Ke haʻi aku kāu kauka iā ʻoe ua loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maʻi ʻaʻai umauma, manaʻo paha ua loli koke kou ola holoʻokoʻa. He mea maʻamau kēlā. Akā, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopilikia wale iā ʻoe. Hoʻopilikia pū ia i kou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha pili e aloha iā ʻoe a puni ʻoe. Manaʻo paha lākou i ka makaʻu, ka huhū, ke kaumaha, a me ke kōkua ʻole, e like me ʻoe. ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui loa iā ʻoe a me kāu poʻe aloha e hoʻomaopopo, kamaʻilio, a kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi i kēia huakaʻi paʻakikī.
E aʻo pū kākou e pili ana i kēia.
I kou lohe mua ʻana e pili ana i kēia maʻi, ua ʻimi paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka ʻike e pili ana i ia mea. Ua ʻimi ʻoe i ka pūnaewele, nā puke, a me nā kauka e ʻike ai pehea e hoʻoponopono ai iā ia. E like me ʻoe, ke ʻimi nei kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha i ka ʻike. Ke ʻimi nei lākou i ka ʻike e pili ana i ke kōkua maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe a me nā mea e manaʻo ai i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
No laila, ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, ʻo ia ke hoʻokomo iā lākou i kēia huakaʻi.
- E kamaʻilio me lākou e pili ana i kou kūlana olakino, ʻo ia hoʻi, kāu hōʻoia ʻana he maʻi ʻaʻai umauma kāu.
- E haʻi iā lākou i nā lāʻau lapaʻau e hāʻawi ʻia nei a me nā mea e manaʻo ʻia. ʻO ka wehe ʻana ma kēia ʻano e kōkua iā lākou e lanakila ma luna o nā makaʻu pono ʻole a lākou e loaʻa ai.
- I nā manawa hiki, ke hele ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka, e lawe pū me ʻoe i kahi mea kokoke iā ʻoe . Hiki i kēlā kanaka ke nīnau i ke kauka a kākau i nā mea nui i loko o kahi puke. A laila, inā poina iā ʻoe kekahi mea, hiki i kēlā kanaka ke hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe. Eia kekahi, hiki iā ia ke wehewehe i kēia ʻike i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Ua like kēia me kahi haʻuki hui . Ke hui pū nā kānaka a pau a ʻike, e maʻalahi ka hoʻokō ʻana i kēia pilikia.
E mākaukau e hoʻololi i nā loli.
ʻOiai ʻoe e mālama ʻia ana, hiki i ka mālama ʻana i nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā ma ka home ke lilo i mea paʻakikī nui. Hiki i kāu kāne, wahine, makuahine, makuakāne, a i ʻole hoaaloha maikaʻi loa ke kōkua iā ʻoe e kaʻana like i kekahi o ke kaumaha i kēia manawa.
Inā makemake kekahi e kōkua iā ʻoe, e noʻonoʻo i nā mea maopopo a kikoʻī e hiki iā lākou ke hana nou. Ma kahi o ka ʻōlelo wale ʻana, "Pono wau i ke kōkua," hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i nā mea e like me:
- "Hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i ke keiki mai ke kula mai i kēia awakea?"
- "Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomākaukau i kahi meaʻai naʻu ma ka home i ka lā aʻu e hele ai e kiʻi i kaʻu lāʻau lapaʻau ?"
- "Pono wau e kamaʻilio iki, he manawa iki kou?"
Eia kekahi, e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i nā kānaka a pau ke hana i nā mea āpau. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou mau talena kūikawā. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, he akamai kekahi o kou mau hoaaloha i ka hoʻolohe ʻana i kou kaumaha. He akamai kekahi i ka hoʻomākeʻaka ʻana iā ʻoe me nā ʻakaʻaka. He akamai kekahi i ka kuke ʻana, ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki, a me ka hana ʻana i nā hana ma waho. No laila, e hoʻāʻo e koho i ke kanaka kūpono no ka hana kūpono.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe e hana ana kekahi i kahi mea nou a he mea paʻakikī iā lākou, e hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi i ka manawa aʻe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi papa inoa o nā mea āu e pono ai ke kōkua a noi iā lākou e koho i kahi mea a lākou e makemake ai e hana. I kēia manawa, mai poina e hoʻomaikaʻi i ka poʻe e kōkua iā ʻoe a hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou e mālama i ko lākou ola a me ke olakino .
He mea nui loa ka mālama ʻana i ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi.
I kou loaʻa ʻana o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, hiki ke loli kāu mau pono mai kēlā lā a kēia lā a me kēlā pule a kēia pule. I kekahi mau pule, pono paha ʻoe i ke kōkua nui. I kekahi mau pule, ua maikaʻi loa paha ʻoe a hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā mea ma kāu iho. He mea nui e kamaʻilio ākea me kou ʻohana e pili ana i kēia mau hoʻololi.
Hiki i kekahi mau mea ke paʻakikī iki a ʻoluʻolu ʻole hoʻi ke kamaʻilio e pili ana, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio koke ʻana e pili ana iā lākou, ma mua o ko lākou lilo ʻana i mau pilikia nui.
Aia ma ka papa ma lalo nei kekahi mau kumuhana e pono ai ʻoe a me kou ʻohana e kūkākūkā.
| Kumuhana e kūkākūkā ʻia | Ka wehewehe a me ke koʻikoʻi |
|---|---|
| Kaʻana like ʻana i nā kuleana | Pono ʻoe e hoʻololi i nā ʻano hana hou e like me ka hana hale, ka mālama keiki, a me ka uku ʻana i nā bila. E maopopo i ka mea nāna e hana i ke aha. Ma kēlā ala, e emi iki ka hiki ʻana mai o nā pilikia pono ʻole. |
| Manaʻolana | He palena ko kēlā me kēia kanaka i kā lākou mea hiki ke hana. E kūkākūkā i nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana a me nā mea hiki ʻole ke hana ma muli o kou kūlana kino, ke kūlana noʻonoʻo o haʻi, a me ka manawa. |
| He mea nui ke kālā | He mea nui e kamaʻilio ākea e pili ana i nā mea e like me nā lilo lapaʻau a me ka nalowale o ka loaʻa kālā. ʻOiai he kumuhana paʻakikī kēia, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hopena ke kū pū ʻoe. |
| Nā hoʻoholo e pili ana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau | He ʻokoʻa paha kou mau manaʻo a me kou hoa e pili ana i ka lāʻau e hana ai. He mea nui e hoʻolohe kekahi i kekahi. ʻOiai na ʻoe ka hoʻoholo hope loa, he mea hoʻoikaika ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā manaʻo. |
| Nā Manaʻo | I loko o kēia manawa, hiki iā ʻoe a me kou ʻohana ke ʻike i nā manaʻo o ke kaumaha, ka makaʻu, ka huhū, a me ke kaumaha. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i nā mea e like me "Pehea ʻoe?" "Ke paʻakikī nei au i kēia lā" hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu a kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi kekahi i kekahi. |
He mea paʻakikī paha ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia mau mea i ka wā mua, akā e maʻalahi ia i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa. E hoʻomanaʻo he hui like nā kānaka a pau. I kekahi manawa, hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia nā huaʻōlelo hewa, hiki ke hana ʻia nā mea hewa. Akā, e hoʻomanawanui kekahi i kekahi.
E kiʻi i ke kōkua o waho inā pono.
He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hele hoʻokahi ma kēia huakaʻi. Ke manaʻo ʻoe ua kaumaha loa ke kaumaha nou a i ʻole kekahi o kou ʻohana e amo, he mea naʻauao ke ʻimi i ke kōkua mai waho.
- Kūkākūkā: Hiki iā ʻoe ke hālāwai me kahi kākāʻōlelo ma ke ʻano he ʻohana. E nīnau i kāu kauka inā he poʻe loea olakino noʻonoʻo a i ʻole nā kākāʻōlelo ma ka haukapila kahi āu e mālama ʻia nei. Hiki iā lākou ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻoholo pū.
- Nā Pūʻulu Kākoʻo: Aia kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe ma ka honua e hele nei i ka mea like me ʻoe. E nīnau i nā limahana o ka haukapila e pili ana i nā hui kākoʻo e hiki ai i nā poʻe e like me ʻoe ke komo. Hoʻokele pū kekahi mau hui maʻi kanesa i nā hui kākoʻo pūnaewele. ʻO ke komo ʻana i kēia mau mea hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi.
ʻO nā mea e like me kēia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe a me kāu poʻe aloha i ka ikaika nui e hoʻokele ai i kēia manawa paʻakikī.
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- He pilikia maʻamau ka maʻi ʻaʻai umauma nou, kou ʻohana, a me kou mau hoaaloha. Mai ʻeha hoʻokahi, e alo pū iā ia.
- E kamaʻilio ākea e pili ana i kou kūlana, ka lāʻau lapaʻau, a me kou mau manaʻo. E lawe i kahi mea āu e hilinaʻi ai me ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka.
- Mai makaʻu e noi i ke kōkua. E noi i ke kōkua me nā mea kikoʻī e like me ka mālama ʻana i nā keiki, ka hana ʻana i nā hana o ka hale, a i ʻole ka hele ʻana i ka hale kūʻai.
- E mahalo i nā manaʻo o kēlā me kēia. I kekahi manawa hiki ke paʻakikī kēia iā ʻoe a me kāu poʻe aloha e lawelawe. E hoʻomanawanui kekahi i kekahi.
- Inā ʻoe e manaʻo nei ua kaumaha a kaumaha paha, mai kānalua e ʻimi i ke aʻoaʻo loea a i ʻole kahi hui kākoʻo.
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