepha kwakhe kanye nenhlalakahle yakhe.
- Zinike isikhathi sakho ukuthola indawo engcono kakhulu. Ungalindi kuze kube yilapho kuvela isimo esiphuthumayo, qala ukubheka kusenesikhathi.
- Ngaphambi kokukhetha indawo, qiniseka ukuthi uyayivakashela. Yivakashele kabili noma kathathu uma kungenzeka. Khuluma nabasebenzi kanye nabanye abahlali.
- Xoxa njalo ngesimo sempilo somuntu omthandayo nezidingo zakhe nodokotela omnakekelayo.
- Khetha indawo ekufanele. Uma uzizwa uqiniseka futhi ukhululekile kuleyo ndawo, cishe iyindawo efanele.
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