Ua hala paha ʻoe i waho o ka loop no kekahi manawa a nalowale koke kāu keiki? ʻOiai hiki ke hana kēia i kekahi makua, ʻoi aku ka maʻamau no kahi keiki ma ka autism spectrum . Ma nā ʻōlelo lapaʻau, kapa mākou i kēia kūlana ʻo 'Autism Elopement'. I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ia ka wā e holo koke ai kahi keiki mai kahi mea e nānā ana iā lākou, ʻoiai ke nānā ʻia nei lākou. ʻO ka pōʻino nui loa i kēia, ʻo ia ka makemake nui o kekahi o kēia mau keiki i ka wai. ʻO ia ke kumu e hoʻowalewale ʻia ai lākou e hele i kahi loko, muliwai, kahawai, a i ʻole ka loko ʻauʻau kokoke. No kēia kumu, ʻo ke kumu nui o ka make ʻana o ia mau keiki e nalowale ana, ʻo ia ke piholo ʻana.
No ke aha i weliweli ai kēia kūlana? (Autism Elopement)
Hiki i kēia mau keiki ke nalo i kēlā me kēia manawa o ka makahiki. Akā, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka pilikia i ke kauwela, i ka wā e ikaika loa ai ka lā. ʻO kēia no ka mea, hoʻolōʻihi mākou i ka manawa ma waho a me ka huakaʻi. E noʻonoʻo, i ka wā e pāʻina BBQ ana ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa, e pāʻani ana ma waho, a i ʻole e hoʻomaha ana ma kahi hōkele kokoke i ke kahakai, hiki i kahi keiki ke nalo koke.
He nui ka poʻe, ʻoiai paha ka poʻe i loko o nā ʻohana me kahi keiki autistic, ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i kēia pilikia. Ua hana ka National Center for Missing and Exploited Children ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i kahi noiʻi e pili ana i kēia. Ua ʻōlelo lākou he 84% o nā make ulia pōpilikia i waena o nā keiki me ka autism ma muli o ka make ʻana .
Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi 2012 i paʻi ʻia ma ka puke pai Pediatrics ua ʻōlelo ka hapa nui o nā mākua o nā keiki autistic ( kokoke i 50%) ua hoʻāʻo kā lākou keiki e nalo ma hope o ka piha ʻana o 4 mau makahiki. Eia kekahi, 24% o nā keiki i nalowale ua pilikia i ka make ʻana . ʻO kekahi 65% ua pilikia i ka loaʻa ʻana i kahi ulia kaʻa . Hiki i kēia mau keiki ke hoihoi i ka wai a me nā kaʻa, nā kaʻaahi, nā mīkini kinai ahi, a me nā hōʻailona alanui.
No ke aha e ʻimi ai kēia mau keiki i nā wahi mālie, ʻoiai hoʻi ka wai?
He paʻakikī ke ʻōlelo pololei i ke kumu o kēia hana, akā wahi a nā loea aia kekahi mau hōʻailona.
"ʻO kahi mea a mākou e ʻike nei, ʻo ia ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o kēia mau keiki e haʻalele i nā wahi e hopohopo ai lākou, ʻo ia hoʻi, nā wahi walaʻau, piha kanaka, a piha paha. Hele lākou i kahi mālie. ʻO ka wai ka mea maʻamau he wahi mālie a maluhia. ʻO ia ke kumu e huki ʻia ai lākou i kēlā."
ʻAʻole wale ka wai, akā, hoʻowalewale ʻia paha lākou e hele i kahi mālie, e like me ka ululāʻau a i loko paha o kahi kaʻa i haʻalele ʻia.
He ʻike puʻuwai
He makuahine i kapa ʻia ʻo Beth Dilg, nāna i noho ma Maryland,Ua piholo ʻo Savannah, he kaikamahine autistic 7 makahiki. I kekahi lā anuanu, ua hele ʻo Beth i ka lua no kekahi mau minuke ʻoiai ua noi ʻia kāna keiki kāne 11 makahiki e mālama i nā keiki ʻelua. Akā ua haʻalele ʻo Savannah i ka hale me kona kaikunāne 2 makahiki.
I ka puka ʻana mai o Beth, ua nalowale nā keiki ʻelua. Ua huli ʻo ia iā Savannah ma ka pā hale holoʻokoʻa, ka mea hiki ʻole ke ʻōlelo, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻi mai. Holo akula ʻo ia i kahi loko kokoke a ʻike akula i nā keiki ʻelua i loko o ka wai. ʻOiai ua hoʻopakele ʻia kāna keiki kāne ʻelua makahiki e kona mahiole paikikala, ua nalowale ʻo Savannah i kona huki ʻana iā ia mai loko mai o ka wai.
Hiki ke hana kēia i kekahi ʻohana. ʻAʻohe mea nui ka nui o nā hana palekana a nā mākua e hana ai, hiki i ke keiki ke nalo i ka ʻimo o ka maka.
"He akamai loa kēia mau keiki autistic. ʻAʻole paha lākou e hiki ke ʻōlelo, akā he akamai kūikawā ko lākou. No laila, pono ʻoe e hele i mua o lākou i hoʻokahi kapuaʻi ." - Beth Dilg
He aha kāu e hana ai inā nalowale ke keiki?
He paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keiki nalowale e like me kēia. ʻAʻole lākou e kamaʻilio, no laila ʻaʻole lākou e pane inā kāhea kekahi i ko lākou inoa. No laila, inā nalowale kāu keiki, mai hele wale ʻoe e ʻimi iā lākou.
E kelepona koke aku i ka helu ulia pōpilikia o ka mākaʻi 119.
E hoʻomanaʻo, he mea nui kēlā me kēia kekona ke nalowale kekahi keiki. Ua aʻo kūikawā ʻia nā mākaʻi a me nā mea pane mua e ʻimi i nā keiki nalowale. Nānā mua lākou i nā wai kokoke, nā loko, a me nā kahawai.
Nā mea hiki iā mākou ke hana e pale aku i nā ulia pōpilikia
Nui nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e pale aku i kāu keiki mai kēia ʻano pōʻino. Hiki i ka hahai ʻana i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ke hana i kahi ʻokoʻa nui.
| Hana palekana | He maʻalahi ka mea e hana ai. |
|---|---|
| Palekana home | E hoʻokomo i nā mea hoʻāla e kani ai ke wehe ʻia nā puka a me nā puka makani. E laka iā lākou ma luna i ʻole e hiki aku ai nā keiki. E kau i kahi hōʻailona ʻike maka, e like me ka hōʻailona 'Stop', ma ka puka. |
| Kāleka ID pilikino | E komo i kahi kāleka ID me ka inoa o kāu keiki, ke kūlana autism, a me ka helu kelepona o ka makua ma luna. Inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke komo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopili iā ia i ke kaula kāmaʻa. Akā e hoʻomanaʻo e hele paha kāu keiki me ka ʻole o nā kāmaʻa. |
| Ke ʻike ʻana i nā mea hoʻoulu | E ʻike i ke kumu e hoʻāʻo nei kāu keiki e holo aku mai ka home aku. No ka walaʻau paha? No ka hopohopo paha? Inā ʻike ʻoe i ia kumu, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomālielie i kāu keiki a hāʻawi paha iā ia i nā headphone ke lohe ʻo ia i nā leo hoʻopilikia. |
| Nā mākau palekana (ʻauʻau) | He mea nui ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻauʻau. ʻO ka walaʻau a me ka pīhoihoi o kahi papa ʻauʻau maʻamau, he mea paʻakikī paha ke hoʻomanawanui no ke keiki. No laila, e kiʻi i nā haʻawina ʻauʻau pilikino mai kahi mea hoʻomaopopo i nā keiki me ka autism. I ka haʻawina hope loa, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka ʻauʻau ʻana me ke kapa piha a me ke komo ʻana i nā kāmaʻa. No ka mea, he nui nā keiki e lele i loko o ka wai me ka ʻole o ko lākou lole. |
| Ka nānā ʻana i ka hui | Ke nui nā mākua a puni, e like me kahi hanana ʻohana, manaʻo nā mea a pau e mālama kekahi i ke keiki. Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka mea ʻē aʻe ka mea e hana nei. No laila, e hāʻawi i ke kuleana o ka mālama ʻana i ke keiki i hoʻokahi kanaka i ka manawa. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, e hoʻoili i ke kuleana i kekahi. Ma kēlā ʻano, e nānā mau ana kekahi i ke keiki. |
E hoʻomākaukau no kahi pilikia ma mua.
Inā nalowale koke kāu keiki, e hoʻomākaukau i kēia mau mea ma mua e kōkua iā ʻoe e loaʻa koke iā lākou.
- E mālama i nā kiʻi hou loa: E mālama i kekahi mau kiʻi o kāu keiki ma kāu kelepona e hōʻike ana i ko lākou helehelena piha a me ke poʻo. Inā nalowale kāu keiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻouna koke i kēia mau kiʻi i nā mākaʻi.
- E hana i kahi pepa ʻike pilikia: Pono kēia e hoʻokomo i ka inoa o ke keiki, kona makahiki, kona kūlana, inā hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio, nā mea e hiki ai ke hoʻowalewale iā lākou (e like me ka wai, nā kaʻa), a me nā kikoʻī e pili ana i nā waihona wai, nā loko, a i ʻole nā kahawai kokoke i ka hale. E ʻae kēia iā ʻoe e hāʻawi koke i kēia ʻike i nā mākaʻi.
Inā he mau nīnau hou aku kāu e pili ana i kēia, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka ʻohana. Hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke alakaʻi hou aku.
Leka Lawe-Home
- He pilikia maoli a koʻikoʻi ka holo kaʻawale ʻana o ka autism.
- Ma muli o ka makemake nui o kēia mau keiki i ka wai, kiʻekiʻe loa ka pilikia o ka piholo ʻana.
- ʻO ke kāohi ʻana ke ala maikaʻi loa e pale aku ai i nā ulia. E pale i kou home, e hoʻokomo kāu keiki i kahi kāleka ID, a e hoʻomaʻamaʻa pono i ka ʻauʻau ʻana.
- Inā nalowale kāu keiki, e kāhea koke aku i ka mākaʻi ma 119 me ka hoʻokaʻulua ʻole. Mai hele wale e ʻimi iā lākou.
- I ka wā o nā hanana ʻohana a me nā huakaʻi waho, e hāʻawi i ke kuleana o ka mālama ʻana i ke keiki i hoʻokahi kanaka.
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