As di skul ɔlide de kam nia, di kwɛstyɔn we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn gɛt na, "Wetin fɔ mek yu pikin bizi insay dis ɔlide?" Aw i valyu fɔ gi yu pikin bɛtɛ ɛkspiriɛns ɛn chans fɔ lan nyu tin pas fɔ de yu wan na os wit TV ɛn fon? Dis na we bɔku pipul dɛn kin tink bɔt "Sɔma Kamp," we na kamp insay di ɔlide. I kin rili mek big chenj na pikin in layf. Bɔt yu nid fɔ pik di kamp we go fayn fɔ yu pikin. Lɛ wi si aw wi go du am di rayt we.
Tin dɛn we wi as mama ɛn papa fɔ tink bɔt bifo wi pik kamp
Bifo yu bigin fɔ pak yu pikin in bag, i impɔtant fɔ mek yu as mama ɔ papa aks yusɛf sɔm kwɛstyɔn dɛn. Bikɔs fɔ pik di bɛst fɔ yu pikin, yu nid fɔ no klia wan wetin yu de op fɔ.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, "Wetin na di rizin fɔ sɛn mi pikin na dis kamp?" Yu fɔ tink bɔt am fɔs. Sɔntɛm yu want fɔ mek yu pikin sabi fɔ spɔt mɔ. Ɔ sɔntɛm yu want fɔ mek dɛn sabi drɔ ɔ myuzik fayn fayn wan. Sɔntɛm yu want fɔ mek pipul dɛn lɛk kɔmpyuta ɔ di tin dɛn we Gɔd mek. Dis tɛm ya, kamp dɛn de we spɛshal pan ɔl dɛn tin ya. So if yu rizin klia, i rili izi fɔ pik di wan dɛn nɔmɔ we fit pan di tawzin tin dɛn we yu go ebul fɔ du.
Imajin se yu pikin de shem smɔl ɛn i nɔ lɛk fɔ de wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Dɔn yu kin want kamp we go divɛlɔp dɛn soshal skil ɛn ebul fɔ wok as tim. Ɔ if yu pikin rili sabi fɔ ple kriket, spɔt kamp we go mek da skil de go bifo mɔ na di bɛst.
Tin dɛn we yu fɔ tink bɔt we yu de pik say fɔ kamp
We yu dɔn ɔndastand yu gol dɛn klia wan, tink bɔt dɛn tin ya fɔ mek i izi fɔ pik pɔsin. A go ɛksplen dis na tebul fɔ mek i izi fɔ una.
| Di tin dɛn we yu fɔ tink bɔt | Diskripshɔn ɛn kwɛstyɔn dɛn fɔ aks yusɛf |
|---|---|
| Di kayn we aw di kamp tan | Na jenɛral kamp usay di pikin kin ɛkspiriɛns smɔl pan ɔltin? Ɔ i bɛtɛ fɔ go na spɛshal kamp we spɛshal pan wan tɔpik, lɛk spɔt, myuzik, ɔ kɔmpyuta? |
| Di tɛm we dɛn fɔ spɛn | Aw lɔng i fayn fɔ mek pikin nɔ de na os? Tu dez? Wan wik? Tu wiks? Di pikin in ej ɛn di ɛkspiriɛns we i bin dɔn gɛt trade we i nɔ de na os, rili impɔtant ya. |
| Pe | Aw bɔku yu go ebul fɔ spɛn pan dis? Di kamp fi dɛn kin difrɛn bad bad wan, so pik wan we fit yu bajɛt. |
| Na wetin di pikin want | Dis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Yu tink se dɛn go fos di pikin fɔ kɔmɔt de, ɔ di pikin go gri fɔ put an pan dis disayd? I rili impɔtant fɔ lisin to wetin di pikin tink. |
| Speshal Nid dɛn | Yu pikin gɛt spɛshal wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm lɛk ADHD, dayabitis, ɔ pwɛl at? If na so, mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt if dɛn nid fɔ mek kamp spɛshal fɔ pikin dɛn we gɛt spɛshal nid ɔ if dɛn kin sɛn dɛn na kamp ɔltɛm. |
Aw lɔng yu fɔ de na di kamp?
Akɔdin to masta sabi bukman dɛm, i kin jɔs tu ali fɔ sɛn pikin dɛm we nɔ rich 7 ia yet to slip-away kamp. Ɛn fɔ pikin we nɔ rich 10 ia yet, wan jenɛral kamp we gɛt bɔku tin dɛn fɔ du bɛtɛ pas spɛshal kamp we de pe atɛnshɔn pan wan tɔpik.
Bɔt dɛn lɔ ya kin chenj chenj. Sɔntɛnde, ivin pikin we ol 10 ia kin de fɔ shɔt tɛm fɔ lɛk wan wik so. Na smɔl kamp dɛn de we bin de fɔ 7-8 wiks. Naw, shɔt kamp dɛn de we kin tek wan wik ɔ tu wiks. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin go na bɔku kamp dɛn insay di sem vaykashun. Fɔ ɛgzampul, dɛn kin spɛn tu wiks na sɔk kamp ɛn di nɛks wik na kɔmpyuta kamp. Dis kin mek di pikin gɛt difrɛn ɛkspiriɛns dɛn .
Aw yu kin dil wit di big prɔblɛm we yu kin gɛt we yu de tink bɔt os?
Dis na di big tin we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin fred. "Wi pikin go mis os ɛn kray? I go ebul fɔ de in wan?" Yu go mɔs gɛt kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk dɛn wan ya bak.
Di tru tin na dat, lɛk 95% pan di pikin dɛn we ol bitwin 8 ɛn 16 ia go fil lɛk se dɛn de na os ɛn dɛn go fil se dɛn de dɛn wan fɔ at le tu-tri dez insay tu wik kamp. Dis na tin we rili nɔmal.
Smɔl pikin dɛn kin gɛt dis kayn filin. Bɔt wan tin we de sho se i bɛtɛ pas dat na if di pikin dɔn de fa frɔm os bifo. Di ɛkspiriɛns dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de slip na grani ɛn granpa dɛn os ɔ padi dɛn os rili impɔtant na ya.
Di bɛst we fɔ mek di pikin nɔ gɛt os na fɔ shep di we aw di pikin de biev.
1. Mek yu pikin tek pat pan di disayd: Dis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Insted fo insist se, "Yu get fo go dis," risech som kamp en tok to yu pikin, "Pikin/gita, wi go go na wan pan dem? Wetin yu want?" We pikin go na ples we i want, i nɔ kin fred bɛtɛ.
2. Tɔk opin wan bɔt fɔ mis os: I nɔ fayn fɔ tink se, "O, nɔ tɔk bɔt fɔ mis os, i go mek yu mis am mɔ." Bifo dat, tɔk to yu pikin bifo yu go. "Wetin yu de du wen yu fil se yu de fil laik fo haus? Na normal tin. Ple wit yu nyu padi dem fo dat taim, tel yu bos. A no se yu fit handle dat likl bit of sadness." Dis na aw yu de gi yu pikin di mɛsej , "Yu strɔng, yu kin win dis chalenj."
3. Avɔyd "Pick-up De ALS " Deals: Dis na big mistek we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin mek. Prɔmis se, "If yu mis os ɛn kray, a go kam tek yu" de sɛn di rɔng mɛsej to yu pikin. I se, "Yu nɔ go ebul fɔ du dis yu wan, yu wik, ɛn if prɔblɛm de, rɔnawe." Dat nɔto gud mɛsej fɔ layf.
4. Praktis fɔ Slip: Bifo yu sɛn yu pikin na kamp, arenj fɔ mek i spɛn wan ɔ tu dez na dɛn granpa ɛn granma dɛn os, ɔ spɛn wan nɛt na yu padi we yu abop pan in os. Dɔn tɔk to dɛn. Aks dɛm, "Aw i bin fil fɔ de fa frɔm os? Yu bin sɔri? Wetin una du?" ɛn fɔ tɔk bɔt dɛn ɛkspiriɛns dɛn de kin rili ɛp wi.
If yu pripia yu pikin in maynd dis we ɛn pik di kamp we go fayn fɔ am, i go bi ɛkspiriɛns we yu nɔ go ɛva fɔgɛt ɛn we gɛt valyu na dɛn layf.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Bifo dɛn sɛn pikin fɔ go kamp, .Una no klia wan wetin na yu gol as mama ɛn papa.
- Mek shɔ se yu put yu pikin insay di disayd fɔ pik wan kamp. Put wetin i want fɔs.
- Ɔndastand se fɔ mɛmba os na nɔmal tin. Tɔk to yu pikin opin wan bɔt am ɛn ɛnkɔrej am.
- Nɔ mek prɔmis lɛk "A go kam tek yu if yu fil sɔri." I de mek di pikin nɔ gɛt kɔnfidɛns pan insɛf.
- Bifo dɛn sɛn am na di kamp, i kin rili fayn fɔ gi trenin, lɛk fɔ slip wan nɛt na yu fambul ɔ padi in os.
- If yu pikin gɛt spɛshal wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm, i impɔtant fɔ aks yu dɔktɔ in advays bifo yu pik kamp.
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