Ke hana ʻino nei kekahi iā ʻoe? Pehea ʻoe e noi ai i ke kōkua? (Hana ʻino i ke keiki) E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia!

Hiki i ke ola ke paʻakikī maoli i kekahi manawa, ʻeā? ʻOi loa aku hoʻi i ka wā e hōʻeha manaʻo ana kekahi iā ʻoe, e hoʻoweliweli iā ʻoe, a i ʻole e hana ʻino iā ʻoe. ʻO kēia ka mea a mākou e kapa nei he hana ʻino . ʻOiai he kumuhana paʻakikī kēia e kamaʻilio e pili ana, he mea nui e ʻike ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi a hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ke kōkua.

He aha maoli ka hana ʻino?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka hana ʻino ke hana ʻino kekahi iā ʻoe ma ke kino, ka noʻonoʻo, ka moekolohe, a i ʻole ka hoʻowahāwahā ʻana iā ʻoe. Hiki ke hana ʻia kēia ma nā ʻano like ʻole. E nānā kākou i nā ala nui.

1. Ka hana ʻino kino

ʻO ke ʻano kēia ke hōʻeha kino nei kekahi iā ʻoe. E noʻonoʻo...

• Hahau lākou iā ʻoe a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ʻōlelo aʻo maikaʻi ʻole.
• Ke kuʻi ikaika nei, ke kiola nei i ka honua.
• Ke kuʻi ʻana me kahi mea (ke kāʻei, ka lāʻau).
• Ke ʻā nei kekahi mea i loko oʻu.
• Ke nakinaki ʻia nei kou mau lālā.

ʻO kēia nā mea i kapa ʻia he hana ʻino kino. I kekahi manawa hiki iā ia ke hana a wehe paha i nā ʻeha a me nā ʻōpala ma ke kino. Akā inā ʻeha, he hana ʻino ia.

2. Ka hana ʻino ʻana i ka naʻau a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo

He mea kēia e hōʻeha nui ai i ka noʻonoʻo, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia e hōʻeha i ke kino.

• Ke hoʻohewa mau ʻia nei ʻoe a me ka hoʻōho ʻia ʻana.
• Hōʻino lākou iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano e hōʻeha ai i kou mau manaʻo a haʻi hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe i mua o kekahi poʻe.
• ʻŌlelo mau lākou i nā mea e like me, "He lapuwale ʻoe," "ʻAʻohe ou hiki ke hana i kekahi mea."
• Ke hoʻomakaʻu ʻia nei ʻoe a ke hoʻoweliweli ʻia nei.
• ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe e hana i nā mea āu e makemake ai, ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me kāu mau hoaaloha.
• Ke hoʻowahāwahā nei lākou iā ʻoe a ke hoʻowahāwahā nei iā ʻoe.

Hiki i nā mea e like me kēia ke hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i ke kaumaha, ka makaʻu, a me ka nalowale o ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho.

3. Ka hana ʻino moekolohe

ʻO kēia ka ʻāpana paʻakikī loa e kamaʻilio e pili ana, akā he mea nui loa ia. ʻO ka hana hoʻomāinoino moekolohe ke hoʻopā aku kekahi iā ʻoe me kou ʻae ʻole, koi iā ʻoe e hōʻike iā lākou i nā mea moekolohe, a koi paha iā ʻoe e hana i nā mea moekolohe.

• Hoʻopā a nānā lākou i kou mau ʻāpana pilikino .
• Honi a ʻapo lākou iā ʻoe me ke kūpono ʻole.
• Ke noi aku nei lākou iā ʻoe e nānā i nā kiʻi a me nā wikiō moekolohe.
• Ke koi mai nei lākou iā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe.
• Ke hoʻohana nei ʻoe i kou kino ma nā ʻano āu i hoʻomaopopo ʻole ai a makemake ʻole ai.

ʻAʻole loa kēia he hewa nou. Inā hana kekahi i kekahi mea e like me kēia iā ʻoe, ʻo ia wale nō ka hewa o ia kanaka.

4. Hoʻowahāwahā

ʻO ke ʻano kēia, ʻo ka mea nāna e mālama iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā mea āu e pono ai.

• ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā ʻoe e ʻai a inu paha me ke kūpono.
• ʻAʻole lākou e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā lole maʻemaʻe e ʻaʻahu ai.
• Ke maʻi ʻoe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele i ke kauka.
• ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻouna iā lākou i ke kula, ʻaʻole lākou e kōkua i kā lākou hoʻonaʻauao ʻana.
• ʻAʻole lākou e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka palekana, waiho wale lākou iā ʻoe ma nā wahi pōʻino.

Hiki i nā mea e like me kēia ke hōʻeha i kou kino a me kou noʻonoʻo.

E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ka mea hana ʻino paha he kanaka āu i ʻike ai. Hiki ke lilo i lālā o ka ʻohana, he hoahānau, he hoaaloha, he kumu, a he malihini loa paha. ʻO ka mea nāna e hana, ua hewa ia.

ʻAʻole loa kēia he hewa nou!

ʻO kēia ka mea āu e pono ai e hoʻomanaʻo. ʻAʻole loa ʻoe he hewa i ka hana ʻino ʻia. I kekahi manawa, e ʻōlelo paha ka mea nāna ʻoe e hana ʻino nei, "ʻO kou hewa kēia." A i ʻole, "Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hana i kēia, ʻaʻole wau e hana i kēia." He mau wahaheʻe kēia.

• ʻAʻohe mea āu e ʻaʻahu ai,
• ʻO nā mea āu e ʻōlelo ai,
• Ma nā wahi a pau āu e hele ai,
• ʻAʻohe mea āu e hana ai,

ʻAʻohe kuleana o kekahi e hōʻeha iā ʻoe. Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā kuleana āpau e palekana a hauʻoli. He mea maʻamau ke kaumaha, makaʻu, a huikau ke loaʻa kahi mea ʻino iā ʻoe. Akā, ʻaʻole na ʻoe ia hewa.

ʻO wai kāu e hiki ke haʻi aku e pili ana i kēia? (He kanaka makua hilinaʻi)

Inā ʻoe e hele ana i kahi mea e like me kēia, ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea. E haʻi aku i kahi kanaka makua āu e hilinaʻi nei. E kōkua mai kēlā kanaka iā ʻoe. E noʻonoʻo, ʻo wai kāu e hilinaʻi nei?

• Māmā, Pāpā, a i ʻole kekahi lālā ʻohana: ʻO kekahi e like me kou mau mākua, kaikuaʻana, kaikuahine, kupuna wahine, a kupuna kāne paha.
• He hoahānau: He ʻanakē a ʻanakala paha e pili kokoke ana iā ʻoe.
• Mākua o ka hoaaloha: He makuahine a makua paha o kahi hoaaloha āu e hilinaʻi ai.
• He kumu a kākāʻōlelo kula paha: He kumu ma kāu kula, ke poʻo kumu, ke haku/wahine, a i ʻole ke kākāʻōlelo kula.
• Kauka a Kahu Maʻi paha: Ke hele ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi aku i kēlā kanaka.
• He alakaʻi hoʻomana: Kekahi e like me ke kahuna pule ma ka luakini, he makuakāne/kaikuahine ma ka hale pule.

Pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai me lākou? E hopohopo paha ʻoe e ʻōlelo i kēia. Akā e hōʻiliʻili i kou wiwo ʻole a hoʻomaka penei:

• "He mea kaʻu e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe."
• "Pono wau e kamaʻilio me ʻoe no kekahi manawa."
• "Pono wau i ke kōkua."

ʻOiai lākou e hoʻolohe ana, e haʻi iā lākou i ka mea i hana ʻia iā ʻoe. E haʻi iā lākou e pono ana ʻoe i kā lākou kōkua. Inā paʻakikī iā ʻoe ke haʻi iā lākou i nā mea āpau i ka manawa hoʻokahi, e haʻi mālie iā lākou. ʻO ka mea nui ka hoʻomaka.

He aha inā ʻaʻohe pākeke hilinaʻi kokoke? A i ʻole makaʻu ʻoe e haʻi iā lākou?

I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻohe ou kanaka makua e hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi kokoke. A i ʻole inā e hana ʻino ʻia ana ʻoe e kekahi o kou ʻohana, makaʻu paha ʻoe e haʻi aku i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Akā, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. Aia kekahi mau ala ʻē aʻe e loaʻa ai ke kōkua.

Nā Kāhea Pilikia a me nā Laina Kōkua

Ma Sri Lanka, aia nā hui kūikawā a me nā helu kelepona e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe i nā manawa e like me kēia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona pilikino iā lākou a noi i ke kōkua.

• Mana Hoʻomalu Keiki Lahui (NCPA): Helu kelepona 1929.ʻO kēia ke keʻena aupuni nui e pili ana i ka hana ʻino ʻana i nā keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona i kēia helu i kēlā me kēia manawa o ka lā. E hoʻolohe lākou iā ʻoe a hāʻawi i ke kōkua āu e pono ai.
• Helu ulia pōpilikia o ka mākaʻi: 119. Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi ulia a i ʻole makemake i ke kōkua wikiwiki, e kāhea i kēia helu.
• Nā Wahine i nele (WIN): Helu kelepona 0112671411. Kōkua kēia hui i nā wāhine a me nā keiki i nā kūlana hana ʻino.
• Nā Hoaaloha : Nā helu kelepona 0112692909, 0112696666. Inā ʻoe e kaumaha ana, e kaumaha ana, a ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio pū ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke kāhea aku i kēia poʻe. E hoʻolohe lākou iā ʻoe a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ke alakaʻi āu e pono ai.

Ua aʻo ʻia nā kānaka ma kēia mau laina kōkua. Hoʻolohe pono lākou i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohewa iā ʻoe, a kōkua lākou iā ʻoe.

He aha kāu e hana ai inā aia ʻoe i ka pōʻino koke?

Inā manaʻo ʻoe aia ʻoe i kahi pōʻino nui ma kou wahi, pono ʻoe e hana koke. 1. Inā hiki, e neʻe i kahi palekana. ʻO ia hoʻi, e haʻalele i ka mea nāna ʻoe e hana ʻino nei. 2. Kāhea i kahi helu pilikia. Ma Sri Lanka, ʻo 119 kēia (mākaʻi). 3. Ke kāhea ʻoe , e hāʻawi i kou inoa (ua lawa kou inoa mua) a me kou wahi kikoʻī. E ʻae kēia iā lākou e hele koke mai iā ʻoe a kōkua iā ʻoe.

• Eia kekahi laʻana: "Aloha, ʻo wau ʻo [kou inoa]. Aia wau ma [kou helu wahi a i ʻole kou hōʻailona]. Aia wau i loko o kahi ulia. E ʻoluʻolu e kōkua mai!"

Mea nui: Inā hiki iā ʻoe, e hana i kēia mau mea ma ke ʻano e ʻike ʻole ai ka mea nāna ʻoe e hoʻoluhi nei. ʻO kou palekana ka mea mua.

E akahele hoʻi ma ka pūnaewele (Palekana Pūnaewele)

I kēia mau lā, hoʻolilo mākou i ka manawa nui ma ka Pūnaewele a me nā pāpili kaiapili, ʻeā? E like me ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, hiki ke hoʻoweliweli ʻia mākou ma ka pūnaewele. Kāhea pū mākou i kēia he "Cyberbullying."

• Inā hoʻouna mai kekahi iā ʻoe i nā leka maikaʻi ʻole,
• Inā hoʻouna ʻia kāu mau kiʻi me ka ʻole o kāu ʻae,
• Inā ʻoe e hana ana i nā mea ma ka pūnaewele e hoʻomakaʻu ai iā ʻoe,
• Inā noi ʻia ʻoe no nā kiʻi kūpono ʻole,

He hoʻoweliweli kēlā. Inā loaʻa kekahi mea e like me ia, e haʻi pono i kahi pākeke hilinaʻi. Eia kekahi, mai holoi i kēlā mau leka a me nā kiʻi, akā e mālama iā lākou i mea hōʻike.

E hoʻomanaʻo, loaʻa mau ke kōkua!

Ua ʻike mākou ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi mea e like me kēia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke makaʻu, hilahila, a kaumaha paha. Akā, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hele wale ma waena o kēia mau mea.

• Aia nā poʻe makemake e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe, e manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe, a kōkua iā ʻoe.
• Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā pono āpau e noho me ka palekana a me ke kūʻokoʻa mai ka hana ʻino.
• ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana ke kaʻina mua. He kaʻina nui kēlā.

I kekahi manawa ke haʻi aku ʻoe i kahi pākeke, ʻaʻole lākou maopopo iā ʻoe a ʻaʻole paha e kōkua iā ʻoe, mai haʻalele.E haʻi aku i kekahi. E hoʻomau i ka hoʻāʻo a hiki i kou loaʻa ʻana o ke kōkua.

ʻO ka mea hope loa, e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia (Leka Lawe-Home)

ʻAe, e nānā hou kākou i kekahi o nā mea e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo mai kā mākou i kamaʻilio ai i kēia lā:

• He hewa ka hana ʻino. He hewa ia me ka nānā ʻole i ka mea nāna e hana a pehea e hana ʻia ai.
• ʻAʻole loa ia he hewa nou. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kuleana no kekahi mea.
• ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. Aia kekahi poʻe e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe, a makemake hoʻi e kōkua iā ʻoe.
• E kamaʻilio me kahi pākeke hilinaʻi. Hiki i kou mau mākua, he hoahānau, he kumu, a he kauka paha.
• Inā ʻaʻohe kanaka e like me ia, a inā makaʻu ʻoe e ʻōlelo, e kelepona i kahi laina kōkua e like me 1929 (National Child Protection Authority).
• Inā ʻoe i loko o ka pilikia koke, e kāhea iā 119.
• ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana ke kaʻina mua a koʻikoʻi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe iho. Ke pule nei mākou e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ikaika e hana ai pēlā.

Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi kūlana paʻakikī i kēia manawa, ʻo ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia ʻatikala he ʻanuʻu nui āu i hana ai. Mai makaʻu e noi i ke kōkua. He waiwai nui ʻoe, pono ʻoe e palekana.

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ʻO ka hana ʻino ʻana i nā keiki, ka hana ʻino, ke noi ʻana i ke kōkua, ka palekana, nā kelepona kōkua pōpilikia ma Sri Lanka, NCPA 1929, olakino noʻonoʻo