As mama ɔ papa, ɔmɔs drim yu de drim bɔt yu pikin in tumara bambay? Bɔt we yu kam fɔ no se yu pikin gɛt ɔtizm spɛktrum disɔda, ɔ Ɔtizm spɛktrum disɔda (ASD), i nɔmal fɔ fil bɔku fred ɛn wɔri wit dɛn drim dɛn de. Apat frɔm tin dɛn lɛk tritmɛnt frɔm dɔktɔ ɛn difrɛn tritmɛnt dɛn, bɔku simpul tin dɛn de we yu kin ad pan yu ɛvride layf we kin mek yu ɛn yu pikin fil fayn. Na dat wi de tok abaut tide.
Ɔltɛm si di ‘gud’ ɛn gladi fɔ am.
Lɛk ɔlman, pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm lɛk fɔ gɛt pɔsitiv riinfɔsmɛnt. Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, na fɔ prez dɛn we dɛn de du gud tin. We yu prez dɛn da we de, dɛn go fil fayn, ɛn yusɛf go fil fayn.
Imajin se yu pikin de put dɛn tɔys dɛn. If yu pat dɛn ed ɛn se, "Mi bɔy pikin/dɔta so smat, luk aw dɛn put dɛn tɔys fayn fayn wan," dat go bi big kɔmplimɛnt. I impɔtant bak fɔ mek dɛn no di rayt tin we yu gladi fɔ . Yu kin gi dɛn smɔl blɛsin bak fɔ du gud tin, lɛk fɔ lɛ dɛn ple fɔ smɔl tɛm ɔ fɔ gi dɛn stika we dɛn lɛk. Di tin we pas ɔl na fɔ lɛk yu pikin fɔ di kayn pɔsin we i bi. Di tin we yu go du as mama ɔ papa we gɛt valyu pas ɔl na fɔ lɛk dɛn we yu nɔ gɛt ɛni kɔndishɔn, ilɛk wetin apin to dɛn.
Fɔ du tin ɔltɛm rili impɔtant!
Pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm lɛk fɔ du tin ɔltɛm ɛn wae dɛn sabi. Dɛn kin fil sef we tin kin apin di sem tɛm ɛn di sem we. So, mek shɔ se yu pikin de gɛt kɔnsistɛns gayd ɛn intarakshɔn. Dis go ɛp dɛn bak fɔ praktis wetin dɛn de lan na tritmɛnt.
Dis kin mek am izi fɔ dɛn fɔ lan nyu tin dɛn ɛn aw fɔ biev, ɛn i kin ɛp dɛn bak fɔ yuz da no de pan difrɛn tin dɛn. Tɔk to yu pikin in ticha ɛn tritmɛnt pipul dɛn ɛn tray fɔ fala di sem we . Dɔn yu kin du di sem tin dɛn na os we dɛn kin lan na skul ɛn na di tɛrapi sɛnta. Fɔ ɛgzampul, yu kin mek yu schedule fɔ ɛvride we tan lɛk pikchɔ ɛn stik dɛn na di wɔl. We dɛn wek na mɔnin, i izi fɔ ɔndastand wetin dɛn fɔ du nɛks, lɛk fɔ brus dɛn tit, it, ɛn ple.
Nɔ fɔgɛt fɔ mek tɛm fɔ ple bak.
Yu kin tink se yu pikin nid fɔ lan sɔntin ɔltɛm, ɔ du tɛrapi. Bɔt biɛn ɔl dat, gem dɛn de bak we na jɔs fɔ ɛnjɔy dɛnsɛf.Sɛt tɛm fɔ du sɔntin. We yu pikin fil se dis nɔto jɔs ɔda lɛsin ɔ tritmɛnt, dɛn go tray fɔ kɔnɛkt wit yu opin wan ɛn izi wan.
Yu nɔ de yu wan - nɔ fred fɔ aks fɔ ɛp!
Fɔ kia fɔ pikin, mɔ di wan we gɛt ɔtizm, nɔ kin izi. Na dat mek yu nid ɛp. Ilɛksɛf na di intanɛt ɔ na pɔsin, sɔpɔt frɔm ɔda famili, pɔblisha dɛn, ɛn padi dɛn kin rili ɛp yu fɔ gɛt trɛnk.
Mɛmba se fɔ bi mama ɔ papa we strɔng, i impɔtant bak fɔ no usay yu nid ɛp ɛn gɛt da ɛp de.
Bil sɔpɔt sistɛm rawnd yu pikin bay we yu gɛda yu padi ɛn fambul dɛm we ɔndastand yu pikin in sityueshɔn. I nɔ kin izi fɔ yu pikin fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ bi padi. Da tɛm de, yu pikin go nid yu ɛp fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt dɛn padi biznɛs dɛn de.
Sɔpɔt grup na fayn ples fɔ mit ɔda mama ɛn papa dɛn we de gɛt dɛn prɔblɛm ya ɛn sheb dɛn aydia ɛn advays. Dɔn bak, if nid de, fɔ go to famili advays kin rili ɛp yu.
Tink bɔt aw fɔ kia fɔ yu we yu de rɛst
Dis kin bi nyu tin smɔl to wi kɔntri pipul dɛn. `Respite care` jɔs min se yu kin tek brek ɛn mek pɔsin we yu trɔst de luk afta yu pikin fɔ sɔm tɛm. If yu pikin nid spɛshal atɛnshɔn, yu rili nid dis brek. Dis smɔl tɛm de gi yu di chans fɔ du yu wok, fri smɔl, ɛn tink bɔt yu maynd ɛn bɔdi wɛlbɔdi. Dɔn yu kin kam bak na os wit nyu trɛnk ɛn kia fɔ yu pikin.
Wit ɔl dis, aw i fayn fɔ tek kia ɔf yusɛf?
As pɔsin we de kia fɔ dɛn, i impɔtant fɔ mek yu maynd ɛn bɔdi gɛt wɛlbɔdi. Na da tɛm de nɔmɔ yu go gɛt di trɛnk fɔ bia wit di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin kam wit ɛvride. Dat min se yusɛf nid fɔ tink bɔt yusɛf.
| Wetin yu go ebul fɔ du | Di bɛnifit we i go gɛt |
|---|---|
| Manej di strɛs.Brek yu big prɔblɛm dɛn to smɔl smɔl pat dɛn ɛn mek plan fɔ sɔlv dɛn. Tin dɛn lɛk fɔ tink gud wan kin ɛp. | Di filin fɔ ebi na yu ed kin ridyus, yu maynd kin fil layt, ɛn yu kin stɔp fɔ wɔri bɔt tin dɛn we nɔ impɔtant. |
| Ɛksasayz. Yu nɔ nid fɔ go na di jim. Wok rawnd di os, du sɔm gadin wok, dans na di kichin to wan siŋ. Dɛn tin ya simpul, bɔt dɛn kin rili bɛnifit wi. | Di bɔdi ɛn di maynd ɔl tu kin gɛt trɛnk. Yu ɛnaji de bɔku. |
| Gɛt gud slip na nɛt. Afta yu taya de, natin nɔ de lɛk fɔ slip fayn fɔ mek yu bɔdi ɛn maynd yɔŋ bak. | Memori ɛn atɛnshɔn kin bɛtɛ. Yu kin stat di de wit rifresh. |
| Tink bak bɔt di it dɛn we yu de it. Jɔs lɛk aw yu de fid yu pikin it we gɛt fayn fayn tin dɛn, yusɛf it tin dɛn we balans ɛn we gɛt fayn fayn tin dɛn fɔ it. It di rayt tɛm. | I de gi yu di ɛnaji we yu nid ɔl di de ɛn i de ɛp bak fɔ protɛkt yu frɔm sik dɛn. |
Mek balans na layf.
Dis na di men tin fɔ mek yu kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt ay kwaliti layf we yu de gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn na layf . We yu gladi ɛn yu balans, di wan ol famili kin fil am.
- Una kam togɛda wit yu padi dɛn: Yɛs, yu na mama ɔ papa fɔ pikin we gɛt spɛshal nid. Bɔt bifo dat, yu na mɔtalman bak. Yu gɛt yu yon aydentiti. Fɛn tɛm fɔ tɔk to yu padi dɛn ɛn laf.
- Rikindle old hobby: Tink bɔt sɔntin we yu bin de ɛnjɔy fɔ du trade. I kin bi fɔ rid buk, fɔ drɔ, ɔ fɔ mek gadin. Gi dɛn tin dɛn de sɔm tɛm bak.
- Fayv minit insay di de fɔ yusɛf: Fayv minit we yu put fɔ yusɛf we di de bigin, dat kin chenj yu wan ol de. Insay da tɛm de, yu kin rayt wetin de na yu maynd na wan jɔnal, was hot , ɔ jɔs gɛda wetin yu de tink.
If yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt ɔ dawt bɔt aw yu pikin de biev ɔ aw i de biev, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ . Dɛn go gi yu di rayt gayd.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Fɔ kia fɔ pikin we gɛt ɔtizm na wan joyn. Gud de ɛn chalɛnj de dɛn go de along di rod. Na fɔ peshɛnt.
- Lɛk yu pikin we nɔ gɛt ɛni kɔndishɔn, ilɛk wetin apin to am. I gladi fɔ ivin di smɔl gud tin we yu pikin de du.
- If yu du tin ɔltɛm, dat kin mek di pikin gɛt bɔku sikyɔriti. Wok wit ticha ɛn tritmɛnt pipul dɛm fɔ fala wan rutin we nɔ de chenj.
- Nɔto yu wan de. Nɔ fred fɔ aks fɔ ɛp frɔm yu fambul, padi dɛn, ɛn sɔpɔt grup dɛn.
- Insay ɔl dis, tek kia ɔf yusɛf. Fɔ kip yusɛf wɛl na yu bɔdi ɛn yu maynd na di bɛst gift we yu go gi yu pikin.
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