Abe ŋutete kple aɖaŋu bubuwo katã ene la, ƒe si ɖeviwo asrɔ̃ gbegbɔgblɔ ahadze nuƒoƒo gɔme ate ŋu ato vovo tso ame ɖeka gbɔ yi bubu gbɔ. Vidzĩ aɖewo fɔa nyawo kaba ŋutɔ, eye bubuwo ya xɔa ɣeyiɣi didi vie. Ke hã, ne èse alesi nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi sia tsinae gɔme vie la, wò dzila ate ŋu ase egɔme nenye be nane li si ŋu wòle be nàtsi dzi ɖo le viwòa ŋu, alo nenye be esia sɔ.
Nukae nye nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ? Vovototo kae le wo ame evea dome?
Togbɔ be zi geɖe la, míezãa nya eve siawo tsɔ ɖɔlia wo nɔewo hã la, vovototo sue aɖe le wo ame evea dome. Ne wose esia gɔme nyuie la, ele vevie ne wole ŋku lém ɖe ɖevi ƒe tsitsi ŋu.
Kpuie ko la, nuƒoƒoe nye mɔ si dzi míetona ɖea gbegbɔgblɔ fiana to míaƒe nu me. Eyae nye alesi míeyɔa gbeɖiɖiwo kple nyawoe, si nye alesi míeyɔa gbeɖiɖiwoe . Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne míele nu ƒom la, míegblɔa nyawo eme kɔna, abe "dada" kple "papa" ene eme kɔna. Esia lɔ nuwo abe gbea ƒe eme kɔ, eƒe duƒuƒu, kple eƒe tsɔtsɔme ene ɖe eme.
Gbegbɔgblɔ nye nukpɔsusu si keke ta wu sã. Enye nyatakakawo ɖɔliɖɔli. Míezãa gbegbɔgblɔ tsɔ sea susuwo gɔme eye míena ame bubuwo sea mía gɔme. Esia ate ŋu adzɔ le mɔ vovovowo nu:
- Nyagbɔgblɔ: Alesi míezãa nyawo tsɔ ɖoa dzee.
- Nya siwo menye nyagbɔgblɔ o: Esia fia nuwo abe asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi, mo ƒe dzedzeme, kple bubuawo ene.
- Nuŋɔŋlɔ: Nuwo abe agbalẽwo kple lɛtawo ene xexlẽ kple wo gɔmesese.
Eyata ne gbegbɔgblɔ nye ɖoɖo si wotsɔ gblɔa susuwo la, ekema nuƒoƒo nye nuwɔna si nye nya siwo le ɖoɖo ma me gbɔgblɔ. See?
Nukae nye Nuƒoƒo alo Gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe Heheɖemegbe?
Nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxiwo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxiwo nye nu eve siwo to vovo, gake ɣeaɖewoɣi la, woate ŋu anɔ anyi ɖekae. Esia tae ne ɖevi aɖewo tsi megbe le nuƒoƒo me la, ele vevie be woadi nusi tututu gbɔ wòtso. Na míalé ŋku ɖe eƒe kpɔɖeŋu aɖe ŋu.
Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ɖevi si ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ tsi megbe ate ŋu agblɔ nya ʋɛ aɖewo nyuie, gake nya eve koe ate ŋu atsɔ ka aƒo ƒui ("bli vidzĩ," "Medi tsi"). Ate ŋu asesẽ nɛ be wòawɔ nyagbe didi siwo sɔ ɖe eƒe ƒexɔxɔ nu, agblɔ susu sesẽwo, alo ase ŋutinya aɖe gɔme. Ðewohĩ nyagbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete sue aɖe hã le esi.
Le go bubu me la, ɖevi si ƒe nuƒoƒo tsi megbe ate ŋu adze agbagba be yeazã nyawo kple nyagbewo atsɔ aɖe yeƒe susu agblɔ. Enya nya si wòdi be yeagblɔ, gake esesẽna ŋutɔ be míase nya si gblɔm wòle la gɔme. Adze abe nyaawo me mekɔ o ene, ŋɔŋlɔdzesi aɖewo mayɔ o, alo ate ŋu aƒo nu.
Nukawoe ɖee fia be nuƒoƒo alo gbegbɔgblɔ tsi megbe? Aleke míewɔna dea dzesii?
Ne vidzĩ aɖe le asiwò si mewɔa nu ɖe gbeɖiɖiwo ŋu o, alo mewɔa gbeɖiɖi aɖeke o (abe ɣlidodo, avifafa ene) le eƒe ɖevime gɔ̃ hã la, ele be nàkplɔe ayi ɖɔkta gbɔ enumake. Ele vevie ŋutɔ.
Gake zi geɖe la, esesẽna na dzilawo be woase egɔme nenye be ɖeko wo vi tsi megbe le nuƒoƒo me loo alo ne kuxi aɖe do mo ɖa. Enyo be nàlé ŋku ɖe ɖevia ƒe tsitsi sia ŋu tso eƒe ɖevime ke.
Nu aɖewo siwo ŋu wòle be míaƒe ŋku nanɔ lae nye esi. Nunya le eme be nàƒo nu kple ɖɔkta ne viwò le nu siawo dometɔ aɖe wɔm:
- Kaka ɣleti 12 naɖo (ƒe ɖeka): Ne womezã asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi bɔbɔe o, abe asiɖeɖe le ame ŋu alo asiʋuʋu "bye-bye" ene.
- Le ɣleti 18 xɔxɔ me: Ne èle agbagba dzem be yeaɖe yeƒe susu agblɔ to asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi koŋ tsɔ wu be yeatsɔ gbeɖiɖi agblɔ.
- Le ɣleti 18 gɔ̃ hã me: Esesẽna be woasrɔ̃ gbeɖiɖi siwo ame bubuwo wɔ (e.g. lãwo ƒe gbeɖiɖiwo, ʋuwo ƒe gbeɖiɖiwo).
- Le ɣleti 18 gɔ̃ hã me: Esesẽna be woase nya bɔbɔe siwo wobia tso ame si la gɔme (e.g., "Na bɔl lam," "Va, vinye").
- Kaka ƒe 2 naɖo la: Nusi ame bubuwo gblɔna alo wɔna koe wòsrɔ̃na, gake megblɔa woawo ŋutɔ ƒe nyawo alo nyagbewo o (le eɖokui si) .
- Le ƒe 2 xɔxɔ gɔ̃ hã me: Ne eyi edzi le gbeɖiɖi alo nya aɖewo gblɔm, gake mete ŋu gblɔa nya bubu aɖeke tsɔ wu eƒe nuhiahiãwo enumake o (e.g. nuɖuɖu, nunono, alɔ̃dɔdɔ).
- Kaka ƒe 2 naɖo: Ne màte ŋu awɔ ɖe mɔfiame bɔbɔewo dzi o (e.g., "Xɔ fefenu la").
- Le ƒe 2 megbe gɔ̃ hã: Ne nɔnɔme aɖe si mebɔ o le gbea ŋu (le kpɔɖeŋu me, gbe si le ɖiɖim, si le ŋɔti me abe ne vuvɔ le ŋuwò ene, alo gbe si le bɔbɔe ŋutɔ).
Azɔ hã, ne èse le ɖokuiwò me be viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo gɔmesese sesẽ wu eƒe ƒexɔxɔ la, ele be nàƒo nu tso ema hã ŋu kple ɖɔkta.
Zi geɖe la, ele be dzilawo kple dɔnɔdzikpɔlawo nate ŋu ase nya siwo ɖevi si xɔ ƒe 2 gblɔna ƒe 50% lɔƒo gɔme.
Le ƒe 3 xɔxɔ me la, ele be nàse abe 75% ene gɔme.
Kaka wòaxɔ ƒe 4 la, ele be amesi menya ɖevia nyuie o gɔ̃ hã nate ŋu ase nya siwo ɖevia le gbɔgblɔm la ƒe akpa gãtɔ gɔme.
Nukawo gbɔe nuƒoƒo alo gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe megbetsitsi siawo tsona?
Susu geɖewo ate ŋu anɔ anyi siwo tae ɖevi ate ŋu atsi megbe le nuƒoƒo me. Wo dometɔ aɖewo le bɔbɔe, evɔ bubuwo ya hiã be woalé ŋku ɖe wo ŋu etɔxɛe.
Nuƒoƒo ƒe megbetsitsi ate ŋu atso susu siwo gbɔna gbɔ:
- Nu me ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie: Le kpɔɖeŋu me, kuxi siwo le aɖe alo aɖu (nu tame) ŋu .
- Frenulum kpui: Esia ate ŋu ana aɖe nabla, si nye nɔnɔme si woate ŋu aɖɔ ɖo to amekoko bɔbɔe aɖe me.
Zi geɖe la, ɖevi siwo ƒe nuƒoƒo tsi megbe la ƒe nuƒoƒo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe kuxiwo nɔa wo ŋu . Esiawo dzɔna ne kuxi aɖe le ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe akpa siwo kpɔa nuƒoƒo dzi la ŋu. Etɔxɛe la, esesẽna na wo be woawɔ ɖoɖo ɖe nuyiwo, aɖe, kple aɖu ŋu be woaɖe gbeɖiɖiwo. Ðevi siwo ŋu kuxi siawo le hã ate ŋu akpɔ nu me ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe kuxi bubuwo abe nuɖuɖu kple nu mimi ene.
Tosese ƒe kuxiwo hã ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ gã aɖe ɖe nuƒoƒo dzi. Ne ɖevi mete ŋu sea nyawo kple gbeɖiɖiwo nyuie o la, aleke wòasrɔ̃ wo, ase wo gɔme, ahazã wo? Eyata ne ɖikeke aɖe le nuƒoƒo ŋu la, ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàna toŋutinunyala nado viwò ƒe tose kpɔ .
To me dɔlékuiwo , vevietɔ dɔlékui siwo nɔa anyi didi , ate ŋu agblẽ nu le tosese ŋu hena ɣeyiɣi aɖe. Gake ne to ɖeka ya teti ƒe tosese sɔ la, zi geɖe la, mehea kuxi gã aɖeke vɛ le nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi me o.
Gakpe ɖe eŋu la, woate ŋu akpɔ nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe megbetsitsi hã le nɔnɔmewo abe tsitsi ƒe kuxiwo (e.g., Autism Spectrum Disorder) me. Azɔ hã, ne ame aɖe ƒe nuƒoƒo tsi megbe le eƒe ɖevime (ƒomea ƒe ŋutinya) la, ate ŋu atso domenyiŋusẽfianu hã gbɔ.
Aleke woawɔ anya nuƒoƒo alo gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe megbetsitsi? (Dɔléle ƒe dzesi) .
Ne èsusu be kuxi aɖe le viwòa ŋu abe esia ene la, ele vevie be nàyi Nuƒoƒo ƒe Dɔléleŋutinunyala (SLP) gbɔ kaba. Ame aɖewo hã yɔa wo be Nuƒoƒo Ŋuti Dɔdamɔnufialawo . Àte ŋu adi nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala le ɖokuiwò si, alo abia wò ƒomea ƒe ɖɔkta be wòaɖo ye ɖe wò.
Nuƒoƒodɔdala sia alé ŋku ɖe viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete ŋu nyuie. Awɔ dodokpɔ vovovo siwo woɖo ɖe ɖoɖo nu atsɔ anya ne ɖevia ɖo nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi ƒe dzesi vevi siwo sɔ ɖe woƒe ƒexɔxɔ nu gbɔ.
Nuƒoƒodɔdala la léa ŋku ɖe nu siawo hã ŋu koŋ:
- Nuka gɔme viwòa se: Woyɔa esia be gbegbɔgblɔ si xɔa nya . Efia ŋutete si le ame si be wòase nya siwo ame bubuwo gblɔ kple mɔfiamewo gɔme.
- Nya si viwòa ate ŋu agblɔ: Woyɔa esia be nyagbɔgblɔ si woɖena fiana . Enye ŋutete si le wo si be woagblɔ woƒe susuwo kple nuhiahiãwo le nyagbewo kple nyagbewo me.
- Gbeɖiɖi ƒe tsitsi kple nuƒoƒo me kɔ nyuie: Ne ɖevia yɔa gbeɖiɖi vovovowo nyuie eye ne nyawo me kɔ.
- Viwò ƒe nu me ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme: Esia fia alesi nu, aɖe, aɖu, kple nuyi wɔa dɔ ɖekae nyuie be woaƒo nu, aɖu nu, ahami nu.
Nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ŋuti dɔdala ate ŋu anɔ te ɖe dodokpɔ siawo me tsonu dzi aɖo aɖaŋu be viwòa nahiã nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ .
Aleke nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋui?
Menye tohehe na viwò alo vɔvɔ̃ nanae nye nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ o. Eku ɖe nusɔsrɔ̃ to fefe me ŋu. Nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala awɔ dɔ kple viwòa to dɔwɔnawo, fefenuwo, kple nɔnɔmetatawo dzi be wòakpe ɖe eŋu wòatu eƒe nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutetewo ɖo.
Woafia ale si nàkpe ɖe viwòa ŋu le aƒeme hã wò. Esia le abe ƒuƒoƒo me dɔwɔwɔ ene. Ne èwɔ ɖe atikewɔla ƒe mɔfiamewo dzi le aƒeme ate ŋu akpe ɖe viwòa ŋu wòawɔ ŋgɔyiyi kabakaba.
Aleke dzilawo ate ŋu akpe asi ɖe eŋu?
Dzilawo wɔa akpa vevi aɖe ŋutɔ le kpekpeɖeŋu nana ɖevi siwo nuƒoƒo alo gbegbɔgblɔ me kuxiwo le me. Miawoe zãa ɣeyiɣi geɖe wu ɖe viwòa ŋu, eye miawoe nye woƒe nufiala gbãtɔ. Eyata miaƒe kpekpeɖeŋu le vevie ŋutɔ.
Nu siwo nàte ŋu awɔ le aƒeme atsɔ ade viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutete ƒe dzi ƒo dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:
- Tsɔ dzeɖoɖo ɖo nɔƒe gbãtɔ: Ðo dze kple viwòa alesi nàte ŋui, dzi ha, eye nàde dzi ƒo nɛ be wòasrɔ̃ gbeɖiɖiwo kple asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi (dzesiwo). Ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàƒo nu kplii esime nèle fefem kplii tso eƒe ɖevime ke, eye nàwɔ nu ɖe gbeɖiɖi sue siwo wòwɔna ŋu. Gblɔ nyawo abe, "Oo, vinye, èle alɔgbɔnu kom nam, alo?"
- Xlẽ agbalẽwo na viwòa: Dze egɔme ne viwòa le sue. Tia agbalẽ falɛfalɛ siwo sɔ ɖe ƒe si wòxɔ nu , board book , alo agbalẽ siwo me nɔnɔmetata gã siwo me kɔ, eye nàde dzi ƒo na viwòa be wòalé ŋku ɖe nɔnɔmetataawo ŋu esime nèle ŋkɔ yɔm na nusiwo le nɔnɔmetataawo me. Gblɔ nya bɔbɔewo abe, "Kpɔ bɔl sia ɖa," alo "Asɔ gã aɖee nye esi." Ne viwòa le tsitsim la, bia nyawo tso nu siwo le agbalẽa me ŋu eye nàde dzi ƒo na wo be woagblɔ ŋutinyaa na wò.
- Zã gbesiagbe nɔnɔmewo: Tu viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ɖo to nuƒoƒo tso nusiwo nèwɔna le ŋkekea me katã ŋu me. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, yɔ atikutsetsewo kple amagbewo ŋkɔ ne èyi fiase me ("Tomatos dzĩe nye esia"), ɖɔ nusi wɔm nèle ne èle nu ɖam alo le xɔ aɖe me dzram ɖo ("Dada le bli la dam ɖe dzodoƒe fifia"), fia asi nusiwo ƒo xlã aƒea eye nàgblɔ nusi wonye na wo. Gblɔ nya siawo bɔbɔe, gake ƒo asa na "vidzĩ ƒe nuƒoƒo" zazã. Anyo wu be nàyɔ nyawo nyuie eye nàƒo nu le nyagbe bɔbɔe siwo de blibo me. Ne viwòa gblɔ nya aɖe si mesɔ o la, mègaɖe ɖeklemie o, ke boŋ fia nya si sɔ lae le lɔlɔ̃ me.
Ðo ŋku edzi be anyo wu be nàde dzesi nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe megbetsitsi siawo kaba ahakpɔ wo gbɔ. Ne ètsi dzi ɖe viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo alo gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi ŋu la, kpɔ egbɔ be yeyi ɖɔkta gbɔ. Zi alesi wòtsi megbee la, zi nenemae wòate ŋu asesẽ be nàkpe ɖe viwòa ŋui.
Mlɔeba la, nusiwo dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui (Take-Home Message) .
Eyata, le nusiwo me míedzro me la, eme kɔ na wò be ɖevi ƒe nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi nye nusi bia be woalé ŋku ɖe eŋu vie. Menye ɖeviwo katãe le ɖeka o, eye woƒe tsitsi ate ŋu ato vovo. Gake ne èse le ɖokuiwò me be yehe ɖe megbe vie la, mègavɔ̃ be yeagblɔ be, "Menyo o, anyo ɖe edzi le eɖokui si o."
Nu vevitɔ kekeakee nye be nànya be menye wò ɖeka koe o. Lãmesẽdɔwɔlawo li, siwo dometɔ aɖewoe nye ɖɔktawo, nuƒoƒoŋutinunyalawo, kple ame bubuwo, siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò ahafia mɔ wò. Ne wode dzesi nɔnɔme siawo kaba la, mɔnukpɔkpɔ gã aɖe li be woana kpekpeɖeŋu si ɖevia si wòhiã la kaba eye wòatu woƒe ŋutetewo ɖo bliboe. Eya ta, mègavɔ̃ o, mègakpe ŋu o, eye ne ɖikeke sue aɖe gɔ̃ hã le susu me na wò la, di atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo enumake. Anye kpekpeɖeŋu gã aɖe le etsɔme nyui kple dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ nana viwòa me!
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