Kua rongo koe i tētahi wā kei te rerekē te whanonga a tāu tamaiti i ērā atu tamariki? Tērā pea he pai ake ki a ia te noho ko ia anake. Kāore rānei ia e titiro ki ngā kanohi o ētahi atu i a ia e kōrero ana. He mea noa ki a tātou ngā mātua te mataku me te manukanuka ina kite tātou i ēnei mea. Koinei tonu te āhua o te kaiwhakaari rongonui o te ao, a Gary Cole, i tana rongonga mō tana tamāhine. Mai i ana wheako, i tēnei rā ka kōrero tātou mō te autism, he āhuatanga e puta ai ngā raruraru i roto i te hinengaro o te tini o ngā mātua, engari ka taea te whakahaere mēnā ka mōhiotia tika.
He aha tonu te autism?
Ki te kī māmā noa, ehara te autism i te mate. He āhuatanga whanaketanga roro e pā ana ki te whanaketanga o te roro. Ka kiia e ngā tākuta ko te Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Ko te tikanga o te kupu "spectrum" he rerekē ngā pānga o te āhuatanga ki te tangata. He rite ki te āniwaniwa o ngā tae. He rerekē ngā āhuatanga o tētahi tamaiti i tētahi atu. Me nui te āwhina a ētahi ki ngā mahi o ia rā, ko ētahi ka taea te noho noa.
Ko te nuinga o tēnei āhuatanga ka puta he wero ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pāpori me ngā tauira whanonga . Arā, ka kitea ngā huringa i roto i te huarahi e taunekeneke ai te tangata me ētahi atu, e kōrero ana, e whakawhitiwhiti whakaaro ana, e whanonga ana hoki.
Ko te mea nui, ehara te autism i te mea nā te he o ngā mātua, nā te hē o te whakatipu i te tamaiti, nā tētahi atu werohanga rānei. He whakaaro hē rawa tēnā.
He aha ngā tohu e tika ana kia aro atu tātou?
Ahakoa he rerekē ēnei tohu i ia tamaiti, i ia tamaiti, tera ētahi tohu noa ka kitea. Ka kitea ēnei i te nuinga o te wā ina rua, e toru rānei ngā tau o te tamaiti. I ētahi wā ka taea te tautuhi i ēnei tohu i mua atu.
| Momo āhuatanga | Ngā tauira o ngā mea ka kitea e koe |
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| Ngā whanaungatanga pāpori me ngā wero whakawhitiwhiti kōrero |
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| Ngā Whēkenga Whakahou me te Mana Kaha Iti | |
| Ētahi atu āhuatanga noa |
He aha mēnā kei tō tamaiti ēnei tohu?
Kaua e whakaaro he autism tō tamaiti nā te mea kotahi, e rua rānei o ēnei āhuatanga kei a ia. He rerekē te tere o te whanaketanga o ia tamaiti. Heoi, ki te mea kei a koe tonu ngā feaa, he pai ake te rapu awhina ngaio kaua e whakaaro, "Kāore he aha, ka pai ake ahau ina pakeke ahau."
Ngā mea ka taea e koe hei mātua
Ki te mea he ruarua āu mō tāu tamaiti, kaua e noho roa ki aua mea. Pērā i tā Gary Cole i kī ai, "Kimihia ngā whakautu i te wā e taea ai e koe."
1. Rapua he tohutohu hauora: Ko te mea tuatahi me mahi e koe ko te toro atu ki tō Tākuta Tamariki . Kōrerohia mārire ki a ia mō ngā whanonga a tāu tamaiti me ō āwangawanga katoa. Mena e tika ana, ka tukuna koe e ia ki tētahi tohunga.Ka tukuna koe ki tētahi Tākuta Hinengaro Tamariki me te Taiohi. Ko taua tohunga anake ka taea te tautuhi tika i tēnei mate.
2. He mea nui te Wawaotanga Wawe: Ko te wawe o te tautuhi i tēnei āhuatanga, ko te wawe hoki ka taea te tautoko i te tamaiti me te whakawhanake i ōna pūkenga. Mā te whakarato i te maimoatanga me te whakangungu e tika ana i te wā taitamariki, i te wā e tere haere ana te whanaketanga o te roro o te tamaiti, ka āwhina nui i a ia ki te wikitoria i ngā wero maha ka pā ki a ia ā muri ake nei.
3. Kia tūpato ki ngā maimoatanga me te tautoko: Ahakoa kāore he rongoā mō te autism, he maha ngā maimoatanga hei whakangāwari ake i te oranga o te tamaiti, hei whakapai ake hoki i ōna pūkenga.
- Whakaora Kōrero: He āwhina ki te kōrero me te whakapuaki whakaaro.
- Whakaora Mahi: Ka ako koe ki te mahi i ngā mahi o ia rā, pērā i te parai i ō niho, te whakakakahu, me te tuhituhi.
- Whakaora Whanoke: Ka āwhina i te whakahaere i ngā whanonga hē me te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga pāpori.
- Mātauranga Motuhake: Te whakarato mātauranga e hāngai ana ki te kaha ako a te tamaiti.
I haere anō hoki a Mary, te tamāhine a Gary Cole, ki tētahi kura noa me te āwhina a tētahi kaiawhina mātauranga motuhake. I angitu anō hoki tana haere tonu i tana mātauranga i tētahi whare wānanga mātauranga motuhake i pai ki a ia. E whakaatu ana tēnei ka taea hoki e ēnei tamariki te anga whakamua mēnā ka whiwhi rātou i te tautoko tika .
He karere iti ki ngā mātua
He uaua te tiaki i tētahi tamaiti autism. Tērā pea ka ngenge koe, ā, ka pouri pea i ētahi wā. He mea noa tēnā. Engari kia mahara, ehara i te mea ko koe anake . He mano tini ngā mātua e haere ana i tēnei haerenga.
Whakanuia ngā whakatutukitanga iti a tāu tamaiti. Whakanuia ina titiro tuatahi mai ia ki ō kanohi, ina kōrero ia i tētahi kupu hou, ina ako ia i tētahi mea hou. Mā te manawanui, te aroha, me te ārahi tika, ka taea e koe te whakatakoto i te ara mō tāu tamaiti kia ora i tētahi oranga harikoa, whai tikanga.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ehara te autism i te mate, engari he āhuatanga e pā ana ki te whanaketanga o te roro. He rerekē te pānga ki ia tangata (Spectrum).
- Kia tūpato ki ngā tohu pēnei i te koretake o tāu tamaiti ki te whakahoahoa, te whakaroa i te kōrero, me ngā whanonga auau.
- Ki te mea he ruarua āu, kaua e whakaaro "ka kite tātou ā muri ake nei" engari me toro atu ki tētahi tākuta tamariki i te wā e taea ai.
- He mea tino nui mō te heke mai o te tamaiti te tere o te tautuhi i te mate, me te whakarato i te tautoko rongoā e tika ana.
- Mā te aroha tika, te manaaki tika, me te tautoko tika, ka taea e ngā tamariki autism te whakatutuki i ō rātou pūmanawa katoa.











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