Ðe wò susu mele teƒe ɖeka oa? Ðe wòsesẽna be nàɖu wò seselelãmewo dzia? Mina míaƒo nu tso Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) ŋu .

Ðe nèsena le ɖokuiwò me ɣeaɖewoɣi be yemate ŋu aɖu yeƒe seselelãmewo dzi o, eye nuwo le vava ge ɖe ye dzi kabakaba alea gbegbea? Alo ɖe nènya ame aɖe si ƒe seselelãmewo trɔna kpata ale gbegbe be zi geɖe la, edoa kplamatse wo kple ame bubuwo dome ƒomedodoa? Ðewohĩ nusi gbɔ seselelãme siawo tsonae nye susu ƒe nɔnɔme si ŋu míaƒo nu tsoe egbea. Woyɔa esia be Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) .

Nukae nye nusi woyɔna be borderline personality disorder (BPD) sia?

Kpuie ko la, amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi (BPD) nye susu me dɔléle si ƒe dzesi enye seselelãme ƒe tɔtrɔ kpata , amewo dome ƒomedodowo ƒe malikenyenye , kple nuwɔwɔ kpata .

Vɔvɔ̃ gã aɖe le amesiwo ŋu BPD le la me be woagblẽ yewo ɖi . Esesẽna na wo hã be woaɖɔ woƒe seselelãmewo ɖo, vevietɔ dziku. Woate ŋu awɔ nu kpata hã, ɣeaɖewoɣi le afɔku me (le kpɔɖeŋu me, ʋukuku ŋumaɖɔɖotɔe, ŋɔdzidoname be yewoawɔ nuvevi yewo ɖokui) . Nuwɔna siawo katã ate ŋu ana wòasesẽ na wo be woalé ƒomedodo nyui me ɖe asi kple ame bubuwo.

Borderline personality disorder nye amenyenye ƒe dɔléle ƒomevi aɖe si woyɔna be ``Cluster B``. Amenyenye ƒe kuxi sia si nye ``Cluster B`` la ƒe dzesi enye nuwɔna ƒe nɔnɔme wɔnuku aɖe, si mewɔa nuku zi geɖe. Amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo nye nuwɔna siwo nɔa anyi didi, siwo mewɔa dɔ nyuie o, siwo doa kplamatse gbesiagbedɔwɔwɔ . Nuwɔna siawo tɔtrɔ sesẽ, wole afisiafi, eye woate ŋu ahe hadomekuxiwo kple susu ƒe fuɖenamewo vɛ.

Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ŋu BPD le menya be dɔlélea le yewo ŋu o, eye womenya be yewoate ŋu awɔ nu ahawɔ nu kple ame bubuwo le mɔ si le lãmesẽ me wu nu o.

Ðe woyɔa nɔnɔme eve siawo be BPD kple bipolar disorder?

Ẽ, vovototo si dze ƒã le wo ame evea dome. Togbɔ be tagbɔdɔléle si nye bipolar disorder hã lɔ tɔtrɔ gãwo vaa seselelãme kple nuwɔna me hã la, eto vovo na BPD.

Le BPD me la, seselelãme kple nuwɔna ate ŋu atrɔ kabakaba eye wòatrɔ kpata ne wole nuteɖeamedzi ɖedzesi aɖe me tom, vevietɔ ne wole nu wɔm kple ame bubuwo . Le bipolar disorder me la, seselelãmewo nɔa anyi didi wu , eye womewɔa nu kabakaba nenema gbegbe ɖe gotagome nudzɔdzɔwo ŋu o. Ame siwo ŋu tagbɔdɔléle le la ƒe ŋusẽ kple dɔwɔnawo trɔna ŋutɔ, si to vovo na amesiwo ŋu BPD le.

Ameka dzie nɔnɔme sia gblẽa nu le wu?

Amenyenye ƒe kuxi geɖe dzea egɔme tso ƒewuiwo me, esime wò amenyenye gakpɔtɔ le tsitsim hele tsitsim.Eyata ame akpa gãtɔ siwo ŋu wokpɔ be amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi le la xɔ wu ƒe 18.

Togbɔ be amesiame ate ŋu axɔ BPD hã la, anɔ eme be àxɔe ne BPD (si nye BPD ƒe ƒome ŋutinya) le wò ƒomea me . Afɔku sia lolo wu na amesiwo ŋu susu me dɔléle bubuwo le, abe dzimaɖitsitsi, blanuiléle, alo nuɖuɖukuxiwo ene hã .

Ame siwo wokpɔ be BPD le wo ŋu la dometɔ siwo ade 75% nye nyɔnuwo , gake numekukuwo ɖee fia be nɔnɔmea ate ŋu agblẽ nu le ŋutsuwo hã ŋu. Gake woate ŋu abu wo vodadatɔe be Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) alo blanuiléle le wo ŋu.

Aleke gbegbee nɔnɔme sia bɔe?

Borderline personality disorder is a relatively rare condition , si dzea ame tsitsi 1.4% ko dzi le United States.

Nukae nye amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si le liƒo dzi (BPD) ƒe dzesiwo?

Zi geɖe la , BPD ƒe dzesiwo dzena le wò ƒewuiwo ƒe nuwuwu alo tsitsime . Dzesi siawo ate ŋu atso nudzɔdzɔ dziŋɔ alo nuteɖeamedzi aɖe gbɔ alo agblẽ ɖe edzi.

Le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe la, zi geɖe la, dzesi siawo dzi ɖena kpɔtɔna eye woate ŋu nu ayi keŋkeŋ gɔ̃ hã.

Dzesiawo ate ŋu atso esiwo dzi woate ŋu aɖu dzi va ɖo esiwo nu sẽ ŋutɔ dzi. Àte ŋu akpɔ dzesi siwo gbɔna la ƒe ƒuƒoƒo ɖesiaɖe:

• Vɔvɔ̃ be woagblẽ ye ɖi: Ebɔ be amesiwo ŋu BPD le nase le wo ɖokui me be yewo ɖeɖe yewomele dedie o. Ne wose le wo ɖokui me be wogblẽ yewo ɖi alo woŋe aɖaba ƒu wo dzi la, woate ŋu ase vɔvɔ̃ alo dziku si nu sẽ. Ðewohĩ woadi woƒe ame veviwo ahadze agbagba be yewoaxe mɔ na wo be woagadzo o. Alo, woate ŋu atutu ame aɖe ɖa hafi ate ɖe eŋu akpa, le vɔvɔ̃ be woagbe ye ta. Kpɔe ɖa le susu me be xɔ̃wò aɖe do dziku ne ètsi megbe vie le gbedasi aɖe ŋuɖoɖo me eye wògblɔ be, "Ègblẽm ɖi."
• Ƒomedodo siwo meli ke o, siwo nu sẽ: Kuxi le amesiwo ŋu BPD le ŋu be woalé ame ŋutɔ ƒe ƒomedodo nyui me léle ɖe asi elabena woate ŋu atrɔ alesi wobua ame bubuwoe zi ɖeka eye wòawɔ nuku ŋutɔ. Woate ŋu awɔ nu ɖe ​​ame aɖe ŋu abe mawu ene le ɣeyiɣi ɖeka me eye emegbe woawɔ nu ɖe ​​eŋu be viɖe aɖeke mele eŋu o le ɣeyiɣi si kplɔe ɖo me. Esia ate ŋu anye nusi to vovo na ema hã. Zi geɖe la, woƒe xɔlɔ̃wɔwɔ, srɔ̃ɖeɖe, kple ƒomedodo kple ƒometɔwo nyea zitɔtɔ eye womeli ke o.
• Ameɖokui ƒe nɔnɔme si meli ke o alo ameɖokui ƒe seselelãme:Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ŋu BPD le la ƒe wo ɖokui ƒe nɔnɔme tro, si me mekɔ o. Zi geɖe la, wobua fɔ wo ɖokui eye ŋu kpea wo, eye wobua wo ɖokui be yewonye "ame vɔ̃ɖiwo." Woate ŋu atrɔ ale si wobua wo ɖokui ŋudɔ kpata, eye woatrɔ woƒe taɖodzinuwo, nukpɔsusuwo, dɔwɔɖuiwo, kple xɔlɔ̃wo. Woate ŋu agblẽ nu le woawo ŋutɔ ƒe tsitsi hã ŋu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, woate ŋu awɔ dɔ be "woado kpo" le dodokpɔ aɖe me, agblẽ ƒomedodowo me, alo woaɖe wo le woƒe dɔwo me.
• Seselelãme ƒe tɔtrɔ kabakaba: Amesiwo ŋu BPD le ate ŋu akpɔ tɔtrɔ kpata le alesi wosena le wo ɖokui me le ame bubuwo, wo ɖokui, kple xexe si ƒo xlã wo ŋu me. Seselelãme siwo me susu mele o abe dziku, vɔvɔ̃, dzimaɖitsitsi, fuléle, blanuiléle, kple lɔlɔ̃ ene ate ŋu atrɔ kabakaba kpata. Zi geɖe la, gaƒoƒo ʋɛ aɖewo koe tɔtrɔ siawo nɔa anyi, eye ƒã hafi wowua ŋkeke ʋɛ aɖewo ko.
• Nuwɔna siwo me susu mele o kple esiwo me afɔku le: Ʋukuku, dzrewɔwɔ, tsatsadada, atike vɔ̃ɖiwo zazã, nuɖuɖu fũu akpa, kple/alo gbɔdɔdɔ si mele dedie o bɔ ɖe amesiwo ŋu BPD le dome.
• Nuvevi wɔwɔ ame ɖokui enuenu alo ameɖokuiwuwu ƒe nuwɔna: Ame siwo ŋu BPD le ate ŋu atso wo ɖokui, atɔ dzo wo, alo awɔ nuvevi wo ɖokui , alo ado ŋɔdzi na wo be yewoawɔe nenema. Ðewohĩ ameɖokuiwuwu ƒe susu hã anɔ wo si. Zi geɖe la, nuveviwɔame ƒe nuwɔna siawo dzɔna ne ame aɖe gbe wo, se le eɖokui me be wogblẽ ye ɖi, alo be dɔnɔdzikpɔla alo ame vevi aɖe na dzi ɖe le ye ƒo le wo ŋu.
• Seselelãme si nɔa anyi ɖaa be yewole gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔm: Ame geɖe siwo ŋu BPD le la léa blanui, nu tea ɖeɖi wo ŋu, woƒe dzi medzɔna o, eye “yewole ƒuƒlu.” Seselelãme be viɖe aɖeke mele ye ŋu o kple ɖokuiŋudzedze hã bɔ.
• Dziku dzi ɖuɖu ƒe nyawo: Esesẽna na amesiwo ŋu BPD le be woaɖu woƒe dziku dzi, eye wodoa dziku vevie. Woate ŋu aɖe woƒe dziku afia to nukokoedonamenya sesẽwo, nya ƒaƒãwo gbɔgblɔ, alo ɣlidodo kple atamkaka tẽ me. Ðewohĩ ŋu akpe wo ahabu fɔ wo ɖokui le ɣeyiɣi mawo megbe.
• Ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ƒe susu siwo me susu mele o: Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àte ŋu akpɔ dissociative episodes , susu siwo me susu mele o, eye ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àte ŋu akpɔ alo ase nusiwo mele afima o (hallucinations). Zi geɖe la, nusiawo dzɔna ne èle nuteɖeamedzi geɖe me tom, vevietɔ ne èle vɔvɔ̃m be woagblẽ ye ɖi. Dzesi siawo nɔa anyi ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe eye zi geɖe la, womesẽna ale gbegbe be woabui be wonye dɔléle si to vovo o.

Nu vevitɔe nye be menye amesiame si ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi le lae dzesi siawo katã le o. Dzesiawo ƒe sesẽme, zi nenie wodzena, kple ɣeyiɣi didi si wonɔa anyi la toa vovo tso ame ɖeka gbɔ yi bubu gbɔ.

Nukawoe ate ŋu anye susu siwo tae wòle alea ɖo?

Ðɔktawo xɔe se be nu vovovowoe nana BPD dzea ame dzi. Wo dometɔ vevitɔwoe nye:

• Ðevimenɔɣi ƒe ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ kple nuveviwɔame: Ame siwo ŋu BPD le la dometɔ siwo ade 70% to gbɔdɔdɔ, seselelãme, alo ŋutilã me ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ me le woƒe ɖevime. Kaklã tso vidadaa gbɔ, ƒomedodo gbegblẽ kple vidadaa, liƒo siwo mesɔ o le ƒomea me, kple dzilawo ƒe atike muamewo zazã hã do ƒome kple BPD.
• Domenyiŋusẽfianu: Numekukuwo ɖee fia be amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi la dzɔna le ƒomewo me. Ne BPD le wò ƒomea me la, anɔ eme be àxɔe, gake menye kakaɖedzi be àxɔe o.
• Ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe tɔtrɔ: Ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe akpa siwo kpɔa seselelãme kple nuwɔna dzi le amesiwo ŋu BPD le me meɖoa dze kple wo nɔewo nyuie o. Kuxi siawo kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe ale si woƒe ahɔhɔ̃ wɔa dɔe dzi.

Aleke nèwɔ dea dzesi nɔnɔme sia?

Esi wònye be amenyenye yia edzi nɔa dzɔdzɔm le ɖevime kple ƒewuiwo me ta la, zi geɖe la, ɖɔktawo mekpɔa ame aɖe si ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi le hafi wòxɔa ƒe 18 o. Gake ƒã hafi woate ŋu akpɔ BPD le ame si mexɔ ƒe 18 haɖe o ŋu ne woƒe dzesiwo nu sẽ ŋutɔ eye wole afima ƒe ɖeka ya teti.

Amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi, si me amenyenye ƒe dɔléle bubuwo hã le, ate ŋu asesẽ vie be woakpɔe elabena ame geɖe siwo ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi le menya nu tso nuwɔna kple tamebubumɔnu siwo ɖea fu na ame bubuwo ŋu o.

Ne wodi kpekpeɖeŋu hã la, menye amenyenye ƒe kuxia ŋutɔ tae o. Ke boŋ wole kpekpeɖeŋu dim na nɔnɔmewo abe dzimaɖitsitsi alo blanuiléle si tso kuxi siwo do ƒome kple woƒe amenyenye ƒe kuxi (e.g., srɔ̃gbegbe, ƒomedodowo ƒe bu) gbɔ.

Susuŋutinunyala si si mɔɖegbalẽ le – tagbɔdɔdala , susuŋutinunyala , alo atikewɔƒe ƒe hadomekpekpeɖeŋudɔwɔla – ateŋu akpɔ BPD. Wozãa BPD ƒe dzidzenuwo le Amerika Tagbɔdɔlélawo ƒe Habɔbɔ ƒe Tagbɔdɔlélewo Ŋuti Numekuku Kple Akɔntabubu Ŋuti Mɔfiamegbalẽ (DSM) me .

Be woate ŋu awɔ esia la, wo:

• Wowɔa gbebiame blibo eye wodzroa dzesiawo me.
• Wobiaa ame ŋutɔ ƒe atikewɔwɔ ŋutinya kple ƒomea ƒe atikewɔwɔ ŋutinya, vevietɔ tso susu ƒe lãmesẽnyawo ŋu.
• Dɔ siwo wowɔ va yi ŋuti biabia.
• Wobiana be yewoate ŋu aɖu yewoƒe tamesusu kpatawo dzi hã.

Zi geɖe la, susumedɔdalawo ƒoa nu kple amea ƒe ƒometɔwo kple xɔlɔ̃wo be yewoaƒo nyatakaka bubuwo nu ƒu tso eƒe nuwɔna kple ŋutinya ŋu.

Nukawoe nye atike siwo wozãna na esia?

Le ŋutinya me la, BPD dada nye kuxi sesẽ aɖe. Gake to atike yeye siwo wotu ɖe kpeɖodzi dzi zazã me la, amesiwo ŋu BPD le dometɔ geɖe ƒe dzesiwo dzi ɖe kpɔtɔ, woƒe sesẽme dzi ɖe kpɔtɔ, woƒe dɔwɔwɔ nyo ɖe edzi, eye woƒe agbenɔnɔ nyo ɖe edzi.

Ke hã, dɔdamɔnu siwo wɔa dɔ nyuie bia ɣeyiɣi, dzigbɔɖi, kple ɖokuitsɔtsɔna.Atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu anye susumedɔdada (nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ), atikewo zazã, alo evea siaa.

Ne èle nuteɖeamedzi geɖe me tom alo nèle afɔku me be yeagblẽ nu le ɖokuiwò alo ame bubuwo ŋu la, wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu aɖo aɖaŋu na wò be nànɔ kɔdzi hena ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe. Le wò kɔdzi nɔnɔ me la, wò ɖɔkta awɔ dɔ kpli wò awɔ atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo.

Zi geɖe la, susu me dɔléle bubuwo nɔa amesiwo ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi le ŋu:

• Seselelãme ƒe kuxiwo (amesiwo ŋu BPD le ƒe 80% va ɖo 96% dome) .
• Dzimaɖitsitsidɔ (88%) .
• Atikewo zazã ƒe kuxi (64%) .
• Nuɖuɖukuxiwo (53%) .
• Susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie/dɔwɔwɔ fũu akpa ƒe dɔléle (ADHD) (si le 10% va ɖo 30%) .
• Nu eve ƒe susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie (15%) .
• Somatoform dɔlélewo (10%) .

Ne dɔléle bubu aɖe le wo ŋu abe esia ene la, ehiã be woakpɔ ema hã ƒe atike.

Tagbɔdɔdada na BPD

Tagbɔdɔdadae nye atike vevitɔ na BPD. Taɖodzinu si le atikewɔwɔ ŋue nye be wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàde dzesi nusiwo ʋãa wò kple vɔvɔ̃ siwo le megbe na wò tamesusuwo kple nuwɔna, eye wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàsrɔ̃ alesi nàwɔ nu kple ame bubuwo le mɔ nyuitɔwo nu.

Atikewɔwɔ vovovowo li siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu le BPD me:

• Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Wotrɔ asi le atikewɔwɔ sia ƒomevi ŋu koŋ na amesiwo ŋu BPD le. DBT ƒe susu nɔa kpekpeɖeŋu nana wò be nàlɔ̃ ɖe wò agbe kple wò nuwɔna ƒe nyateƒenyenye dzi, kple nusɔsrɔ̃ be nàtrɔ wò agbenɔnɔ, siwo dome nuwɔna siwo meɖea vi aɖeke o hã le. Efia aɖaŋu siwo akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖu seselelãme sesẽwo dzi, aɖe nuwɔna siwo gblẽa nu le ame ɖokui ŋu dzi akpɔtɔ, eye ƒomedodowo nanyo ɖe edzi.
• Sidzedze ƒe Nuwɔna Ŋuti Dɔdamɔnu (CBT): Esia nye atikewɔwɔ si woɖo ɖe ɖoɖo nu, si woɖo taɖodzinu na. Wò atikewɔla alo susuŋutinunyala akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàlé ŋku ɖe wò tamesusuwo kple seselelãmewo ŋu. Àsrɔ̃ alesi wò tamesusuwo kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe wò nuwɔnawo dzii. To CBT dzi la, àte ŋu asrɔ̃ alesi nàɖe asi le susu kple nuwɔna gbegblẽwo ŋu eye nàtu tamebubu kple numame siwo le lãmesẽ me wu ɖo.
• Ƒuƒoƒo me atikewɔwɔ: Esia nye susumedɔdada ƒomevi aɖe. Le esia me la, amewo ƒe ƒuƒoƒo aɖe ƒoa ƒu, ɖea woƒe kuxiwo me hedzroa wo me le atikewɔla alo susuŋutinunyala ƒe dzikpɔkpɔ te. Ƒuƒoƒo me atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe amesiwo ŋu BPD le ŋu be woawɔ nu kple ame bubuwo nyuie wu eye woaɖe woƒe susuwo agblɔ nyuie wu.

Atike siwo wozãna na BPD

Esi wònye be viɖe siwo le atike siwo wozãna na amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si le liƒo dzi me mekɔ o ta la, zi geɖe la, ɖɔktawo meŋlɔa atike na ame be wòanye BPD ƒe atike vevitɔ o.

Gake le go aɖewo me la, tagbɔdɔdala ate ŋu aŋlɔ atike na amewo be woatsɔ ada dzesi aɖewo koŋ alo susumedɔléle bubu siwo nɔa anyi ɖekae. Atikewo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu wòada dzimaɖitsitsi kple blanuiléle, akpɔ seselelãme ƒe tɔtrɔ gbɔ, alo aɖu nuwɔna siwo mewɔa nu kpata o dzi. Tagbɔdɔlékuiwutikewo/Ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔlélenutsiŋutete kpena ɖe ame aɖewo siwo ŋu BPD le ŋu.

Nukae nye nɔnɔme sia ƒe mɔkpɔkpɔ? (Nyagblɔɖi) .

Zi geɖe la, BPD ƒe dzesiwo nyona ɖe edzi vivivi ne ame tsi. Ame aɖewo ƒe dzesiwo nu yina ne woxɔ ƒe 40-awo. Ne wowɔ atike nyuitɔ na amesiwo ŋu BPD le la, wosrɔ̃a alesi woawɔ akpɔ woƒe dzesiwo gbɔe eye woƒe agbenɔnɔ nanyo ɖe edzi.

Ne womewɔ atike na wo o – alo ne atikewɔwɔ do kpo nu la – amesiwo ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi le si le liƒo dzi le afɔku me wu be:

• Atikewo zazã ƒe kuxi kple ahanono ƒe kuxi.
• Teteɖeanyi.
• Nuvevi wɔwɔ ame ɖokui.
• Ameɖokuiwuwu.

Afɔku si le amesiwo ŋu BPD le ƒe ameɖokuiwuwu me sɔ gbɔ wu amehawo katã zi gbɔ zi 40. Ame siwo ŋu BPD le ƒe 8% va ɖo 10% kuna to wo ɖokui wuwu me.

Ame geɖe siwo ŋu BPD si womekpɔ o le la ƒe ame ŋutɔ ƒe ƒomedodo meli ke o eye wòtɔtɔna, eye esesẽna na wo be woalé dɔ aɖe ɖe te. Wole afɔku gã aɖe me be woagbe wo nɔewo, woate ɖa tso ƒometɔwo gbɔ, eye woƒe xɔlɔ̃wɔwɔwo agblẽ. Senyawo kple gakuxiwo hã bɔ.

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe nɔnɔme sia nua?

Nublanuitɔe la, mɔ aɖeke meli si dzi woato axe mɔ ɖe amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi nu o.

Zi geɖe la, BPD nɔa ƒomewo me, si fia be ne BPD le wò ƒomea me tɔ aɖe ŋu la, ke èle afɔku gã aɖe me be yeaxɔe. Bia wò ɖɔkta alesi nàwɔ ade dzesi dɔléle sia ƒe dzesiwo ale be nàte ŋu akpɔ atike na wò kaba ale si nàte ŋui.

Aleke nàte ŋu akpe ɖe ame aɖe si ŋu BPD le ŋu?

Ne ènya ame aɖe si ŋu borderline personality disorder le la, mɔ siwo dzi nàto akpe ɖe eŋu dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Di ɣeyiɣi nàsrɔ̃ nu tso BPD ŋu be nàse nusi me tom wò lɔlɔ̃tɔa le gɔme.
• De dzi ƒo na wò lɔlɔ̃tɔa be wòadi atike na BPD. Ne ƒometɔe nènye la, bia nu tso ƒomea ƒe atikewɔwɔ ŋu.
• Na seselelãme ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu, nugɔmesese, kple dzigbɔɖi. Tɔtrɔ ate ŋu asesẽ eye wòado vɔvɔ̃ na amesiwo ŋu BPD le. Gake ne wowɔ atike na wo la, woƒe dzesiwo ate ŋu anyo ɖe edzi le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe.
• Ne èle nuteɖeamedzi sem alo susu me dɔléle aɖe abe dzimaɖitsitsi alo blanuiléle ene ƒe dzesiwo le ŋuwò la, ke bu atikewɔwɔ didi ŋu. Tia ame bubu si menye wò lɔlɔ̃tɔ o si nye wò atikewɔla.

Nuveviwɔame kple ameɖokuiwuwu ƒe nuwɔna sɔ gbɔ ŋutɔ le amesiwo ŋu BPD le dome wu le amehawo katã dome.

Ame siwo ŋu BPD le siwo le nu gblẽm le wo ɖokui ŋu alo te wo ɖokui wuwu ƒe agbagbadzedze ŋu bum la hiã kpekpeɖeŋu kaba.

Ne wò alo ame aɖe si nènya le xaxa me tom enumake alo le tame bum be yeagblẽ nu le ye ɖokui ŋu la, ƒo ka na 1926 (Sri Lanka ƒe kaƒomɔ̃ si xea mɔ na ameɖokuiwuwu).

Nu vevitɔ kekeake si dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui (Take-Home Message) .

Ele vevie be míaɖo ŋku edzi be amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si le liƒo dzi (BPD) nye susumedɔléle si nɔa ame ƒe agbemeŋkekewo katã me. Gake atikewɔwɔ siwo nɔa anyi didi, siwo yia edzi, abe atikewo kple nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ene, ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖu wò dzesiwo dzi. Ele vevie be nàdo go kple wò lãmesẽnyawo gbɔ kpɔha edziedzi alé ŋku ɖe wò atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖoa kple dzesiwo ŋu. Nyae be wò ɖɔktawo kple wò lɔlɔ̃tɔwo li be yewoado alɔ wò.

Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi si le liƒo dzi le ƒe ƒometɔwo kple woƒe lɔlɔ̃tɔwo toa nuteɖeamedzi, blanuiléle, blanuiléle, kple akogotsitsi me. Ele vevie be nàlé be na wò ŋutɔ wò susu ƒe lãmesẽ eye nàdi kpekpeɖeŋu ne èle dzesi siawo kpɔm.

` BPD, Borderline Personality Disorder, Susu ƒe Lãmesẽ, Amenyenye ƒe Dɔlélewo, Seselelãme ƒe Ðoɖowɔwɔ, Ƒomedodo ƒe Kuxiwo, Nuwɔna ƒe Kuxiwo