Nau neih hmain in pahnih hian in inpeih tak tak em? (Naupai hmaa inbuatsaihna) .

Naute i neih dawn lai , emaw, nau neih i ngaihtuah lai emaw chuan, tlem chuan hlauhna leh hlauthawng deuh i neih hi thil pangngai a ni. "Nu/pa tha tak ka ni dawn em ni?", "He mawhphurhna hi dik takin ka chelh thei dawn em ni?", "Engtin nge naute hi engmah tichhe lova enkawl dan ka zir theih ang?" Zawhna tam tak rilruah a lo lang thei a. Naute hi duhthusam tak, mumang mawi tak angin kan ngai fo thin. Mahse, chu mumang chhungah chuan danglamna lian tak leh mawhphurhna lian tak, mi pahnih anga kan hmachhawn tur a awm tih hi kan hrethiam tak tak em?

Nu emaw pa emaw nihna thuk tak tawn tur hian tumah 100% inpeih thei an awm lo tih chu a dik a ni. Mahse, mithiamte chuan naupai hmaa nu leh pa nih awmzia i sawi tam poh leh nau i neih hnua i nun thara insiamrem chu a awlsam zawk dawn niin an sawi. Chuvangin, vawiinah hian naute neih i tum hmaa i kawppui nen in sawi dun tur thilte i sawi dawn nia.

‘Pregnancy Test’ neih hmaa ngaihtuah tur thilte chu ‘Positive’ a ni.

"Nupa tam tak chuan naute an neih hmaa naute neih hi a tak takna hi an ngaihtuah ngai lo," tiin Dr. John Queenan, obstetrician-gynecologist chuan a sawi. "An zalenna hloh te, sum senso sang nghal mai te, an pahnih hian hna an thawh chuan naute a damloh chuan eng nge an tih ang tih te hi an ngaihtuah lo."

Mahse chu chu a danglam zel a ni. Tunah chuan doctor-te chuan naupai hi thla 9 chhunga thil thleng mai ni lovin, kum khat chhunga tih tur angin an ngai ta a ni. Chumi awmzia chu naupai hmain taksa leh rilru lamah pawh inbuatsaih a pawimawh tihna a ni. Naupai chungchang pawh i ngaihtuah hmain nu leh pa angin rilru lamah i inpeih em tih ngaihtuah hmasak a pawimawh a ni, tiin chhungkaw damdawi lam thiam Dr. Larry Culpepper chuan a sawi.

Tunlai hian damdawi in leh nau neihna hmun thenkhatah phei chuan special preconception class an nei a, chutah chuan hnathawh leh chhungkaw inthlauhna te, naute neih hian in inlaichinna a nghawng dan te, i fate thunun dan tur te a huam a ni.

He inbiakna hnua thutlukna siamte hi mi tin a inang lo thei.

• Mi thenkhat chuan, "Awle, tunah hian heng thilte hi kan pahnih hian kan inbuatsaih a ngai a ni," tiin an ngaihtuah mai thei.
• Mi dangte chuan, "Ni lo, hetiang nunphung inthlak danglamna lian tak hi kan la inpeih lo," tiin an hrethiam ang.
• Mi dangte chuan nausen piang thar mawhphurhna an lak hmain nu leh pa anga hriatna bulpui an neih a ngai niin an ngai a.

Nu leh pa nihna kawng zawh hi i ngaihtuah angin a awlsam lo.

Nu leh pa nihna zinkawng hi a harsa a, chuvangin naute lo thlen hmaa in sawiho leh chinfel theih thil eng pawh chu nausen piang thar hnathawh tawp nei lote hmachhawn tur harsatna pakhat tlem zawk a ni ang.

Nu leh pa tharte chuan sum leh pai, rilru, taksa, leh mipat hmeichhiatna lama harsatna nasa tak an tawk a ni . Mahse, a tir lama beisei dik tak siamtu nu leh pate chuan he inthlak danglamna hi an zawh theih nan an pui thei a ni. Professor Jay Belsky-a zirchianna chuan nupa 50% chu naute an neih hnuah an inthen tih hmuhchhuah a ni . Nupa 12%-13% vel chuan buaina nasa tak an tawk a, an inrintawkna leh an inneihnaah an inrintawkna an hloh tan thin. Nupa 30% chuan an inlaichinna hi an vawng reng a, mahse nupa 19% chauhvin an inhnaih zawk.

Belsky chuan, "Mi tam tak chuan naute neih hian nupa tuak khat chu inzawmna a siam belh dawn niin an ngai a, mahse chutiang chu a ni tlem hle," a ti. "In pahnih inkara inrem lohna tihpun mai mai a ni fo. Dance routine thar zir a, hla tempo tihsan nghal mai ang mai a ni."

Chuvang chuan in pahnih in inkhawm a, "Engvangin nge naute neih kan duh?" leh "Kan ngaihdan hi engtiang chiahin nge a danglam?", tih te, inhriatthiam lohna leh nawrna a awm theihna a sang hle.

Mak ti turin inbuatsaih rawh!

Eng ang pawhin thu sawi la, ruahmanna siam mah la, beisei loh thil a thleng thei a ni. Chumi atan pawh chuan i inbuatsaih a ngai a ni. Fa neih hian naute mizia leh nu leh pa anga thil tawn thar i chhân lêt dân tûr a tichiang lo.

Chuvang chuan i thunun theih tur thil sawiho leh inrem hmasak a pawimawh em em a ni. Chutiang chuan i thunun theih loh leh i beisei loh thil a lo chhuah hunah chuan a zawng zawngin a hneh lovang.

Mi pahnih an inrem vang mai mai chuan engkim a kal tluang vek dawn tihna a ni lo. Entirnan, kawppui pakhatin naute enkawl turin in lama awm reng a pawimawh tih a rel ta ang u. Pasal hna hian sum tam zawk a thlen a, chuvang chuan nupui chuan in atanga hna thawk turin a rilru a siam ta a ni. Naute a damloh chuan nupuiin a schedule a siamrem a ngai a ni. Hei hi sawiho leh thutlukna siam lawk tawh pawh ni se, a chang chuan, "Deadline ka neih hunah keimah ngeiin engkim ka ti vek tur a ni," tiin a ngaihtuah mai thei. Hetianga inhriat hi thil pangngai a ni. A pawimawh ber chu he thil chungchangah hian in pahnih inkarah hian inbiakpawhna zau tak a awm a ni.

Nu leh pa tha nih hi a thleng mai mai lo. Zir ngai thil a ni. Naute neih hmaa heng thilte ngaihtuah hi thil mak deuhin a lang mai thei. Mahse, nu leh pa nih nân hun engzat nge, chakna engzat nge a ngaih, leh inpêkna a mamawh tih ngun takin kan ngaihtuah a ngai a ni.

Heng zawng zawng sawi tawh nen hian chhanna zawng zawng i nei lo tih hi lungngai suh. Naute a pian hma hian hetiang hi tan hun tha tak a ni. Mahse, a kalphung a ni. "Vanneihthlak takin nausen piang thar hian thil tlemte a mamawh tak zet a ni. Ei an mamawh a, hmangaihna leh enkawlna an mamawh a, an thianghlim a ngai a ni," tiin naupang hriselna zirtirtu Barbara Schofield chuan a sawi. "Chu chu a mawina chu a ni. Chhanna zawng zawng kan neih nghal vek a ngai lo. Heng zawhnate hi kan sawi hma hian kan kum khatna chu tlem kan ti awlsam thei ang."