Whakaarohia kei roto koe i tētahi hui nui i te tari. Nā te mea he taitamariki koe, kāore tetahi e aro nui ana ki ō whakaaro pai. Nā te mea kua pakeke ake koe, ka panaia koe ki tahaki, ka mea, "Āe, kua pakeke rawa koe ki te mahi i tēnei hangarau hou, me hoatu ki tētahi atu." Ahakoa i te kāinga, ka āraia koe i te mahi i tētahi mea e hiahia ana koe ki te mahi, me te mea, "Āe, kua pakeke rawa koe ināianei, kāore e taea e koe te mahi i tēnā." Ko tēnei whakahāwea me te whakatahe i runga i te tau ko tā tātou e kī nei ko te 'pakeketanga.' He mea tēnei e mahia ana e te tini o te tangata i roto i tō tātou hapori me te kore e mōhio, engari he tino mamae.
He maha ngā huarahi e tūtaki ai tātou ki te 'Ageism'
Pērā i ngā whakahāwea katoa, ka ngokingoki haere mai tēnei ki roto i ō tātou ao i ngā wāhi kāore tātou e tino whakaaro. Kia kite tātou he aha te āhua o tēnei.
1. Te Whakahē i te Pakeketanga nāu anō i hanga
He mea miharo tēnei. I ētahi wā, kāore ēnei huringa e tīmata mai i tētahi i waho, engari i a tātou. Kua rongo pea koe i ō hoa me ō whanaunga e kōrero ana mō ō rātou tau i a rātou e pakeke haere ana. "Āe, kua koroheke ahau ināianei, kāore e taea e au te mahi i tēnā," "Ka āhua kino ahau ina mau ahau i tēnei kākahu," e kī ana rātou. Arā, ka whakawhāitihia e rātou ngā mea ka taea e rātou te mahi me te huarahi e hiahia ana rātou ki te noho nā ō rātou tau.
Hei hoatu i ētahi atu tauira:
- Ki te wareware koe i tētahi mea, ka whakapae koe i a koe anō mā te kī, "Āe, kua koroheke ahau ināianei, he ' wā mō ngā māmā kaumātua' tēnei."
- E whakaaro ana, "Kua koroheke ahau inaianei, nō reira e kore e taea e au te mau i ngā kākahu hē, te haere ki ngā wāhi hē, te mahi i ngā mea hē."
- Ki te whakaaro koe ko te koroheketanga te pūtake o ngā mate katoa e pā ana ki a koe. Ahakoa he pānga ētahi o ngā mate ki te koroheketanga, ehara i te mea ko te koroheketanga te pūtake o ngā mate katoa. He pai ake te kōrero ki tō tākuta kia tino mōhio ai koe.
2. Te Whakatakotoranga Tau i te Wāhi Mahi
He mea tēnei e pā ana ki te hunga rangatahi me te hunga kaumātua. He maha ngā wā i te wāhi mahi, he maha ngā huarahi whakaaro o te tangata.
- Mō ngā kaumātua: Kāore e taea e rātou te mahi i ngā mahi tere e whakamahi ana i te hangarau, kāore rātou e hiahia ki ngā mea hou, ā, e whakaarohia ana kāore e taea e rātou te mahi i ngā mahi e hiahia ana ki te mahi ā-tinana.
- Mō te hunga taitamariki: Nā te mea he taitamariki rātou, kāore i a rātou he wheako, kāore i te nui ō rātou mōhiotanga, ā, e whakaaro ana rātou kāore e taea te tuku kawenga nui ki a rātou.
I ētahi wā he nui ake te pānga o tēnei. Hei tauira, ka ārai pea te pakeke o te tangata i a ia ki te whiwhi whakatairanga, ki tētahi kaupapa motuhake, ki tētahi mahi rānei.
Ko te mea nui, kaua te kaha o te tangata e inehia i runga i tōna tau, engari i runga i te mātauranga, i ngā pūkenga, me ngā wheako kei a ia.
3. Te Whakahāwea i te Tau i roto i te Pāpāho
He tini ngā wā i roto i te pouaka whakaata, i ngā kiriata, i ngā pukapuka, tae noa ki ngā pāpāho pāpori e tawai ana, e whakaahuatia ana te hunga kaumātua he hunga korekore, he hunga wareware, ā, kāore e taea te mahi i tetahi mea. Ina kite tātou i ēnei, ka mau tonu aua whakaaro whakarōpū ki roto i ngā hinengaro o te tangata i roto i te hapori.
Ko ētahi whakaaro tawhito noa i hangaia e te hunga pāpāho:
- Ka wareware ngā kaumātua i ngā mea katoa.
- Ko ngā whare tiaki kaumātua he wāhi e noho ai te hunga "kāore e taea te noho".
- E mokemoke ana te hunga kaumātua , e kore e taea te āwhina, ā, e hiahia ana rātou ki tētahi hei āwhina i a rātou.
Me pēhea tā tātou urupare tika ki tētahi mea pēnei?
Ko te mea nui anake ko te āhei ki te kite i tēnei momo whakahāwea. Mā te mōhio ki tēnei ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakarerekē i ō ake whakahāwea. Engari he uaua pea te kōrero mō tēnei momo whanonga i roto i tētahi atu.
1. Kōrero ki te tangata tika, i te huarahi tika.
Mena he mema o te whānau tēnei e kōrero ana mō te pakeketanga, he pai ake pea te kōrero takitahi ki a rātou . Engari, ki te mea kei te tari, me kōrero pea koe ki tētahi rangatira, ki tō tari rauemi tangata rānei.
2. Noho marino.
Ina kōrero tātou mō tētahi mea pēnei, ka ngāwari noa iho te riri. Tērā pea ka ngana te tangata kē ki te tiaki i a ia anō mā te kī, "Āe, he kata noa iho taku." Engari kia mahara, kāore te riri e whakaoti i ēnei raruraru. Ki te pērā, kāore tetahi o kōrua e taea te whakaaro mārama, te kōrero rānei mō tēnei whanonga. Kia manawa hōhonu, ā, whakamāramahia marietia te āhuatanga.
3. Kaua e whakapae, engari me kōrero.
Ki te tika tō whakapae i a rātou, "Kei te whakahāwea koe i ahau nā te mea kua koroheke ahau!", ka riri pea te tangata kē ki a koe, kāore rānei e whakarongo mai. Nō reira, kaua e whakapae tika, tīmatahia te kōrero mā te pātai. Hei tauira, ka taea e koe te pātai, "Ka taea e koe te whakamārama mai ki ahau he aha te tikanga o tāu kōrero?"
He aha rawa tā tātou e hiahia ana ki te kī?
Āe, kua mōhio koe inaianei ki te tikanga o te ageism me pēhea te kōrero mōna. Engari he aha tonu ngā kupu hei kōrero? Anei ētahi huarahi whai hua hei whakamahi māu.
| Te Āhuatanga | Ngā mea ka taea e koe te kī |
|---|---|
| Ina "katakata" tetahi mō te pakeketanga. | "He kōrero whakakatakata pea tāu i kōrero ai, engari ka taea e aua kupu te whara i te kare ā-roto o te tangata. Kaua e whakakatakata mō te pakeke o te tangata, kei te pai?" |
| Ina kī mai tetahi "kua koroheke rawa koe" "kua taitamariki rawa rānei" mō tētahi mahi. | "Me waiho tōku tau ki te taha mō tētahi wā poto. Me kōrero tāua mō ōku pūkenga me ōku wheako mō tēnei mahi? Ki taku whakaaro ka taea e au te mahi i tēnei mea." |
| Ina whakatika tetahi i a ia anō mā te kī, "He kata noa iho taku." | "E mōhio ana ahau kāore koe e hiahia ana ki te whakapataritari. Engari ko ngā kōrero pēnei ka whakakaha ake i ngā whakaaro hē mō te pakeketanga i roto i te hapori. Koia ahau i kōrero ai mō tēnei." |
| Ina he āputa i waenganui i te hunga rangatahi me te hunga mātau i roto i te tīma. | "He mea tino nui te mātauranga i riro mai i te wheako me ngā whakaaro hou o te hunga rangatahi ki te angitu o tā mātou tīma. Kia whakarongo tātou ki ngā whakaaro o te katoa, kia mahi tahi ai." |
Kia maumahara, ki te noho puku koe ina whakapuaki tetahi i tētahi whakaaro ā-iwi, tera pea ka whakaaro taua tangata he tika tāna i kōrero ai. Ehara tō wahangu i te tautoko. Nō reira kaua e wehi ki te kōrero.
Me maumahara tonu, kāore he ture e kī ana kāore e taea e te hunga mātau te whakaaro ki ngā mea hou, kāore hoki he wheako o te hunga rangatahi. Ina titiro tātou ki te tangata, me ako tātou katoa ki te tango i te tapanga o tō rātou pakeketanga, me te titiro ki ō rātou pūkenga me ō rātou pūkenga .
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ko te whakahāwea i te pakeketanga he whakahāwea i runga i te tau. Ka pā ki te tangata katoa, taitamariki, kaumātua rānei.
- Kāore tēnei e tupu i te wāhi mahi anake, i te hapori, i roto i te whānau, engari i roto anō i a tātou anō, me te kore e mōhiotia e tātou.
- Ko te mōhio ki te agism te taahiraa tuatahi. I roto i tēnei āhuatanga, kaua e noho puku, engari me kōrero mārire me te whakaute.
- Kaua te mana o te tangata e inehia i runga i tōna pakeketanga, engari i runga i ōna āheinga, i tōna mātauranga, me ōna pūkenga.
- Ki te mea kei te pōuri koe, kei te āwangawanga, kei te manukanuka rānei mō ēnei mea, kaua e wehi ki te kōrero ki tētahi hoa pono, ki tētahi mema o te whānau, ki tō tākuta rānei . He mea nui tō hauora hinengaro.
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