Umhlahlandlela Wokunakekelwa Kwezinsana Zabazali Abaqalayo: Ake Sixoxe!

Uma wamukela umntwana omusha empilweni yakho, intombazane noma umfana, impilo yakho yonke iyashintsha, akunjalo? Kanye nenjabulo, kuvamile ukuba nemibuzo eminingi efana nokuthi "Ngenzenjani manje?" kanye nokuthi "Ingabe lokhu kuyinto efanele ukuyenza?" egijima engqondweni yakho. Njengabazali abasha, ungase uzizwe ungenalusizo, uvalelekile, futhi wesaba kancane ngezinye izikhathi. Kodwa ungakhathazeki! Ngalezi zeluleko, uzokwazi ukunakekela ingane yakho encane ngokushesha nangokuzethemba.

Wenzani uma udinga usizo ngemva kokuba umntwana ebuyele ekhaya?

Njengokunakekela umntwana osanda kuzalwa , ukuzinakekela nakho kubaluleke ngendlela efanayo . Lezi zinsuku zimatasa kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzizwe sengathi, "Hawu Nkulunkulu wami, ngizoqala kuphi?" Ngakho-ke kuhle ukuthola usizo kwabanye ngalesi sikhathi.

Izihlobo zakho nabangani bakho bazovuma ukukusiza ngale ndlela. Ngisho noma ungavumelani nabo kwezinye izinto, okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kungaba usizo kuwe. Cabanga nje, umama wakho noma umamazala wakho uthi, "Lena yindlela esasizenza ngayo izinto ngaleso sikhathi." Mhlawumbe lezo zinto azisebenzi nanamuhla, kodwa kukhona ukubaluleka kokulalela lezo okuhlangenwe nakho.

Kodwa kukhona into eyodwa okudingeka uyikhumbule. Ukuze uvikele impilo yengane yakho, wonke umuntu othinta noma okhulisa ingane yakho kufanele abe nolwazi ngemigomo yakhe futhi ahlale ephilile . Uma kukhona ogulayo, kungcono ukumgcina kude nengane yakho. Futhi, uma ukuthola kunzima noma kungakhululekile ukuba nezivakashi, ungazizwa unecala ngokunciphisa inani lezivakashi. Induduzo yakho neyengane yakho yizona zinto ezibaluleke kakhulu.

Ngingamphatha kanjani kahle umntwana wami?

Uma ungakaze uchithe isikhathi esiningi nezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa ngaphambili, zingase zibonakale zibucayi kakhulu futhi zidinga ukuphathwa ngokucophelela. Eqinisweni, zinjalo. Nazi ezinye izinto eziyisisekelo okufanele uzikhumbule:

• Geza izandla zakho kahle (noma usebenzise i-sanitizer yezandla) ngaphambi kokuthinta ingane yakho. Amasosha omzimba ezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa awakakhuli ngokugcwele, okwenza zibe sengozini enkulu yezifo nezifo. Qiniseka ukuthi wonke umuntu othinta ingane yakho unezandla ezihlanzekile.
• Sekela ikhanda nentamo yengane yakho kahle. Uma uphakamisa ingane yakho, uyibamba, uyibamba iqonde, noma uyibamba isuke phansi, kufanele uyisekele kahle njalo. Cabanga ngayo njengesitshalo esincane, siyayinakekela kuze kube yilapho izimpande ziqinile, akunjalo? Yileyo ndlela okuyiyo.
• Ungalokothi unikine ingane, kungaba ngenxa yokudlala noma ngenxa yentukuthelo. Ukunikina kanje kungalimaza ubuchopho bomntwana.Ukopha kwangaphakathi kungenzeka, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokufa kungenzeka. Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu. Uma ufuna ukuvusa ingane yakho, ungazami ukuyishukumisa. Kunalokho, yikitaze iphansi noma uyishaye kancane esihlathini.
• Hlala ubophe ingane yakho enqoleni, enqoleni yengane, noma esihlalweni semoto. Gwema noma yimiphi imisebenzi engabangela ukuba ingane yakho ishukunyiswe kakhulu noma iqine.
• Gwema ukudlala kabi nezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa. Isibonelo, ungalokothi wenze izinto ezinjengokudansa usemathangeni akho noma ukuziphonsa phezulu uzibambe.

Ngingasondelana kanjani nengane yami?

Lokhu kuhlangana kwenzeka emahoreni ambalwa okuqala nezinsuku zokuzalwa komntwana. Abazali bakha ubuhlobo obujulile nomntwana wabo. Ukusondelana ngokomzimba kusiza ekwakheni lobu buhlobo obungokomzwelo, futhi kusiza nomntwana ukuba akhule ngezinye izindlela. Ngamanye amazwi, lokhu "kuhlangana" yilapho uqala ukuthanda umntwana wakho . Ukuba nomzali noma umuntu omdala empilweni yakho okuthanda ngaphandle kwemibandela kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana wakho.

Ungaqala ukubopha ngokubamba ingane yakho bese uyithinta kancane ngezindlela ezahlukene. Enye indlela enhle ukuthintana kwesikhumba nesikhumba , okwaziwa nangokuthi "ukunakekelwa kwe-Kangaroo". Lokhu kuhilela ukubamba ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa eduze kwesifuba sakho. Lokhu kusiza ukuzola ingane nokulawula ukushaya kwenhliziyo yayo. Lokhu kuyinto enhle kakhulu kokubili umama nobaba okufanele bayenze.

Nansi indlela yokuxhumana kwesikhumba nesikhumba nengane yakho:

• Ngaphambi kwalokho, gwema ukugqoka amakha kanye nama-lotion anephunga elimnandi, futhi ugweme intuthu kagwayi.
• Hlala esihlalweni esikhululekile endaweni emnyama, ethule. Gqoka ihembe elingavulwa ngaphambili.
• Faka ingane yakho endebeni bese uyibamba esifubeni sakho esingenalutho.
• Thula, khuluma kancane, uhlebeze, uhlabelele izingoma, noma ufunde incwadi ngokuzwakalayo. Ingane yakho ingase ilale ngalesi sikhathi.

Khumbula: lokhu kusondelana kuyisisekelo sesibopho sothando phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho.

Ngingamduduza kanjani umntwana wami?

Ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi iphumule kungayisiza ukuthi izizwe ijabule futhi ikhululekile. Nazi ezinye izeluleko zokukusiza ukuthi uthobe ingane yakho.

Ukunikeza umntwana umasaji

Ukubhucungwa kwenganeUkuhlikihla izinsana kungaba usizo ezinganeni, ikakhulukazi lezo ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ezinezimo zezokwelapha. Amanye amasu okuhlikihla angasiza ekuthuthukiseni ukusondelana futhi asize ekukhuleni nasekuthuthukisweni kwengane. Kunezincwadi namavidiyo amaningi ngokuhlikihla izinsana - cela udokotela wakho izincomo. Kodwa qaphela , izinsana azinamandla njengabantu abadala, ngakho-ke hlikihla ingane yakho ngobumnene .

Imisindo ehlukene

Ngokuvamile izingane ziyawathanda amazwi, kungaba ukukhuluma, ukububula, ukucula, noma ukugonwa. Ingane yakho cishe izokujabulela nokulalela umculo othambile. Amathoyizi ezingane, ama-rattle, kanye nezinsimbi zomculo eziphathwayo ziyizindlela ezinhle zokuvuselela imizwa yokuzwa yengane yakho. Uma ingane yakho ikhala noma ikhungatheka, zama ukucula ingoma, ukububula inkondlo, noma ukufunda incwadi ngokuzwakalayo. Kungumqondo omuhle futhi ukushukumisa ingane yakho esihlalweni kancane ngalesi sikhathi.

Ezinye izingane zingase zizwele kakhulu ngokuthintwa, ukukhanya, noma umsindo. Zingase zethuke futhi zikhale kalula, zilale kancane kunalokho obekulindelekile, noma ziphendule ubuso bazo lapho othile ekhuluma noma ehlabelela. Uma ingane yakho injalo, gcina umsindo nokukhanya kuphansi noma kuphakathi.

Ukusonga ingane

Enye indlela eduduzayo ukusonga ingane yakho. Lokhu kusebenza kahle kwabanye abantwana emasontweni ambalwa okuqala. Kugcina izingalo zengane ziseduze nomzimba futhi kuvumela imilenze ukuthi inyakaze kancane. Lokhu kugcina ingane ifudumele futhi izingane eziningi ezisanda kuzalwa zibonakala zizizwa ziphephile futhi zikhululekile. Ukusonga ingane kungasiza futhi ekunciphiseni ukusabela kokushaqeka.

Nansi indlela yokumboza umntwana wakho:

1. Thatha ingubo yomntwana bese ugoqa ikona elilodwa phezulu kancane.

2. Beka ingane ibheke phezulu (ibheke phezulu) endwangwini, ikhanda layo libekwe phezu kwekhona eligoqiwe.

3. Thatha ikona lesobunxele ulibeke phezu komzimba womntwana, bese ulifaka ngaphansi kwengalo yesokudla nangemuva kwayo, uliqinise.

4. Thatha ikhonji elingezansi ulibeke phezu kwemilenze yengane bese udonsa ikhanda eceleni. Uma indwangu iseduze kakhulu nobuso bengane, songa indwangu phansi. Ungayisongi kakhulu emaqakaleni. Amaqakala namadolo kufanele agobe kancane futhi aphendukele ngaphandle. Ukusonga ingane ngokuqinile kakhulu kungandisa ingozi ye-hip dysplasia.

5. Thatha ikona lesokudla bese uligoqa uzungeze ingane, bese ulibuyisela ohlangothini lwesobunxele bese uliqinisa. Intamo nekhanda kuphela okufanele kuvezwe.

6. Hlola ukuthi ingane iboshwe ngokuqinile yini. Bheka ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukufaka esinye sezandla zakho phakathi kwe-swaddle nesifuba somntwana. Uma kukhona indawo, ingane ingaphefumula kahle. Kodwa ungavumeli i-swaddle ikhululeke kakhulu.

7. Yeka ukusonga ingane yakho uma ibonisa izimpawu zokugoqa. Lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka cishe ezinyangeni ezimbili. Kule minyaka, ezinye izingane zingagoqa ingane ngenkathi zisonga, okungazisizaKukhona ingozi yokufa kwezinsana ngokuzumayo (i-SIDS).

Ngingamfaka kanjani ingane yami inabukeni?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usebenzisa amanabukeni endwangu noma amanabukeni alahlwayo, ingane yakho izomanzisa, ichame , futhi ikhiphe indle cishe izikhathi eziyishumi ngosuku, noma cishe izikhathi ezingu-70 ngesonto. Khumbula lezi zinto lapho ushintsha amanabukeni engane yakho:

• Gcina konke okudingayo kuseduze (amanabukeni, amanzi, uboya bekotini, indwangu noma `(Ama-Wipes)`)
• Uma uhlanza ingane yakho, sula kancane kusukela phambili kuya emuva ngamanzi, amabhola kakotini, kanye nendwangu noma ama-wipes. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana wentombazane ukuvimbela amagciwane ukuthi angangeni.
• Uma une-diaper rash, faka ukhilimu we-diaper ofanele.
• Geza izandla zakho kahle ngemva kokushintsha inabukeni.

Kufanele ngigeze nini ingane yami?

Emasontweni ambalwa okuqala, umntwana ugezwa ngesiponji. Ngemva kwalokho, ngemva kokuba isiqu sentambo yomlomo sesomile futhi (uma kungumfana) inxeba lokusoka selipholile, umntwana angagezwa esinkini noma ebhavini elincane lepulasitiki lomntwana.

Uma ingane yakho isilungele ukugeza ebhavini, ukugeza okumbalwa kokuqala kufanele kube mnene kakhulu futhi kube kufushane. Uma ingane yakho ikhala noma ikhala, buyela "ebhavini lesiponji" isonto elilodwa noma amabili, bese uzama ukugeza ebhavini futhi. Ukugeza kabili noma kathathu ngesonto kulungile onyakeni wokuqala. Ukugeza okungaphezu kwalokho kungonakalisa isikhumba sengane yakho.

Ungayinakekela kanjani intambo yesisu nendawo yokusoka?

Ukunakekelwa Kwentambo Yenkaba:

Gcina indawo ezungeze isiqu ihlanzekile ngamanzi alula bese uyomisa kancane. Lokhu kuvame ukuthatha izinsuku eziyi-10 kuya kweziyi-14, ngezinye izikhathi kuze kube amasonto ama-3. Ungayicwilisi indawo emanzini kuze kube yilapho isiqu sesiwile futhi siphola. Ngaphambi kokuba isiqu siwile, sizoshintsha umbala kusuka kophuzi kuya konsundu noma omnyama - lokhu kuvamile . Uma indawo iba bomvu, inephunga elibi, noma ikhipha ubomvu, bona udokotela wakho ngokushesha.

Ukunakekela indawo yokusoka:

Ngemva kokusoka, odokotela bavame ukufaka inani elincane le-petroleum jelly esicongweni sepenis yomntwana bese beyimboza nge-gauze ukuze inxeba linganamatheli enambeni. Ngesikhathi sokushintsha inabukeni ngakunye, sula kancane isicongo sepenis ngamanzi afudumele (hhayi ama-baby wipes), bese ufaka i-petroleum jelly kanye ne-gauze entsha. Noma yikuphi ukubomvu noma ukuvuvukala epenis kufanele kuphele ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kuya esontweni. Kodwa-ke, uma kuba kubi kakhulu, noma uma kuvela amabhamuza agcwele ubomvu, shayela udokotela wengane yakho ngokushesha.Lezi kungaba izimpawu zokutheleleka.

Kufanele ngiyincelise kangaki ingane yami?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uncelisa noma uncelisa ingane yakho esanda kuzalwa ngebhodlela, ungase uzibuze ukuthi uzoyipha kangaki. Ngokuvamile kunconywa ukuthi uyiphakele izingane uma kudingeka – okungukuthi, noma nini lapho zibonakala zilambile. Ingane yakho izokwazisa ukuthi ilambile ngokukhala, ngokufaka iminwe emlonyeni wayo, noma ngokwenza umsindo wokumunca. Ingane esanda kuzalwa kufanele iphakelwe njalo emahoreni angu-2-3 .

Ungacabanga ukuthi umntwana oncelisayo uthola ukudla okwanele uma enalezi zimpawu:

• Ubonakala wanelisekile.
• Uma unezimbotshana ezimanzi ezingaba ngu-6 ngosuku bese ukhipha indle izikhathi eziningana.
• Bhala kahle.
• Uma isisindo sikhuphuka njengoba kulindelekile.

Enye indlela enhle yokwazi ukuthi ingane encelisayo ithola ubisi olwanele yini ukubona ukuthi amabele akho azizwa egcwele yini ngaphambi kokuncelisa nokuthi azizwa engenalutho yini ngemva kokuncelisa. Uma uncelisa ubisi lwefomula, ungahlola kalula ukuthi ingane yakho ithola okwanele yini. Uma unemibuzo mayelana nokukhula noma isimiso sokuncelisa kwengane yakho, khuluma nodokotela wakho.

Izingane zivame ukugwinya umoya uma zidla, okungazenza zithukuthele. Ukuze uvimbele lokhu, hlala ubhodla ingane yakho ngokuyibamba ehlombe lakho bese uyishaya kancane emhlane .

Yini okudingeka ngiyazi ngokulala komntwana wami?

Ungase umangale ukuzwa ukuthi izinsana ezisanda kuzalwa zilala amahora angu-16 ngosuku noma ngaphezulu. Ngokuvamile zilala amahora angu-2-4 ngesikhathi. Iningi lezingane lilala ubusuku bonke (phakathi kwamahora angu-6-8) cishe ezinyangeni ezintathu. Kodwa uma ingane yakho ingalali kangako, akuyona imbangela yokukhathazeka . Njengabantu abadala, izinsana zithuthukisa amaphethini azo okulala kanye nemijikelezo yazo.

Ukuze unciphise ingozi ye-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), hlala ulalisa ingane yakho ngomhlane. Eminye imikhuba yokulala ephephile ihlanganisa:

• Ungazisebenzisi izingubo zokulala, imicamelo, omatilasi, izingubo zoboya bezilwane, amabhampa, izilwane ezigcwele, imicamelo, njll. ebhedini noma ebhasini lapho umntwana elele khona. Lokhu kungabangela ukuminyana komntwana.
• Abazali kufanele balale ekamelweni elifanayo (kodwa hhayi embhedeni ofanayo ) nomntwana wabo ezinyangeni zokuqala eziyisithupha kuya onyakeni.

Ukuze uvimbele uhlangothi olulodwa lwekhanda lomntwana wakho ukuthi lungabi yisicaba, shintsha uhlangothi ikhanda lomntwana wakho elikulo njalo ebusuku (okokuqala uye kwesokudla, bese uye kwesobunxele, bese uye kwesokudla futhi).

Maduze nje uzojwayela konke lokhu futhi unakekele umntwana njengochwepheshe!

Okokugcina, khumbula lokhu (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Ukuba umzali omusha kuyinjabulo futhi kuyinselele. Konke kusha, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nezinto ezincane kakhulu zingakukhungathekisa. Kodwa khumbula, awuwedwa .

• Ungesabi ukucela usizo.Thola usizo emndenini, kubangani, noma kudokotela wakho noma kumbelethisi.
• Lalela inhliziyo yakho. Njengomzali, kunezinto ozizwa ngokwemvelo.
• Umntwana ngamunye uhlukile. Umntwana wakho angase angenzi into efanayo neyomntwana womngane wakho. Lokho kuvamile.
• Okubaluleke kakhulu, zinakekele. Ungamnakekela kahle umntwana wakho kuphela uma ujabule futhi uphilile.

Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wakho . Bangakunikeza izinsiza nolwazi olungakusiza. Ngikufisela okuhle kulolu hambo olusha!

Usana Olusanda Kuzalwa, Ukukhulisa Izingane, Ukunakekelwa Kwezingane, Abazali Bokuqala, Ukunakekela Izingane, I-SIDS, Ukulala Kwezingane, Ukuncelisa Ibele