Te Hiahia mō ngā Māhanga me te IVF - Me kōrero tātou mō tēnei!

Ko te whakatutuki i tō moemoeā kia noho hei whaea, hei matua rānei, ehara i te mea ngāwari pērā i tō whakaaro. Whai muri i te tatari mō ngā tau maha mō tētahi tamaiti, te mamae nui, ā, i te mutunga ka rapu awhina i tētahi hangarau pēnei i te IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ), he maha ngā mea ka puta ake ki te hinengaro. I roto i aua mea, ko te whakaaro matua e puta ake ana ki te tini o te tangata, "Me i taea e tātou te whakaoti i tēnei haerenga i te kotahi haere...". He māmā noa iho, ko te kare ā-roto o te pai o te whai māhanga i te utu kotahi me te kaha kotahi.

He aha te take e nui ai te aroha o te tini ki ngā māhanga?

Ko te take matua mō tēnei ko te utu nui o te maimoatanga IVF. E mōhio ana tātou katoa ahakoa i Sri Lanka, he rau mano rūpī te utu mō te huringa IVF kotahi. I ētahi wā, kāore te maimoatanga e angitu ahakoa i te wā tuatahi. Nō reira, ki te taea e tēnei maimoatanga, e mahia ana i muri i te whakapaunga o te moni katoa, te whakaoti i te whānau i te wā kotahi, arā, ki te whānau mai ngā pēpi e rua, he tika kia kite i tēnei hei painga nui.

Haunga te utu, tera atu anō ētahi atu take .

• Te whakataetae ki te wā: He mea utu nui te wā, inā koa mō ngā wāhine neke atu i te 35 tau te pakeke. Ina whakaaro koe kāore he wā nui hei whakamātau anō kia hapu, kia tīmata anō hoki i tētahi atu huringa maimoatanga, ehara i te mea miharo ka whakamatautauria koe kia rua ngā tamariki i te haputanga kotahi.
• Te ahotea hinengaro: He tino taumaha te ahotea, te pouri, me te ngenge e puta mai ana i te kore tamariki mō ngā tau maha. Nō reira he mea pai ki te taea te whakakore i ēnei mea katoa i te wā kotahi.
• Te whakaaro "he tino ātaahua ngā māhanga ": He pai ki ētahi ngā māhanga nā te mea e whakaaro ana rātou he tino "ataahua" rāua. Waihoki, he pai ki ētahi te whakaoti i te mahi me te kotahi hāputanga me te kotahi whānautanga.

Engari he aha ngā tākuta kāore e pai ki tēnei? - Kia mārama tātou ki te mōrearea

Ki te kōrero koe ki tō tākuta, ka mea atu, "E hiahia ana ahau ki ngā māhanga," tera pea ka ngana ia ki te whakatenatena i a koe kia kaua e whakaae. Ko te take, i runga i te taha hauora , he nui ake te mōrearea o te haputanga māhanga mō te whaea me te pēpi i te whānautanga o te pēpi kotahi .

"He maha ngā tūroro e whakaaro ana ki te haputanga i ngā huarahi katoa e taea ana e rātou. Ka whakaaro tuarua rātou mō te mōrearea pea o ngā māhanga. I ētahi wā kāore rātou e mōhio ki te kino o ngā 'hua kino'," te kī a tētahi tohunga.

Kia mārama tātou ki ēnei mōrearea mai i te ripanga i raro nei.

He mea whakamataku pea ēnei mea ki te whakarongo. Engari ehara tēnei i te kī ka pāngia te hunga katoa he māhanga ā rātou e pāngia ana e ēnei raruraru. He hauora, he ora te nuinga o ngā māhanga. Heoi, he mea nui kia mahara he nui ake te mōrearea i te whānautanga mai o tētahi pēpi kotahi .

Kia ako tātou i ngā wheako.

Ko Amanda, he whaea i whānau māhanga mā te IVF, i whānau wawe ia i te 20 wiki, ā, i okioki ia i runga i te moenga mō ngā wiki 11. I te mutunga, i whānau mai āna māhanga e 8 wiki i mua i te wā.

E mea ana ia pēnei: ​​"Haere ki te kite i te āhua o te whānautanga o te pēpi i mua i te wā. Whakatauhia mēnā he mōrearea tēnei ka taea e koe te tango. Nā te mea he nui te mamae o te ngākau. E iwa marama te pakeke o aku tamariki inaianei, ā, kei te pai rātou, engari kei te āwangawanga tonu ahau mō rātou. Kei te āwangawanga tonu ahau mō ngā raruraru roa."

Ka hurihia ngā whakaaro e te mōhiotanga.

Ko te mea pai rawa atu, ina mārama te whakamārama i ēnei mōrearea, he tokomaha ngā tāngata i whakaaro tuatahi he hiahia māhanga ka huri ō rātou whakaaro. I whakaatuhia e tētahi rangahau i muri i te kōrero ki tā rātou tākuta mō ngā mōrearea o te hāputanga māhanga, ka heke te ōrau o ngā mātua e hiahia ana ki ngā māhanga mā te haurua pea.

Ko te take o tēnei, i muri i ngā tau maha o te mamae i te kore tamariki, ko te whāinga anake ko te "hapūtanga" i roto i ngā huarahi katoa e tika ana. Engari ko te tirohanga whānui o te hapūtanga, te whānautanga, me te whakatipu tamariki i muri mai kāore i te kitea i taua wā.

Ehara i te mea ngāwari te tiaki i ngā māhanga hauora!

Whakaarohia he māhanga hauora tāu, i whānau mai i te wā tika, kāore he raruraru. He rawe tēnā. Engari ehara i te mea ngāwari te tiaki i a rātou.

E kī ana tētahi tohunga, ko ia hoki te matua o ngā māhanga hauora: "He uaua rawa atu i tā te tangata e whakaaro nei. Ka tīmata te mahi tūturu ina whānau mai ngā pēpi. Kāore he mea e nui ake te whakamīharo i te hokinga mai ki te kāinga i te mutunga o te rā, ā, ka peke ake ngā pēpi e rua, ka awhi i a koe. Ā, kāore he mea e nui ake te whakarihariha i te tangi tahi a ngā tāngata tokorua i roto i te reo irirangi."