Uyamxoxela yini umntanakho izindaba? Izinzuzo ezimangalisayo zokuxoxa izindaba ezinganeni!

Ingabe zikhona izikhathi lapho ingane yakho ithi, "Mama, nginesithukuthezi!" ngemva kokudlala ngazo zonke izincwadi , amathoyizi, izingoma, ukudla, nemidlalo yevidiyo? Wenzani-ke? Ngaleso sikhathi, kuthiwani ngokubuza ukuthi, "Ngingakutshela indaba?"? Kungase kube ngaphezu kwalokho okucabangayo. Namuhla, ake sixoxe ngokuthi lokhu kuxoxa indaba kubaluleke kangakanani nokuthi yiziphi izinzuzo ezikulethela ingane.

Kungani ukuxoxa izindaba kubaluleke kangaka?

Kalula nje, ukuxoxela ingane indaba akuyona nje indlela yokudlulisa isikhathi. Kuyinto esiza ubuchopho bengane ukuthi bukhule ngendlela emangalisayo. Cabanga nje, uma uxoxa indaba, ingane iyayilalela, icabanga ngabalingiswa abakuyo, futhi ilandela uchungechunge lwezenzakalo engqondweni yayo. Konke lokhu kudala ukuxhumana okusha kwezinzwa phakathi kwamangqamuzana ebuchosheni bayo. Kufana nokunisela nokunakekela isitshalo esincane.

• Amakhono Olimi Athuthuka: Ingane ifunda amagama amasha, indlela yokwakha imisho, kanye nokunambitheka kwendaba. Isilulumagama sayo siyathuthuka. Lokhu kuwusizo olukhulu ekuvezeni, ekubhaleni nasekufundeni kahle esikhathini esizayo.
• Ukucabanga Nokusungula Izinto Kuyanda: Ngesikhathi elalele izindaba, ingane ilahleka ezweni layo. Icabanga ngabalingiswa nezenzakalo engqondweni yayo. Lokhu kwandisa indlela yayo yokucabanga futhi kugxilise ingqondo yayo ekudaleni izinto ezintsha.
• Ukusondelana nabazali kuyaqina: Uma ubamba ingane yakho bese uyixoxela indaba ngezwi lakho, ingane izizwa inomuzwa wokulondeka nothando ongachazeki. Kuqinisa kakhulu isibopho phakathi kwenu nobabili.
• Usizo Lokuqonda Imizwa: Abalingiswa ezindabeni bazizwa bejabule, bedabukile, futhi bethukuthele. Ngokulalela lokhu, izingane zingafunda ukuqonda nokusabela emizweni yazo neyabanye.

Nawe unezindaba eziningi ongaxoxa ngazo!

Ungase ucabange, "Hlobo luni lwezindaba engizixoxayo?" Cishe awuqapheli, usuvele unezindaba eziningi. Awudingi ukuziqamba. Izindaba zasebuntwaneni bakho, izindaba ezivela ezincwadini ozifundile, ziyindawo enhle yokuqala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane ziyathanda ukuzwa izindaba ngazo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwazo. Isibonelo, ungaxoxa indaba ngohambo wena nengane yakho eniluthathe e-zoo, noma uhambo oluya endlini yogogo nomkhulu wabo.

Cabanga ngendaba eye yadluliselwa ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane , ngokuthi izinyo lakho lokuqala laphuma kanjani usengumntwana, mayelana nothisha owawumthanda esikoleni, noma ngesipoki okuthiwa sasihlala ophahleni lukagogo wakho. Akukho lutho olujabulisa izingane ezincane kunendaba ngento ehlekisayo eyenziwa abazali bazo besengabantwana. Izingane ziyathanda ukuzwa ngesikhathi esidlule esinokuxhumana nazo.

Hlobo luni lwezindaba ongazixoxa usana oluncane?

Izingane ezineminyaka emibili noma emithathu, noma ngaphansi, ziyathanda ukuzwa izindaba ngawe nomndeni wakho. Ukucabanga ukuthi wawunjani ngesikhathi usemncane kuyindlela enhle yokuvuselela ukucabanga kwazo.

Ungaxoxa futhi izindaba ngabalingiswa abasezincwadini abazithandayo . Cabanga uthatha " Pee -Tee the Chicken" uzungeze ipulazi, noma uthatha "Fireman Bob" ohambweni olungalindelekile uzungeze idolobha. Akudingeki ucabange kakhulu ngendaba lapha. Okubalulekile kubantwana abancane yithuba lokuhlanganyela emsindweni wenkukhu othi 'cheep-cheep' bese ulingisa umsindo we-siren yeloli yomlilo. Lokho okuhlangenwe nakho kuyigugu kubo.

Uma uxoxela izingane ezincane izindaba, zibandakanye endabeni. Khuluma izinto ezifana nemisindo yezilwane kanye nemisindo yezimoto ndawonye. Lokho kuzozenza zibe nesithakazelo esikhulu.

Uzixoxela kanjani izindaba izingane ezindala?

Izingane zesikole kanye nezingane ezindala zithanda izindaba ezijabulisayo nezimangalisayo. Ungathatha indaba eziyaziyo uyixoxe ngendlela entsha, ushintshe indawo, abalingiswa, noma indaba. Cabanga ngekati elihlekisayo eligqoke isigqoko esikhulu esinemigqa elihamba ngerokhethi liya enyangeni, noma lize edolobhaneni lakini bese libangela inkinga.

Omunye umqondo omuhle ukwenza ingane yakho ibe ngumlingiswa oyinhloko bese udala indaba yokuzijabulisa eyithandayo. Isibonelo, ukubuyela emuva esikhathini sokubona ama-dinosaur, noma ukusebenza njengomqhubi wesitimela. Izindaba ezinjengalezi zinselele ukucabanga kwazo futhi zandisa intshisekelo yazo.

Yini enye ongayenza ngale kwendaba?

Kunezindlela zokwenza ukulandisa indaba kube mnandi kakhulu futhi kwandise ulwazi.

• Ake senze incwadi yakho? Wena nomntanakho nizobhala incwadi esekelwe endabeni eniyilandisile. Sika bese unamathisela izithombe zabantu nezindawo ezivela komagazini abadala namaphephandaba afanelana nendaba.
• Masibhale indaba, noma sivumele ingane iyilandise: Ungabhala amagama, noma sivumele ingane ilandise indaba ngamazwi ayo.
• Masidwebe izithombe: Uma kunzima ukuthola izithombe, dweba izithombe ezihambisana nendaba. Vumela ingane yakho izidwebe nazo. Zizozizwa zijabule kakhulu lapho umcabango wazo uphila ephepheni.
• Masilingise indaba sisebenzisa opopayi nezingubo: Lingisa indaba ejwayelekile sisebenzisa opopayi, noma sigqoke izingubo ezahlukene. Yenza lokhu kube mnandi emndenini wonke. Amathuba awapheli!

Nika ingane yakho ithuba lokuxoxa indaba nayo!

Ngemva kokuba usuxoxele ingane yakho izindaba ngezindlela ezahlukene futhi uyinike okuhlangenwe nakho, khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba izenzele futhi ilandise izindaba zayo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngoba kunikeza ingane ithuba lokusebenzisa amandla ayo okucabanga, ukuthuthukisa imibono, nokudala indaba. Lokhu kusiza amakhono ayo okuxhumana (Amakhono Okuxhumana , Amakhono Okuhlela, kanye Nokusungula izinto kuyaqiniswa. Indaba yengane ingase ingaphelele ekuqaleni, phakathi, noma ekugcineni, kodwa kulungile lokho. Okubalulekile ukuthi izame.

Uma ingane yakho ilandisa indaba, yikhuthaze. Mbuze izinto ezinjengokuthi, "O, kuhle kakhulu lokho," "Kwenzekani ngemva kwalokho?" Lokhu kuzomsiza ukuthi akhe ukuzethemba.

Lokhu kuzonika umntwana izinto ezizohlala impilo yakhe yonke.

Uma uxoxela ingane indaba, uyibonisa ngempela indlela yokuhlanganisa amagama ukuze ichaze. Wabelana ngento entsha ngawe, into engase yenze ingane ilalele ngentshisekelo enkulu, into ezovusa ilukuluku layo. Kungaba futhi indawo enhle yokuqala imibuzo nezingxoxo.

Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukhulisa uthando nothando lolimi nezindaba enganeni yakho. Lokho kuzoba wusizo kuyo impilo yayo yonke. Ngakho-ke, phefumula kakhulu bese uqala: "Kwake kwaba khona ezweni..."

Okokugcina, izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzikhumbule (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Kulungile, ngakho-ke kusukela kulokho esikhulume ngakho, kufanele uqonde ukuthi ukuxoxa izindaba kubaluleke kangakanani.

• Ukuxoxa izindaba akuyona nje into yokuzilibazisa, kunegalelo elikhulu ekuthuthukisweni kobuchopho bengane, amakhono olimi, amakhono okucabanga, kanye nokuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo.
• Ukuxoxa izindaba ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, izenzakalo zasebuntwaneni, kanye nengane yakho kuzoqinisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwenu.
• Xoxa izindaba ezifanele iminyaka yengane yakho, zibandakanye endabeni, futhi uzikhuthaze ukuba nazo zixoxe izindaba.
• Uthando lolimi kanye nesithakazelo sokufunda ingane ekuzuzayo kulokhu kuyimpahla ebalulekile empilweni yayo yonke.

Ngakho-ke, qala ukuxoxela ingane yakho okungenani indaba eyodwa ngosuku kusukela namuhla. Kuzoba isipho esiyigugu kakhulu ongasinika ingane yakho!

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