Ukuxhumana nengane yakho eneminyaka engu-6-12 ubudala – ake sifunde lezi zinto ezibalulekile.

Ingane yakho manje iya esikoleni. Kancane kancane, iqala ukusebenza yodwa, ichitha isikhathi esiningi ngaphandle kwekhaya, okungukuthi, esikoleni, nabangani bayo. Mhlawumbe ucabanga ukuthi, "O, manje isikhulile, izoba yodwa." Kodwa, ukuze kuqiniswe isibopho phakathi kwakho nengane yakho, kusabalulekile kakhulu ukushintshana ngemibono, imibono, nolwazi, akunjalo? Yile ngxoxo lapho ingane yakhela khona ukwethembana kokuthi ingabelana ngakho konke okusengqondweni yayo, injabulo yayo, usizi lwayo, nezinkinga zayo nawe.

Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukuxhumana nengane yakho?

Ngakho-ke, kunezinto ezimbalwa ezincane esingazenza ukuze senze izingxoxo nengane yesikole ziphumelele kakhudlwana. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini.

• Zinike isikhathi sokubuza ngosuku lomntwana wakho: Lena yinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Uma ingane yakho ibuya esikoleni, noma ngesikhathi sokudla kwakusihlwa, buza, "Bekunjani usuku lwakho?" Ungabuzi nje bese ubheka eceleni. Ingane yakho idinga ukuzizwa sengathi unesithakazelo ngempela futhi ulalele. Ukunqekuzisa ikhanda lakho kulokho ekushoyo, noma ukuphendula ngemibuzo emincane efana nokuthi, "O, akunjalo?" noma "Kwenzekani ngokulandelayo?" kungaba usizo kakhulu.

• Khuluma nengane yakho, ungayishumayeli ingane yakho: Lokhu kuyinto eyenziwa abazali abaningi. Sizonikeza ingane yethu iseluleko esithi "ungakwenzi lokhu", "yenza lokho". Kodwa, esikhundleni salokho, khuluma nengane ngokulinganayo. Mvumele aveze imibono yakhe. Cabanga nje, lapho uNimal ebuya esikoleni, indodana yakhe u-Amal ibuza uchungechunge lwemibuzo efana nokuthi, 'Uthini uthisha wezibalo namuhla? Ubhale wonke umsebenzi wakho wesikole? Awuphumanga ukuyodlala?' U-Amal uphendula ngokuthi 'yebo', 'cha' bese eya ekamelweni lakhe. Kodwa, uma uNimal ebuza ngendlela ehlukile kancane, 'Ndodana, belunjani usuku lwakho namuhla? Ingabe kukhona okukhethekile okwenzekile esikoleni?' emomotheka, u-Amal naye uzizwa sengathi uyabelana ngezinto zakhe noyise. Yileyo ndlela okufanele sikhulume ngayo nezingane zethu.

• Buza imibuzo edlula "yebo/cha": Ukubuza nje ukuthi, "Ingabe isikole besihamba kahle namuhla?" kuzokunika impendulo ethi "yebo" noma "cha". Kunalokho, buza imibuzo eyenza ingane yakho ifune ukuchaza kabanzi. Isibonelo:
• "Yini into ekhethekile kakhulu eyenzekile esikoleni namuhla?"
• "Yisiphi isifundo osithanda kakhulu namuhla? Ngitshele ukuthi kungani."
• "Uhlangane nomngane omusha namuhla?"
• "Ingabe ukhona umuntu omsize namuhla?"

Uma ubuza imibuzo efana nale, ingane iyalingeka ukuthi inikeze imininingwane eyengeziwe, akunjalo?

• Sebenzisa ngisho nezikhathi ezincane kakhulu: Ungase ucabange, "Anginaso isikhathi sokukhuluma nengane yami." Kodwa ungacabangi kanjalo. Ungakhuluma nengane yakho ngenkathi ushayela uya esikoleni, ulinde emgqeni esitolo, noma ngisho nalapho uhlanza imifino. Lezo zikhathi ezincane zibaluleke kakhulu.

• Sebenza futhi udlale ndawonye:Iya emicimbini yezemidlalo nasemakhonsathini esikole sengane yakho. Hlanganani ekhaya nidlale umdlalo omncane, nidwebe, noma nipheke. Uma nenza lezi zinto, ingxoxo iyaqhubeka ngokwemvelo. Ningakhuluma ngokwenzekayo emhlabeni, ngisho nento eniyibonile ephephandabeni.

• Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde izincwadi ezinzima kancane kuneminyaka yayo: Ukuyivumela ukuthi ifunde izincwadi nezindaba ezinzima kancane kunezinga layo lokuqonda kuzosiza ekuthuthukiseni ulwazimagama kanye namakhono olimi. Kodwa ungayiphoqi. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde ngentshiseko.

Indlela yokusebenzisa amagama kanye nezindlela zokuxhumana zezingane ezikule minyaka zishintsha kanjani?

Njengoba izingane ziqala isikole, ikhono lazo lokuqonda nokusebenzisa ulimi liyathuthuka kancane kancane. Ngokuqondile, inkulumo yazo iba yinkimbinkimbi futhi inengqondo.

Ngokuvamile, izingane ezikule minyaka ziqonda amagama nemibono eminingi kunaleyo ezingayiveza ngomlomo. Ingane yakho kufanele manje ikwazi ukulandisa indaba ngendlela elandisayo , okungukuthi, ukuchaza umcimbi ngokulandelana kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni. Kufanele futhi ikwazi ukuveza imicabango nemibono yayo ngokucacile nangendlela abanye abangayiqonda. Inani lamagama abawasebenzisayo nalo liyakhula, futhi imisho yabo iyakhula kancane.

Kufanele silufune nini usizo? Sibona kanjani ukuthi kunenkinga?

Akuzona zonke izingane ezifanayo. Ezinye izingane ziyakwazi ukukhuluma nokuziveza ngokushesha. Ezinye zithatha isikhathi eside. Kodwa-ke, kunezinto ezithile okudingeka siziqaphele kancane.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nothisha wesikole sengane yakho njalo ngamakhono ayo olimi, okungukuthi, indlela ekhuluma futhi eqonda ngayo izinto. Ngoba izingane ezinezinkinga zokuqonda nokusebenzisa ulimi cishe zizoba nezinkinga zemfundo .

Hlala uxhumene nothisha.

Uthisha wesikole nguyena obona kakhulu indlela ingane yakho eziphatha ngayo ekilasini, indlela exhumana ngayo nezinye izingane, nendlela eziqonda ngayo izifundo. Ngakho-ke, khuluma nothisha njalo ngamakhono olimi nentuthuko yengane yakho. Uma kunenkinga, kuzosiza ukuyibona kusenesikhathi.

Udinga usizo kudokotela wezifo zolimi lokukhuluma?

Ngezinye izikhathi, uma ingane yakho inenkinga ethile yokukhuluma, njengokungingiza , noma umehluko ekuphimiseni izinhlamvu ezithile, isibonelo, uhlamvu 's' luzwakala njengo-'th', noma uhlamvu 'r' lunenkinga yokuphimisa (lisp) , kufanele uyithumele ku-Speech-Language Pathologist esikoleni. Laba ngochwepheshe abahlola futhi baphathe izinkinga zokukhuluma nolimi. Bangathola ukuthi inkinga yengane iyini ngempela futhi banikeze ukwelashwa okufanele kanye nokuzivocavoca.

Uma kunjalo, khuluma nodokotela wezokwelapha njalo ngemigomo yokwelashwa, ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi yolimi okufanele uyenze ekhaya, nokuthi ingane yakho ithuthuka kanjani. Ukusekela kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu enganeni yakho.

Izimo lapho kungadingeka khona ukuhlolwa okuphelele

Uma uthisha wengane yakho esola ukuthi inokukhubazeka kokufunda okusekelwe olimini , kungadingeka ukuthi enze uchungechunge lwezivivinyo ezibanzi ukuze aphenye inkinga. Lokhu kungasiza ekuboneni amandla nobuthakathaka bengane yakho. Lokhu kuvame ukufaka:

• Ukuhlolwa kokuzwa: Ngezinye izikhathi, ingane ingaba nobunzima bokukhuluma noma ukuqonda ngoba ayikwazi ukuzwa kahle. Yingakho lolu vivinyo lubalulekile.
• Ukuhlolwa kwezemfundo yengqondo: Lokhu kuhilela ukuhlola indlela yokufunda yengane kanye nezinqubo zobuhlakani ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo ezijwayelekile. Lokhu kunganikeza isithombe esicacile samandla nobuthakathaka bengane.
• Ukuhlolwa kolimi lokukhuluma: Uchwepheshe wezokwelapha ulimi lokukhuluma uhlola amakhono olimi lwengane ngezindlela ezahlukene.

Kusekelwe olwazini olutholwe kulezi zivivinyo ukuthi kwenziwa izinqumo mayelana nokuthi yiluphi usizo olukhethekile ingane eludingayo.

Yiziphi ezinye zezinkinga ezingabonakala ekuxhumaneni?

Manje ake sibheke ezinye zezinkinga ingane engase ibe nazo uma kukhulunywa. Uma ubona ukuthi ingane yakho inenye noma ezimbili zalezi zinkinga, kungumqondo omuhle ukukhathazeka kancane bese ukhuluma nothisha noma udokotela.

• Izinkinga zokuzwa.
• Ubunzima bokulalela nokulandela imiyalelo ekilasini (isib., kubonakala sengathi akalaleli lokho uthisha akushoyo).
• Ubuthakathaka ekukhumbuleni izinto ezizwiwe nezishiwoyo.
• Ukuthuthukiswa kwesilulumagama kubi kakhulu, futhi akukho sithakazelo sokufunda amagama amasha.
• Izinkinga ngohlelo lolimi kanye nohlelo lokubhala . Okusho ukuthi, ubunzima bokukhuluma ngemisho efanele.
• Ubunzima bokuveza imibono noma ukulandisa indaba ngendlela ehlelekile (Inkulumo elandisayo) . Uma ulandisa indaba, ilandiswa lapha nalaphaya ngaphandle kokuhleleka.
• Izinkinga zokufunda, ikakhulukazi ukufunda nokubhala.
• Indaba ayicacile, okwenza kube nzima ngabanye ukuyiqonda.
• Ukungingiza okuqhubekayo noma ukuphumisela .

Uma olunye noma ngaphezulu lwalezi zimpawu luqhubeka, kungcono ukufuna iseluleko sochwepheshe.

Ingabe kudingeka sikhathazeke ngezinkinga zekhwalithi yokukhuluma?

Ngezinye izikhathi ungase uqaphele izinguquko ezwini lengane yakho. Isibonelo, izwi lingase libe nomsindo obukhali (ukuhosha) , umsindo ozwakala uphefumula (ukuphefumula) , noma umsindo oqhekekile noma obukhali (ukubhodla).. Kuvamile ukuthi izinto ezinjengalezi zenzeke kanye noma kabili uma unomkhuhlane. Kodwa uma ushintsha izwi njalo kanje, kungcono ukubona udokotela wamehlo bese ucela iseluleko sezokwelapha. Ngoba kungaba yinto efana nokulimala okuncane kwemisipha yezwi.

Ngakho-ke, yini into ebaluleke kakhulu okudingeka siyikhumbule? (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Bheka, uma ubona ukuthi ingane yakho inobunzima bokukhuluma, ungesabi. Akusikho ukuphela komhlaba. Odokotela bezifo zolimi lokukhuluma , abanye abelaphi, kanye nodokotela womndeni wakho bakulungele ukukusiza wena nengane yakho ninqobe lezi zinkinga.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela inkinga ngokushesha bese uyidlulisela kumuntu ofanele. Futhi, ukukhuluma njalo nengane yakho ngothando, isithakazelo, kanye nesineke kubaluleke kakhulu hhayi nje ekuthuthukisweni kolimi lwayo, kodwa nasekuthuthukisweni kobuntu bayo bonke. Amazwi akho, ukulalela kwakho kungenza umhlaba wengane ube muhle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kusukela namuhla, ake sixoxe nezingane zethu kakhudlwana?

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