He 'pūtaiao hinengaro' koe? Me kōrero māmā noa iho tēnei!

Kua rongo pea koe i te kupu 'neurotypical' i tētahi wāhi. Tērā pea i runga i te ipurangi, i tētahi hoa rānei. Ehara i te kupu hauora e whakamahia pinepinetia ana e ā mātou tākuta. Engari he kupu nui tēnei ina tae mai ki te whanaketanga me te mahi a ngā roro o te tangata. Ki te kī noa, ko te 'neurotypical' te huarahi e whanake ai, e mahi ai hoki ngā roro o te nuinga o te tangata o te ao.

He aha te 'neurotypical'? He tino māmā noa iho!

Ko te 'neurotypical', whakaarohia, ko te āhua o te whanaketanga me te mahi a ngā roro o te nuinga o te taupori o te ao, arā, tata ki te 80% ki te 85% o te tangata. He rite tonu te taumata o ngā pūkenga o ēnei roro, hei tauira, te mahara, te pūkenga pāngarau, me te āheinga ki te mārama ki ngā kōrero.

Engari ko te mea nui i konei, ehara mātou i te kī he pai te noho 'neurotypical', kāore hoki te hunga kāore i te 'neurodivergent' he kino. He rite tonu ki te tae o tō makawe, ki te tae o tō kiri. He āhuatanga motuhake tēnei ki ia tangata, ehara i te mea ka taea te ine he pai, he kino rānei. He rerekē tātou katoa tetahi i tetahi, ā, koinei te āhua.

He aha tātou ka mangere ai ki te whakamahi i te kupu "noa"?

Inaianei pea kei te whakaaro koe, "Nā, he aha e kore ai e karanga noa i tētahi he 'neurotypical' kaua ko te 'noa'?" Anei te take. Kāore he roro e rua e ōrite ana. Whakaarohia, e 86 piriona ngā neuron i roto i te roro tangata, arā, ngā pūtau e kōrero ana tetahi ki tetahi mā roto i ngā tohu hiko me ngā tohu matū! Ko ngā hononga i waenga i ēnei neuron e kiia ana ko ngā synapses . E tiriona ngā synapses o ēnei i roto i tō roro. Ko tēnei whatunga synapses te mea e hanga ana i a koe ko wai koe, ā, he 100% ahurei ki a koe.

Nō reira, ki te mea he motuhake ia roro, he uaua ki te tautuhi i tētahi "roro noa", tika? Koia mātou ka titiro ki te āhua o te mahi a te roro, ka kiia he 'neurotypical', koinei te āhua o te mahi a te nuinga o ngā roro o te tangata. Ehara i te mea koinei anake te huarahi "tika".

He aha ētahi āhuatanga o te ao hei tangata 'neurotypical'?

Hei tangata 'neurotypical', tērā pea ka kitea e koe he iti ake te tūponotanga ki te aro atu ki ētahi o ngā wero e pā ana ki te hunga 'neurodivergent' i ētahi wā. Nā te mea he maha ngā mea i roto i tō tātou hapori, kura, me ngā wāhi mahi kua hangaia kia rite ki te nuinga, arā, ki te hunga 'neurotypical'. Me titiro tātou ki ētahi tauira:

Te whakatikatika me te urutau pāpori

Hei tangata 'neurotypical', ka taea e koe te urutau ki ētahi atu tāngata o te hapori me te kore he uaua. Kāore koe i te hiahia nui ki te whakaari i a koe anō kia rite ki ētahi atu (e kiia ana tēnei ko te "masking"). E whakaae ana te hapori ki a koe mō tō āhua i te nuinga o te wā. Nō reira, kāore koe e mataku pinepine pēnei i te, "Ka peia ahau e te tangata?" "Ka whakaaro hē rātou mōku?"

Ngā mahi kura me te mātauranga

He maha ngā wā, ko te āhua o te whakaako a ngā kura me ngā mahi i roto i ngā akomanga he mea hanga kia māmā ai te mārama ki ngā tamariki 'pūtaiao hinengaro'. Nō reira, ko ngā mea pēnei i te aro tonu ki tētahi akoranga me te whai i ngā tohutohu, kāore pea i te uaua nui māu.

Hei tauira, ina whakaako ana te kaiako i tētahi akoranga i te kura, he māmā noa iho pea mā te tamaiti 'pūtaiao roro' te whakarongo tonu, te mārama ki taua mea, me te whakautu i ngā pātai ina pātaihia.

Te tukatuka i ngā pūoko

Kei te whiwhi tonu tātou i ngā kōrero mai i ō tātou mātakitaki e rima (ngā kanohi, ngā taringa, te ihu, te arero, te kiri). Ko te tangata 'neurotypical' kāore he raruraru nui ki te huarahi e tukatukahia ai ēnei kōrero e te roro. Ko te tikanga ka taea e rātou te wareware ki ētahi kakara kino, ngā oro, me ngā pā, te whakaiti rānei i tō rātou pānga. He nui ake te tūponotanga ka taea e rātou te noho marino, ā, kāore e ngawari te riri (`(overwhelm)` `((overstimulated)` rānei) ahakoa i roto i ngā taiao kīkī, haruru.

• Whakaarohia, i a koe e eke ana i runga pahi, ka rangona e koe he nui te haruru, ā, me whakatere koe i roto i ngā mano tini. Tērā pea ka taea e te tangata 'neurotypical' te whakatau i ēnei mea, ā, ka tae atu ki tōna ūnga me te kore e nui te uaua.

Ngā hononga pāpori me te kōrerorero

Ina kōrero tātou ki te tangata, ina mahi pakihi tātou ki a rātou, he maha ngā ture me ngā tumanakohanga kāore i te kōrerotia. Hei tauira, ko ngā mea pēnei i te titiro ki te kanohi o te tangata i a rātou e kōrero ana, me te whakautu tika ki tā rātou kōrero. Ko te hunga 'neurotypical' he māmā ake te mārama ki ēnei ture pāpori kāore i te kōrerotia, me te whanonga i runga i tēnā. Nō reira, ka māmā ake te taunekeneke pāpori mā rātou.

He mea pumau tonu te noho hei 'pūtaiao hinengaro' mō te wa katoa? Kāore rawa!

Kāore, ehara tēnā i te pono. Tērā pea ka rerekē te mahi roro o te tangata i whānau mai he 'neurotypical', ā, ka whakaatu i ngā āhuatanga 'neurodivergent'. Ka kiia tēnei ko te "acquired neurodivergence".

He whakarāpopototanga noa iho, ka rerekē te mahi a te roro nā te awe o tētahi mea ki a ia i tētahi wā o te ao. Ehara tēnei i te mea kino. He huringa noa iho.

Me pēhea te puta o tēnei "kanorau roro kua riro mai"?

Tērā pea he maha ngā take mō tēnei:

• Ngā mate roro e pā ana ki te koroheketanga: Hei tauira, ko ngā mate pēnei i te mate a Alzheimer ka whakarerekē tonu i te mahi a te roro.
• Ngā whara o te mahunga me ngā whara o te roro: Whakaarohia ngā whara roro , ngā whara roro kino rānei (TBI) , ka taea ai te ngaro o te mahara mō te wā poto, te uaua ki te arotahi, me ngā huringa whanonga.
• Ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro, ngā āhuatanga pōuri rānei: Hei tauira, ētahi āhuatanga hauora hinengaroKa taea e ngā mea pēnei i te `(Pouri)` me te `(Manukanuka)` te whakarerekē i ngā tukanga matū me te mahi a te roro. Waihoki, ko ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te `(Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD)`, he urupare tiaki a te roro ina tūtaki ki ngā huihuinga nui o te mamae, ka taea te whakarerekē i te huarahi e mahi ai te roro.

Heoi, kua kitea e ētahi rangahau, me te kore ēnei take, he tino onge i ētahi wā, ā, kāore he take e kitea ana, ka tīmata te tangata 'neurodivergent' ki te whakaatu i ngā āhuatanga 'neurodivergent'. Engari he tino onge tēnā.

Ka taea e ngā mātua 'neurotypical' te whānau tamariki 'neurodivergent'?

Āe, e tino taea ana! Waihoki, ka taea e ngā mātua he rerekē te momo roro te whānau tamariki. Ehara tēnei i te mea kotahi te taha.

Ka pāngia te tūponotanga o te tangata ki te rerekētanga o ōna pūnaha io e ngā ira. Hei tauira, ka taea te tuku iho i ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) me te Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) i roto i ngā whānau. Heoi, kāore anō kia tino mārama ngā tohunga ki te āhua, ki te take rānei e pā ai ēnei āhuatanga ki ētahi tāngata. Ā, he maha ngā āhuatanga ka whai wāhi, ehara i te mea ko ngā ira anake. Nō reira, ahakoa kei te mātua ēnei āhuatanga, ehara i te mea ka riro mai i tā rātou tamaiti.

Ko te mea nui: ehara tēnei i te pātai "pai-kino", he rerekētanga noa iho!

Ina kōrero tātou mō te 'neurotypical' me te 'neurodivergent', he mea nui kia mahara ehara tēnei i te mea "noa" me te "rerekē", te "pai" me te "kino". He rerekētanga noa iho. Ko te noho kotahi te huarahi he wāhanga noa iho o te tangata, ā, kāore e whakatau i tōna uara katoa.

Whakaarohia, ko ētahi tāngata e tuhituhi ana ki ō rātou ringa matau, ko ētahi ki ō rātou ringa maui. He rerekētanga noa iho, ā, kāore e taea te kī he pai ake, he kino ake rānei tētahi i tētahi. Pērā anō hoki tēnei.

Mena he 'neurotypical' koe, tera pea he rerekē te mahi a tō roro i tō tētahi he 'neurodiversary'. Engari he maha ngā āhuatanga ōrite o kōrua. He tangata kōrua, ā, e hiahia ana kōrua kia ora harikoa, kia ora hauora.

He tino painga mō te katoa te tautoko i ngā 'neurodiversity' me te waihanga i tētahi taiao e pai ana mō rātou. Me whai tātou katoa kia whai hapori e taea ai e ngā 'neurodiversity' me ngā 'neurotypicals' te noho harikoa.

Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga

Āe, anei ētahi mea hei maumahara māu mai i ngā mea kua kōrerohia e tātou:

• Ko te 'Neurotypical' e pā ana ki te tauira whānui e whanake ana, e mahi ana hoki ngā roro o te nuinga o te tangata. Ehara i te mea he mate hauora.
• TeneiEhara i te mea he "noa" he "rerekē" he "pai" rānei he "kino." He wāhanga noa iho tēnei o te kanorau (te kanorau roro) kei roto i te roro o te tangata.
• Kāore pea te noho hei 'pūtaiao io' e noho tonu mō te wā roa. Ka taea e te "whakarerekētanga io kua whiwhihia" te whakarerekē i te mahi a te roro o te tangata.
• Ka taea e ngā mātua 'neurotypical' te whānau tamariki 'neurodiversant', ā, ka taea hoki e ngā mātua 'neurodiversant' te whānau tamariki 'neurotypical'.
• Ko te mea nui ko te mārama, te whakaae, me te whakaute i ngā rerekētanga o tētahi ki tētahi. Me tumanako tātou katoa ki tētahi hapori e whakaae ana ki te kanorau, ā, e manaaki ōrite ana i te katoa.

Nō reira, ki taku whakaaro kua mārama ake koe ki te kupu 'neurotypical'. Mā te mōhio ki ēnei mea ka pai ake tō tātou mārama tetahi ki tetahi.

` Ngā āhuatanga o te roro, te kanorau o te roro, te whanaketanga o te roro, te roro noa, te pūnaha io, te hauora hinengaro