Imajin se yu pikin ɔ ɔda pɔsin na yu famili gɛt ADHD ( Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder ). Dis nɔ jɔs de afɛkt da pɔsin de. Di ɔl famili in ɛvride layf, rilayshɔnship, ɔltin kin chenj. Fɔ ɛp ɛn kia fɔ pɔsin we gɛt ADHD na big wok. So, i kin rili strɛs di famili, mɔ di mama ɛn papa dɛn.
Stɔdi dɛn dɔn ivin sho se we wan pɔsin na di famili gɛt ADHD, i kin afɛkt di we aw in mama ɛn papa, in brɔda ɛn sista dɛn, ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn na di famili kin satisfay wit dɛn layf. Imajin, pikin we gɛt ADHD nid in mama ɛn papa fɔ pe atɛnshɔn, tek tɛm, ɛn tray tranga wan pas ɔda pikin dɛn. Dis kin mek mama ɛn papa dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn padi biznɛs, dɛn nɔ kin spɛn bɔku tɛm togɛda as famili, ɛn dɛn kin gɛt cham-mɔt bɔku tɛm. Sɔm risach dɔn sho se mama ɛn papa dɛn we gɛt ADHD pikin dɛn kin dayvɔs ɛn ivin gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn maynd lɛk pwɛl hat pas ɔda famili dɛn.
Bɔt nɔ wɔri. Bɔrku tin de wae yu kin du fɔ kɔntrol dis kayn tin wae yu kin du ɛn go bifo. Dis na big ajɔstmɛnt, bɔt bɔku tin dɛn de ɛn we fɔ gɛt ɛp. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dat.
Aw fɔ kɔntrol dis tin we de apin?
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ mek yu pikin gɛt di rayt mɛrɛsin kwik kwik wan. Ɔda tin dɛn de we kin gɛt di sem kayn sayn dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit ADHD . So, i impɔtant fɔ no fɔ tru if yu pikin rili gɛt ADHD. Di bɛst pɔsin fɔ du dis na yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn.
Wan pat fɔ ɛp yu pikin na fɔ no dɛn tin ya ɔltɛm:
- Tritmɛnt: If yu pikin de tek mɛrɛsin fɔ ADHD, yu fɔ tek tɛm wach di mɛrɛsin fɔ si if i gɛt sayd ɛfɛkt. Dɔn bak, mek shɔ se di doz na jɔs lɛk aw di dɔktɔ tɛl yu. Apat frɔm dat, if ɔda tritmɛnt dɛn de we di dɔktɔ tɛl yu fɔ du, fala dɛn kɔrɛkt wan.
- Skul: Yu fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ tɔk to yu pikin in skul. Mek di ticha ɛn advaysa dɛn no bɔt di sik ɛn wetin di famili nid. Pikin dɛn we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt bɔku sɛns, bɔt i nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn fɔ pe atɛnshɔn ɛn kɔntrol di we aw dɛn de du tin pasmak .
- Fɔ tink bɔt yusɛf: I rili impɔtant fɔ prez yu pikin. Tɛl am wetin i sabi du. Prez am we i du sɔntin we smɔl ɔ we gud. Dis kin mek i gɛt mɔ rɛspɛkt fɔ insɛf.
Wetin mama ɛn papa dɛn kin du fɔ kia fɔ pikin we gɛt ADHD?
Fɔ mɛn pikin na big wok. Dis chalenj kin wɔs wit ADHD. So, i kin rili ɛp fɔ atɛnd trenin program dɛn we mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gi spɛshal wan bɔt aw fɔ kɔntrol di sik ɛn di strɛs we i kin briŋ kam. Yu kin jɔyn sɔpɔt grup dɛn bak fɔ famili dɛn we gɛt pikin dɛn we gɛt ADHD. Yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn kin ɛp yu fɔ fɛn dɛn kayn trenin program dɛn de, advays savis dɛn, ɛn sɔpɔt grup dɛn.
As mama ɔ papa, yu kin tray dɛn we ya bak:
| Teknik we yu de yuz | Wetin kin apin wit dis? |
|---|---|
| Di skil dɛm fɔ manej di we aw pɔsin de biev | Dɛn kin yuz pɔynt sistɛm ɛn pɔsitiv rɛkɔgnishɔn fɔ ɛnkɔrej gud bihayvya. Dɛn tin ya kin mek sɔm patikyula abit dɛn fayn, lɛk fɔ klin di rum ɛn fɔ dɔn di wok we dɛn fɔ du na os. Bɔt dɛn nɔ kin gɛt bɛtɛ ɛfɛkt pan di men kwaliti dɛn, lɛk fɔ nɔ pe atɛnshɔn ɛn fɔ du tin pasmak. |
| Tɛrapi/Kɔnsul | Mama ɛn papa dɛn kin lan aw fɔ ɛp dɛn pikin we gɛt ADHD bay we dɛn atɛnd sɔm sɛshɔn dɛn wit pɔsin we de gi dɛn advays. Famili mɛmba dɛn kin tek pat bak as grup. Di tin we dɛn de pe atɛnshɔn pan ya na fɔ manej ɛvride layf pas fɔ trit di ADHD simptom dɛm. Dis kin mek di wan ol famili gɛt trɛnk. |
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, pɔsin we sabi bɔt mɛntɛl hεlth kin ɛp yu fɔ kɔntrol yu ADHD kɔndishɔn, we kin ɛp fɔ gayd yu pikin ɛn di wan ol famili fɔ gɛt sakrifays.
If yu famili gɛt titi we gɛt ADHD, mɛmba se dɛn want fɔ mek dɛn trit dɛn lɛk ɔlman, as i pɔsibul lɛk big pɔsin. Mek dɛn ɔndastand se fɔ tek dɛn mɛrɛsin ɛn go na di tritmɛnt na dɛn yon wok. If cham-mɔt de, tɔk ɔnɛs ɛn fayn. Fokus pan aw yu de biev, aw fɔ sɔlv di prɔblɛm, ɛn aw yu de du wetin yu de tɔk. Bak,Tek kia ɔf yusɛf gud gud wan. Na da tɛm de nɔmɔ yu go gɛt di trɛnk fɔ de fɔ yu pikin.
Aw dis kin afɛkt brɔda ɛn sista dɛn?
Brɔda ɛn sista dɛn fɔ pikin we gɛt ADHD kin fil dis prɛshɔn bak. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin fil gilti bikɔs dɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi. Ɔ dɛn kin tink se sɔntin we dɛn du mek dɛn brɔda ɛn sista de dis kayn we. Apat frɔm dat, dɛn kin gɛt tin dɛn lɛk:
- Fɔ sik bikɔs yu de wɔri bad bad wan , fɔ fred se yusɛf go sik.
- Du difrɛn tin dɛn fɔ mek pipul dɛn pe atɛnshɔn to yu.
- Una vɛks fɔ we yu gɛt fɔ ɛp mɔ wit di wok we yu de du na os.
- Fɔ fil shem we yu de wit yu famili bifo pipul dɛn we yu nɔ no.
Dɛn nid yu ɛp fɔ mek dɛn kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔn wit dɛn brɔda ɛn sista we gɛt ADHD. fכ egzampl, dεn nכ kin no wetin na "nכmal" bihayvya fכ wan tכpik pikin εn us bihayvya dεm we de kכmכt fכ ADHD. Dɔn bak, ɔda pikin dɛn kin jɛlɔs ɛn vɛks we i tan lɛk se dɛn mama ɛn papa de pe atɛnshɔn to di pikin we gɛt ADHD mɔ.
So tray dɛn tin ya fɔ trit ɔlman fayn:
- Spend tɛm yu wan wit ɛni wan pan yu pikin dɛn. Bil wan spɛshal padi biznɛs wit ɛni wan pan dɛn.
- Tɔk to dɛn opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan bɔt ADHD.
- Nɔ ɛkspɛkt tumɔs frɔm pikin we nɔ gɛt ADHD. Yu fɔ tink di rayt we bɔt wetin dɛn go ebul fɔ du.
If yu notis se yu ɔda pikin dɛn we nɔ gɛt ADHD de du tin wit pwɛl at, dɛn de pul dɛnsɛf kɔmɔt nia dɛn padi dɛn, ɔ du natin fɔ mek dɛn pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn bɔt dat.
Midul ɔl dɛn prɔblɛm ya, tray fɔ luk bifo di tin dɛn we de apin ɛvride ɛn si di big pikchɔ. We yu gɛt pikin we gɛt ADHD, dat kin gi di wan ol famili chans bak fɔ lan fayn fayn lɛsin dɛn lɛk fɔ gɛt sɔri-at, fɔ mek tin dɛn, ɛn fɔ sheb tin dɛn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- ADHD na wan sik wae nɔr kin afɛkt di pikin nɔmɔ, bɔt i kin afɛkt di wan ol famili. Fɔ ɔndastand dis na di fɔs tin we yu fɔ du fɔ sɔlv di prɔblɛm.
- I rili impɔtant fɔ gɛt kɔrɛkt mɛdikal diagnosis kwik kwik wan ɛn fala yu dɔktɔ in instrɔkshɔn.
- As mama ɛn papa, unasɛf nid sɔpɔt. Nɔ shek fɔ rich to mama ɛn papa trenin program, sɔpɔt grup, ɛn advays.
- Tink bɔt aw di pikin we gɛt ADHD in brɔda ɛn sista dɛn de fil. Gi ɛni pikin pe atɛnshɔn to ɛnibɔdi.
- Pan ɔl di prɔblɛm dɛn, kɔntinyu fɔ tink gud wan. Wi kin go tru dis joyn togɛda as famili, strɔng ɛn wɛlbɔdi. Fɔ kia fɔ yusɛf gud gud wan na impɔtant pat pan dis waka.
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