Me whai hononga hohonu hoki koe ki ngā kare ā-roto kia taea ai e koe te kukume i te tangata ki tētahi? (Te ira tangata-kore) Me kōrero tāua!

Kei te pēnei anō hoki ō whakaaro i ētahi wā? Ina kī mai ō hoa, "Āe, he tino ataahua ia, kei te aroha ahau ki a ia" i tō tūtakitanga tuatahi ki tētahi tangata hou, kāore ianei koe i te pērā te whakaaro? Kāore rānei koe e tino hiahia ana ki tētahi i muri i tō mōhio pai ki a ia, i tō whanaungatanga tata, i tō hononga hōhonu rānei? Koinei te momo āhuatanga ka kōrerohia e tātou i tēnei rā. Ka kiia tēnei ko te 'Whakakore ira tangata'.

He aha te 'Whakakorenga ira tangata'?

He whakarāpopototanga noa iho, ko te 'Whakatānetanga' he hiahia ā-ira tangata . Ko te hunga e kī ana he 'Whakatānetanga' ka arohia ā-ira tangata ki tētahi tangata i muri i te whakawhanaketanga o tētahi hononga kare ā-roto hohonu ki taua tangata. Ki te whakatauritea ki te taupori whānui, he tino onge te wheako o te nuinga o te hunga 'Whakatānetanga' i te hiahia ā-ira tangata . Ko ētahi he iti noa iho te hiahia ki te mahi ā-ira tangata, kāore rānei he hiahia.

Whakaarohia, ka taea e te nuinga o te tangata te rongo i te hiahia ā-ira ki tētahi, ahakoa he hononga kare ā-roto tō rātou ki a rātou, kāore rānei. Ka taea e rātou te aro ā-ira ki tētahi tangata kāore rātou i te mōhio, kāore rānei i te tūtaki mō te wā tuatahi. Engari kāore te 'Demisexual' e rongo i tēnei hiahia ā-ira tuatahi.

Engari he mea nui kia maumahara kāore he taurangi ka arahi te hononga hinengaro ki te kukume i te moepuku. Heoi, he mea nui taua hononga mō te whakaaro noa ki te mahi moepuku. Ahakoa ka puta taua kukume moepuku, he iti noa te kaha o te hiahia mō te mahi moepuku.

He rerekē te roa o te wā e whanake ai tēnei hononga kare ā-roto i ia tangata, i ia tangata. Mō ētahi 'Tangata Takatāpui', ka tere te whanake o tēnei hononga. Mō ētahi atu, ka taea te tupu i muri i ngā tau maha o te whakaipoipo. Kāore e tika kia waiho tēnei hononga kare ā-roto hei 'kare ā-aroha'. Ka taea hoki te noho hei hoa piripono, hoa aroha.

Me pēhea taku mōhio ki tōku tuakiri? He whakamātautau kei reira mō te 'whakatānetanga'?

Kāo, kāore he whakamātautau e taea ai te whakaatu tika i tō ira tangata . Engari ka taea e koe te pātai ki a koe anō i ēnei pātai:

• Ko wai te tangata e hiahia ana koe ki te moepuku? He aha ō kare ā-roto e pā ana ki a rātou?
• Kei te rongo koe i te hiahia ā-ira tangata? Mena koinā, e hia ngā wā? E hia te kaha o te kare ā-ira?
• He pēhea te hiranga o te kukume i te taatai ​​ina whakatau koe ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi?
• Kei te kite koe kei te kukume koe i a koe anō ki ngā tāngata hou ka tūtaki koe, kāore koe i te mōhio?

Kāore he whakautu tika, kāore hoki he whakautu hē ki ēnei pātai.Engari mā te whakaaroaro ki ēnei pātai ka taea e koe te tīmata ki te mārama ki tō tuakiri ira tangata .

He aha te tikanga o te "kore ira tangata" me te " kore ira tangata" ?

Ko te hunga e kī ana he "kore ira tangata" he iti noa iho, kāore rānei he hiahia moepuku. Tērā pea ka ngaro atu hoki tō rātou hiahia ki ngā take moepuku.

I ētahi wā ka whakarōpūtia te hunga takatāpui ki raro i te kupu "kore ira tangata" nā te mea kāore rātou e rongo i te kukume i te moepuku i ngā wā katoa. Heoi, ka taea e rātou te rongo i te kukume i te moepuku me te hiahia ki ngā mea moepuku i muri i te hanganga o tētahi hononga kare ā-roto ki tētahi.

Ko te ritenga kē o te kore-ira tangata ko te allosexual. Ko te hunga e kī ana he allosexual rātou, ka pāngia e te hiahia ā-ira tangata, ahakoa te āhua o ō rātou hiahia ā-ira tangata.

He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te 'Demisexual' me te 'Graysexual'?

He āhua ōrite te "Whakahekenga-ira-tangata" me te "Hinengaro-ā-ira-tangata", engari he iti noa te rerekētanga. Ko te hunga e kī ana he "Hinengaro-ā-tangata" kāore i te tino pāngia e te hiahia moepuku, kāore rānei i te tino hiahia ki te moepuku. Heoi, he rerekē ki te hunga "Whakahekenga-ā-tangata", kāore te hunga "Hinengaro-ā-tangata" e hiahia ana ki tētahi hononga kare ā-roto kia pāngia ai e te hiahia moepuku. Koinei te rerekētanga matua.

He aha tēnei mea 'Demiromantic'?

He rite te 'Demiromanticism' ki te 'Demisexuality', engari he rerekētanga iti. Kia taea ai e te tangata 'Demiromantic' te rongo i ngā kare ā-roto aroha ki tētahi, me whai hononga hinengaro tuatahi rātou ki taua tangata. Ehara i te mea e kōrero ana mātou mō te kukume i te moepuku, engari e kōrero ana mātou mō ngā kare ā-roto aroha i konei. Ka taea e te tangata whai ira tangata te 'Demiromantic'.

He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te 'Demisexual' me te 'Pansexual'?

Ko te hunga e kī ana he "Pansexual" rātou, ka kukumea ā-ira tangata ki tētahi tangata, ahakoa he aha tō rātou ira tangata, he tuakiri ā-ira tangata rānei. Ka taea e te tangata te "Pansexual" me te "Demisexual" i te wā kotahi. Ko te tikanga o tēnei ka taea e rātou te kukumea ki tētahi o ngā tuakiri ā-ira tangata katoa, engari kia puta ai taua kukume, me puta tuatahi te hononga kare ā-roto kua whakahuatia ake nei.

Ka taea e te tangata te noho hei "Tae-ira-kore" ahakoa he "Tae-ira-kore" ia?

Ae, e tino taea ana. E mōhio ana tātou he maha ngā tapanga mō te hiahia ā-ira tangata, pērā i te 'Heterosexual' (e kukume ana ki te ira tangata kē), te 'Gay' (takatāpui), te 'Lesbian' (takatāpui), te 'Bisexual' (e kukume ana ki ngā ira tangata e rua) me te 'Pansexual' (e kukume ana ki ngā tuakiri ā-ira tangata katoa).

He rerekē te tapanga 'Te Whakakore i te Ira Tangata'. E pā ana ki te āhua o te kukume e pā ana ki ētahi atu me te āhua o tōna putanga mai.Mō. He maha ngā tāngata e whakaatu ana i a rātou anō i ngā huarahi e rua. Hei tauira, ka taea e koe te 'Heterosexual' engari he 'Demisexual' anō hoki, ka taea rānei e koe te 'Pansexual' engari he 'Demisexual' anō hoki. Ki te kī ngāwari, ko te 'Demisexuality' ehara i te mea ko wai koe e kukume ana i a koe, engari me pēhea te puta o taua kukume.

He aha i hiahiatia ai he tapanga motuhake, he ingoa motuhake rānei mō tēnei 'Whakarerekētanga ira tangata'?

Tērā pea kei te miharo koe ki tēnei. Ina hoki, mō te tini o te hunga e kī ana he 'Tetahi ira tangata', mā te whai i tēnei tapanga ka puta he wairua hapori, he wairua nō rātou anō hoki, he wairua kāore rātou i te mokemoke, ā, kei reira anō ētahi atu e rite ana ki a rātou .

Whakaarohia, tera pea kua roa rātou e pāngia ana e te ahotea me te pōhēhē mai i tō rātou tamarikitanga, e whakaaro ana, "He aha te hē o taku?", "He rerekē ahau i ētahi atu?", nā te mea kāore i a rātou te hiahia moepuku, te hiahia rānei ki ngā mea moepuku e rite ana ki ō rātou hoa e karapoti ana i a rātou.

He mea nui te ingoa 'Te Whakaheke Ira Tangata' mō ēnei take:

• Ka āwhina i te hunga tahae ira tangata ki te kimi i tētahi hapori e taea ai e rātou te tautuhi i a rātou anō.
• Mā te kimi i tō rātou tuakiri ka āwhina i te hunga tahae-ira kia noho haumaru ake, kia mōhio ai hoki kāore rātou i te mokemoke .
• Hei tāpiri, mā tēnei ingoa ka mārama tātou he mea noa te kukume me ngā kare ā-roto o te moepuku, ā, ka rerekē te wheako o ia tangata, i runga i te "aronga", ā, he "tika" aua kare ā-roto katoa .
• Mā tēnei tapanga ka hoatu he kupu ki a rātou hei tautuhi mārama i tētahi mea e pā ana ki a rātou, kāore i taea e rātou te whakaahua i mua.

Hei whakamutunga, ngā mea hei maumahara (Karere hei tango ki te kāinga)

Nō reira, ko tāku tumanako kua mārama koe ki tētahi mea mai i tā tātou i kōrero ai. Ko te 'Demisexual' e pā ana ki te hunga ka rongo i te hiahia ā-ira tangata i muri i te hanganga o tētahi hononga kare ā-roto hōhonu ki tētahi.

Kei raro i te wāhanga kore-ira tangata te whakarōpūtanga o te whakarōpūtanga, nā te mea he iti iho hoki ngā hiahia moepuku o te hunga whakarōpūtanga i te toharite. Heoi, he rōpū motuhake te hunga whakarōpūtanga, nā te mea ka taea e rātou te whakawhanake i te kukume moepuku me te hiahia ki te whai wāhi ki te mahi moepuku i muri i te hanganga o taua hononga kare ā-roto ki tētahi.

Ahakoa te uaua o te kōrero mō ēnei mea i roto i tō tātou hapori, he mea nui kia mārama koe ki a koe anō me te whakaute i ō kare ā-roto.

Ki te mea kei a koe ēnei kare ā-roto, ā, me āwhina koe ki te kōrero atu mō ēnei kare ā-roto, ki te mārama rānei ki ēnei kare ā-roto, kaua e whakamā. Tirohia he tākuta, he kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro whai tohu rānei. Ka taea e rātou te āwhina i a koe ki te tūhura i ēnei kare ā-roto, te hoatu i ngā rauemi e hiahiatia ana e koe hei kimi i tō tuakiri, me te ārahi i a koe. Kāore koe i te mokemoke!