Wamangala yini lapho umngane wakho ekutshela ukuthi uzwe ingane yakhe ishintsha ezinyangeni ezintathu ekhulelwe? Ucabange ukuthi, "O, ingane ishintsha ngokushesha kangaka?"? Omama abaningi banalo mbuzo. Futhi abanye bacabanga ukuthi sekwephuze kakhulu ukuthi bazwe ingane yabo ishintsha. Ngakho-ke, namuhla sizoxoxa ngokuningiliziwe ngalesi sipiliyoni esihle sokuzwa ukunyakaza kokuqala kwengane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, esikubiza ngokuthi ' ukusheshisa ' ngokwezokwelapha.
Umehluko phakathi "Okujwayelekile" kanye "Nesilinganiso"
Ngaphambi kokuba siqale le ndaba, ake siqonde into elula kakhulu. Yilowo umehluko phakathi kwamagama athi "Okuvamile" kanye "Nomaphakathi." Cabanga ngale ndlela, abantu abaningi ezweni lakithi badla irayisi njengesidlo sasekuseni. Khona-ke ukudla irayisi kuyinto evame kakhulu (Okuvamile) . Kodwa abanye abantu badla isinkwa, abanye badla ama-noodle. Akukhona yini "okungavamile" ngabo ukungadli irayisi? Lokho futhi kuyinto evamile .
Kuyafana ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Akuwona wonke umama ohlangabezana nakho okufanayo. Kuyahlukahluka kuye ngomuntu ngamunye. Ukuthi nje into eyenzeka kwabaningi akusho ukuthi ayilungile noma ayijwayelekile akusho ukuthi iyenzeka kuwe. Kungaba ngaphakathi kwesilinganiso esijwayelekile.
Kuyini 'ukuvuselela'? Uzizwa nini ingane yakho inyakaza okokuqala?
Kalula nje, isikhathi sokuqala uzwa ingane yakho inyakaza ngaphakathi esibelethweni sakho kubizwa ngokuthi 'ukushesha'. Akuyona into enkulu noma ukukhahlela. Kuwumuzwa ocashile ekuqaleni. Abanye omama bawuchaza ngale ndlela:
- Kuzwakala sengathi uvemvane oluncane lundiza esiswini sami.
- Kuzwakala sengathi igwebu elincane liyakhuphuka esiswini sami.
- Njengokunyakazisa okuncane.
Ngenxa yokuthi lo muzwa ucashile kakhulu, kungaba nzima kancane ekuqaleni ukubona ukuthi kumane kuyigesi noma okunye, noma ukuthi ingane iyazabalaza ngempela.
Manje ake sibone ukuthi lezi zinyathelo zivame ukuzwakala nini.
| Isimo | Isikhathi Esimaphakathi Sokuzwa Ukunyakaza |
|---|---|
| Umama oqalayo | Cishe amasonto angama-20 |
| Ekukhulelweni kwesibili noma okulandelayo | Cishe amasonto ayi-16 |
| Umama onomzimba omncane | (Kungazwakala ngaphambi kwesikhathi esijwayelekile) |
Kungani uzizwa kusenesikhathi ngengane yakho yesibili?
Ungase uzibuze ukuthi kungani uzizwa lezi zinyathelo kusenesikhathi nengane yakho yesibili. Isizathu ukuthi ngemva kokuzwa okokuqala, umzimba nengqondo yakho kujwayele kakhulu ukuqaphela lezi zindlela ezicashile. Ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukuhlukanisa ngokushesha phakathi komoya nokunyakaza kwengane .
Kungani abanye abantu bezizwa kanje kusenesikhathi kangaka?
Manje ake siqale umbuzo wethu wokuqala. Uyakuzwa yini ukunyakaza kwengane yakho ezinyangeni ezintathu, okungamaviki ayi-12? Impendulo ithi, "Akuvamile, kodwa kungenzeka."
Cabanga ukuthi ingane yakho inkulu kangakanani emavikini angu-12. Ingamasentimitha angu-1.5 ubude futhi inesisindo esingamagremu angu-30 (ngaphezu kancane kwe-ounce). Ngakho-ke kunzima kancane ukuzwa ukunyakaza komuntu omncane kangaka. Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi, uma lezi zinto zihlangana, umama angase akwazi ukuzwa umntwana enyakaza emavikini angu-12-14:
1. Ukushintshashintsha Kwezinsuku: Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhulelwa kwakho kungaba semuva kwesonto noma amabili kunalokho ocabanga. Kungase kube nomehluko omncane phakathi kosuku olubalwe kusukela esikhathini sakho sokugcina sokuya esikhathini (i-LMP) kanye nosuku lokuskena kwakho. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwazi ngokuqinisekile ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho .
2. Ukuba nomzimba omncane: Uma unomzimba omncane, ungase uzizwe ukunyakaza kwesibeletho sakho ngokushesha ngoba kunezingqimba ezincane zamafutha esiswini sakho.
3. Ukuba sokukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili noma okulandelayo: Njengoba sikhulume ngakho ekuqaleni, uzwela kakhulu ekutholeni lezi zinyathelo ezicashile ngoba uke waba nokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambilini.
4. Ingane ikhuthele kakhulu: Ezinye izingane zikhuthele kancane kunezinye. Ngakho-ke uma unengane edlalayo, ungase uzizwe ukunyakaza kwayo kusenesikhathi.
5. Ukuba ngumama ozwela kakhulu: Abanye omama bazwela kakhulu ezinguqukweni emizimbeni yabo. Bangakwazi futhi ukubona lokhu kunyakaza ngaphambi kwabanye.
Ngakho-ke, uma umngane wakho emncane, uma kuyingane yakhe yesibili, mhlawumbe kunomehluko omncane ezinsukwini, futhi uma ingane esibelethweni ididekile kancane, akumangazi ukuthi isazizwa ukunyakaza kwengane cishe emavikini ayi-12. Ngakho-ke uma othile ethi uzizwa ingane inyakaza, asinalo ilungelo lokuthi, "Cha, lokho akunakwenzeka." Ngoba okuhlangenwe nakho kuhlukile kumuntu ngamunye.
Ingabe kufanele ngikhathazeke uma ngingazizwa nginyakaza?
Uma ungakazizwa usana lwakho lunyakaza emavikini angama-20, kuyinto evamile ukukhathazeka kancane. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Kungenzeka ukuthi i-placenta yakho inamathele odongeni lwangaphambili lwesibeletho sakho (i-placenta yangaphambili). Kulesi simo, ukunyakaza kosana lwakho kungase kumuncwe yi-placenta, ngakho ungase uzizwe kamuva. Kodwa-ke, uma ungakazizwa ukunyakaza emavikini angama-24 , kubalulekile ukwazisa udokotela wakho noma umbelethisi wakho. Bangahlola ukuqinisekisa ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Isikhathi esithathayo ukuzwa ukunyakaza kokuqala kwengane yakho, noma 'ukushesha', siyahlukahluka kumuntu nomuntu. Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye.
- Ngokuvamile, lokhu kunyakaza kuqala ukuzwakala emasontweni angama-20 okukhulelwa komntwana wokuqala, kanye nasemasontweni ayi-16 komntwana wesibili noma olandelayo.
- Uma unciphile, futhi lokhu kungukukhulelwa kwakho kwesibili noma okulandelayo, cishe uzokuzwa lokhu kusenesikhathi.
- Akuyona into engavamile ukuzwa ingane yakho inyakaza emavikini angu-12, futhi kungenzeka.
- Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka ngokukhulelwa kwakho, ukunyakaza kwengane yakho, noma yini enye, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wakho . Ungesabi ukuqagela noma ukuthembela kuphela kulwazi olutholakala ku-inthanethi.
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