We yu dɔktɔ tɛl yu se yu gɛt bɔdi kansa, ɛn i dɔn go bifo smɔl, Stej III ɔ IV, i go mɔs dɔn fil lɛk panch na yu ed. Na nɔmal tin fɔ fil lɛk se yu wan ol wɔl de fɔdɔm da tɛm de. Bɔt di tin we at pas ɔl, we de mek yu at pas ɔl na fɔ tink bɔt aw fɔ tɛl yu famili, di pipul dɛn we de nia yu pas ɔl - yu man, pikin dɛn, mama, papa. Dis nɔto jɔs fɔ gi infɔmeshɔn. Yu fɔ dil wit yu yon filin fɔ fred, sɔri, ɛn vɛks, ɛn di filin we yu famili de fil. Bɔt nɔto yu wangren de. Ɔmɔs uman dɛn na di wɔl dɔn go tru dis kayn tin? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw fɔ mek dis tɔk we nɔ izi fɔ tɔk to ɔlman na yu famili gɛt pawa.
Aw yu de brok dis nyus os?
Bɔku tɛm, bɔku pipul dɛn kin fɔs tɛl dɛn patna, dat na dɛn man ɔ dɛn wɛf, bɔt dis kayn nyus. Di bɛst tin na dat dɛn kin de wit yu we di dɔktɔ gi yu dis diagnosis. Bɔt nɔto ɔltɛm dat kin apin. Sɔntɛnde, yu kin yɛri di nyus we yu wangren de.
Imajin se yu man in mama dɔn day pan kansa. Ɔmɔs tɛm yu go tink tu tɛm fɔ tɛl pɔsin lɛk dat? Bɔt di bɛst tin fɔ du na dis kayn tɛm na fɔ tɔk di tru ɔnɛs wan ɛn kwik kwik wan .
If yu tray fɔ ayd dɛn tin ya bikɔs yu de fred fɔ mek yu fil bad, yu tink se yu nid fɔ protɛkt dɛn, i go jɔs mek yu fil bad mɔ ɛn mɔ ɛn i go ambɔg yu padi biznɛs.
"Na nɔmal tin fɔ mek dɛn fil sɔri. Yu nid fɔ mek dɛn pul am kɔmɔt," na so dɔktɔ ɛn advaysa dɛn se. I kin at fɔ mek yu bia we yu si dɛn de kray ɛn vɛks. Bɔt i bɛtɛ pas fɔ bɔtul dɛn filin dɛn de.
Yu kin tɛl yu mama ɛn papa ɔ brɔda ɛn sista dɛn dairekt wan. Ɔ, if dat tu at fɔ yu, yu kin aks yu patna ɔ yu padi we yu kin abop pan fɔ tɛl yu di nyus. Nɔ fred fɔ tɛl yu fambul dɛn we de fa ɔ ɔda padi dɛn. Tɛl dɛn smɔl smɔl we yu gɛt maynd. Fɔ tɛl ɔlman di sem tin bak ɛn bak kin mek yu fil fayn.
Aw yu kin tɛl pikin dɛn bɔt dis?
I go bi se dis na di pat we at pas ɔl. If yu pikin dɛn stil yɔŋ, aw yu go mek dɛn ɔndastand dis? Aw yu go tɛl dɛn di trut ɛn nɔ mek dɛn fred?
Imajin se yu pikin dɛn ol 3 ɛn 6 ia. Ivin we dɛn yɔŋ da kayn we de, i go bɛtɛ fɔ mek dɛn tɛl dɛn di tru. Bɔt wi kin ɔndastand am fɔ dɛn ej.
"Say dairekt, 'Mama gɛt kansa. ' Kansa."Nɔ fred di wɔd ''. If yu ayd da wɔd de, we dɛn yɛri am frɔm ɔda pɔsin, dɛn kin gɛt big kwɛstyɔn na dɛn maynd, "Mama, wetin mek yu nɔ tɛl mi di tru?" Dat go mek dɛn fred mɔ ɛn mɔ.
Yu kin ɛksplen am jɔs lɛk dis: "Mama gɛt bad ston insay in bɔdi. Na dat mek i de fil sik smɔl. Di dɔktɔ de gi am mɛrɛsin fɔ sɔlv di ston ɛn pul am. Da mɛrɛsin de kin mek in ia fɔdɔm, ɛn i kin fil taya sɔm tɛm. If yu si di big pipul dɛn de kray, nɔ fred dat, na nɔmal tin."
Di we aw yu de tɔk to pikin dɛn fɔ difrɛn akɔdin to dɛn ej.
| Pikin in ej grup | Aw fɔ tɔk |
|---|---|
| Priskul ɛn yɔŋ pikin dɛn (3-7 ia ol) . | Yuz wɔd dɛn we rili simpul. Mek am klia se dɛn nɔ de pas ɛn nɔto dɛn fɔlt. Yuz similes lɛk "ston na di mama in bɛlɛ." |
| Pikin dɛn we de go skul (8-12 ia ol) . | Yu kin tɔk smɔl mɔ. Tɛl dɛm wetin na di tritmɛnt (e.g., yu ia we de lɔs frɔm kemo) ɛn aw i go afɛkt yu. Aks dɛm kwɛstyɔn, tɔk bɔt wetin dɛn de fred. |
| Yɔŋ pikin dɛn (Teens) . | Tɔk opin wan lɛk big pɔsin. Dɛn kin luk fɔ infɔmeshɔn na di intanɛt, so bi ɔnɛs bɔt yu rial sik (Stej III ɔ IV), di tritmɛnt opshɔn dɛm, ɛn prɔgnosis. Alaw dɛn fɔ tɔk bɔt aw dɛn de fil. Tɔk bak bɔt di we dɛn we yu go ɛp dɛn. |
Aw yu kin mek dɛn ɔndastand di tru tin we de apin to yu?
Kansa nɔto di sem tin fɔ ɔlman. Na yu wok fɔ ɛksplen dis to yu famili. Nɔto ɔlman we gɛt bɔdi kansa go gɛt ɔpreshɔn ɔ kemotɛrapi.
I kin tranga fɔ ɛksplen to di wan dɛn we yu lɛk, mɔ bɔt Stej IV.I kin tranga fɔ dɛn fɔ aksept di rial tin we se "dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ mɛn am ɔl, bɔt dɛn kin kɔntrol am, ɛn yu fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ de ɔnda sɔm kayn tritmɛnt."
Sɔm pipul dɛn na di famili kin fred se yu go day jisnɔ. Dɛn go fil fri fɔ no se uman dɛn de we de liv fɔ tɛn ia ɔ mɔ wit stej IV kansa. Insay stej III, da tɛm de kin ivin lɔng pas dat.
Di bɛst tin fɔ du na fɔ tɔk tru to yu dɔktɔ bɔt wetin i tɔk. If yɔŋ pikin aks sɔntin lɛk, "Mama go day?" yu kin se, "Wi noh de tink boht dat rait naw, pikin. di dokta dem de tek kia gud gud wan pan Mama. If i luk lek se dat go apin, wi go tok boht am bak."
Aw fɔ aks fɔ ɛp frɔm famili?
Kansa go mɔs chenj yu famili in layf, so i rili impɔtant fɔ mek yu no klia wan bɔt wetin yu want ɛn nid wit di wan dɛn we de nia yu.
Aks fɔ ɛp klia wan , lɛk "A rili nid yu fɔ du di klos fɔ was na Tɛstamɛnt ɛn pik di pikin dɛn na skul di ɔda tri dez." Bikɔs ivin yu patna nɔ ebul fɔ rid yu maynd.
Di tin dɛn we yu nid go chenj as tɛm de go. If yu de na stej tri, yu kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit tritmɛnt , ɛn afta dat yu kin ebul fɔ kam bak to yu nɔmal layf insay sɔm mɔnt. Insay stej 4, yu kin nid mɔ ɛp. Sɔm tɛm dɛn go de we yu go fil fayn, ɛn ɔda tɛm dɛn we yu go fil tranga wan. I impɔtant fɔ tɔk bɔt ɔl dis wit yu famili ɛn disayd wetin bɛtɛ fɔ ɔlman.
Yu nid fɔ lan bak fɔ tek ɛp. If yu dɔn de wok fɔ yusɛf ɔltɛm, i nɔ go izi fɔ aks ɔda pipul dɛn fɔ ɛp yu wantɛm wantɛm ɛn gri fɔ di ɛp we dɛn de gi yu. Bɔt na dis tɛm, i nɔto shem, na sɔntin we pɔsin nid.
Nɔ fred fɔ tɔk bɔt wetin yu want.
Naw, di tritmɛnt dɛn we dɛn kin yuz fɔ mɛn bɔdi kansa dɔn rili go bifo. Bɔt sɔm uman dɛn kin rili kɔrej fɔ tɔk bɔt tɔpik we bɔku pipul dɛn kin fred fɔ tɔk bɔt. Dat min se, "Wetin if mi tritmɛnt nɔ wok?" ɔ "Wetin if a tink se a gɛt mɛrɛsin naw?"
Sɔntɛm yu dɔktɔ se yu stej 3 kansa kin mɛn. Bɔt i go fayn fɔ mek yu tɔk to yu famili bɔt wetin go apin if nɔto so i bi. Ɔ sɔntɛm yu dɔn de na stej 4 fɔ lɔng tɛm, yu dɔn tray ɔl di tritmɛnt dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt, ɛn naw yu de tink bɔt aw fɔ kia fɔ yu na os fɔ ɛp yu fɔ liv yu las dez wit kɔmfɔt.
Wan bɛnifit de we ayd fɔ gɛt dɛn tɔk dɛn ya we nɔ izi fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn. We yu de tɔk bɔt am, yu fred nɔ de igen. We yu tɛl yu famili wetin yu want ɛn mek dɛn rayt am, yu go tink se, "Okay, naw a gɛt plan. Naw a kin put am na sayd ɛn jɔs tink bɔt fɔ liv."
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Bi ɔnɛs ɛn tɔk to yu famili, mɔ yu patna, bɔt di rial tin we de apin. Nɔ ayd infɔmeshɔn fɔ protɛkt dɛn.
- We yu de tɔk to pikin dɛn, yuz simpul wɔd dɛn we fit dɛn ej . Nɔr frayd di wɔd "kansa," bɔt ɛksplen am di kayn we we dɛn go ɔndastand.
- Aks fɔ ɛp klia wan . Ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ rid yu maynd. We yu aks fɔ ɛp ɛn gri fɔ ɛp yu, dat de sho se yu gɛt trɛnk.
- Nɔr frayd fɔ tɔk bɔt yu sik, tritmɛnt, ɛn wetin yu want fɔ tumara bambay. Dɛn tɔk dɛn ya go mek yu ɛn yu famili gɛt kolat na yu maynd ɛn mek yu no klia wan.
- Nɔ go tru dis waka yu wan. Gɛt sɔpɔt frɔm yu dɔktɔ, yu fambul, ɛn yu padi dɛn we yu kin abop pan. Go to advays if nid de.
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