I tan lɛk se yu smɔl pikin difrɛn frɔm aw i bin de bifo? Bɔku tɛm i kin lɛk fɔ de in wan, i nɔ kin gɛt bɛtɛ padi dɛn, ɛn sɔntɛnde i nɔ kin izi fɔ ɔndastand aw i de biev... Dɛn tin ya kin de mek yu wɔri bad bad wan. Dis kin bi nɔmal tin we kin apin we pɔsin de yɔŋ, ɔ ɔda tin kin de we kin mek i nɔ rich 18 ia yet. Na dat ɔtizm, ɔ Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) , de tɔk bɔt. As mama ɛn papa, i nɔmal fɔ mek wi fil fred ɛn wɔri we pikin we gɛt dis sik kam na in yɔŋ pɔsin. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis simpul we ɛn fɛn ansa to di kwɛstyɔn dɛn we yu gɛt na yu maynd.
Wetin na di sayn dɛm fɔ ɔtizm pan yɔŋ pikin?
We pikin dɛn de yɔŋ na tɛm we di we aw pikin dɛn de fil ɛn di we aw dɛn de biev kin chenj bad bad wan. So sɔmtɛm i kin tranga fɔ no difrɛns bitwin di nɔmal tin dɛn we dɛn kin du we dɛn yɔŋ pipul dɛn kin biev ɛn di we aw dɛn kin biev we dɛn gɛt ɔtizm. Nɔr tin nɔr de we dɛn kɔl kwik tɛst (teenage autism test). Bɔt sɔm patikyula tin dɛn de we pɔsin kin notis ɛn prɔblɛm dɛn we pikin we gɛt ɔtizm kin gɛt we i de kam yɔŋ.
| Chalenj / Ficha we gɛt fɔ du wit am | Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan... |
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| Di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin de bɔn pikin | Sɔntɛm dɛn go nid fɔ ɛksplen to gyal pikin klia wan wetin na prɛgnɛshɔn, aw i kin fil, ɛn us sanitayz prɔdak dɛn fɔ yuz we i de kam. Dɛn nid fɔ tich bɔy pikin ɛn gyal pikin dɛn klia wan bɔt di rayt ɛn nɔ fayn ples dɛn fɔ tɔk bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn di chenj dɛn we de apin na dɛn bɔdi. |
| Epilepsy/ Di sik we de mek pɔsin sik | Pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm kin gɛt bɔrku risk fɔ gɛt epilepsy pas di jenɛral pipul dɛm. Bikɔs ɔf di chenj dɛn we di ɔmon dɛn kin chenj we dɛn yɔŋ, sɔm pikin dɛn kin gɛt ɛpilepsi fɔ di fɔs tɛm insay dis tɛm. If pikin dɔn ɔlrɛdi gɛt ɛpilepshi, di sik kin wɔs. |
| Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit skul wok | Ivin pikin we sabi stɔdi kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ ɔndastand di kɔnsɛpt dɛn, tink gud wan, ɛn rayt ɛsay dɛn na ay gred. Sɔntɛm i nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn fɔ ajɔst to dis chenj we dɛn dɔn chenj pan di edyukeshɔn. |
| Fɔ lɔs padi/we dɛn de buli yu | Di we aw dɛn kin biev bɔku tɛm, di strenj tin dɛn we dɛn kin lɛk fɔ du, ɛn di we aw dɛn kin biev wit ɔda pipul dɛn we dɛn ol, kin mek dɛn kɔmpin dɛn de buli dɛn mɔ ɛn mɔ. Dis kin mek dɛn lɔs dɛn padi dɛn ɛn dɛn kin de dɛn wan. |
| Dizayd we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de fil | Di chenj dɛm wae de kam pan yɔŋ pipul dɛm ɛn di prɛshɔn wae de kam pan di sosayti kin mek i nɔr izi fɔ pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtistik fɔ rigul dɛn filin. Dis kin mek yu gɛt tin dɛn lɛk pwɛl hat ɔr wɔri. Infakt, lɛk 39% pan di pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm dɔn gɛt wan sik wae de mek dɛn wɔri. |
Difrɛns de bitwin gyal pikin ɛn bɔy pikin?
Yɛs, dis na pɔynt we rili impɔtant. Gɛl pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm kin biev difrɛn frɔm bɔy pikin dɛm. Risach dɔn sho se gyal pikin dɛn kin tray fɔ ayd dɛn ɔtistik kwaliti dɛn ɛn du tin lɛk nɔmal pikin dɛn (jɔs lɛk aw dɛn de akt). Dɛn kɔl dis ‘camouflaging’ ɔ ‘masking’ .
Imajin, dɛn de tray fɔ tɔk, smayl, ɛn biev lɛk ɔlman na sosayti. Pan ɔl we i kin tan lɛk se dɛn rili lɛk fɔ spɛn tɛm wit ɔda pipul dɛn, dɛn kin rili strɛs ɛn wɔri na do.
If i tan lɛk se yu gyal pikin gɛt ɔtizm, bɔt dɔktɔ se i "tu sɔshal," i impɔtant fɔ gɛt sɛkɔn opinion. If yu delay fɔ no di sik, dat kin mek yu gyal pikin gɛt siriɔs prɔblɛm wit in maynd.
Wetin mek i tan lɛk se mi pikin in ɔtizm simptom dɛn de bɔku pan dis ej?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, na bikɔs ɔf strɛs.. Wi kin si ɔtizm simptom dɛm wae kin tranga pasmak wae dɛn yɔŋ bikɔs ɔf de bɔrku nyu chenj dɛm wae dɛn gɛt fɔ gɛt da tɛm de. Tink bɔt di chenj dɛm na dɛn bɔdi, di wok we de bɔku na skul, di prɛshɔn we dɛn kɔmpin dɛn de prɛshɔ, fɔ tink bɔt di tumara bambay... We ɔl dis kam wan tɛm, i kin tranga fɔ mek pikin we gɛt ɔtizm bia. Na bikɔs ɔf da strɛs de, dɛn sik kin kam fɔ no mɔr.
De impɔtant tin na dat, ɔtizm nɔto sik we kin kam wantɛm wantɛm we i yɔŋ. Di sayn dɛm fɔ dɔn de na di pikin frɔm we i smɔl. Sɔmtɛm, de sayn dɛm nɔr kin so klia na pikin ɛn kin kɔmɔt wit de chalenj dɛm wae pɔrsin dɔn big.
If yu pikin fɔs sho dɛn sik ya (we i de in wan, de du di sem tin) we i yɔŋ , i kin bi ɔda tin pas ɔtizm. So if yu gɛt ɛni dawt, fɔ tru, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ.
Aw fɔ kia fɔ yɔŋ pikin we gɛt ɔtizm?
Di fɔs tin fɔ mɛmba na dat ɔtizm nɔto wan kayn pɔsin. Ivin if yu pikin gɛt ɔtistik trayt, dɛn stil na pɔsin we gɛt in yon spɛshal tin dɛn we i lɛk, wetin i nɔ lɛk, wetin i nid, ɛn aw i de fil.
Mek wi ɛp yu fɔ bi soshal, bɔt nɔ fos am.
Bɔrku yɔŋ pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm nɔr kin lɛk fɔ woke wit ɔda pipul dɛm. Bɔt yu kin ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ de wit ɔda pipul dɛn bay we yu de du tin dɛn we dɛn kin ɛnjɔy . Fɔ ɛgzampul, dɛn kin put pikin we lɛk fɔ drɔ na grup we dɛn kɔl art grup, ɔ dɛn kin put pikin we de ple inschrumɛnt na band.
Ivin if yu want yu pikin fɔ gɛt bɔku padi dɛn, nɔ fos dɛn. Sɔntɛm dɛn go gladi mɔ wit jɔs wan bɛst padi. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ mek ples usay padi biznɛs go go bifo.
Tich klia wan di skil dɛn we pɔsin nid fɔ liv
Nɔmal yɔŋ pikin dɛn kin lan bɔku tin bay we dɛn de wach dɛn kɔmpin dɛn ɛn nɔ de tich dɛn dairekt wan. Bɔt yu pikin we gɛt ɔtizm nid fɔ tich dɛn layf skil ya klia wan, stɛp bay stɛp.
- Yu fɔ klin yusɛf ɛn wɛlbɔdi: Yu go nid fɔ mɛmba yusɛf fɔ shaw ɛvride, yuz diɔdɔrant, ɛn sheb. Dɔn bak, ɛnkɔrej yu fɔ slip fayn, fɔ it fayn , ɛn fɔ du ɛksɛsayz.
- Imɔshɔn Manejmɛnt: No bɔt aw pɔrsin de fil lɛk gladi at, pwɛl hat, ɛn vɛks, ɔndastand wae ɔda pɔrsin sɔri, ɛn praktis fɔ mek yu fil fayn wae yu de fil bad.
- Sefty skil dɛm: Tich dɛm tin dɛm lɛk aw fɔ krɔs strit, aw fɔ aks fɔ ɛp we yu nid am, ɛn nɔ fɔ go wit strenja.
- Sɔshial skil dɛn : .Tich simpul pɔlitiks tin dɛm lɛk aw fɔ bigin tɔk wit pɔsin, aks "Aw yu de?", fɔ se hello, tɛl yu tɛnki, ɛn fɔ ol domɔt opin fɔ pɔsin.
- Mɔni manejmɛnt: Praktis tin dɛn lɛk aw fɔ ɔda it na stɔ ɛn pe fɔ am, aw fɔ mek simpul badjɛt, ɛn aw fɔ yuz dɛbit kad.
Yɔŋ pikin wae gɛt ɔtizm gɛt spɛshal trɛnk ɛn chalenj fɔ ɔndastand di wɔl. If yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm wit sɔshal skil dɛm, fɔ prosɛs in sɛns, ɛn fɔ bia wit chenj dɛm we de apin ɛvride, i kin bɛnifit bɔku frɔm wan evalueshɔn fɔ ɔtizm.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- I tan lɛk se di ɔtistik sayn dɛm kin bɔku pan yɔŋ pipul dɛm, nɔto bikɔs ɔf di sik we dɛn kin gɛt nyu wan, bɔt na bikɔs ɔf di strɛs we dɛn kin gɛt na da ej de.
- Girls kin camouflage dɛn fes. If yu gɛt ɛni dawt, nɔ shek fɔ aks fɔ dɔktɔ in opinion.
- Bifo yu fos yu pikin fɔ mek padi, mek say usay i go ebul fɔ de wit ɔda pipul dɛn tru tin dɛn we i lɛk.
- Tich layf skil dɛm lɛk fɔ klin, fɔ kɔntrol aw pɔsin de fil, fɔ sef, ɛn fɔ yuz mɔni klia wan ɛn dairekt wan.
- Yu pikin big pas ɔtizm. Rɛspɛkt dɛn aydentiti ɛn gi dɛn di sɔpɔt we dɛn nid.
- If yu gɛt ɛni dawt, kwɛstyɔn, ɔr tin we de mɔna yu, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn ɔ pikin dɛn we de mɛn dɛn maynd.
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