Dɔktɔ dɔn kɔnfirm se yu pikin gɛt ADHD, ɔ atɛnshɔn dɛfisit haypa aktiviti disɔda? If na so i bi, yu ɛn yu pikin go dɔn gɛt fɔ dil wit bɔku tɔk, di bad we aw pipul dɛn de tink, ɛn di we aw pipul dɛn de luk dɛn frɔm di sosayti sɔntɛnde. Wi de kɔl dis ‘Stigma’. Dis na tin we rili siriɔs. Bikɔs dɛn rɔŋ opinion ya kin gɛt big, lɔng tɛm impak pan di we aw pikin de tink bɔt insɛf, biev wit in padi dɛn, ɛn lan. So, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis dip smɔl tide.
Wetin na di stigmas bɔt ADHD na sosayti?
Pan ɔl we bɔku pipul dɛn no bɔt ADHD tide, pipul dɛn stil de tink bɔt am na di sosayti. Yu ɛn yu pikin go dɔn yɛri stori dɛn lɛk dis. "ADHD nɔto rial sik," "Pikin dɛn kin tan lɛk dat bikɔs dɛn les," "Dɛn nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ sɛns," ɛn ɔda tin dɛn.
Bɔt nɔto dat na di tru. Risach dɔn sho se pipul dɛm wae gɛt ADHD kin gɛt strɔkchɔral chenj na di frɔntal lobe na dɛn bren . Dɛn chenj ya kin afɛkt dɛn ‘ɛgzibit wok’, we na tin dɛn lɛk fɔ plan, ɔganayz, ɛn fɔ kip atɛnshɔn.
Lɛ wi luk dis tebul fɔ ɔndastand dɛn tin ya klia wan.
| Stigma / Myth na sosayti | Di Rial tin |
|---|---|
| "ADHD nɔto rial sik. Pikin dɛn kin les ɔ dɛn nɔ kin kɔrɛkt dɛn ." | ADHD na rial mεdikal kכndyushכn we de kכz bay di chenj dεm na di nyurotransmit dεm εn di strכkchכ na di bren. Dis kin mek i nɔ izi fɔ kɔntrol atɛnshɔn ɛn plan (ɛgzibit wok dɛn). I nɔ min les. |
| "Dis na di mama ɛn papa dɛn fɔlt . Dɛn nɔ de mɛn dɛn pikin dɛn fayn." | ADHD kin kam mɔ bikɔs ɔf di jɛnɛtiks tin dɛn , prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we uman gɛt bɛlɛ, ɔ we pɔsin gɛt sɔm pɔyzin dɛn we de na di say we i de. Di we aw mama ɛn papa kin biev nɔto sɔntin we kin mek dɛn mama ɛn papa kin du am dairekt wan. |
| "Pikin dɛm wae gɛt ADHD nɔr kin gɛt bɛtɛ maynd , dɛn nɔr gɛt fiuja." | No kɔrɛleshɔn nɔ de bitwin ADHD ɛn intɛlijɛns (IQ). Pikin dɛn we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt avrej ɔ ay intɛlijɛns. Bɔku pan di pipul dɛn we dɔn gɛt bɔku sakrifays na di wɔl, lɛk di Olimpik champion Simone Biles ɛn di CEO fɔ Virgin, Richard Branson, gɛt ADHD. |
Bɔku pikin dɛn we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt wan sik bak we dɛn kɔl wɔri . Dɔn, we dɛn gɛt fɔ du wan wok we at fɔ du, dɛn kin wɔri mɔ ɛn mɔ. So dɛn kin tray fɔ avɔyd da wok de. To pɔsin we nɔ no di insay stori, dis kin tan lɛk ‘lɛsin’.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ mek yu pikin gɛt kɔrɛkt mɛrɛsin ɛn tritmɛnt so dat yu go ɛp am fɔ wok fayn fayn wan.
Aw dis stigma de afɛkt mama ɛn papa dɛn?
Dɛn bad abit dɛn ya kin afɛkt yu bak as mama ɔ papa. Sɔm pipul kin tink se if yu pikin de du tin we nɔr de kɔntrol ɔr nɔr ebul fɔ de na wan ples, na yu fɔlt fɔ ‘bad parenting’.
Duya una ɔndastand, dat nɔto tru atɔl. Di we aw mama ɛn papa kin biev nɔ kin afɛkt if pikin gɛt ADHD. Na bikɔs ɔf di jɛnɛtiks ɛn ɔda tin dɛn we de apin na di bɔdi we wi bin dɔn tɔk bɔt.
Bɔt, mama ɛn papa dɛn gɛt big wok fɔ du na ya. Mama ɛn papa ɛn ticha dɛn we ɔndastand di ADHD kɔndishɔn, sɔpɔt di pikin, ɛn no wetin di pikin ebul fɔ du kin ɛp fɔ kɔntrol di pikin in sik dɛn ɛn gi di gayd we i nid fɔ mek i go bifo.
Difrɛns de pan aw dis kin afɛkt gyal pikin dɛn ɛn difrɛn kɔlchɔ dɛn?
Yɛs, sɔm difrɛns de pan di we aw wi kin no ɛn si dis sik.
Girls ɛn ADHD
Dis na pɔynt we rili impɔtant. Ivin tide, sɔm pipul dɛn kin tink se gyal pikin dɛn nɔ kin gɛt ADHD . Di men rizin fɔ dis na bikɔs gyal pikin dɛn nɔ kin akt ɛn akt di we we pipul dɛn we de na do kin si, lɛk bɔy pikin dɛn.
Bifo dat, gyal pikin dɛn kin blem dɛnsɛf. We dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du sɔntin, we dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ pe atɛnshɔn, dɛn kin tink se na dɛn yon fɔlt. Dis kin put dɛn pan ay risk fɔ gɛt mental wɛl bɔdi prɔblɛm lɛk pwɛl hat, it prɔblɛm, ɛn wɔri pas gyal pikin dɛm wae nɔr gɛt ADHD.
Bɔrku tɛm, pipul dɛm nɔr kin gɛt dis sik (diprɛshɔn, wɔri) wit ADHD. So, dɛn kin delay fɔ no se dɛn gɛt ADHD pan gyal pikin dɛn ɛn dɛn kin delay fɔ di tritmɛnt.
Di inflɔɛns we di kɔlchɔ gɛt
Insay kɔntri dɛn lɛk Sri Lanka, insay sɔm kɔlchɔ dɛn, dɛn kin gi pikin in edyukeshɔn rili ay valyu. Dɔn, if pikin wik fɔ lan, sɔntɛnde dɛn kin si am as ‘mama ɛn papa nɔ ebul fɔ du sɔntin’ ɔ ‘nɔ de kɔrɛkt di pikin’ pas fɔ bi di prɔblɛm we i gɛt wit in bren. Bikɔs ɔf dɛn kayn mistek ya, i kin let fɔ mek di pikin gɛt di kɔrɛkt mɛrɛsin sɔpɔt we i nid.
Us bad tin dis bad abit de kɔz to di pikin?
I nɔ mata us trayb, rilijɔn, ɔ man ɔ uman, dis ADHD stigma kin mek i gɛt siriɔs prɔblɛm. Dis kin afɛkt di pikin in maynd nɔmɔ, bɔt i kin afɛkt di ɔda pipul dɛn na di famili bak.
- Lɔw sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt: Di pikin bigin fɔ tink bɔt insɛf, "A les," "A nɔ ebul fɔ du ɛnitin rayt."
- Prɔblɛm na yu maynd : De risk fɔ gɛt tin dɛm lɛk fɔ wɔri ɛn pwɛl hat kin bɔku.
- Prɔblɛm fɔ slip: Stret kin mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm lɛk we yu nɔ de slip.
- Yuz drɔgs: As yu de ol, yu kin tɔn to drɔgs ɔr rɔm fɔ pul dis strɛs.
- Bullying: Ɔda pikin dɛn kin laf ɔ pul di pikin kɔmɔt biɛn di pikin fɔ di difrɛns we dɛn gɛt.
Dɛn tin ya kin kɔntinyu te yu big, so i impɔtant fɔ pe atɛnshɔn to dis.
Wetin wi go du as mama ɛn papa?
No tin nɔ de fɔ sɔlv dis wan nɛt, bɔt as mama ɔ papa, bɔku tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ yu pikin.
- Tink gud wan: Bifo yu pe atɛnshɔn ɔltɛm pan di tin dɛn we yu pikin nɔ ebul fɔ du, gladi fɔ di tin dɛn we i ebul fɔ du ɛn di tin dɛn we i ebul fɔ du. Ɔndastand se ADHD nɔto mental sik, na jɔs wan kɔndishɔn.
- Ɛksplen to yu pikin: Insay simpul wɔd dɛn we fit in ej, ɛksplen to am se ADHD nɔto dɛn fɔlt, bɔt na smɔl difrɛns pan di we aw dɛn bren de wok. Dis kin ɛp dɛn fɔ lɛf fɔ blem dɛnsɛf.
- Tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn: Tɛl yu fambul ɛn yu tayt padi dɛn bɔt dis. If pɔsin tɔk di rɔng opinion, tray fɔ kɔrɛkt am wit kol at ɛn wit gud at.
- Tɔk to ticha dɛm: Wok wit yu pikin in ticha dɛm fɔ plan aw fɔ ɛp yu pikin na klas (e.g., sidɔm na di fɔs rɔw, gi asaynmɛnt dɛn insay smɔl smɔl).
- Fɔ fala di advays we di dɔktɔ gi yu: Yu dɔktɔFɔ fala di instrɔkshɔn ɛn tritmɛnt jɔs lɛk aw dɛn gi yu. If yu pikin gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm, nɔ shem ɔ fred fɔ tɔk to di dɔktɔ bɔt am.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- ADHD nɔto les ɔ na bikɔs ɔf bad we aw i mɛn pikin. Na rial sik we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de mɛn pipul dɛn.
- We dɛn de trit pikin bad bad wan na di sosayti, dat kin rili ambɔg di we aw pikin de fil bɔt insɛf, in maynd wɛlbɔdi, ɛn aw i go gɛt tumara bambay.
- Di ADHD simptom dɛm na gyal pikin kin difrɛn. Dɛn kin sho sɔm kayn sik lɛk fɔ blem, fɔ gɛt pwɛl hat, ɛn fɔ wɔri.
- If yu gladi fɔ wetin yu pikin ebul fɔ du ɛn wok togɛda wit ticha dɛn ɛn yu dɔktɔ, yu go ɛp yu pikin fɔ liv fayn ɛn gladi at.
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