He paʻakikī anei ke kau hoʻolauleʻa no kāu keiki autistic? E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia.

Aloha mākou a pau i nā manawa hoʻolauleʻa e like me ka Makahiki Hou a me ka Kalikimaka, ʻeā? He manawa kupaianaha ia i ka wā e hoʻonani nani ʻia ai nā hale, e ʻākoakoa ana nā ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha, a hauʻoli nā mea a pau . Akā no ka makuahine a makua paha me kahi keiki me ka autism, hiki ke lilo i mea paʻakikī kēia manawa. Hiki i kēia mau keiki ke paʻakikī ke lawelawe i nā leo koke, nā kukui ʻālohilohi, a me nā wahi piha kanaka. No laila i kēia lā, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ke ʻano e mālama ai i kā mākou keiki i ka mālie a me ka palekana i kēia kau hoʻolauleʻa.

No ke aha i paʻakikī ai nā lā hoʻomaha no kēia mau keiki?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻokoʻa ka hana ʻana o ka lolo o nā keiki me ka autism i ka ʻike ma mua o kā mākou. Loaʻa paha iā lākou nā ʻike sensory kūikawā. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻo nā mea a mākou e ʻike mau ai - he leo, he kukui, he ʻala, he pā - he ikaika loa paha, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomanawanui no lākou. E noʻonoʻo, i ka wā hoʻomaha, i ka wā e pāʻani ana ke mele ma nā hale kūʻai, nā kukui ʻālohilohi, ke kani o ka poʻe e kamaʻilio ana, komo kēia mau mea a pau i loko o ko lākou lolo i ka manawa hoʻokahi, manaʻo lākou i kahi kaomi nui, he kaumaha. Kāhea mākou i kēia sensory overload . I kēlā mau manawa, hiki i ke keiki ke hopohopo, uē, uwē, a i ʻole e noho mālie loa.

He aha kā mākou e hana ai? Kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kūpono

ʻAe, pehea lā mākou e kū ai i kēia pilikia? Mai hopohopo, ma ka hoʻolālā ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaʻalahi i kēia manawa no ke keiki a no mākou iho.

1. E hoʻomaopopo pono i nā palena o ke keiki

ʻAʻole like nā keiki a pau. Pehea ka nui o ka walaʻau e hiki i kāu keiki ke ʻae? Pehea ka lōʻihi e hiki ai iā lākou ke noho i kahi wahi piha kanaka? Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo pono i kēia mau mea. No ka laʻana, ʻo ka lawe ʻana i kāu keiki i kahi hale kūʻai nui ma ke kūlanakauhale e like me Colombo a i ʻole Kandy i ke awakea i nā mahina kauwela ʻaʻole paha he mea ʻoluʻolu iā lākou. Akā, e hoʻolālā e hele i kakahiaka nui o ka lā pule, i ka wā e emi ai ka poʻe.

2. E hoʻomākaukau i kahi mālie ma nā wahi walaʻau

Inā ʻoe e hele ana i kahi pāʻina ma ka hale o kou hoahānau, e kamaʻilio me ka ʻohana ma mua a e ʻike inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa i kahi lumi mālie a i ʻole kahi kihi o ka pā hale no kāu keiki e noho mālie ai. I kou ʻike ʻana ua kaumaha kāu keiki, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka manawa kūpono e hele i laila a pāʻani me kahi mea pāʻani punahele, heluhelu i kahi puke, a i ʻole e noho wale ma laila. E hōʻemi nui kēia i ke kaumaha ma kona noʻonoʻo.

3. I ke kāhiko ʻana i kou home, e hana mālie.

Ma mua o ke kau koke ʻana i nā kukui a me nā mea hoʻonaninani ma ka hale a hoʻolilo iā ia e like me kahi "ʻāina kupanaha o ka hoʻoilo," e hana iki i kēia mau mea. E lawe mai i ka lāʻau Kalikimaka i kekahi lā a hoʻonani iā ​​ia i kekahi lā aʻe. E hoʻokomo i kāu keiki i kēia mau hana. E hāʻawi iā ia i kahi manawa e hoʻopā ai i nā mea hoʻonaninani a maʻa iā lākou. E kōkua kēia iā ia e emi iho ka makaʻu i nā mea hou.

4. E hana i nā hana palekana e pale aku ai i kāu keiki mai ka nalowale ʻana.

ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o nā keiki me ka autism e holo aku a auwana i nā wahi i kamaʻāina ʻole. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea weliweli loa.

• E hoʻomaopopo i nā hoalauna: He mea nui loa ia e hoʻomaopopo i kou mau hoalauna pili loa e pili ana i ke kūlana o kāu keiki a me kēia ʻano hana.
• E komo i kahi palapala hōʻoia: E kau i kahi kūpeʻe lima ma ka lima o kāu keiki. E kākau maopopo i ka inoa o ke keiki a me kāu helu kelepona ma luna.
• E makaʻala mau: E makaʻala mau i kāu keiki ma nā wahi piha kanaka.

5. E mālama i ka hana maʻamau o kāu keiki i kēlā me kēia lā e like me ka hiki.

Ua like ka hana maʻamau me kahi heleuma no kēia mau keiki. Hāʻawi ia iā lākou i kahi manaʻo palekana. Mai hoʻololi nui i kā lākou hana maʻamau no ka mea he lā hoʻomaha.

• ʻAi a me ka hiamoe: E hoʻāʻo e mālama i nā mea e like me ka hiki, e like me ka hānai ʻana i kāu keiki i ka manawa like i kēlā me kēia lā a me ka hoʻomoe ʻana iā lākou i ka manawa like i kēlā me kēia pō.
• Mai hana i nā hoʻololi koke: Mai ʻōlelo wale, "E hele ana mākou i kahi pāʻina, e hoʻomākaukau." Akā, e hoʻohana i kahi papa hana ʻike maka . ʻO ia hoʻi, e hōʻike iā ia i nā kiʻi o nā mea e pono ai ʻo ia e hana i kēlā lā (e laʻa, he kiʻi o ka ʻai ʻana, he kiʻi o ka hale o ka hoahānau) ma ka paia. Ma kēlā ala, hiki iā ia ke loaʻa kahi manaʻo o ke ʻano o ka lā.

6. E lawe mai i nā mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai i ke keiki.

Inā ʻoe e hele ana i kahi ʻē, e hoʻokomo i kekahi mau mea kamaʻāina a punahele i loko o ka ʻeke a kāu keiki. Hiki ke lilo i mea pāʻani punahele, puke, kelepona me nā mele a lākou e makemake ai e hoʻolohe, a i ʻole nā ​​meaʻai māmā a lākou e makemake ai e ʻai. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kēia mau mea i ka lima i ka wā e kaumaha ana lākou hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻoluʻolu nui.

7. E akahele i ke koho ʻana a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā makana.

I ke koho ʻana i makana no kāu keiki, e noʻonoʻo inā ʻaʻole ia he mea leʻaleʻa wale nō no lākou, akā e kōkua pū iā lākou e hoʻomohala i ko lākou mau mākau. Eia kekahi laʻana, he waiwai nui nā mea pāʻani e paipai ana i ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka ʻōlelo.

E hoʻonoho i kekahi mau lula no ka wehe ʻana i nā makana. E haʻi mua i kāu keiki e wehe wale ʻia nā makana ke hui pū nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole paha e hiki i kāu keiki ke hoʻomanawanui i ka pīhoihoi o ka wehe ʻana o nā mea a pau i nā makana i ka manawa hoʻokahi. No laila, e hoʻohana i kahi mea e like me ka pōpō liʻiliʻi e hiki ke hāʻawi ʻia mai kekahi kanaka a i kekahi kanaka, a e ʻae i ka mea e paʻa ana e wehe i kā lākou makana.

ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻaʻohe pilikia inā ʻaʻole holo nā mea āpau e like me ka hoʻolālā. Mai hopohopo no ia mea. ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ka mālama ʻana i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e hoʻolilo ai me kāu keiki i kēia kau hoʻolauleʻa. Inā pilikia ʻoe i ka hoʻomalu ʻana i ke ʻano o kāu keiki a i ʻole makemake ʻoe i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hou aku, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka pediatric a kauka psychiatrist paha .