Di sikrit dɛm we yu smɔl pikin de tɔk to yu (Newborn Communication): Wi go lan bɔt dis?

Yu mɛmba di fɔs sawnd we yu pikin bin mek we dɛn bɔn am? Na da tɛm de yu smɔl pikin bigin fɔ tɔk to yu, tɛl yu wetin de na in maynd. Fɔs, dɛn kray ya ɛn di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we dɛn de du kin tan lɛk langwej we yu nɔ sabi. bכt tink bכt, kwik pas aw yu tink, yu go lan dis "langwej" fכ yu pikin, כndastand εksakכt wetin i nid, εn yus fכ εp am.

Aw bebi dɛn kin tɔk to wi?

Bebi dεm gεt di abiliti fכ kray frכm di tεm we dεn bכn dεm. Infakt, fɔ di fɔs mɔnt dɛn na dɛn layf, kray na di men we aw dɛn kin "tɔk" to wi ɛn mek wi no wetin dɛn nid. Bɔku tɛm, pikin kin kray fɔ tɛl yu se sɔntin nɔ rayt, se dɛn de gɛt prɔblɛm.

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, pikin kin kray fɔ dɛn rizin ya:

• If yu angri.
• If di daypa wet, yu nid fɔ chenj am.
• If yu fil kol.
• If yu taya bad bad wan ɛn yu de slip.
• Ɔ, i kin bi bikɔs yu want fɔ ɔg am ɛn sho se yu lɛk am.

Tink bɔt am, sɔntɛnde yu kin no wetin de apin to yu pikin jɔs bay di sawnd we i de kray. Fɔ ɛgzampul, kray we se "A angri" kin slo smɔl, shɔt, ɛn ritmik. Ɛn kray we se "A fil lɛk se sɔntin nɔ rayt, a nɔ kɔmfyut" kin bi smɔl wan, harsh, ɛn distɔb. Afta sɔm tɛm, we yu de wit yu pikin, yu go ebul fɔ no di difrɛns bitwin dɛn sawnd ya, ɔndastand wetin bad wit yu pikin, ɛn du wetin rayt fɔ am.

Bɔt sɔntɛnde pikin dɛn kin kray bikɔs nyu tin dɛn we de arawnd dɛn, nɔys, ɛn layt kin tumɔs fɔ mek dɛn smɔl smɔl sɛns dɛn ebul fɔ du. wi kכl dis "overstimulation," we min se dεn de כva wכl di tin dεm we de arawnd dεm. Ɔ, bebi dɛn kin kray fɔ no rizin. So if yu pikin de kray ɛn yu dɔn tray ɔl wetin yu ebul fɔ mek i fil fayn, nɔ panik. Mɛmba se dɛn kin kray ivin we dɛn at pwɛl.

Apat frɔm we pikin dɛn kin kray, dɛn kin yuz ɔda we dɛn fɔ tɛl yu aw dɛn de fil.

• Ɔda sawnd dɛn: Milk de gigl, hum saful wan, ɛn mek gladi gladi nɔys.
• Di we aw pɔsin de sho in fes: I de smayl fayn fayn wan, i de kray, i de luk lɛk se i sɔprayz.
• Bɔdi muvmɛnt: gladi fɔ flay, writhing, ɛn twist to yu.

We yu no dɛn smɔl smɔl sayn dɛn ya, dat go mek yu gladi bad bad wan, ɛn di lɔv we de bitwin yu ɛn yu pikin go strɔng mɔ ɛn mɔ.

Wan ɔda tin, pe atɛnshɔn gud wan to aw yu pikin de ansa yu vɔys. We i yɛri yu vɔys, i go want fɔ it, fɔ wam, ɛn fɔ tɔch am wit lɔv., kɔmfɔt kin kam na wi maynd. We yu pikin de kray, wach aw i kin kol kwik kwik wan we yu de tɔk to am. Wach aw i de lisin fayn we yu de tɔk saful wan ɛn wit lɔv. Ilɛksɛf yu pikin de luk ɔdasay, i stil de pe atɛnshɔn gud wan to wetin yu de tɔk. Yu nɔ tink se i wɔndaful fɔ si se sɔntɛnde dɛn go de muv dɛn bɔdi smɔl smɔl, chenj dɛn fes, ɛn ivin muv dɛn an ɛn fut fɔ mek di ritm we yu de tɔk?

Wetin a fɔ du da tɛm de?

frכm di tεm we dεn bכn yu pikin, yu kin bigin fכ "tכk" to dεn wan dεm. Yu de mek yu yay kɔntakt, chenj sawnd, ɛn bon wit lɔv tɔch. di pikin dεm kin lan bכt di wכl kwik kwik wan tru dεn sεns dεm – yay, yes, nos, tכng, skin. So, nɔ fɔgɛt fɔ du dɛn tin ya fɔ kɔnɛkt wit yu smɔl pikin dis we:

• Tɔk to yu pikin ɛnitɛm we i pɔsibul. Ilɛksɛf i nɔ ɔndastand di wɔd dɛn we yu de tɔk, di vɔys we yu de tɔk we de mek yu fil fayn, we lɛk yu, ɛn we yu de tɔk fayn, go mek i fil sef ɛn kɔrej am. I go tɛl am se, "A de ya, yu nɔ gɛt natin fɔ fred."

• Bebi dɛn kin lan bɔt layf ɛn lɔv tru ɛni tɔch we dɛn fil. So kɔt kɔt dɛn, rɔk dɛn, ɛn tɔch dɛn saful wan wit bɔku lɔv. Dɔn yu smɔl pikin go fil lɛk se dis wɔl na ples we rili kɔmfɔt ɛn sef.

• Ansa yu nyu bɔbɔ ɛnitɛm we i kray, we min se go ova ɛn fɛn ɔndastand wetin i de tɔk. Wan tin we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink na, "O, if a kin pik am ɔltɛm ɛn kɔl am, i go pwɛl?" Bɔt di tru tin na dat, yu nɔ go ebul fɔ "spoil" nyu bɔbɔ bay we yu gi am tumɔs atɛnshɔn ɛn kɔt kɔt. We dɛn ansa kwik kwik wan we dɛn kray, dat kin mek dɛn fil sef, fɔ pɔsin we bisin bɔt dɛn ɛn we de luk fɔ wetin dɛn nid.

Sɔntɛnde, pan ɔl we yu dɔn gi yu pikin tin fɔ it, chenj in dayapɛt , mek i wam, kɔl am, ɛn mit ɔl di tin dɛn we i no se i nid, i kin stil kray. Nɔ wɔri bɔt am, ɔ tink se yu na mama ɔ papa we dɔn fel. Yu smɔl pikin kin mek di tin dɛn we de arawnd am de mek i fil fayn pasmak, ɔ i kin taya frɔm di de, ɔ i kin jɔs nid fɔ kray fɔ no rizin.

• Tray fɔ mek yu pikin fil fayn. Nɔto ɔl pikin dɛn kin kol di sem we. Sɔm bebi dɛn kin kol we dɛn de rɔk dɛn saful wan, fɔ ɛgzampul, we dɛn de rɔk dɛn saful wan bak ɛn kam bak, lɛk se dɛn de rayd swing, ɔ we yu de waka rawnd di rum. Ɔda bebi dɛn lɛk sawnd we de kɔntinyu, lɛk we dɛn de siŋ sloslo, wayt nɔys, ɔ ivin di sawnd we saful sawnd we vaykum klin kin mek.I go tek yu sɔm tɛm fɔ no us we go wok fayn fɔ yu pikin insay dɛn tranga tɛm ya. Peshɛnt ɛn tray am.

Mi pikin de kray tumɔs?

Bɔku pikin dɛn kin gɛt wan tɛm we dɛn kin gɛt fus ɛn kray bɔku tɛm lɛk di sem tɛm insay di de, mɔ na ivintɛm. Dis na nɔmal tin fɔ bɔku pikin dɛn, ɛn wi kin kɔl am "fussy period ."

Pan ɔl we i nɔmal fɔ mek ɛvri nyu bɔbɔ kray ɛn fus smɔl, if pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi, we nɔ gɛt ɛni ɔda sik, kray pasmak fɔ pas 3 awa insay di de, pas 3 dez insay di wik, fɔ at le 3 wiks insay wan row, wi kin kɔl da kɔndishɔn de pan mɛrɛsin `(Kɔlik)`. Bebi dεm we gεt `(Colic)` kin kray mכst na ivintɛm, εn i kin tranga sכmtεm fכ kכmכt dεm sכmtεm.

Kɔlik kin rili strɛs ɛn taya fɔ yu ɛn yu famili. Yu go de wɔnda se, "Wetin a de du bad?" Bɔt di gud nyus na dat bɔku pikin dɛn kin gro pas kɔlik bay di tɛm we dɛn ol 3 ɔ 4 mɔnt. So, tek at.

Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

If yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt ɔ wɔri bɔt aw yu pikin de kray, i go fayn fɔ mek yu tɔk to dɔktɔ. Yu fɔ rili go to dɔktɔ, mɔ pan dɛn tin ya:

• If yu pikin kray fɔ lɔng tɛm, we i nɔ stɔp.
• If di pikin in kray de saund strenj to yu, lεk sכmtin we yu nכ yεri bifo (fכ egzampl, i rili wik, כ i rili shap).
• If di pikin gɛt ɔda sayn dɛn wit di kray we i de kray. Fɔ ɛgzampul:
• If i tan lɛk se di pikin nɔ de du bɔku tin ɛn i nɔ de ple.
• If yu nɔ de drink inof milk ɔ yu nɔ want fɔ drink milk.
• If yu gɛt fiva (rɛktal tɛmpracha pas 100.4°F ɔ 38°C).
• If yu gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ blo (yu de blo kwik kwik wan, yu de blo na yu chɛst, yu lip dɛn de tɔn blu).
• If yu vɔmit (especially grɛn ɔ yɔlɔ).
• If yu gɛt dayarɛa ɔ kɔnstipɛshɔn .
• Ɔ if yu de kray lɛk se i klia se yu de fil pen.

If yu gɛt ɛni ɔda tin we de mɔna yu, mɔ if yu tink se yu nyu bɔbɔ kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit yu yɛri ɔ si, tɔk to dɔktɔ. Dɛn kin tɛst nyu bɔbɔ dɛn fɔ dɛn tin ya if nid de. Di kwik we dɛn no bɔt prɔblɛm, na di mɔ i go ebul fɔ trit am. Mɛmba se, i kin rili fayn fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ ɛn sɔlv ɛni dawt we yu gɛt.

Fɔ dɔn, mɛmba dis (Take-Home Message) .

Okay, so lɛ wi mɛmba yu bak di impɔtant pɔynt dɛn frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt.

• Yu smɔl pikin in kray, in sawnd, in fes ɛksprɛshɔn, in bɔdi muvmɛnt – ɔl dɛn tin ya na we dɛn de tɔk to yu, tɛl yu wetin dɛn nid. I kin tek yu sɔm tɛm fɔ ɔndastand dis "langwej", bɔt yu kin rili du am. Afta sɔm tɛm, yu go bi "ɛkspɛkt" pan am!

• Rispɔnd kwik kwik wan we yu pikin kray. Dis nɔ go pwɛl dɛn, bɔt i go ɛp dɛn fɔ abop pan yu ɛn fil lɛk se di wɔl na say we sef.

• Sɔntɛnde, bebi dɛn kin kray fɔ no rizin. Da tɛm de, tray difrɛn we dɛn fɔ mek dɛn kol ɛn nɔ vɛks, ɛn peshɛnt. Yu tɔch we yu de tɔch yu wit lɔv ɛn yu vɔys we de mek yu fil kol rili valyu to dɛn.

• If yu gɛt ɛni dawt ɔ wɔri bɔt yu pikin in kray ɔ in wɛlbɔdi, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ. Nɔ jɔs dismis am as "na natin." I impɔtant bak fɔ mek yu maynd izi.

Fɔ dɔn, di lɔv we yu gɛt, di wam we yu de wam, ɛn di we aw yu de tɔk na di tin dɛn we yu smɔl pas ɔl na di wɔl. Mɛmba dat ɔltɛm! Yu na di hiro/heroin fɔ in wɔl!

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