Kei te tukino tetahi i a koe? Me pēhea koe e tono āwhina ai? (Te Tukino Tamariki) Me kōrero tāua mō tēnei!

He tino uaua te ao i ētahi wā, tika? Ina koa ka whara kino tetahi i a koe, ka whakamataku i a koe, ka mahi kino rānei i a koe. Koinei te mea e kiia nei e tātou ko te tukino . Ahakoa he kaupapa uaua tēnei ki te kōrero, he mea nui kia mōhio koe kāore koe i te mokemoke, ā, ka taea e koe te tiki āwhina.

He aha rawa te tūkino?

Ki te kī māmā noa, ko te tukino he whara ā-tinana, ā-hinengaro, ā-ira tangata, ā-pāngarau rānei i a koe, he mea rānei e kore e arohia koe. He maha ngā huarahi e pā ai tēnei. Me titiro tātou ki ngā huarahi matua.

1. Te Tūkino Tinana

Ko te tikanga tēnei kei te whara tinana koe i tētahi. Whakaarohia...

• Ka whiua koe e rātou, ka hoatu hoki he kupu tohutohu kino ki a koe.
• E kaha ana te pana, e whiua ana ki te whenua.
• Te patu ki tētahi mea (whitiki, rākau).
• Kei te mura tetahi mea i roto i ahau.
• Kei te herea ō waewae.

Koinei ngā mea e kiia nei ko te tukino tinana. I ētahi wā ka puta, ka tangohia rānei ngā whara me ngā koha i te tinana. Engari ki te mamae, he tukino.

2. Te Tūkino Hinengaro, te Tūkino Ā-hinengaro rānei

He mea tēnei e tino mamae ai te hinengaro, ahakoa kāore e kitea ngā whara o te tinana.

• Kei te riria tonutia koe, kei te hamamatia hoki.
• Ka kōrero kino rātou i a koe i te huarahi e mamae ai ōu kare ā-roto, ka whakaiti hoki i a koe i te aroaro o te iwi.
• E mea tonu ana rātou i ngā mea pēnei i te, "Kāore koe e whai hua," "Kāore he mea e taea e koe."
• Kei te mataku koe, kei te whakawehihia hoki.
• Kāore rātou e tuku i a koe ki te mahi i ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe, kāore rātou e tuku i a koe kia kōrero ki ō hoa.
• Kei te wareware rātou ki a koe, ā, e kore rawa e aro ki a koe.

Ka taea e ēnei momo mea te whakapouri i a koe, te mataku, me te ngaro o te whakapono ki a koe anō.

3. Te Tūkino ā-Ira Tangata

Koinei te wāhanga tino uaua ki te kōrero, engari he mea tino nui. Ko te tukino ā-ira tangata ko te pā atu o tētahi ki a koe me te kore whakaae mai, te akiaki i a koe ki te whakaatu i ngā mea ā-ira tangata ki a rātou, te akiaki rānei i a koe ki te mahi i ngā mea ā-ira tangata.

• Ka pā atu rātou ki ō wāhanga tūmataiti , ka titiro atu hoki.
• Ka kihi, ka awhi rātou i a koe i te mea kāore i te tika.
• Ka tono rātou kia mātaki koe i ngā whakaahua me ngā ataata moepuku.
• Ka akiaki rātou i a tātou ki te kōrero mō te taatai.
• Kei te whakamahi koe i tō tinana i ngā huarahi kāore koe e mārama, kāore hoki e pai ki a koe.

Ehara tēnei i te he nāu. Ki te meatia tēnei e tetahi ki a koe, nō taua tangata anake te he.

4. Te wareware

Ko te tikanga o tēnei, ko te tangata e tika ana kia tiaki i a koe, kāore e hoatu ana ki a koe ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e koe.

• E kore rātou e tuku i a koe kia kai, kia inu tika rānei.
• Kāore rātou e hoatu he kākahu ma ki a koe hei kakahu.
• Ina pāngia koe e te mate, kāore koe e haere ki te tākuta.
• Kāore rātou e tuku ana i a rātou ki te kura, kāore hoki rātou e āwhina ana i tā rātou mātauranga.
• Kāore rātou e tiaki i a koe, ka waiho noa iho koe i ngā wāhi morearea.

Ka taea e ēnei momo mahi te kino ki tō tinana me tō hinengaro.

Kia maumahara, ko te kaitūkino pea he tangata e mōhio ana koe. He mema o te whānau, he whanaunga, he hoa, he kaiako, he tangata tauhou rānei. Ko te tangata e mahi ana i tēnei, he hē.

Ehara tēnei i tōu he!

Koinei te mea me maumahara koe. Ehara i te mea he he nāu te tukinotanga. I ētahi wā ka mea pea te tangata e tukino ana i a koe, "Nōu te he." Me kī rānei, "Me i kore koe e mahi i tēnei, kua kore ahau e mahi i tēnei." He teka ēnei.

• Ahakoa he aha tāu e kakahu ai,
• Ahakoa he aha tāu e kī ai,
• Ahakoa te wāhi e haere ai koe,
• Ahakoa tāu e mahi ai,

Kāore he mana o tetahi ki te whara i a koe. He tika tōu kia noho haumaru, kia harikoa hoki. He mea noa te pōuri, te mataku, me te pōhēhē ina pā mai tētahi mea kino ki a koe. Engari ehara i te mea nāu te he.

Mā wai e kōrero atu mō tēnei? (He pakeke pono)

Ki te mea kei te pāngia koe e tēnei āhuatanga, ko te mea nui ko te kōrero mōna. Kōrero atu ki tētahi pakeke e whakawhirinaki ana koe. Mā taua tangata koe e āwhina. Whakaarohia, ko wai tāu e whakawhirinaki ana?

• Māmā, Pāpā, tētahi atu mema o te whānau rānei: He tangata pēnei i ō mātua, tuakana, tuahine, kuia, koroua rānei.
• He whanaunga: He whaea kēkē, he matua kēkē rānei e tata ana ki a koe.
• Mātua o te hoa: He whaea, he matua rānei o te hoa e whakawhirinakihia ana e koe.
• He kaiako, he kaiārahi kura rānei: He kaiako i tō kura, te tumuaki, te rangatira/kuia, te kaiārahi kura rānei.
• Tākuta, Nēhi rānei: Ina haere koe ki te kite i tētahi tākuta, ka taea e koe te kōrero ki taua tangata.
• He rangatira whakapono: He rite ki te tohunga i roto i te temepara, ki te matua tāne/tuahine i roto i te hāhi.

Me pēhea tāu kōrero ki a rātou? Tērā pea ka mataku koe ki te kōrero i tēnei. Engari kia māia koe, ka tīmata pēnei:

• "He mea tēnei māku e kōrero atu ki a koe."
• "Me kōrero tāua mō tētahi wā poto."
• "Me āwhina ahau."

I a rātou e whakarongo ana, kōrerotia ki a rātou te mea i pā ki a koe. Kōrerotia ki a rātou e hiahia ana koe ki tā rātou āwhina. Ki te mea he uaua ki a koe te kōrero i ngā mea katoa i te wā kotahi, kōrerotia mārire. Ko te mea nui ko te tīmata.

A, mehemea kāore he pakeke e tata ana ki a koe e whakawhirinaki ana ki a koe? Kei te wehi rānei koe ki te kōrero ki a rātou?

I ētahi wā, kāore pea he pakeke e tata ana ki a koe hei whakawhirinaki atu. Ki te mea rānei kei te tukinotia koe e tētahi o tō whānau, tera pea ka wehi koe ki te kōrero ki ētahi atu. Engari kāore koe i te mokemoke. Tērā atu anō ngā huarahi hei tiki āwhina.

Ngā Waea Āwhina me ngā Waea Āwhina

I Sri Lanka, kei reira ngā whakahaere motuhake me ngā nama waea hei āwhina i a koe i ngā wā penei. Ka taea e koe te waea atu ki ēnei me te tono āwhina.

• Mana Tiaki Tamariki ā-Motu (NCPA): Nama waea 1929.Koinei te tari kāwanatanga matua e aro ana ki te tukino tamariki. Ka taea e koe te waea atu ki tēnei nama i ngā wā katoa o te rā. Ka whakarongo rātou ki a koe, ā, ka whakarato i te āwhina e hiahiatia ana e koe.
• Nama āwhina ā- Pirihimana: 119. Mena kei roto koe i tētahi aituā, kei te hiahia āwhina wawe rānei, waea atu ki tēnei nama.
• Ngā Wāhine e Hiahia Ana (WIN): Nama waea 0112671411. Ka āwhina tēnei whakahaere i ngā wāhine me ngā tamariki i roto i ngā āhuatanga tutu.
• Ngā Hoa : Ngā nama waea 0112692909, 0112696666. Mena kei te pouri koe, kei te pōuri, ā, kāore he tangata hei kōrero atu, ka taea e koe te waea atu ki ēnei tāngata. Ka whakarongo rātou ki a koe, ka hoatu hoki i te arataki e hiahiatia ana e koe.

Kua whakangungua ngā tāngata i runga i ēnei raina āwhina. E whakarongo pai ana rātou ki tāu e kōrero nei, kāore rātou e whakahē i a koe, ā, e āwhina ana rātou i a koe.

Ka aha koe mēnā kei roto koe i te mōrearea tonu?

Ki te mea kei roto koe i te mōrearea nui i tō wāhi noho, me mahi tonu koe. 1. Ki te taea, neke ki tētahi wāhi haumaru. Arā, mawehe atu i te tangata e tukino ana i a koe. 2. Waea atu ki tētahi nama ohorere. I Sri Lanka, ko 119 tēnei (pirihimana). 3. Ina waea atu koe , homai tō ingoa (he nui tō ingoa tuatahi) me tō wāhi tika. Mā tēnei ka taea e rātou te haere wawe mai ki a koe me te āwhina i a koe.

• Hei tauira: "Kia ora, ko [tō ingoa] ahau. Kei [tō wāhitau, tō waitohu rānei] ahau. Kei roto ahau i tētahi aituā. Tēnā koa āwhina mai!"

He mea nui: Ki te taea e koe, me mahi ēnei mea i roto i te huarahi e kore ai te tangata e whakatoi ana i a koe e kite. Ko tō haumaru te mea tuatahi.

Kia tūpato hoki i te ipurangi (Haumarutanga Ipurangi)

I ēnei rā, he nui te wā e pau ana i a tātou ki te Ipurangi me ngā pāpāho pāpori, kāore? Pērā i te ao o ia rā, ka taea hoki tātou te tukinotia i runga ipurangi. Ka kiia hoki tēnei he "Whakatoi Ipurangi".

• Ki te tukuna atu e tetahi he karere kino ki a koe,
• Ki te tukuna ō whakaahua me te kore ō whakaaetanga,
• Ki te mea kei te mahi koe i ngā mea ipurangi e whakamataku ai koe,
• Ki te pātaihia koe mō ngā pikitia kāore i te tika,

He whakatoi tēnā. Mēnā ka puta he mea pēnei, me kōrero ki tētahi pakeke pono. Kaua hoki e muku i aua karere me aua pikitia, engari puritia hei taunakitanga.

Kia maumahara, kei te wātea tonu te āwhina!

E mōhio ana mātou ehara i te mea ngāwari te kōrero mō tēnei momo mea. Tērā pea ka mataku koe, ka whakama, ka pouri rānei. Engari kāore koe e hiahia ki te pā ki ēnei mea ko koe anake.

• Tērā ētahi tāngata e hiahia ana ki te whakarongo ki a koe, ki te whakapono ki a koe, ā, ki te āwhina i a koe.
• Kei a koe te tika katoa ki te noho haumaru, ki te noho motuhake hoki i waho o te tutu.
• Ko te kōrero te taahiraa tuatahi. He taahiraa nui tēnā.

I ētahi wā, ki te kōrero koe ki tētahi pakeke, kāore rātou e mārama ki a koe, kāore rānei e āwhina i a koe, kaua e ngākau rua.Kōrero atu ki tētahi atu. Me ngana tonu kia whiwhi āwhina koe.

Hei whakamutunga, kia maumahara ki tēnei (Karere hei tango ki te kāinga)

Āe, me arotake tātou i ētahi o ngā mea hei maumahara māu mai i ngā mea i kōrerohia e tātou i tēnei rā:

• He hē te tukino. He hē tonu ahakoa ko wai te kaimahi, ahakoa te āhua o te mahi.
• Ehara i te mea nōu te he. Kāore he take e whai kawenga ai koe mō tetahi mea.
• Kāore koe i te mokemoke. Tērā ētahi tāngata hei āwhina i a koe, ā, e hiahia ana hoki ki te āwhina i a koe.
• Kōrero ki tētahi pakeke e whakawhirinakihia ana. Tērā pea ko ō mātua, he whanaunga, he kaiako, he tākuta rānei.
• Mena kāore he tangata pērā, ki te wehi rānei koe ki te kōrero, waea atu ki tētahi ratonga āwhina pēnei i te 1929 (National Child Protection Authority).
• Mena kei roto koe i te mōrearea tonu, waea atu ki te 119.
• Ko te kōrero te taahiraa tuatahi, te taahiraa nui rawa atu hoki ka taea e koe te mahi hei watea atu. Kei te inoi mātou kia kitea e koe te kaha ki te mahi pera.

Mena kei roto koe i tētahi āhuatanga uaua i tēnei wā, he taahiraa nui kua mahia e koe te pānui i tēnei tuhinga. Kaua e wehi ki te tono āwhina. He mea nui koe, e tika ana kia tiakina koe.

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` Te tukino i te tamaiti, te tutu, te tono awhina, te haumaru, ngā waea awhina ohorere o Sri Lanka, NCPA 1929, te hauora hinengaro