Wetin na adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na we pɔsin nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol insɛf pan tin dɛn we i de tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, tin dɛn we i want fɔ du, ɔ tin dɛn we i de du. Dis sik kin mek yu strɛs ɛn kin ambɔg yu wɛl bɔdi, yu fambul, yu woke, ɔr ɔda tin na yu layf. Bɔrku pipul kin yuse di wɔd "seksual adikshɔn" fɔ tɔk bɔt am. Bɔt dɔktɔ ɔ mɛntɛl hεlth pɔrsin kin kɔl am bak ``Kɔmpulsiv Sεkswal Bihayvya'', ``Prɔblɛm Sεkswal Bihayvya'', ``Hypersexuality'', ``Hypersexuality Disorder'', ``Sexual Compulsivity'', ɔ ``Sexual Impulsivity''. Bɔku tɛm, i kin gɛt fɔ du wit tin dɛn we pɔsin kin si na mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Dat min tin dɛn lɛk fɔ ple wit yu bɔdi, fɔ wach rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na fon, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na di Intanɛt, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pas wan pɔsin. Bɔt if di tin dɛn we yu de tink bɔt fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn di tin dɛn we yu de du de ambɔg yu wan ol layf, dat min se wi tink se i kin bi mami ɛn dadi biznɛs adikshɔn.Yu tink se dis tan lɛk ɔda adikshɔn dɛn?
Yɛs, fɔ tru. Dat "adikshɔn filin" de insay dis bak. Jɔs lɛk aw pɔsin we gɛt adikshɔn to rɔm ɔ drɔgs kin fil se i rili want dɛn tin dɛn de, na so i kin fil bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. I nɔ de kɔntrol, i de anɔynt, i nɔ pɔsibul fɔ satisfay ilɛk aw yu du am, i tan lɛk motoka we de go pan `ɔtopaylɔt`. Yu no se dis go gɛt bad bad tin dɛn fɔ du, bɔt yu de du di sem tin bak ɛn bak. Imajin, if sɔm pipul dɛn tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs frɔm di tɛm we dɛn wek na mɔnin te dɛn go slip na nɛt, fɔgɛt dɛn wok ɛn dɛn famili fɔ am, aw i kin strɛs.Aw dis sik kin kɔmɔn? Udat dɛn kin afɛkt mɔ?
Akɔdin to di Amɛrikan statystik, dis kɔndishɔn kin afɛkt bitwin 3% ɛn 10% pan di jenɛral pipul dɛm. I kin apin mɔ pan bɔy pikin dɛn pas gyal pikin dɛn. Fɔ ɛvri tu man dɛn we gɛt apa sɛksualiti, wan pan ɛvri fayv uman dɛn kin gɛt dis sik. Dis sik kin bigin arawnd wae dɛn ol 18. Bɔt bɔrku pipul dɛn kin go to pɔrsin wae gɛt pɔrsin wae gɛt dis sik arawnd wae dɛn ol 37. Dat min se dɛn kin gɛt dis prɔblɛm dɛn wan fɔ lɔng tɛm.Apat frɔm dat, dɛn dɔn si se lɛk 88% pan di pipul dɛm wae gɛt dis sik kin gɛt ɔda mɛntɛl hεlth prɔblɛm bak. Sɔm pan dɛn tin ya na:- Disɔda wae de mɛk pɔrsin de fil, lɛk Bipolar Disorder.
- Dizayd dɛn we kin mek pɔsin wɔri .
- Bikɔs i dɔn tray fɔ kil insɛf bifo.
- Dizayd dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt.
- Ɔda adikshɔn dɛn .
- Impuls Kɔntrol Disɔda dɛn.
- Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder ( OCD ) na wan sik wae de kam wae pɔrsin de tink ɛn du tin wae de kam pan pɔrsin.
- Atɛnshɔn Dɛfisit Haypa Aktiviti Disɔda ( ADHD ).
Dɛn kin tek adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs as mental sik?
Sɔm pipul dɛn stil de agyu bɔt dis. Di American Psychiatric Association nɔ bin gri fɔ tek wan prɔpɔzal fɔ put Hypersexual Disorder insay dɛn Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, we na di fayv edishɔn (DSM-5). Dɛn se di rizin fɔ dis na bikɔs dɛn nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ pruf ɛn dɛn de wɔri bɔt di bad tin dɛn we kin apin we dɛn kɔl fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pasmak “sik.”Us kayn tin pɔsin lɛk dis kin tink ɛn fil?
Pɔsin we gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kin fil lɛk:- Fɔ fil gilti, shem, ɔ rigrɛt.
- Fɔ fil se yu nɔ gɛt op fɔ di adikshɔn bihayvya, fɔ fil se yu nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol am.
- Pwɛl hat , fɔ de yu wan.
- Fɔ fred, fɔ wɔri.
- I nɔ sɔprayz fɔ si se pipul dɛn kin fil lɛk fɔ tek dɛn yon layf.
Imajin, aw i nɔ go ebul fɔ ɛp yu if yu shem ɛn fil bad fɔ sɔntin we yu de du, bɔt yu nɔ ebul fɔ stɔp am?
Wetin na di sayn dɛn we de sho se pɔsin gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
Pan ɔl we no patikyula krayteria nɔ de fɔ no if pɔsin gɛt aypa sɛksualiti, sɔm kɔmɔn kwaliti dɛn de we pɔsin kin si pan pɔsin we gɛt dis sik:- Yu de obses wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs . Yu de fantasize bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Dis kin tek bɔku pan yu de.
- Yu kin ple wit yu bɔdi wan tɛm ɔ bɔku tɛm insay di de.
- Bɔku tɛm yu kin wach rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn. Dat min se fim dɛn, big pipul dɛn magazin dɛn, wɛbsayt dɛn na di Intanɛt, wɛbkam, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn Bɔku tɛm yu kin ple wit yu bɔdi we yu de wach rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn.
- Yu kin spɛn bɔku tɛm fɔ plan fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Yu kin spɛn bɔku tɛm fɔ no usay ɛn aw fɔ gɛt yu nɛks sɛkshɔnal "fɔn."
- Yu de yuz sɛks savis ɔltɛm. Dis na smɔl siriɔs tin, bikɔs naw pɔsin de involv pan yu aktiviti dɛn. I kin bi tin dɛn lɛk fɔ sɛn sɛks na fon, fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn tru intanɛt chat rum, fɔ pe fɔ mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, fɔ go na strip klab, fɔ de togɛda wan nɛt ɔltɛm, fɔ gɛt bɔku patna dɛn.
- Di we aw yu de biev kin go bifo to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we yu nɔ de tek tɛm du. Sɔntɛm di mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kin kam wit denja bihayvya lɛk fɔ yuz drɔgs, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn, ɔ ``autoerotic asphyxiation'' (fɔ swɛla yusɛf fɔ mek yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ).
- Fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we de agens yu yon valyu, rilijɔn biliv, ɔ wetin sosayti gri wit.
- Bɔku tɛm yu kin tɔk bɔt situeshɔn dɛn we dɛn kɔl `(Paraphilia)`. Dis na mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we kin mek ɔda pɔsin gɛt prɔblɛm wit in maynd, wund, ɔ ivin day. Fɔ ɛgzampul: `(Ɛgzibishinism)`, `(Voyeurism)`, `(Sadomasochism)`, ɛn `(Pidofilia)`.
- Yu nɔ go ebul fɔ stɔp dis mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ivin if i gɛt bad bad tin fɔ du to yu mɔni, rilayshɔnship, wɛlbɔdi, ɛn sol.
Us prɔblɛm dɛn dis kin mek?
Di adikshɔn fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kin mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn lɛk:- Yu kin lɔs nɔmal, wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔn wit yu patna we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɛn yu fambul dɛn.
- Bikɔs yu nɔ ebul fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan yu wok fayn, we yu de wach rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn na yu wokples, dat kin mek yu wok sɔfa ɛn yu kin ivin lɔs yu wok.
- We pɔsin spɛn mɔni fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, dat kin mek wi gɛt prɔblɛm wit mɔni.
- Wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn. Bεlε, infεkshכn dεm we dεn kin gεt wit mami εn dadi biznεs (STI) lεk HIV, Epataytis B εn C, Sifilis, εn Gכnoria kin apin.
- Fɔ tɔn to fɔ yuz drɔgs ɔ fɔ drink rɔm pasmak.
- Mental wɛl bɔdi prɔblɛm lɛk strɛs, wɔri, pwɛl hat, ɛn fɔ tink bɔt fɔ kil insɛf.
- If yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs di we aw Gɔd nɔ want, yu go ivin nid fɔ go na prizin.
- Fɔ fil ebi ebi lod na yu maynd bikɔs ɔf tin dɛm lɛk fɔ fil gilti, shem, ɛn pwɛl hat.
Wetin na di tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin gɛt adikshɔn pan mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
Sayɛnsman dɛn stil nɔ no bɛtɛ bɛtɛ wan wetin kin mek dis apin, bɔt sɔm tin dɛn we pipul dɛn kin tink se na:- Wan imbalans pan sɔm kemikal dɛn na yu bren.di lεvεl כ aktiviti fכ kεmikכl dεm we dεn kכl ``nyurotransmitta'', lεk ``Dopamine'', ``Norepinephrine'', εn ``Serotonin'', we de kכri mεsej dεm na di bren, i kin mek di sεks dεn want εn bihayvya bכku.
- Sik ɔr damej pan di pat dɛm na di bren we de kɔntrol di we aw pɔsin de biev we i de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. dis kכndyushכn kin kכz bak bay sik dεm lεk `(Dimeshכn)`, `(Epilepsy)`, `(Bipolar Disorder)`, כ damej pan pat dεm na di bren lεk `(Frontal lobe)`, `(Amygdala)`, `(Prefrontal cortex)`.
- di bren fכnshכn de chenj, we de mek nyu nyural path dεm fכ adiktiv bihayvya.
- Yuz drɔgs, mɔ kɔkɛyn, amfɛtamin, ɛn rɔm.
- As wan sayd ɛfɛkt fɔ sɔm mɛrɛsin dɛn. Wan ɛgzampul na di drɔg ``Levodopa`` we dɛn kin yuz fɔ Pakinsin Sik.
Aw fɔ no dis sik?
We yu go to dɔktɔ ɔ pɔsin we de advays yu bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs , dɛn go aks yu tin dɛn lɛk:- Bɔt aw yu gɛt wɛl bɔdi naw, di sik dɛn we yu dɔn gɛt, di sik dɛn we yu gɛt na yu famili, ɛn di mɛrɛsin dɛn, vaytamɛn dɛn, ɛn ɛbul prɔdak dɛm we yu de tek.
- Yu de yuz drɔgs ɔ yu de yuz rɔm?
- Dɛn go aks bɔt aw yu de tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, wetin yu want, ɛn aw yu de biev, aw yu ebul fɔ kɔntrol dɛn, ɛn ɛni ɔda sayn fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
Aw dɛn kin trit am?
Fɔ trit pɔsin we gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɔ we pɔsin kin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pasmak , kin gɛt fɔ du wit wan kɔmbayn mɛrɛsin, saykotɛrapi, ɛn fɔ tek pat pan grup dɛn we de ɛp insɛf.Di mɛrɛsin dɛn we dɛn kin yuz
No patikyula mɛrɛsin nɔ de we dɛn dɔn gri fɔ mek pɔsin gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Bɔt yu kin tray mɛrɛsin dɛn we de afɛkt di ɔmon ɛn kemikal dɛn na di bren we de kɔntrol "di tin dɛn we pɔsin want ɛn di we aw i de biev," ɛn bak mɛrɛsin fɔ di sem kayn mɛrɛsin. Yu dɔktɔ go tink bak bɔt yu ɔda mental wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn ɛn gi yu di mɛrɛsin we fit yu pas ɔl.- Antidipreshan: Dɛn kin tek mɛrɛsin dɛn we de na di klas fɔ SSRI (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) as di fɔs layn tritmɛnt fɔ adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Mεdisin dεm we de kכntrכl man כmon dεm (Anti-androgens):Dɛn tin ya kin wok bay we dɛn de tɔch di man dɛn we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Dɛn kin fayn fɔ ridyus di tin dɛn we pɔsin kin tink bɔt ɔltɛm. Yu kin tray dɛn tin ya we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we so bad dat i kin denja to ɔda pipul dɛn.
- Naltrexone (Vivitrol®, Revia®): Dɛn dɔn si se dis mɛrɛsin we dɛn kin yuz fɔ trit pɔsin we gɛt adikshɔn to rɔm ɛn opioid, kin ɛp bak fɔ gɛt adikshɔn to gambling. I kin ɛp bak fɔ gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Di tin dɛm wae de mek yu fil fayn: Dɛn tin ya kin ɛp yu if yu gɛt sik lɛk bipola muud disɔda wae kin kam wit mania ɔr impulsivity, ɛn pasmak mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na wan tin wae de pan de sik. Sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn na litiɔm, valproɛt (Depakote®), ɛn kabamazɛpin (Tegretol®).
- Anti-anxiety medications: If na wɔri de mek yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, yu kin tray dɛn mɛrɛsin ya. Buspirone na wan ɛgzampul we kin ɛp.
- Ɔda mɛrɛsin dɛm: If yu gɛt prɔblɛm wit yu maynd ɔr yu gɛt siriɔs agiteshɔn, yu kin tink bɔt antisaykotik. Dɛn mɛrɛsin ya kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, i kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɛn i kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin. If yu gɛt Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) (we gɛt fɔ du wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs), mɛrɛsin lɛk methylphenidate ɛn dextroamphetamine kin ɛp yu.
Saykotɛrapi
Saykotɛrapi na wan we we gɛt bɔku tin dɛn fɔ du. Insay dis, yu kin tɔk to wan pɔsin we de advays yu bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs . I de ɛp yu fɔ no ɛn manej di tin dɛn we de mek ɛn mek yu biev we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pasmak. Dɛn kin gi dis tritmɛnt to wan wan pipul dɛn, famili, ɛn mared pipul dɛn, ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn bak. Na bikɔs di adikshɔn we pɔsin gɛt fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs kin afɛkt ɔlman.- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Dis saykotɛrapi kin tek yu bad tin ɛn bihayvya smɔl smɔl wit ɔda we fɔ ridyus di we aw yu kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn dil wit dɛn bɛtɛ.
- Akseptans ɛn Kɔmitmɛnt Tɛrapi (ACT): Dis de yuz di tɛknik dɛm fɔ aksept ɛn fɔ tink gud wan. De gol na fɔ ɛp pipul dɛm fɔ aksept de strɛs wae dɛn de fil ɛn chenj dɛn rilayshɔn wit dɛn tin ya, pas fɔ chenj aw dɛn de tink.
- Motivational Interviewing: Dis saykotɛrapi de gayd yu fɔ yu yone ɛksplɔrɔshɔn fɔ yu sɛkshɔnal adikshɔn in rilayshɔn to yu pasɔnal gol ɛn valyu dɛm.
Grup dɛn we de sɔpɔt dɛnsɛf fɔ ɛp dɛnsɛf
Dɛn mek dɛn tin ya afta di 12 step program we Alcoholics Anonymous de du. Bɔku grup dɛn de, lɛk Seks Anonymous, Sexaholics Anonymous, Sex Addicts Anonymous, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, ɛn Sexual Compulsives Anonymous. Yu kin chɛk dɛn ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn wɛbsayt fɔ fɛn branch we de nia yu.Yu tink se dɛn go ebul fɔ stɔp dis?
If yu go ebul fɔ mek yu nɔ gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɔ yu nɔ go ebul fɔ avɔyd am, i go dipen pan di (dɛn) tin we de mek yu gɛt am. Sɔntɛnde, i kin bi we di kemikal dɛn we nɔ de balans na di bren. Ɔ, e kin bi sayd ɛfɛkt ɔr sayn fɔ ɔda wɛl bɔdi prɔblɛm. Bɔku tin dɛn de we kin mek pɔsin gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Bɔt pan ɔl we yu nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol dɛn ɔl, yu kin kɔntrol sɔm pan di tin dɛn we kin mek yu tink, wetin yu want, wetin yu want, ɛn du. Dɛn tin ya na:- Lan bɔt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɔ we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pasmak. Yu dɔn ɔlrɛdi tek di fɔs step bay we yu rid dis atikul!
- Si yu dɔktɔ ɔ pɔsin we de advays yu bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs . Dɛn de fɔ ɛp yu, frɔm di say we yu de lan buk.
- Chenj di tin dɛn we yu no se de tɔn yu. Blɔk wɛbsayt dɛn we de sho mami ɛn dadi biznɛs di we aw Gɔd nɔ want ɛn ɔda wɛbsayt dɛn we de sho mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na yu kɔmpyuta. Avɔyd strit dɛn we gɛt strip klab ɛn tek difrɛn rod. Tink bɔt us ɔda chenj dɛn yu go mek.
- Gɛt ɛp fɔ di prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit sɔbstans abiuz. If yu de yuz rɔm ɔ drɔgs, yu nɔ go ebul fɔ kɔntrol di we aw yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Aks yu dɔktɔ fɔ ɛp yu fɔ stɔp dɛn tin ya.
- Manej ɔda mental wɛlbɔdi kɔndishɔn dɛn fayn fayn wan. If yu gɛt ɔda kayn maynd prɔblɛm, lɛk pwɛl hat, wɔri, ɔr bipola muud disɔda, mek shɔ se yu fala ɔl di instrɔkshɔn dɛm wae yu dɔktɔ gi yu fɔ mɛn dɛn sik ya. If yu fil se yu sik dɔn chenj, mek apɔntinmɛnt fɔ go to dɔktɔ.
- Fokus yu trɛnk pan tin dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi. We yu bɔdi de pe atɛnshɔn pan ɔda tin, yu maynd kin chenj ɛn pe atɛnshɔn bak. Get bizi. Ple spɔt, jɔyn klab, bigin fɔ du sɔntin we yu lɛk, volontia fɔ ɔganayzeshɔn dɛn we de ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛksesaiz, tink gud wan, du yoga, ɔ tray ɔda we dɛn fɔ ridyus strɛs.
- Peshɛnt, kɔntinyu fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan di tin dɛn we yu dɔn plan fɔ du. Fɔ kɔntrol di adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na tin we pɔsin fɔ du fɔ ɔl in layf. I lɛf to yu fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan di tin dɛn we impɔtant pas ɔl na yu layf ɛn fɔ mek padi biznɛs we dɔn pwɛl bak. Yu kin du dis. Yu ɔl di wɛlbɔdi tim de ya fɔ ɛp yu. Mek dɛn ɛp yu.
Aw a go no if a gɛt adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
Yu tink se di we aw yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs de mek yu nɔ fil fayn ɔ i de ambɔg impɔtant tin dɛn na yu layf? Yu tink se dɛn tin ya kin apin to yu?- Yu nɔ tink se yu de slip bikɔs yu de tink ɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
- Yu de rɔn let fɔ wok?
- Yu de shirk yu rispɔnsibiliti?
- Yu kin lay to yu famili ɔ yu kin ayd sikrit?
- Yu nid fɔ du mɔ ɛn mɔ tranga mami ɛn dadi biznɛs fɔ mek yu gɛt di sem lɛvul fɔ mek yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɔ fɔ satisfay?
- Yu kin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pipul dɛn ɔ ples dɛn we yu nɔ go pik bikɔs yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
- Yu kin spɛn bɔku tɛm we yu wek fɔ wach rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn?
- Yu dɔn ɛva gɛt prɔblɛm wit lɔ ɔ yu go ebul fɔ gɛt prɔblɛm wit lɔ ɔ yu dɔn lɔs mɔni bikɔs ɔf di we aw yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
- Yu tink se di tin dɛn we yu de tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, di tin dɛn we yu want, ɔ di we aw yu de biev de mek yu nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ maynd, aw yu de fil, ɛn/ɔ yu bɔdi?
- Yu tink se di we aw yu de biev we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit yu yon valyu, rilijɔn, ɔ gud abit dɛn?
- Yu kin fil shem, rigrɛt, pwɛl at, fil gilti, yu wan de fil, ɔ yu kin tink bɔt fɔ kil yusɛf afta yu dɔn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
Yu tink se sɔntin gɛt sɔntin fɔ du wit di adikshɔn to mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn di pwɛl at?
Sɔntɛm kɔnekshɔn de. Di we aw pɔsin de biev we i de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pasmak kin bɔku pan di tɛm we pɔsin nɔ de fil fayn ɛn we i gɛt pwɛl hat. Di mɛrɛsin dɛm wae de mek pɔrsin nɔr gɛt pwɛl hat sik kin ansa bak to di sayn dɛm wae de sho se pɔrsin gɛt pwɛl hat.Fɔ tɔk smɔl, tin dɛn we wi nid fɔ mɛmba
If di tin dɛn we yu want ɛn di tin dɛn we yu de du fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs de mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm, tek yu layf, ɛn ambɔg yu yon, wok, ɛn/ɔ yu famili layf, naw na di tɛm fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ. Bɔrku pipul nɔr kin go to tritmɛnt bikɔs ɔf shem ɔr gilti. Yu wɛlbɔdi tim nɔ de jɔj yu bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Dɛn de de fɔ ɛp yu.Mɛmba se nɔto yu wangren de. Bɔku pipul dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn lɛk dis, ɛn bɔku we dɛn de fɔ gɛt ɛp.Di bɛst rizɔlt kin kɔmɔt frɔm wok wit ɔlman – yu famili, yu patna, yu mɛdikal tim, ɛn di impɔtant tin, fɔ bi ɔnɛs wit yusɛf. Bɔku tritmɛnt dɛn de fɔ ɛp yu. Put yu shem ɛn fred na sayd ɛn aks fɔ ɛp.
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