If yu mama, papa, ɔ pɔsin we de nia yu gɛt Alzaima sik, a no aw i gɛt bɔku wok ɛn sakrifays wit lɔv fɔ kia fɔ dɛn. I tan lɛk se yu de waka wit tayt rop. Na wan say, yu de protɛkt di pɔsin we yu lɛk, gi dɛn di tin dɛn we dɛn nid, gi dɛn dɛn mɛrɛsin di rayt tɛm, kɛr dɛn go to dɔktɔ, ɛn gi dɛn lɔv ɛn sɔpɔt we nɔ gɛt ɛnd. Na di ɔda say, na yu layf de... yu wok, yu famili rispɔnsibiliti, yu soshal kɔnekshɔn. So fɔ balans ɔl dis na big prɔblɛm.
If yu de kia fɔ pɔrsin wae yu lɛk lɛk dis, i impɔtant fɔ no bɔt dis sik ɛn rɛdi as yu ebul. Ɛn, we yu nid ɛp, nɔ shem fɔ aks fɔ am.
Yu tink se wi go no fɔs wetin fɔ ɛkspɛkt?
E fayn fɔ gɛt gud ɔndastandin bɔt aw Alzaima sik kin afɛkt yu. If yu no bifo tɛm wetin chenj kin apin, i go izi fɔ yu fɔ ɔndastand aw yu wok ɛn di wok we yu fɔ du go chenj as tɛm de go.
Infakt, Alzaima sik nɔ kin afɛkt ɔlman we sik di sem we. I kin difrɛn bad bad wan frɔm wan pɔsin to ɔda pɔsin. De sik kin chenj bad bad wan ivin frɔm wan de to ɔda de. Imajin, sɔm dez di pɔsin we yu lɛk kin rili nɔmal, ɛn i kin du ɛvride wok fɔ dɛnsɛf. Bɔt ɔda de, dɛn kin bigin fɔ abop pan yu ɔltogɛda. Di we aw dɛn kin ansa di mɛrɛsin dɛn we dɛn kin gi dɛn kin chenj bak wan wan tɛm.
Wit dis chenj, sɔmtɛm yu kin fil lɛk se dɛn nɔr de tink gud wan ɔr de tray fɔ trik yu. Bɔt fɔ tru, nɔto dɛn fɔlt. Na natura l pat pan de sik. As tɛm de go, as di ia dɛn de go, de sik kin wɔs. Mεdikeshכn kin כnli slo dכn di rεt wae de kכndyushכn kin bכku. Dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ stɔp am ɔltogɛda.
Di tin wae impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, pwɛl hat kin bi pat pan Alzaima sik. Pwɛl hat kin mek de sik wɔs ɛn nɔr kin ebul fɔ du woke ɛvride. So, tek tɛm if dɛn gɛt ɛni sayn fɔ pwɛl hat. If yu notis ɛni wan, tɛl yu dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.
| Nature of di sik | Wetin yu nid fɔ no |
|---|---|
| Chenj frɔm wan de to di ɔda | Sɔm dez (gud de) kin fayn. Ɔda de dɛn (bad de dɛn) kin rili at. Dis na nɔmal tin. Nɔ wɔri bɔt am. |
| Di sayn dɛn we de sho se di sik de wɔs | As tɛm de go, tin dɛn lɛk mɛmori ɛn bihayvya kin pwɛl smɔl smɔl. Pan ɔl we dɛn kin kɔntrol dis rit wit mɛrɛsin, dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ stɔp am ɔltogɛda. |
| Pwɛl at | Yu fɔ no bɔt de sayn dɛm lɛk pwɛl hat, pwɛl hat, ɛn nɔr de intres pan ɛnitin. Dis kin mek di sik kɔmplikt mɔ. Go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm. |
Ɛn na dat... yu nid fɔ tek kia ɔf yusɛf bak!
Dɛn advays ya go ɛp yu fɔ protɛkt yu layf ɛn yu maynd wɛlbɔdi we yu de kia fɔ di pɔsin we yu lɛk.
Yu nid fɔ rɛst smɔl bak.
Dis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Sɛt sɔm tɛm fɔ yusɛf. Gɛt yu brɔda ɛn sista, yu padi, ɔ pɔsin fɔ ɛp yu pan mɔni biznɛs, ɔ gi yu di wok fɔ sɔm awa, ɛn go na do fɔ smɔl tɛm. Du yu wok, du ɛksɛsayz, ɔ jɔs fri fɔ sɔm tɛm. Na wi kɔntri, naw "adult day care programs" de. Yu kin luk bak insay dɛn kayn ples dɛn de. Nɔ fil gilti fɔ tek smɔl tɛm fɔ blo.
Nɔ du ɔltin yusɛf.
Di wan dɛn we gɛt Alzaima nɔ kin ebul fɔ du ɔl wetin dɛn bin de du trade. Bɔt, if dɛn ɛp dɛn smɔl, tin dɛn de we dɛn kin stil ebul fɔ du. Tink bɔt am, dɛn kin stil fol sɔm klos dɛn, ɔ pul wan vɛjitebul. Mek dɛn du dat. Gi dɛn tɛm. Na usai dem de straik onli helep dem. Gi dɛn smɔl gol dɛn, ɛn prez dɛn we dɛn de du dɛn tin dɛn de. Fɔ se, "Wow... dat rili fayn," kin du bɔku tin fɔ dɛn sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt.
Tɔk bɔt tin dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit lɔ ɛn fɔ yusɛf
Dis na tɔpik we rili impɔtant, bɔt i rili impɔtant. As ali as yu ebul na di sik, tɔk to dɛn bɔt wetin yu lɛk in las want. Fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ tɔk bɔt tin dɛn lɛk aw fɔ plan dɛn prɔpati, pawa fɔ atɔna we go de sote go, living will, ɛn fɔ mek dɛn nɔ gi pɔsin layf bak (DNR) kin ɛp fɔ ridyus bɔku prɔblɛm dɛn we go apin tumara bambay bay we dɛn de tɔk bɔt dɛn tin ya ɛn rayt dɛn bay lɔ. Tɔk to lɔya we sabi dɛn tin ya ɛn gɛt advays.
Nɔ stɔp yu layf.
Dis na big big kɔmitmɛnt. Bɔt nɔ put yu wan ol layf pan ɔl fɔ am. Tɔk to yu padi dɛn, mit dɛn. Kɔntinyu fɔ du di tin dɛn we yu lɛk (hobbies). Tray fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ du yu nɔmal rutin as yu ebul. Dɔn yu go ebul fɔ du dis wok wit yu maynd ɛn yu nɔ go rili fil bad. Mɛmba se na if yu gladi ɛn strɔng nɔmɔ yu go ebul fɔ kia fɔ di pɔsin we yu lɛk gud gud wan.
Fɛn pɔsin fɔ tɔk to bɔt aw yu de fil.
Yu nid pɔsin fɔ lisin to yu pɔsin we yu lɛk ɛn sɔpɔt am, ɛn fɔ pul yu strɛs, sɔri-at, ɛn pwɛl at. Dis kin bi yu tayt padi ɔ yu fambul. Tɔk to dɛn opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan. I kin fayn bak fɔ jɔyn sɔpɔt grup dɛm usay ɔda pipul dɛm wae de kia fɔ pipul dɛm wae gɛt Alzaima kin kam togɛda. Dis go ɛp yu fɔ no se nɔto yu wangren de pan dis prɔblɛm. I kin rili mek yu fil fayn we yu no se ɔda pipul dɛn de fil di sem we aw yu de fil.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Alzaima na wan sik we de go bifo. Na nɔmal tin fɔ gɛt gud de ɛn bad de. So na fɔ peshɛnt.
- Jɔs lɛk aw yu de kia fɔ di pɔsin we yu lɛk, na so yu bɔdi ɛn maynd wɛlbɔdi impɔtant. Gɛt sɔm rɛst. Nɔ fil gilti fɔ dat.
- Ɛp dɛn fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt rɛspɛkt fɔ dɛnsɛf bay we yu alaw dɛn fɔ du di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we dɛn stil ebul fɔ du.
- Fɔ tɔk bɔt ɛn mek disizhɔn bɔt ligal ɛn mɛrɛsin (lɛk las wil ɛn DNR) ali na di sik prɔses kin ɛp fɔ mek yu nɔ gɛt bɔku prɔblɛm dɛn tumara bambay.
- Nɔto yu wan de na dis waka. Aks fɔ ɛp frɔm yu fambul, padi dɛn, ɔ sɔpɔt grup dɛn. Tɔk bɔt aw yu de fil.
- If yu notis ɛni chenj na yu pɔrsin wae yu lɛk in sik ɔr in maynd (especially depression), tɔk to dɛn dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.
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