Ingabe ngezinye izikhathi uyakhumbula ngokuzumayo leso sikhathi sokuvalwa kwe-Corona lapho izwe lonke lalithule futhi sonke sisekhaya? Imigwaqo yayingenalutho, futhi kwakukhona ukuthula okwesabekayo yonke indawo. Kanye nokwesaba nokungaqiniseki okwakukhona ngaleso sikhathi, abanye abantu banezinkumbulo ezinhle kakhulu nezijabulisayo zalezo zinsuku. Mhlawumbe nawe uzizwa ngendlela efanayo. "O, konke kwakulula ngaleso sikhathi, futhi wonke umuntu emndenini wayendawonye." Kungani sizizwa imizwa ephikisana kangaka? Yilokhu esikubiza ngokuthi 'i-Lockdown Nostalgia'. Ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngokujulile namuhla.
Ingabe 'ukukhumbula izinto ezidlule' kuyinto embi?
Uma abantu bethi 'ukukhumbula izinto ezidlule', abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi kuwubuthakathaka balabo abaphila esikhathini esidlule futhi abangakwazi ukubhekana nesikhathi samanje. Kodwa empeleni akunjalo. Ikakhulukazi ngemva kwesenzakalo esibuhlungu kakhulu esiye sabhekana naso sonke ndawonye, njengobhubhane lwe-coronavirus, ukucabanga ngesikhathi esidlule kungaba usizo kakhulu enhlalakahleni yethu yengqondo.
Njengoba izazi zengqondo zisho, lolu hlobo lokukhumbula izinto ezidlule lunezela izinto eziningi ezinhle ezingqondweni zethu. Isibonelo:
- Izimfanelo ezinjengozwela nobubele ziyathuthuka.
- Ukuxhumana nabantu nabanye kuyaqiniswa.
- Kuyasiza ekunciphiseni ukukhathazeka.
- Lokhu kukusiza ngisho nokucabanga ngendlela enhle ngokuphila.
Kalula nje, ukukhumbula izikhathi zakudala akukhona ukunamathela esikhathini esidlule. Kufana kakhulu nethuluzi izingqondo zethu ezilisebenzisayo ukuze zikhululeke ezimweni ezibuhlungu ngokuxuba kokubili usizi nenjabulo.
Kungani kunemizwa eminingi exubile mayelana nesikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya?
Cabanga ukuthi kunjani ngesikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya. Kuyesabeka ngakolunye uhlangothi, futhi kulula ngokumangalisayo kolunye. Yilokhu abantu abaningi abakubonile. Ake sibheke leli shadi ukuze siqonde kangcono lesi simo.
| Izinkumbulo ezinhle ngesikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya | Izinkumbulo ezimbi ngesikhathi sokuvalelwa endlini |
|---|---|
| Ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nomndeni. Ukudlala i-carom ndawonye nokubukela ama-movie. | Ukwesaba okukhulu kokuthola lesi sifo kanye nokwesaba ukufa. |
| Ukuze ubalekele ukuphithizela kwempilo bese uhlala ekhaya nje. Akukho ukuphithizela, akukho zimoto. | Ubunzima bezomnotho. Ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi, ukulahlekelwa yimali engenayo. |
| Ukufunda izinto ezintsha. Abanye abantu bapheka, baqala ukulima, futhi bathatha izifundo eziku-inthanethi. | Ukucindezeleka kanye nesizungu okubangelwa ukuvaleleka ekhaya. |
| Umuzwa "wokuba ndawonye ngenxa yezwe." Wonke umuntu wayesizana, ehlonipha umkhakha wezempilo. | Ukungaqiniseki okukhulu ngekusasa. Umbuzo othi "Kuzophela nini lokhu?" |
Manje usuyaqonda, akunjalo? Inkumbulo yethu ibheka emuva ngaleso sikhathi ngokuhlanganisa okuhle nokubi. Yingakho kuyinto "emnandi kakhulu" . Uma sikubheka nezingcindezi esibhekene nazo namuhla (isib. izinkinga zomnotho, ukucindezeleka komsebenzi), lokho "kulula" kwesikhathi esidlule kubonakala kukhanga kithi futhi.
Inkumbulo yinto engashintsha.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi inkumbulo yethu akuyona into ebekwe etsheni. Iguquguquka kakhulu . Kuye ngesimo sethu sengqondo samanje kanye nemizwa yethu, ngisho nezinkumbulo zesikhathi esidlule zingashintsha futhi zibe zinhle kakhulu kithi. Okusho ukuthi, empeleni sikhohlwa kancane ngokubaluleka kwaleso sikhathi, futhi izinto ezinhle kuphela ezivelelayo.
"Ngisho noma sonke sibhekene nesenzakalo esifanayo, indlela esisikhumbula ngayo ihlukile kumuntu ngamunye. Ngoba indlela esisibone ngayo ihlukile kakhulu."
Imidiya Yezokuxhumana kanye Nokukhumbula Isikhathi Esidlule
Kulezi zinsuku, izinkundla zokuxhumana seziyisizathu esikhulu sokuthi lokhu kukhumbula izinto ezidlule kwande kakhulu. Uma sibona "Izinkumbulo" ku-Facebook, amavidiyo enziwe ku-TikTok kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, siphinde sikhunjuzwe ngalezo zinsuku. Kumelwe ukuthi uke wabona izinto ezinjengokuthi "O, i-TikTok yayinhle kangakanani ngaleso sikhathi, sasisezingcingweni zevidiyo nabangani kwaze kwaba sebusuku kakhulu, kwakungekho lutho okufanele ulucabange." Lokhu kwenza lezo zinkumbulo zibe namandla nakakhulu.
Ingabe kufanele ube namahloni ngalo muzwa?
Lutho neze. Abanye abantu basho izinto ezinjengokuthi “Nginamahloni ngokukhumbula isikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya” ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kodwa asikho ngempela isizathu sokuba namahloni noma sokuzizwa unecala ngakho.
Izazi zengqondo zithi uma ubhekene nobunzima, kungaba yinto ekucindezelayo kakhulu. Kodwa uma usubusindile futhi uphumelela, ubheka emuva ngaleso sikhathi ngenjabulo. Hhayi ngenxa yobunzima, kodwa ngenxa yomuzwa wokuthi ubunqobile.
Ubhubhane lwe-coronavirus alukapheli ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke, asinayo indlela ethile yokulukhumbula noma ukukhumbula ndawonye labo abashona ngenxa yalo. Yingakho lezi zinkumbulo zivame ukuvela ezingeni lethu lomuntu siqu.
Ngakho-ke, uma nawe uzizwa uxube injabulo nokudabuka uma ucabanga ngezinto owazenza ngesikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya, isikhathi owasichitha nomndeni wakho, nokuthi wahlala kanjani ekhaya ngaphandle kokukhathazeka, lokho kuyinto evamile. Kusho ukuthi ungumuntu oqinile obhekane naleyo nselele futhi waphuma kuyo. Kuyindlela nje yengqondo yakho yokucubungula lokho okuhlangenwe nakho.
Uma unenkinga yokulawula le mizwa, noma uma uzizwa ucindezelekile kangangokuthi kuphazamisa imisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nomngane omethembayo, ilungu lomndeni , noma ukubona udokotela wakho ukuze uthole usizo lochwepheshe .
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- 'I-Lockdown Nostalgia' umuzwa ohlanganisa izinkumbulo ezimnandi nezibuhlungu zesikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya.
- Lokhu akusibo ubuthakathaka, kodwa kuyindlela enempilo yokusiza ingqondo ukuthi ilulame ngemva kwesigameko esibuhlungu njenge-COVID-19.
- Lo muzwa ungaholela emiphumeleni emihle njengokuncipha kokukhathazeka, ukwanda kozwelo, kanye nombono onethemba ngempilo.
- Inkumbulo yethu iyaguquguquka, futhi isikhathi esidlule singabonakala simnandi kakhulu ngokusekelwe emizweni yamanje.
- Kujwayelekile ukuzizwa ukhumbula isikhathi sokuvalelwa ekhaya, futhi asikho isidingo sokuba namahloni noma sokuzizwa unecala ngaso. Kubonisa ukuthi usuyinqobile inselele.
- Uma le mizwa kunzima ukuyilawula, ungangabazi ukufuna iseluleko sezokwelapha.
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